My husband thinks I’m made of money, I admit I didn’t have a rough child hood growing up. But it’s gotten to the point where he asks me to pay his bills, and gets upset when I say no (even though I’ve done it before).
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I do spoil him gift wise which I know I shouldn’t overdo it, but I did. Now it’s tearing me apart.
Even when it comes to gifts, he will get upset and won’t talk to me all day until I go buy it for him. Please help! 🥲 It’s draining me completely.
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- He sounds like he is a bit of a child. He pouts and cold shoulders you when he doesn’t get what he wants. Things. Wants, not needs, by the sound of it. Neither of my past husbands tried that with me. My first husband did nothing for me, but he also didn’t expect fancy presents. My second husband paid at least 50% and he was a family man 100%. My best friend in the whole world! Your relationship sounds unfair and unbalanced. I don’t understand why your husband treats you like an ATM. And I hope you will put your foot down before it progresses. I’m not suggesting divorce unless you want that. I’m suggesting you use your backbone and say NO. Good luck. ❤️
- I’m so sorry for you. My ex was kind of like this. He was an alcoholic though so his money went to liquor, but he knew I’m good at saving up so I can do fun things / buy what I want. It got to the point where he got so jealous of my (ample) savings he’d fight with me over it, saying ‘spend it all, money needs to roll’ and would not stop about it.
I lend him some money to get driving lessons and when I broke up with him (for multiple reasons, but the spending & money issue was one of them) he didn’t think he had to pay me back, because ‘I’ll earn it back easily’.
If your husband is like this chances are so slim he’ll change. Hugs.
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