My husband 44M went out to have a coffee with a 26 F cowerker he used to like while I 30 F was 8 months pregnant
We have been married for two years. First of all, I know this may sound like a total crap but I am really not a jealous person…My husband has lovely friends with who he has coffees and sometimes go out.
One time he went out and got back home with lipstick stain on his cheek and it was one of his friends and it was totally ok with me…
This is just an example to how cool I am with certain situation and how I have trust in him and his female friends…
Of course, he goes out with his female coworkers as well but this one hit different. He went out to have coffee with his coworker (she dm him and asked him if he is available to grab a coffee).
He worked as a doctor and had a shift but had time and he went with her in front of the hospital….She is a very attractive girl and then the rumors started that he is cheating me with her…
He didn’t tell me about that coffee until I said I heard rumors and he said it is because the girl is 10/10 (he once rated me 7/10 and I hate rating ppl) and people are mean and they picked up wrong vibe…
He said it didn’t mean anything and that he didn’t do anything wrong. I believe him but my gut says he is attracted to her and I am not ok with him having coffee with girl who he was in a gray zone with (he admitted to having crush on her before and he has complimented her to me )…
Am I asking to much and being dramatic? I tried to talk to him but he gets really upset and doesn’t understand where I am coming from. What would you suggest ?