A guy was seen online asking for advice on how to not get a girl pregnant.
A brief summary of his scenario is that he is going to ‘do it’ for the first time with his girlfriend after talking about the topic with her for quite a while but they are afraid of getting pregnant.
Here is the question posed by the guy
“Hi everyone!
I’m posting because I’m about to have my first time with my girlfriend and we are going to live together. We have been talking about ‘doing it’ and she is extremely afraid of getting pregnant (we are relatively young and she absolutely does not want children), to the point of telling me that it pushes her away from having relations with me and that she is panicking and crying (she tells me that it is a rational fear but also irrational).
We have talked about the contraceptive methods that exist and she would like to have 2 to 3 contraceptives so that she is less afraid (she is still afraid of getting pregnant with this).
I’m coming to you to find out what would be the best method to be sure that she never gets pregnant by being the strictest in the use of non-hormonal contraceptives (it can be a particular combination of contraceptives etc.), knowing that we can’t abort because we refuse this practice.
The only methods that I know are wearing a ‘helmet’ and maybe the girl taking the ‘morning after’ pill as well as the not so safe method of ‘pulling out’.
Any other suggestions?
Thanks in advance!”
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