What should I do when my friend owes me money and still blames me?
I was damn stupid to lend my friend almost 6 digit worth of money by bank loan even private loan, only for everything to be lost in a scam.
He told me cause of business failed all the money to settle his business debts. So I tried being understanding which he promise would return the money to me.
Really he don’t even bother pay me been 3years, I see his family going on trips to Korea etc. Which he using my credit card pay for it .
I posted he and his family recently on social media they’re fraudsters. He found out angry text threaten me said I’m a bitch , his family going to report police. He even text me give a chance to remove post. WTF… did he forget he the one owe me money didnt pay a single cents.
A lot of people say this money is confirm lost, he and his wife fraudsters. It’s not business failed actually their overspend. Because I don’t make noise, they keep taking advantage right?
The worse when i showed him all the transaction money he owed me. He say need check first correct anot. WTF… he said I’m one who screwed up friendship because of money
Here are what netizens think:
Hes playing u out to escape the payments he owes u. He paiseh because the whole people in his life will see this and be wary of his antiques. Tell him to pay u pay in smaller amounts, u keep track of the amount n balance. But frankly la, by the way he act, can see the money cant be returned. Take it as a painful lesson n stop lending ppl ur money permenantly. And cut ur friendship with him n whoever that u know who is with his side for good.
Money rule of thumb: never ever lend money to anyone unless you’re comfy with never seeing that amount ever again.
I get its hurting u… But… Why u let him use ur credit card?? I trying to understand this part.
This is painful to hear. I would ask what’s wrong with you instead of what’s wrong with him. This person treat you like atm you still call him a friend. What’s so special about this person and friendship that you will allow yourself to be used until no limit?