Me (23F) and my bf (24M) have been together for almost 3 years now and we live together.
My bosoms are not non-existent but they are small and I don’t expect them to become any bigger anymore. I have had my struggles with my self-esteem regarding this but I have manged to almost overcome the fact that most people won’t like their size.
My bf has been with average to large-chested girls until me. He likes them big but he has never complained of mine, he gives them attention, finds them hot and so on. However, I know that he doesn’t like them. He only accepts and loves them because they are on me and he loves me.
Last night he asked if I had ever taken anything for my bosoms. I have tried some natural vitamins to try and grow them just a little bit but they did not help. He then said why don’t you try hormones. I said that it will take some tests and time till I get prescribed the right ones and even then they may grow a little but it they will not become double D’s. I said that there are quite a few risks with hormonal therapy even if it is prescribed by a doctor. He said that I should try it.
He knows that I have been struggling for so long with my self-esteem regarding this and that I have decided to just accept them instead of trying to grow them. I understand that he loves bigger girls and bigger chests but why can’t I just be the way I am? I have proposed an open relationship numerous times for the exact same reason – so he can be with women that fit his perfect standards because I do not but he refuses to try this (I have been in an open relationship before so I don’t have any problem with that).
I want to talk to my doctor and only go through with this if me and my doctor decide to because I would also love bigger ones but I feel offended and saddened by this and I am really not sure if I am being reasonable.