Gold digger say she not gold digger.
If people know you and say you are atas, high maintenance, hard to please, then you are all that. Just accept it.
You can’t say you love luxuries and don’t see it as a necessity else you wouldn’t be a spendthrift if you know how to balance your expenses. There is a huge difference between enjoying life and pretending to enjoy life. You must be those who buy a $5k bag with $5 dollar note left just so you can impress people who don’t even care. So gold digger term does suit you. Because its natural for you to want your guy to improve your life because you have no means to support your own. Doubt you have any savings because you feel the need to impress that you spent your own money for all those things. Women who got their own money won’t even bother to mention any of these.
People like you are actually very low in self esteem and confidence. You don’t have much of a personality, so you use material things to make up for what you’re lacking. People can see right through you. Most guys would stay away from you. You may want to try foreign guys. You may have an easier time with their mothers.
A high value woman with real wealth will definitely own some nice things, have an above average lifestyle and higher standard of living but would surely be ok with simple things and most definitely won’t try so hard and show off.
This kind of humble women won’t scare men off. If you’re lucky you will be able to attract an equally successful guy. One who shares the same kind of financial view as you. Invest when young. Reap the rewards later.
The richest women are those who not only work, but spend. The only difference is that they spend on things that can give them value back in time. Not stupid branded bags which can’t even last 10 years. I bought 2 properties in my early 20s when the market price was still low. I slogged hard for it but now I’m already reaping the rewards. I’m lucky enough to enjoy my work so I have 3 incomes now. I invested the excess and pamper myself occasionally.
Fine dining is over rated. Food go into the stomach, all come out the same. Learn to eat quality food instead. Want to show off also learn to spend at the right things Make your own home a beautiful haven and you can have fine dining at home as often as you like.
Want to dig gold?
Might as well learn how to grow your own gold.