How do people feel about feeling a hardness against them while innocently cuddling?
I’m a guy, and I get hard really easily during any kind of intimate contact. Even if intercourse is not a realistic or expected outcome.
Like, imagine this scenario. me and my girlfriend have settled into bed. we’re both tired, and f-ing is definitely not going to happen. I’m spooning her, and she feel that unmistakable hardness growing against her. Is that off-putting at all?
A step further, what if they are indulging me a little? Pressing my hips forward, or maybe grinding a little bit? Not full on dry humping of course lol. If you know im not trying to initiate or anything, how do you feel about this?
Even if I’m too tired, and know my partner wouldn’t be up for it either, my body gets excited, I’m enjoying my partner’s body, and that little bit of stimulation is weirdly relaxing. But I’m worried that would come off as pushy or inappropriate, so I usually just ignore it.
Obviously the solution to my situation is to ask, which is what I’m planning on doing, but I want to know what other people think!
Netizens’ comments
- I’m the same as you and the women I’ve been with have always said they like it. We talk openly about it and they know that i get hard easily. They like it. It’s like constant confirmation of the effect they have on me without intercourse necessarily.
- How I see it , as long you ask them if it bothers ? And if they say no you good . Pus like you said as long you respectfully tell them your feeling . You guys can come to understanding and seeing if it’s bothersome. Since depending on the person some people have things they like
- As a female, I could say that it feels so good for me especially after a good f-ing session where I finish then my bf spoons me. I can feel him slowly kissing my neck, his hands holding me and he becomes hard around me as a result. I could sleep in his arms like that peacefully for an eternity.