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MOTHER DU-LAN CAUSE SON GO DO PART TIME JOB, NO ONE TAKE CARE SISTER

My son is 18, He is going to be attending poly soon and is living with me, my husband and his 2 younger half-sisters.

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The other day I found out that he found and accepted a part time job without telling me. I was upset with him about it and the reason for that is that first of all, he should’ve told me since we live in the same house and also, and more importantly how I’m left without someone to stay with the girls from 3 to 8 where my shift start-ends. my son is usually the one to stay home with the girls and his new job is during these hours so one way or another we are impacted.

He told me his friend found him this job and it just happened – but I don’t think it did because he knew he had to give up staying with his sisters while I work. my husband travels most of the time (he’s a pilot) and paid child care is a no for me.

My son said I shouldn’t be surprised by him trying to work to save money to be able to pay for himself but that is just absurd since he literally lives with us without having to pay for anything except for his own entertainment. He said he needed the job and he wasn’t really going to stay and watch his sisters for days on end especially he doesn’t get paid for it.

We kept arguing and my husband got involved and he too was upset saying that my son had no respect for us. my son basically had a “like it or not” attitude with us and kept refusing to discuss this with us saying we have no right to be upset with him and should just accept it.

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but I’m just…I think that he’s being inconsiderate of my husband’s and I struggle to provide for the family as a whole. this should mean something to him but he acted selfishly.

The babysitter option isn’t ideal and is because my daughters don’t want a babysitter. they’re both dealing with some issues and are uncomfortable being with a stranger at home. besides that my son decided to stay with them and we didn’t ask him or anything.

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