My MIL yells and hits my kid.
I’m 30 and my husband is 33. We got married 5 years ago after dating for 3 years and have a 4 year old son together.
3 months ago, my mother in law got kicked out after it came to light of an affair she had 10 years prior. My husband wanted to have her live here until she found a new home.
I didn’t like cheating but she was very apologetic and my son wanted her around so I agreed to keep her temporarily.
Over the past 3 months, she been nothing but trouble and I regret letting her stay. She’s rude to me almost every day and I tell my husband but he thinks it’s a matte between her and me.
The breaking point came where she hit our son yesterday because he was making slightly too much noise at night. I heard his screams and let my MIL know she was to never touch our kid like that again.
My husband though was more mortified I yelled at her than our son being hit. I presented an ultimatum of either she leaves or me and my son will until she leaves. He slapped me hard in response.
So my MIL is now influencing her son. How do I get her to leave?