My husband wants a second wife. But thinking of the possibility of him with another women completely breaks my heart.
I just want him happy. He says that he loves me unconditionally but I still feel like I’m not sufficient enough for him if he’s willing to peruse a relationship with someone else.
I feel like I can’t completely tell him “no” because I don’t want him to resent me in the future or have doubts of things he wish he could have done in his lifetime.
We’ve been arguing a lot and I’ve been fleeing the house when I need a good cry and I still can’t admit to him that I can’t let him be with another women.
My heart is broken and I feel crazy cause every time he touches his phone, my head races with a million thoughts. Idk what to do.
I’m mentally and emotionally drained. Sore to the stomach with anxious thoughts but I would never throw my marriage away.
- if you don’t tell him now it will completely destroy you and ruin your marriage, try and get the guts to do it it’ll be hard but you have to for your own good. if he doesn’t accept that then he has already thrown your marriage away. i’m sorry my heart hurts for you
- He does not love you unconditionally if he’s changing the conditions to suit himself. He loves only himself if he chooses to disrespect you so intensely as to bring a whole other person into the marriage. Do you get a spare husband on the side? If not, why not? Why does he get to have a second when you have to make due with only half of what you committed to. He sounds weak and greedy, imo.