A netizen shared how his/her sister is dating a guy who is a gold digger and making her pay for everything.
Here is the story:
“Is my sister’s boyfriend a gold digger?
Just for context, I come from quite a wealthy family meanwhile my sister’s boyfriend does not but they are definitely not poor.
My reasons for thinking he is a gold digger or the male equivalent:
When he comes over and they order food my sister is the one who pays I know this because they usually order through my account as I use my points to offset some of the balance, and still after the countless times of ordering for them I have never been paid back.
When we go out as a family and she brings him along he doesn’t bring anything and he doesn’t bother to try to pick the cheaper things in the menu, and its not like the restaurants we go to are exactly cheap.
When he comes over he is overly clingy and is quite distant from my parents, doesn’t bother to make conversation, just eats, responds to our questions and leaves.
However, around my sister’s friends, he becomes super active offers to buy them drinks and whatnot, and it’s not like he is unfamiliar with my parents as he comes over very often(3 times a week on average).
And my family usually calls my eldest sister (I have two sisters) every Saturday as she is currently studying overseas and while we were calling her my sis and her bf were busy showing each other tiktoks and laughing away.
My sister is a shopaholic so she goes to Mbs quite often and when she comes home I usually ask what she bought, and there will always be some branded item she bought for him.
I had previously attributed that to my sister being a spendthrift and while there was that I felt he was also manipulating her in a way.
For example, I tagged along on one of her shopping trips and he commented “What a nice wallet, its a shame I don’t have the money.” Followed by a deep sigh.
My sister looked at the wallet, told us to wait there, walked around some other nearby shops, then bought the wallet for him and the wallet was not cheap at all.
Usually that would be a normal comment to make, but she and him have been together for quite a while so he definitely knows her habits.
Lastly, we have a personal driver, but lately it has become my sisters bfs driver many times I have wanted to go somewhere but my driver is out driver him around or helping him buy something.
Like hello? I really want to tell my sister to break up with him but at the same time she is a very good sister and I don’t want to hurt her feelings since I am younger than her I also feel as though I do not have adequate experience to tell her but at this point I am honestly at my wits end on what to do about this whole situation.
My parents and grandparents dont like him but stay quiet as they are all generally quite softspoken.
Note: My sister and her bf are both currently university students so none of the money they are spending is their own, which makes his behaviour even more frightening”
Editor’s note: Call him out in front of everyone, embarrass him.