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GUY’S BOSS GOT ANGRY BECAUSE HE TOOK 2 DAYS OFF FROM WORK

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I have a Saturday job, 6 hours a week. I’ve had it since I was 14 through family. It’s very small+casual and I get paid cash in hand.

I messaged my boss on the 13th June to say that I would be taking the 2nd + 16th July off if that was okay. One for holiday, one was for a festival.

She ignored the message like she normally does but read it.

On the weekend of the 9th, I said goodbye to her and reminded her I wouldn’t be in next week. She immediately seemed angry and questioned why not. I reminded her about the message. I told her I’d be happy to come any other day of the week if she needs help.

I messaged her a few days ago reminding her I’m around if she needs a hand, again, ignored.

I’m super anxious because the workplace there can be a bit gossipy and nasty. I’m now really nervous for tomorrow as my boss can be very 2 sided.

Should I have re-reminded her?

19 Y.O GIRL ASKING FOR HELP TO BREAK UP WITH HER 41 Y.O BOYFRIEND

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At the time I was 18 almost 19, and I was lonely and he was rlly all I had. He is now 41 and I am 19. He is divorced his ex wife is 39. Has a daughter that is 14 and a son that is almost 10. He hid his age for a long time and also that he had a daughter.

Tbh it rlly scares me that he has a daughter, like the night he told me I started crying.

He basically chased me told me he loved me and that he wanted something with me. I kinda just went along. At the time I was lonely. He also comforts me and is really the only person that shows concern.

Later on he started sending gifts and eventually a promise ring. He then flew me out to join him for a business trip. Where he took me out on dates. And obviously slept with me. He’s really aggressive into choking and rough play in bed. Some scary stuff.

Idk he weirds me out but also makes me so so happy. Lately he’s been saying that he wants to marry me. I am planning on becoming a flight attendant and start training in a week. He tracks my location and has made me delete certain apps.

Just scares me bc as a flight attendant I’ll be spending time with pilots and he is already saying stuff like that.

He is handsome and makes a lot of money. He said that if I were to live with him that I would never need to work again and that he would take care of me. I just want someone to talk to about this. He is controlling and it’s hard being apart from him. Idk how to let him go. I’ve tried but he always finds a way or begs me.

COUPLE POK POK FINISH, GUY REFUSE TO LET GF USE HIS TOILET & ASK HER GO HOME INSTEAD

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I got annoyed at my boyfriend bc he wouldn’t let me shower at his place.

Me (f22) and my boyfriend (m25) have been together for about a year now but we don’t live together.

The thing about my boyfriend is that he didn’t interact with any women prior to dating me. he doesn’t have that much of a clue about what’s going on. I don’t mean to sound condescending, I know he wants to learn more about what it’s like for us (women) and understand the problems we face etc.

Anyway, we have sleepovers at his place. The reason we only have them at his place is that I’m currently living with 3 other of my friends at a 2 bedroom place.

Sleepovers happen once a week but we go out more times within the week, he has a rocky relationship with his brother and I don’t want to make things weirder (they live together). The next day we have coffee together and if we don’t have much going on we might hang out, or study, and if one of us has something going on he drops me off wherever I need to be but we never end the sleepover/ hangout without me showering at his place.

This time we were hanging out the next day and we both had plans. So we decided to shower so that I could leave. The reason why I find showering before leaving really important is that I have a serious problem with not feeling clean and I always want to make sure that there is no chance of getting a UTI since we have S several times during the sleepovers.

But this time a few minutes before going into the bathroom he asked me if I’d be okay with showering at my place and I told him I wouldn’t be going there bc I had plans like I told him before.

He kept asking and I felt like I had to say whatever. The reason why this whole thing happened is because his brother was about to shower without knowing we wanted to. I was annoyed bc I didn’t feel clean enough to go hang out with friends and I was uncomfortable not showering after S.

He then saw I was annoyed and told me he’d ask his brother because he was going out as well and planning to shower anyway and it was stupid to drop me off, come back for a shower and go out again. However the previous conversation made me feel like a burden and I didn’t want him to fight with his brother so I told him I wanted to leave. He kept trying to hug and kiss me and tell me he’d miss me.

At the car he kept trying to make small talk and hold my hand. I wasn’t rejecting him any of those times I just wasn’t eager to reciprocate.i asked him to drop me off somewhere randomly, went home took a shower and then went out. I didn’t respond to the goodnight or the good morning texts until he called. I texted back with an excuse for why I didn’t pick up.

I’m still annoyed at him bc I don’t handle not feeling clean well and I’m scared of getting a UTI. Am I overreacting here? I just don’t want to be unfair to him

FATHER FOUND GUY INSIDE DAUGHTER’S ROOM, KICKS HER OUT OF HOME

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My daughter is 18 and because I’m cautious and I’m aware that she’s becoming a young woman I’ve had all kinds of talks with her.

I came home a few nights ago and I noticed shoes outside the house that I didn’t recognize. I called for my daughter, nothing, I call for my daughter, and I hear “ f, my dad’s home”. Door to her room is closed, I knock, door’s locked, she opens, this boy comes out. She tells him to “ just go” and that she’ll call him later.

I ask her who he is, she tells me he’s nobody. I ask again, the same answer. I ask why the door was locked. She says she locked it on accident. I told her I heard her say “ f, my dad’s home” and what that was about. She claims the closing of the front door by me, scared them.

I told her I’d had enough of the lying and that since she wants to be with a guy she can stay outside and not in my home. Once she heard “ move out” she started telling me that even though the door was closed nothing was happening. She’s telling me I’m the most unfair father ever and that I’m “ not being fair”

Am I wrong? Could I have made it worse?

I know by letting her stay out she can have as many guys over as she wants, I was angry and did not know what to do.

WOMAN UPSET ABOUT HER HUSBAND NOT DOING CHORES, ONLY PLAYS GAME

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I (23F) have been married to my husband (31M) for two years, It has always been the same problem and it came to my head this morning.

I woke up not feeling too well and leave the room to see him still gaming. Didn’t get much of a response when I called him since he had headphones on.

So I went back to the bedroom.

We have a dehumidifier in the house, whenever I go to sleep at night I empty it then, and again when I wake up.

It has been super humid so I have been waking up to water on the floor since it’s been overflowing.

So I ask my husband to empty it since he games till I wake up in the morning.

Not a big deal, right?

It’s the only chore I really /need/ done. No one likes water damage to their floors.

Well, once again it overflowed. It would not have been so bad if it were to empty it right away.

But it was not.

I got very angry and brought it up. He said it was an accident.

And I agreed accidents happen, but when it is your only chore.

I ended up raising my voice and getting angry. Bringing up everything I’m already doing. Which he responded by shutting down and heading to bed.

I do everything else, including financial planning.

I don’t want to always ask for everything I need, which feels reasonable.

My mental health has seriously worsened. To a point where I have had a lot of health checks. I have expressed multiple times that I don’t want to feel like a mother or helper.

WIFE DEMANDS TO BE NAMED SOLE LIFE INSURANCE BENEFICIARY OR DIVORCE

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A man shared a story online after he got into a dispute with his spouse on insurance coverage. Life insurance is typically marketed as protecting your loved ones and the story goes way beyond what one will expect.

Some things lost their value after doing for the sake of doing and forcing the decision on others.

Here is the story:

I need a place to share my thoughts. My wife has been asking me to buy life insurance and place her name as the sole beneficiary.

I am in my early 30s and I have been married for 3 years, my parents are still not as old yet but they are soon reaching the age of retirement. I feel that putting only my wife’s name in the insurance is not right. However, we had a massive argument with me over it.

I then told her to do the same, putting only my name and omitting her parents. (I said this to make her know how I feel). But she scolded me and said a lot of nonsense that “It’s not the same”.

I always have plans to do a 50-50, if anything happens to me my parents get half and my wife gets the other half. This is the default but she said that if I don’t put only her name she will divorce me straight.

I was thinking in my heart, She is also working as well and does she need the money that badly.

The thing is, we don’t even have kids, my plan was to buy the life insurance as soon as she gets pregnant and I am 100% sure is not because she has some health issues. If we were to have a kid we have to go through the medical way, this is confirmed by the doctor and in no way is she pregnant.

Married for 3 years, together for 8 years.

Before marriage, everything is sweet and fine. After the marriage, everything is about money and money.

The thing is, she is having a wonderful job earning over $6k a month and I’m about the same. We have a healthy amount of savings and she is still forcing me to do this.

This issue on insurance has been going on for the past week and we are barely talking.

Sometimes, I used to question why other married man people cheat in their marriage. I can see why now.

Marriage has transformed from a sacred ceremony to a business transaction.

Should I leave her?

2 Y.O TODDLER STARVED TO DEATH AT HOME AFTER FATHER DIED FROM HEART ATTACK

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In a tragic incident in Skegness, Lincolnshire, a two-year-old boy named Bronson Battersby was found dead next to his father, Kenneth, after social services reportedly missed critical opportunities to save them, according to a report by The Sun.

This heart-wrenching story exposes the dire consequences of apparent negligence in the system and the devastating impact it had on a vulnerable child.

Unfolding the Tragedy

On Boxing Day, Bronson and Kenneth were last seen alive. Tragically, Kenneth, aged 60, suffered a fatal heart attack soon after. This left Bronson, under the care of children’s services, alone and helpless without food or water.

Social workers visited the rented property on January 2 and again two days later, receiving no response. Shockingly, there was another five-day gap before their lifeless bodies were discovered on January 9. During this time, Bronson was left in a state of deprivation, unable to seek help.

Bronson’s emaciated body was found curled up with Kenneth, emphasizing the severity of the neglect. Preliminary tests indicated that Bronson died of dehydration and starvation. The family claims that timely intervention by social services could have saved his life.

Mother’s Anguish

Sarah Piesse, Bronson’s mother, expressed her devastation, stating that social services should have done more to protect her son. The post-mortem results revealed that Bronson starved to death following his father’s demise.

Social workers visited the property on January 2 and 4, making inquiries and contacting the police. However, their actions seemed insufficient, given the tragic outcome. The gap between visits and the delayed response to the lack of answer raise questions about the effectiveness of the intervention.

Lincolnshire County Council has initiated a rapid review into the events surrounding Bronson’s death. The social worker involved has not been suspended but has reportedly taken voluntary time off.

Community Outrage

Family and friends express their outrage, asserting that Bronson deserved better. The community, shocked by the negligence, questions the acceptance of no answer on the door of a vulnerable child. They insist that social services let Bronson down, and he might still be alive if proper procedures were followed.

The police have ruled out suspicious circumstances, and the case has been handed over to the coroner. Initial post-mortem examinations have eliminated carbon monoxide poisoning. Kenneth’s pre-existing heart condition and severe jaundice may have contributed to his demise.

22 Y.O ALLEGEDLY BROKE INTO NTU DORM & THREATENED TO KILL GIRL UNLESS HE CAN “HAVE” HER

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In a shocking incident at Nanyang Technological University (NTU), a 22-year-old man named Kaung Myat San allegedly broke into a dormitory room, threatening to kill a woman if he couldn’t have her.

This unsettling event has led to charges of trespassing and criminal intimidation against Kaung. He was charged in court on 19 January with trespassing and criminal intimidation, and he has indicated that he will not plead guilty to his charges and intends to seek legal representation, according to a report by TODAY.

The Allegations and Legal Charges

Kaung reportedly trespassed into a dormitory room at Binjai Hall on Jan 17 around 8 pm. Binjai Hall, a residence for NTU students within the campus, became the setting for this disturbing episode.

The charge sheets reveal that Kaung not only invaded the victim’s space but also threatened her life. His alleged words, promising harm and even death if he couldn’t have the woman, painted a sinister picture. The gravity of these threats led to one charge of criminal intimidation.

Court records indicate that Kaung has pleaded not guilty, expressing his intention to engage a lawyer. He claims to have had “no intention to hurt (his) girlfriend,” leaving the nature of their relationship ambiguous. As the legal proceedings unfold, it remains to be seen how Kaung’s defense will unfold.

NTU’s Response and Wellbeing Support

In response to the incident, NTU took measures to support the wellbeing of the student involved. Wellbeing support services were provided following the distressing encounter. The university has urged the NTU community to stay vigilant and report any suspicious activities to campus security.

Kaung, currently in remand, is set to appear in court on Feb 5. If found guilty of criminal intimidation, he could face a sentence of up to 10 years, a fine, or both. Trespassing, if proven, carries penalties of a jail term of up to three months, a fine of up to S$1,500, or both.

PRC MAN SWAPS $318K DIAMOND RING WITH FAKE ONE @ MBS JEWELLERY SHOP, JAILED

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A Chinese national, Wu Youquan, found himself entangled in a criminal enterprise when he agreed to participate in a “fast cash” job involving the swapping of a genuine diamond ring at Tiffany & Co with a replica. This bizarre incident unfolded at The Shoppes at Marina Bay Sands (MBS) outlet in Singapore.

On January 19, 2024, Wu Youquan was sentenced to three years and four months in jail after pleading guilty to the theft charge, according to The Straits Times.

Wu, an odd job worker, was propositioned by a man named Chen Hanbo in October 2023. Chen presented Wu with a “high-risk” opportunity, not disclosing the exact earnings but assuring him that he wouldn’t be short-changed. Intrigued, Wu agreed to participate in the plan.

The Diamond Heist

In November 2023, Wu arrived in Singapore, courtesy of Chen, and headed to Tiffany & Co at MBS. Posing as “Mr. Liew” from Taiwan, he pretended to be shopping for a gift for his wife. Under the guise of a customer, Wu took pictures of a genuine 3.18-carat diamond ring worth $318,000 along with its price tag.

Wu then returned to China, where Chen informed him that he would receive a replica of the genuine ring by post. Wu flew back to Singapore, with Chen covering his travel expenses once again.

Back at Tiffany & Co, Wu was attended to by a team manager. Employing sleight of hand, he swapped the genuine 3.18-carat ring with the replica while distracting the manager by expressing interest in another piece of jewelry. Wu, claiming to have changed his mind, left the store.

Unraveling the Crime

The team manager soon noticed discrepancies in the texture of the price tag attached to the replica ring. Realizing foul play, she confronted Wu, who remained silent. The male colleague, alerted to the situation, decided to conduct a physical check.

In a dramatic turn of events, Wu admitted to the theft, producing the genuine ring from his pocket. He sought forgiveness but was promptly arrested.

S’PORE MAN PENS SONG AS TRIBUTE TO MUM, BUT KILLED IN AYE CRASH BEFORE HE COULD SING FOR HER

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In a tragic turn of events, Syahied Ahmad, a devoted family man and SMRT train captain, met an untimely demise at the age of 29.

Just days before his unfortunate accident, Syahied had penned and recorded a song titled “Lady In Red” as a tribute to his mother, Madam Asmah Adam, according to a report by The Straits Times.

This heartfelt composition, filled with love and gratitude, now remains unreleased, serving as a poignant reminder of Syahied’s musical passion and his impact on those around him.

The Tragic Accident

On January 16, tragedy struck as Syahied was involved in a traffic accident on the Ayer Rajah Expressway while riding his motorcycle to work. The collision, which included a trailer, two cars, and two motorcycles, led to his untimely death. A 29-year-old male car driver was arrested for careless driving causing death.

Upon learning about Syahied’s accident, Akmal rushed to the hospital, only to find that his friend was already gone. The sudden loss left both friends and family in shock, and the pain of not being able to say a final goodbye lingered.

A Devoted Son’s Final Tribute

Syahied Ahmad, the eldest of three children, was not just a skilled SMRT train captain; he was a pillar of emotional support for his mother. The song “Lady In Red” was a testament to his enduring love, and the lyrics resonated with the emotions he wished to express. Unfortunately, Madam Asmah Adam never had the chance to hear her son sing this tribute in person.

Syahied’s interest in music was kindled by his father, Mr. Ahmad Samsudin, who taught him basic guitar chords. This early exposure fueled Syahied’s curiosity, leading him to self-learn various musical instruments, including the keyboard. His musical journey included performances with family members and sharing snippets of his musical talents on TikTok.

Carefree Nature and Zest for Life

Described by his best friend, Akmal Aziz, as someone who loved life and lived it fully, Syahied had plans for a road trip to Malacca after Hari Raya. Akmal reminisces about Syahied’s carefree nature and zest for life, emphasizing how much his friend enjoyed the simple pleasures.

Friends and family remember Syahied not just for his musical talents but for the life lessons he imparted. Akmal recalls how Syahied taught him to relax in tough situations and uphold integrity. The sudden loss led to reflections on unspoken gratitude and love, prompting regrets about not expressing these feelings more often.

Images source: Akmal Aziz and Syaahied Samsudin on Facebook