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WOMAN AFRAID THAT HER RELATIVES WILL GOSSIP AS SHE IS DATING ANOTHER WOMAN

Advice to be normal around gossipy relatives

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A few points:

I am expected to turn up for family visits like at least once a month. My cousin live with my grandfather so I will definitely meet her.

I am bisexual and is now dating a female (secretly).

I am socially awkward.

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Anyways it all happened during a family event whereby my family was asked to go earlier to help decorate and prepare food. We have 2 electric stove kinda thing for bbq and steamboat.

Some guests (not my relatives but friends or whatever) have already arrived when we’re halfway done. I retreated to help make kebabs in the kitchen so that I don’t need to socialise. My cousin was there with her boyfriend but she left shortly after. She is a social butterfly.

Feeling awkward, he attempted to chat with me and we had a very short conversation because I was fascinated by his job. He is a part time photographer who sometimes get to work with magazines. He had photographed a few local and foreign celebrities and I asked him about them. The conversation ended quickly though after the topic ends. But somehow a rumour started in the family about me liking my cousin boyfriend.

Excuse me? Erm?? And they’ll try a lot of ways to “test” me like mentioning him in front of me, asking me about is looks… (I have many female cousins and they have all brought their boyfriends over but they never asked me about them) my cousin would on purpose fished me out from the room to outside the house to snap photos of them (mind you my photography skill is non existent and all my relatives knows that) a good example is … I love to take shot from bottom up.

There will be lots more family gatherings and such whereby I will definitely meet them and I honestly feel awkward about it. And I don’t like to be the receiving end of all the suspicious… It sucks!

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