Everyone complaining about their partners or asking for advices on their partners, I’ll share mine with on a more positive side instead.
My girlfriend is great, 1 year older than me. Local uni graduate, commanding a respectable salary and very people’s oriented. My family and friends adores her, she’s amicable and she’s respectful. She has great ambitions in life and beautiful.
Me on the other hand, still awaiting uni and have a long way to go, yet she understands my position and is ready to support my journey (not financially la, she’s my girlfriend not sugar mommy) and we’ve discussed about our future together with regards to having children, housing, material things we want to achieve in life and other intangible things like community work and achievements we want to achieve.
Girls like this do exist, supportive, understanding, mature, beautiful. But as men, we have to show what we offer on our end as well. Are you goal oriented, focused, mature, pragmatic, working on self improvement?
If you feel insecure/unable to connect with your partner simply because of salary disparity, or for guys, if you feel inferior because you earn lesser than your partner, then honestly just break up la.
Fundamentally, your mindset is already broken, you feel inferior/superior because of money. Fix that mindset before getting into a relationship, because will you be able to accept your partner if he/she is one day bankrupt?
Here are what netizens think:
- Glad to know that both of u have discuss about the future together. This is what my partner and I did at the very beginning of our relationship too. We have to make sure our goals actually align before going deeper into it.
- Bro you strike the real TOTO, 90% of the garbage outside expect rich man pick up the garbage from the floor and rescue them from poverty.
- Marry local pay, marry foreign pay. Which one pay less take care better? Obvious answer