WIFE FOUND HUSBAND PCC-ING BY HIMSELF, OFFER TO “FINISH HIM OFF” BUT HE RATHER DIY

I (f25) caught my husband (m25) pleasuring himself and offered to finish him off but he said he would rather just finish himself.

So I caught my husband doing his business and watching some hardcore videos online before he was heading out and I came over and asked if he would like me to just finish him off by going down on him.

To my surprise he just said no he was good and kinda shooed me away.

Obviously we talked about it afterwards and I was surprised to hear that sometimes he just enjoys doing it himself even over whatever I could bring to the table.

Is this something that’s common? I kinda understand but he’s completely replaced all my self pleasuring fun ever since we moved in together

Netizens’ comments

1. There’s a lot of “why does he want this?” going on in your head probably, and I can’t say if it’s common, but – unless there’s some deep underlying issue which has to do with you (and assuming that’s not the case), sometimes, sorry to say, a quick simple solo session is just what one wants.
   It’s like a “get some junkfood at the McDrivethrough” just because it’s quick, simple and you just feel like it.
   There’s no hassle, no having to mind about others, just do it, be done and move on with your day. I’m not defending him, but sometimes it’s nothing more than that.
2. I would also add that it’s very possible he did not feel like reciprocating and did not want to feel like he was leaving you hanging by having you perform on him.
3. Personally, sometimes I just beat off to get it over with and move on. In those instances yeah, I would turn you down too.
4. Sometimes I just want to finish myself off. No one can finish you the way you can do it yourself. However, having the offer to have my partner lend a hand, so to speak is more than welcomed. Instead of shooing you off, maybe he should have just asked you to watch while he did his thing. It’s how I would have handled that situation.