GF (25F) of six years admitted to me (28M) that she cheated on me twice in the first 2 months of our relationship.
Feeling lost and hurt. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 years and we started talking about marriage.
She started feeling really guilty and self admitted to me that she had cheated on me twice very early in our relationship.
Apparently with this guy she had met a couple months before she met me. They were basically hooking up quite often but were never dating.
She didn’t even like him that much but she kept on going back to him because he was her first when it came to hooking up and she had a connection with him that looking back she says was very unhealthy.
After the 2nd time she cheated she felt really bad about what she was doing and ended it with him and blocked him.
She never told me back then because she really liked me and couldn’t bear to lose me. I am truly hurt by this.
We have been together for such a long time and have loved each other very much. My friends tell me this isn’t even that big of a deal but I’m having a very hard time letting it go and forgiving her.
I truly don’t want to end it with her over this but It’s been 3 weeks since she told me and I still can’t let it go.
It’s starting to really negatively affect of relationship and have even talked about breaking up. Any advice on how I can forgive her and let this go? Or maybe I should end it with her?