I haven’t slept with anyone in 10 years, and feel nothing but emptiness.
Looking for advice or suggestions on how to end the dry spell, I just wanted to get it off my chest as I have never discussed this with anyone.
I’m 35, and I haven’t had intercourse in 10 years. In general it doesn’t really bother me, and it’s not something that crosses my mind very often. But I do wonder if I’m missing out.
Do I pleasure myself? Yeah of course, but the frequency is decreasing. It was most days at one point, but now it’s once or twice a week. It just feels like a chore, and quite frankly, I talk myself out of it.
Do I want to get with someone? Meh, sounds like it’s more effort than it’s worth.
Emptiness is the only way I can describe it, as if I am lacking a basic human function. It is what it is I guess.
Netizens’ comments
- I think you speak to a counselor and not rely on people on a social media site. A professions can get you into a better mind set . Good Luck
- From my own experience, and listening to others speak on the topic, it seems the longer a person goes without it, the easier it is to deal with and the more that drive decreases.
- Sending you a hug. Hoping you can get some human connection and help break you out of this spell.