I don’t know what to say liao
I find this funny and frustrating at the same time.
I have a good friend who is married for 1 year now. She just turned 30 so is thinking about having kids. Instead of asking her husband, she is asking me if she should have kids…What has it got to do with me!?
She explained that I might be more unbiased in my opinions and I can just be honest with her. I played taichi a few times but it still came back. So I decided to be brutally honest with her, since she is not in very good terms with her husband and she had mentioned a few times she doesn’t like kids (obviously annoyed when they cry or scream), she shouldn’t have one.
I have asked her many times why she wanted kids and her answer is because she wants. Full stop. I feel she doesn’t know why she wanted kids but feel she should because its ‘packaged’ in when she get married. She and her husband are definitely not ready for kids, they don’t communicate well, always quarrel and she had packed and left home countless times.
The funny thing is, she got annoyed that I wasn’t supportive of her… Wth, make your own decision lah. The responsibility lands on you, not me leh. And I played Taichi so many times is because I want to avoid telling you my honest thoughts, and you proved I was right about it.
Sounds like somebody who wants to blame you when things eventually go wrong.