I was too soft and easy going especially with my girlfriend, and it ended up costing me dearly.
I had been in a relationship with my girlfriend for a few years now and she had always been very sweet and affectionate towards me.
Did everything to please her because I was more easy going
I was so in love with her that I thought I could do no wrong and would always do whatever she asked of me. I was too trusting and too willing to please her that I overlooked all the times she took advantage of me.
I would also give in to her whenever I can, as long as it was not too much.
I would always buy her gifts and do favors for her, even when I didn’t have a lot of money or time. I was so devoted to her and put her needs before mine. I kept telling myself that all of this was for the sake of our relationship and that she was worth it.
But eventually, I started to realize that she was taking advantage of my willingness to please her. She would ask for more favors and gifts and I would always comply, because I was afraid of losing her.
I was too scared to stand up for myself, because I thought that if I said no then she would leave me.
As the years went on, she began to become more and more demanding and I started to feel like I was just a puppet in her hands.
I was so exhausted and drained from all the favors and gifts that I was giving her that I started to wonder if this was really the kind of relationship I wanted to be in.
I was so tired of feeling like I was getting taken advantage of that I finally had the courage to stand up for myself and confront her about it.
But instead of understanding why I was upset and apologizing for her behavior, she just laughed in my face and told me that I was being too sensitive and that I was just lucky to have her in my life.
Because I was so used to it, I just stayed on with her
The worst part was that I had become so used to her taking advantage of me that I just let it pass and stayed in the relationship.
I felt so useless for not standing up for myself and for allowing her to take advantage of me.
Now, I know I should have left her long ago, but the truth is that I was too scared to do it.
I was so afraid of being alone and of being rejected that I stayed in the relationship despite all the pain and suffering it was causing me.