Should I (F27) be concerned that my husband (M33) is using me for my money? My husband is the loveliest human and I love him so much.
However prior to us getting married he was paying at least half the dates and always trying to pay even more.
He had also held a steady job for the last 10 years where he is making about $80,000 a year.
I make $470,000 annually. So there is a big pay gap between us which is why I’m happy helping out with his share of the bills and offer to do so regularly.
After all I’m not a materialistic person and would rather he was happy and financially comfortable.
However it is extremely important for me that my kindness doesn’t get misused.
We got married a month ago (after just over a year relationship living together) and he just decided that a sports injury he got three months ago was hurting his leg so much that he needs to leave work.
He is yet to see a doctor about this injury to see if he actually needs surgery. (If it was something serious of course I don’t mind him quitting at all but we just don’t know yet).
I think what is really increasing this fear is the fact that we can’t have get intimate in bed, he is too big and I’m way too small but im getting medically treated for it.
He is my best friend and I’m so happy around him and he claims that despite being able to have any woman, this is the most fulfilled he has ever been because for once he has a best friend that he truly does love.
I don’t for a second doubt his love for me, what I do doubt is his capability to marry a girl that won’t sleep with him and then immediately after the marriage needing to quit his job.
What do you guys think?