I was a typical young and vain guy with an inflated ego. I thought that my good looks and charm would be enough to get the attention of any girl I wanted.
Thus, I spent a lot of time at the gym and took great care of my appearance. I was always confident and figured that I had the upper hand in any situation whereby I have to compete with another guy for a girl.
Realised that there are many fat men with beautiful girlfriends
However, I seem to notice that there were a lot of fat men with pretty girlfriends everywhere I went. These men, according to my standards, weren’t attractive at all, and they had gorgeous girls with them.
After noticing this more and more it dawned on me that it wasn’t about looks. It was about personality and how one carries themselves and maybe even money.
These men had something that I was missing.
It made me start to think about what was the missing piece and it dawned on me that looks aren’t everything when it comes to wooing girls. It’s not about how good you look, it’s about how you make a girl feel.
It’s about how you make her laugh and how you make her feel comfortable around you. It’s about making her feel appreciated and special. It’s about being genuine and authentic. It’s about being able to carry a conversation and having a good sense of humour.
I’m referring to genuine relationships and not those gold digger relationships.
I realised that if I wanted to be successful in wooing girls, I had to work on my personality and charisma. I had to start making an effort to show my true self and be more open and honest. I had to stop focusing so much on my looks and start focusing on the other qualities that would make me attractive in the eyes of women.
I finally realised that you can be attractive on the inside and still be attractive in the eyes of women. It’s not all about looks. It’s about the kind of person you are and how you make a girl feel. It’s about having confidence and charisma and being able to make a girl laugh and feel special.
So, to all the vain men out there, take it from me: looks aren’t everything when it comes to wooing girls. It’s about how you make a girl feel, not how you look.