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Monday, February 17, 2025
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USELESS FATHER WANT LOOK COOL IN FRONT OF FRIENDS, FORCE SON TO LEND HIM MONEY

Hi Admin, deeply appreciate if you can post my story up. I’m in my late 20s & graduated from uni recently. My dad has always been borrowing money (from part time jobs I’ve saved) from me even while I was in uni working. He’d never paid for my uni fees. I paid on my own. Those money loan from me were never returned as he promised he would. I lost trust towards him since then.

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Now as I graduated, he said he’s old and wants me to take over his car mortgage payment which I have 0% ownership in. He doesn’t wants to pay anymore but expect me to pay $3,200 monthly. I told him to sell, but he refuses as he wants to portray he has the “ability” infront of his friends.

I know, fillial piety is indeed a must as I’m grateful he brought me up. But I am barely surviving with my current salary and I don’t have much savings. I’m ok to give him expenses but not ok to pay for his liability which he assured he would pay for it. He’s being so irresponsible now.

When I didn’t nod my head to lend him money, he told his friends his child is so calculative now need help also don’t want to help him out.

I’m pretty torn apart mentally. I’d love to help if I have tons of millions of dollars but I have my own future marriage, home, and own liabilities as well.

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Could any kind soul please advise me on this? Thank you.

Here are what netizens think:

  • 3200 monthly installment for car? I wonder what car is that. Don’t be so naive to pay even though he is your dad but no. If he want to drive then he should have the ability to pay for himself. So what if he tell his friends, do you care? For me i don’t give a damn on how he want to tell the whole world.
  • Toxic parents do exist and they use the term “filial piety” to manipulate you. You have to be grateful for them bringing you up but that doesn’t mean parents can feel entitled to ask or demand whatever they want from their kids. Don’t let him take you for granted and take advantage of you. Especially for something as materialistic as a car and for a ridiculous reason of wanting to “save face” in front of his friends. Cannot afford means cannot afford. When he dies, his friends aren’t gonna be buried with him. So don’t let him guilt you into doing nonsensical things for him.
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