Girlfriend told me she used to work as an escort
Been with her for around 8 months now. Last week she told me that she used to work as an escort. I asked if she still does it and she said she stopped a few months before we got together.
I asked how many guys shes been with but she doesn’t know. She told me she did it for 4 months and worked 3-4 times a week and each time she would see around 5-6 clients.
Doing rough math in my head that would work out to be anywhere from 250-300 guys or something like that. I also asked if she used protection and she said usually but would let certain clients that she liked do it raw.
We both got tested early into the relationship since we don’t use condoms and everything was fine then. She also admitted that alot of the designer items she owns were gifts from clients.
She asked if I’m ok with it and I said as long as she isn’t doing it anymore its not an issue. But deep down I am disappointed and disgusted.
I haven’t been able to look at her the same way. On the outside she looks so cute, bubbly, and innocent but knowing the truth changes how I see her
- Did she volunteer this information? If you are disappointed and disgusted, why are you still with her?
- If you’re looking at her differently then leave the relationship. It’s ok if you can’t be with her after learning about her previous job, it’s not ok to string either of you along for more than a month.
Be honest with yourself. Be kind to her if you do decide to end it, and good luck.
- Let her be with someone who will accept her history.
- No one has to be with someone. If you’re not okay with it, it’s normal and you should leave her. Unless you want to be with her or just to be there for support. At least just don’t make your or else’s life worse.