A woman shared how her husband wants to leave her because she had a miscarriage, and her mother-in-law told her that she’s disgusted that she had another miscarriage.
Here is the story
I had a miscarriage yesterday. My husband told his mum know he’s got divorce papers and wants me to sign ASAP.
His mother told me she’s “disgusted I had another miscarriage” and that “I can’t perform simple wifey duties like producing children for my husband”
and now he’s demanding everything but the car (that’s mine), he already has a new woman signed up who “can have children” and I’m lost.
I don’t care anymore and just wanna get drunk. What do I do.??? I’m lost.
- Can you reconnect with old friends? Any family near by that you trust? I wish you all the best. Remember that this is not your fault. You didn’t do this! This is a CRAPPY thing that is happening to you. Stay strong
- Not being able to have children with this man is a gift, even though it doesn’t feel like one right now. The next bit of your life is going to be rough, but once you’re through it, your whole world is going to open up to a rainbow-filled vista. Stay away from alcohol during the hard part so you can enjoy the beauty.
- Your MIL and husband are awful. That’s not how miscarriages work, not in the slightest. They are not your fault, they just happen, and are a lot more common than people think because they are kept hush hush.
Isolating you from friends and family, making you think this is your fault, calling it wifely duties… If you believe in any kind of greater power, or the phrase everything happens for a reason, I think this reason now is for you to leave and find a happier life.