A girl shared a story online after realising her socks was constantly missing and reappear after a week or two. She posted the story on how she escaped from her sick boyfriend.

Here is the story:

I just made the most shocking discovery of my life, my boyfriend has been together with me for 2 years has a weird habit or fetish or whatever you wanna call it.

We are staying together and I realised my socks have been missing every other week. I asked my boyfriend he said that he has no idea. I started to digged around the house and I find it under the mattress and they were stacked in a pile as if someone gathered it.

I confronted my boyfriend as no one stays in the house only me and him, I asked why did he hide all my socks. He said that it’s a prank and I forgive him as it was a small matter. But something felt wrong.

I installed a CCTV secretly without my boyfriend knowing and mount it above the cabinet and faced the bed. The camera could auto-detect motion and start to record. I installed it and reviewed it a week later.

To my horror, I saw my boyfriend sniffing at my socks while “beating the aeroplane”…….

It’s not fresh socks from the laundry, its dirty socks leh.

Should I leave him or should I confront him, something is definitely not right with his head if I confront him. It would be like talking to a crazy person.

What should I do, any advice?

A man shared a story on Instagram stating that his girlfriend forced him to take a loan from his mother so he can buy her the latest Iphone 14.

Here is the story:

I am 22 this year, I just started my new job not long and with all the new responsibilities of a working adult. I start to have to worry about bills, insurance and etc.

I have a girlfriend who is 21 years old and she has been bugging me to buy her the latest iPhone 14. I barely make ends meet, she still wants me to buy her a phone for our anniversary, I asked her if she is going to buy something of equivalent value to me. She said “NO”. Wth….

She never go to the army, already work for 2 years, faster than me still want to take money from me to buy iPhone. This is ridiculous, she is already using iPhone 13 which is already considered a new phone. She wants to change for the sake of having a new one and not because her phone is not working.

I told her I do not have enough money as I just started my new job, she told me to get a loan from my mother to buy her a phone. This is it, it’s the end of the line. I’m glad that during army days she is still around but even if she got outside eat extra “supper” I also won’t know cause I used to stay in one.

She then told me that its nothing wrong mah to take a loan from my mother as I am her son. If this doesn’t piss you off you wait. She said I take a loan from my mother is my right because I was in the army for two years and had no money.

What kind of **** is this?! My right?! I told her it’s also my right to tell her to F off from my life as taking a loan from my mother to buy a luxury non-necessity item just to satisfy her.

She said “it’s ok, I get someone who don’t need to take a loan to buy iPhone for me thanks bye”.

This was her last instamessage

Does anyone here have a job where they are paid to do mostly nothing?

I currently work as a security guard and I feel like I only work for 30 minutes a day in a 8 hour shift.

I work at a work site where my duties are to patrol the area which takes me 10 minutes to do. I also let trucks in at the main gate and I receive 3 to 5 trucks a week where I have to open the gate for them.

The rest of the time I’m sitting in the guardhouse with nothing to do. I play on my phone, brought my Steam Deck, Switch Lite, and 3ds to pass the time. Anyone else have a really chill job?

Netizens’ comments

1. I spend most of my time sitting in a little room inside a factory, waiting for something to break. Most repairs take me 5 minutes.
2. I work in a data center as a facilities technician. There are exceptions, but most of the time, I work maybe 90 minutes of a 10 hour shift. But the pay is decent and the benefits are good
3. I used to have a job on a factory floor as one of those middle management jobs where you take all the crap from disgruntled workers but have no real authority. After a few years of being treated like crap by management I stopped trying to be great at my job, which meant browsing the Internet and watching YouTube videos as much as I could during my shifts.
4. I work at a restaurant and surprisingly I end up standing around a lot. It’s not that we’re dead I just wash dishes which is obviously incredibly easy. One of those rare jobs where my role is just dishwasher and not dishwasher+cook+maintenance etc. Don’t make any money but it beats my last job, that place was gonna kill me
5. I once had a low effort job. Where I had to wait for machines to finish up. I still had to watch the machines doing their thing, but other than that I just sat for 2 hours straight doing nothing doing something for like an hour and then sit for 2 hours.
   I hated those days were it would take super long for the machine to finish up. No stress though so that is good, but I was mega bored.
6. Sounds like what the politicians are doing.

Some dude paid me and my twin 250 each to jerk off in front of him.

We were 18 when this first happened, we’re 19 now. First off, I’m not gay. My brother is. But this taboo stuff, it really turns me on and that’s why I’m sharing this. (We’re both dudes btw)

The dude who paid us, let’s call him Harry. Harry was actually super respectful, he never pushed us to do anything we felt uncomfortable with and if we ever said no he wouldn’t push it any further. Of course, the more stuff we did the more he paid us.

We’ve known Harry for years, he’s a friend of our dads, which I guess makes this extra taboo. Pretty sure my brother and Harry were hooking up, and I think that’s how they even started talking about paying us.

I don’t really know all the details of how it was set up because I never asked. My brother told me what Harry had offered to pay us and asked if I wanted to do it.

The first time all my brother and I did was sit next to each other and jerk off separately, Harry just sat opposite and watched.

I remember I came first and after I had come I just kind of sat there and waiting for my brother to finish and I felt super awkward.

That was the first time we did something for Harry and the 250 he gave me I ended up using to save up for the PS5 so it was worth it lol

Netizens’ comments

1. At least when I die I can say I never jacked off with my brother for a PS5.
2. That’s just disgusting, all that just for a PS5? What’s wrong with you.
3. How the f do I delete this information that I’ve just read from my brain.

Are you personal friends with your colleagues?

I heard stories of colleagues hanging out on weekends, sharing their personal issues and even going on holidays together. Does that happen often in workplaces here?

Personally I keep my personal and working life separate. My social interaction with my colleagues is only limited to eating lunch and the occasional chat in pantry. I don’t know if getting that close to colleagues is a good idea.

Netizens’ comments

1. Being friendly and treating them as friends are 2 separate things. Never be friends with your direct colleagues. Tio backstab 1 too many times
2. You only know if you’re friends for real if you’re still hanging out years after you stop being colleagues.
3. I’m probably in the minority here but I’ve never fully bought into the emphasis on don’t shit where you work or maintaining a separation between work and personal life, etc… I need to spend at least 8 hours a day 5 days a week seeing my colleagues, so if I can be friends with them why not??? Helps the time pass quicker and makes work a whole lot more bearable.
   That being said I totally get that you won’t be friends with everyone you meet in life and that applies to colleagues too. It really depends on whether you have common interests, are on the same wavelength, etc. Even though I’m open to it I really only have 2 – 3 people at work that I can say I view as more than just a colleague, but I feel really lucky to be working with them for sure!
4. My own team for sure, I mean we literally have to cover each other’s backs and so far were doing pretty well. We know each other’s secrets and will keep it that way
5. Coworkers and bosses are not your friends no matter how friendly they seem. Just be on good terms with them but don’t share abt ur personal life with them, they can use it against you.
6. To each their own. I’m close friends to few after a decade plus of knowing each other and no longer in the same company. Meet maybe once/twice a year for the full update.
7. No personal friends at work. Even my boss I only did small talk. No common interests

Moving to Lor 6 Geylang as a solo female

Hi! I am moving into a studio walk-up apartment as a solo female. Just want to get some insights if it’s safe to walk at night, what eateries are nice to try, which places to avoid and how to behave around sketchy situations

I looked around the area before deciding to move and just saw a few budget hostels, temples and industrial shops so I would say it’s pretty harmless.

Grew up on a “rough” 3rd world country as well so my definition of “safe” can be quite different from a local Singaporean.

But would still appreciate any advice since I’ll be staying there for a while 🙂

Netizens’ comments

1. Geylang is surprisingly probably one of the safest places to stay in Singapore
   Because of the constant police presence
   And the heavy human traffic at all hours
2. Also female answering you. Geylang has quite a lot of police cameras. So overall it’s decently safe so we don’t really experience robberies, rape kind of crime.
   Molestation happens, flashing happens. All these things can happen anywhere in Singapore.
   Lor 6 Geylang has some small hotels, but it’s got a few residential developments.
   The hotels may have some hanky-panky stuff going on. You might meet some really drunk people after 11pm, again drunks can be found in any neighbourhood in singapore. Just stay away from them.
   Our streets are well lit. If something happens call the police – 999 There is a police station nearby about 2-3 mins drive away.
   Food is everywhere in Geylang and you have lots to choose. I do recommend 126 dim sum along sims drive near Lor 17.
   Star banh mi at Geylang road near Lor 29 And the famous Lorong 32 Ban Mian There is also a popular smelly toufu along Geylang road Lor 9 has a famous beef rice noodles, and opposite is is a popular frogs leg porridge.
   See really tons of food!!
3. Gymed there regularly for 3 years, my office is nearby too. It’s perfectly safe , although it can get rowdy at times due to uncles drinking. But there is heavy police presence there, together with the alcohol ban after 10pm it keeps everything in check.There are sleezy ktvs but they operate behind closed doors and have an incentive not to attract the police.
4. Vice zones are always the safest due to having extra monitoring cameras around and plain clothed policeman around.. I guess you only have to be prepared for people asking if you’re a prostitute but most often they’re in a right state of mind when you say no .
5. Geylang native here.
   Its completely safe if its well lit. Dont walk into the shady back alleys because the drunk people will stare at you if you’re attractive.
   Is always busy so other than being stared at, really nothing will happen
6. Geylang usually known for its food and nightlife
   Sometimes you may find quite a few drunk people but they usually won’t bother you, maybe stare stare awhile lor
   Theres quite a bit of police prescence in geylang, since there was quite a bit of crime there in the past (the prositiution type mostly not the violent type)
   I will say if you hate durian you will not live through durian season there since a lot of shops will sell durian

I let myself be absolutely degraded for alot of money, now I hate myself and can t look in the mirror.

First of all, I’m a prostitute, I’m ok-ish with that. But there s this guy, who comes once every 2-3 month, and enjoys humiliating me. Trash talking me. He pays alot of money for that, and he didn’t really push the limits. It was worth it.

But this time he wanted to come with multiple guys and share me. As I offer that as a service, I accepted, because, again, those guys paid me almost as much as I earned in 1 month.

But this time it was different. They made me talk about my rough childhood, about my perverted family, and pressed where they saw it hurt. When I said it s enough they just offered more money. At one point I cried in humiliation and it turned them on.

I m crying, shaking, and feel worthless on the memories of that day.

Netizens’ comments

1. Hey, I know this is tough and I’m sorry. You work a very difficult job that doesn’t have nearly the security/safety that it should.
   You can lie to your clients. You don’t have to tell them anything truthful about your past no matter how much money they give you. You can make up different tragic stories or tell them that you just love being humiliated because you deserve it. Say whatever it is you need to keep yourself safe.
   I have never done your type of work but I have lied to customers in my customer service job to stay safe. I’ve lied about my age, my cultural background, life experiences I’ve had, education, where I live, family, my name. Almost everything. It doesn’t matter if they are repeat clients. Just do what you need to keep yourself safe.
2. Use some of the money to sit with a therapist and work it out
3. that’s awful and terrible. I would say you need to set boundaries, like even if you’re a prostitute you deserve respect and that if these boundaries are ever broken during service it ends there. I’d probably recommend seeing a therapist and maybe banning that customer since it’s not gonna be healthy to your mental health
4. Don’t let it consume you. Forget about them and don’t see that client again. No amount of money is worth your dignity, pride and respect. No matter what path in life you take, you’re still a human being and that type of shit is unacceptable. They totally took you down a dark dark road and got amused by it and THATS NOT OK. Now you’re left hurt and humiliated and they feel no type of sympathy. It may be tough now but you’ll heal from this and know to never put yourself in that situation again with that person and everyone he’s associated with. Take that money and move on. You got this

I slapped a female because she keep harassing and no one stood up for me

I (M) slapped my female friend yesterday because she won’t stop pinching me

we’ve been “friends” for a month and long story short, people found out I have sensitive nipple, sometime they make fun of it but It was also funny to me and I also make fun of them etc etc so basically it was mutual jokes until this one girl don’t catch the memo that jokes supposed to be funny for both party

she started to “bump” into me but always purposely slide her fingers to my chest in order to get a reaction from me but over time she started to do it in public

one time she just decided to pinch one of my nips when we were talking and I told her that I felt really uncomfortable and told her to stop, she just laughed it off and left and it still continue a few times

yesterday, she pinches me from behind as I’m getting ready to present my presentation and I just couldn’t hold it anymore and slapped her face

her face turns red and she started crying, and everyone in the room started booing and told me i shouldn’t have done that and know “better” because she were joking

I feel really frustrated because I already told her I don’t like it and people in the room know too that I said I don’t like when people touch my body without my consent but despite that everyone makes me like as if I’m a bad person

I feel really angry that no one stood up from me like isn’t this harassment? today no one talk to me and give me cold stares.

I admit that I am wrong for slapping but that was an immediate reaction to harassment that she did, why is no one were there for me to stop her before I did ?

You hate it here so much? Leave.

Husband comes home in a terrible mood (bad week at work) and he just walks around the house like a storm cloud.

I ask what’s wrong and he goes “I hate the state of our family” and I ask why and he doesn’t elaborate, just says he “doesn’t want to be harassed” (by my question) and goes to take a 45 minute poop.

Then leave. F-ing go then. Nut up and leave. This entire house tiptoes around you and your mood because it dictates the entire vibe of the house, everyone tries their best to not set you off and ruin an entire day.

You don’t do anything around here, you do whatever you want, our kids are well-behaved and rarely get in trouble, the f do you have to complain about?

I do ALL the cooking, cleaning, errands, shopping, bill paying, and 90% of the childcare. All you do is go to work (and so do I). What could be so bad? I would LOVE to be in your shoes.

If the “state of your family” is so bad, LEAVE.

Netizens’ comments

1. Sweetheart, tell him tf off. Then you leave if he doesn’t like it. It’s always men like his that doesn’t know what they have until it’s gone.
2. I told my sad sack storm cloud just that. 30 years ago. “If we make you so miserable please go.” He left. Moved away. The happiest, huggiest guy entered my life about 7 years after. Guess what? Storm cloud still a miserable complaining person. Whenever he visits our adult children, we can’t wait for the weather to change.
3. In the nicest way I can say this: you leave. You literally listed everything that needs done and you do it. Get a divorce and pay for your own stuff and share custody of your kids and be done. You can live in peace and be alone and not deal with his bull crap.
   And I say this as another woman that completely understands where you’re coming from.
4. I’m sorry you are dealing with this. And I say this in the nicest way possible: leave. If your children are learning to tip toe around him and his moods that is going to impact them for the rest of their lives. I am in therapy right now for the exact same thing as it gave me anxiety, a tendency to people please and so much else. But overall it made me hyper sensitive and aware of every little mood change in the people around me and I always feel like it’s my fault and that I am now disliked. It made me have severe anxious attachment style. That comes from tip toeing around my parents and not wanting to set them off. Please for the sake of your kids: leave.