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MUM HATES “DISAPPOINTING” DAUGHTER, WISHES SHE NEVER GAVE BIRTH TO HER

My teenage daughter is a huge disappointment, has been from birth, I’ve just lost more hope now. I don’t like most of the things about her. If I could go back in time and not have her, I 100% would.

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My oldest child, now 14, was born with an “irritability diagnosis”, which is a nice way of saying she has a deeply horrible personality.

She hit milestones early, so I always thought she was smart. We started therapy and medications for her early. I’ve always held out hope that she’ll get better because, well, you have to as a parent, and because you don’t know what will happen as they develop.

There have been times where I have genuinely liked spending time with her, times that I’ve loved being her parent, proud, grateful, all of that.

But. And these are the teenage years, so I haven’t totally given up hope. But. I just can’t stand her. When she’s not being verbally rude or stealing from us, she just vomits the most vapid shit.

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It’s like she somehow became incredibly stupid. She’s made TikTok into her personality. She doesn’t read or do any school work. She’s mean and selfish. She’s also gross; doesn’t bathe and leaves pads and tampons all over her room.

I’ve been in therapy for a couple of years for two reasons. One is that I want to not feel this way. I want to like her. The other is that I feel like I can’t support her like I should and want to if I feel this way. I spend time with her and model all the things you learn in therapy.

I listen and try to be fair. She’s not who I want as a kid. I wouldn’t mind a “stupid” kid, as long as they were kind. I look at people who have neurotypical kids…I’m so jealous. I cry at church when I see other people’s ‘normal’ kids. I’m so angry and sad. I just hope she can keep a job when she turns 18, so I never have to live with her again.

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