Bf broke up with me after I got my hair cut
This is a little embarrassing but I need to get this off my chest. My bf of 3 years broke up with me after I got my hair cut short.
My hair use to to be down to my hips (dark brown straight hair) he loves long hair. I always kept my hair long because I do notice a lot of guys like longer hair on girls and honestly medium to long hair is my own personal preference too. I don’t think I look very good in short styled hair
I don’t know the proper name of my hair cut by my hair looks like Kris Jenners. It’s pretty much the same length and same color as hers
I have colored my hair a lot and I’ve had the Japanese permanent hair straightening done to my hair about two times now and the damage did catch up and started to damage my hair to the point where my hair is thinning out a lot, so I had no choice but to cut it and regrow it was my best option. I really hate that I had to cut my hair so short when it took me years to grow it this long but I had to
So I did tell my bf I was gonna have to do a chop on my hair and he didn’t seem to care I’m going to get a haircut. I didn’t know how much I would have realistically chop I just knew I had to chop a good amount and when I went to my stylist we took a close look at my hair and it did needed to be cut that short. She did go over it with me for a while before she cut my hair
I went back to our apartment and my bf freaked out about my hair. A lot of insults were made. He basically said I look like a dude especially without make up.
He said he’s breaking up with me. He doesn’t find short boy cuts on women attractive and he says he would feel like he’s dating a dude so he has to let me go.
He apologized for freaking out and being mean he said I caught him off guard. I didn’t know he was going to act this way and actually break up with me over my hair.
We dated for 3 whole years and we had a good relationship overall and I really loved him and I wanted to marry him one day but now I just feel so lost.
He already unfollowed me on social media and he kicked me out of his apartment. He moved me into his place and I have no where to go.
I moved back in with my mom. I came back to his apartment to get the rest of my stuff and I got closure after we talked more about it.
But he still doesn’t want to be with me anymore because I look like a boy. I told him I can wear extensions but he didn’t change his mind.
He just isn’t physically attracted to me anymore with my short hair and he says he can’t be with someone who he isn’t attracted to
I can’t stop crying and this break up happened 5 days ago. I deleted our pics on social media and everyone keeps asking me why we broke up and I’m too embarrassed to say the real reason so I just tell them it didn’t work out and give them a vague answer
I admit I don’t look cute in this hair style. Other girls can pull this hairstyle way better than I can but it just doesn’t work for me but I had to do it, my hair was literally dead. I just didn’t expect to get broken up with after a whole 3 year relationship over this like my hair will grow back after a few years… sigh