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OVERWEIGHT GUY ASKS HOW TO STOP BEING JUDGED BY OTHERS AT THE GYM

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How to stop feeling judged at the gym?

Hi All, I wanted to lose weight, so I registered for a workshop. The workshop is held in groups, and I noticed that most of the people are fit (six pack kind), leaving me the only bui bui (fat).

So, as the lessons are being taught, my subconscious mind is thinking that I’m being judged….. be it physical appearance or my form.

I know that I think too much but how to get rid of the thoughts/feeling?

Netizens’ comments

  • Idk if this helps but I like to think that sure when people see you they may know you’re out of shape but at the same time, they also know that you’re here. That means that you’re putting in effort to change and there’s nothing shameful about that.
  • Think about it this way. If someone go gym 4x a week see so many faces, do u think they will rmb them by the end of the month?
    When I first started, I skinny af and only dared to do 3-4 exercises before I zao. It’s been 6 yrs and now I still skinny af (ok but less so) but also don’t care.
    Anyway some of them prolly think you good for working on yourself. Keep grinding bro/sis and work for yourself, not because of others
  • I have been working regularly for past 20 over years. And when I see someone who’s out of shape coming to the gym, I always happy for that person because this is a person who’s taking actions to make a positive change.
    Don’t worry what others think mate, their perception really isn’t important. It is what goes on in your head that makes all the difference. Keep at it and when you look back, you’ll find that it is quite silly. Gambatte!

DISPUTE ON MRT: FOREIGN MAN VERSUS LOCAL MAN “NABEI CB PUI!”

In recent events along the green line towards Paya Lebar, an unsettling incident unfolded, exposing the challenges of cultural differences and language barriers in our community. As a witness to the scene, I feel compelled to share the details, shedding light on the importance of understanding, tolerance, and collective responsibility.

Witness said:

Hello! Just now towards Paya lebar on the green line there was a man shouting at a foreigner. Thankfully after checking on the foreigner he said he could not understand English. I think the foreigner wanted to touch something on this man’s outfit but the man hit him away and then shouted at him to go back to his country. He walked away then came back and shout at him. I only captured the 2nd part of the incident. I was too scared to intervene.
Just to clarify, I asked the foreigner if he was okay, he looked at me blur blur then i asked again if he okay. Then he said no english i’m … (did not hear the country)

MRT staff said they will check on the footage as they were not able to find the man at the time of the reporting.

Here are what netizens think:

  • How you converse with the foreigner if he says he doesn’t know english?
  • Bro sitting was prob thinking “i think he’s saying nice things to me”
  • Why so angry? He also no assets…maybe the foreigner happend to just accidently bumped or maybe just so happened just trying to stabilise himself due to train movements or something.
  • OMG!!! Y this fella so OVER??!! In public some more..Dat foreigner looks like an old man leh
  • Alot of times, if accidentally bumped or what, basic manners say “sorry” atleast. Have basic manners be it any races.
  • “Nbcb u” power, don’t play play. Been a while man. There always two side of the story. No one get angry for no reason.

LOSSES OF $250K PREVENTED THANKS TO ANTI SCAM CENTRE, GREAT EASTERN & OCBC

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On 19 December 2023, the Anti-Scam Centre (ASC) partnered and worked with Great Eastern and OCBC to avert losses of more than S$250,000 in a Government Official Impersonation Scam case. 

In this case, a 67-year-old victim had received a phone call on 2 December 2023, from a first scammer who impersonated a Government official from China, alleging that the victim had suspicious funds in a bank account under her name in China and accused the victim of having committed a crime. The first scammer then transferred the victim’s call to a second scammer impersonating another Government official from China. On 13 December 2023, under the instructions of the second scammer, the victim opened a new UOB bank account under her name, purportedly to assist in investigations, and provided the internet-banking credentials of the account to the scammer. The victim was also told to withdraw all her money from other bank accounts and liquidate her insurance policies to deposit into the UOB account.

On 18 December 2023, on the instruction of the second scammer, the victim went to Great Eastern at Jurong East to liquidate her insurance policies. The surrender value monies were to be deposited into the victim’s OCBC account. This was detected by a Great Eastern customer service officer who found the victim’s account for the surrender suspicious. The victim claimed that the money was for the purchase of a house and renovation fees but was unable to provide more details when probed further. Despite having to make a loss for the early surrender of her four insurance policies, the victim insisted on proceeding with the surrender, further raising the suspicion of the Great Eastern customer service officer. He promptly escalated the case to OCBC, who reached out to the ASC for intervention. 

The ASC immediately worked with OCBC to prevent the victim from making any further transactions while ASC officers swiftly engaged the victim at her residence, successfully convincing her that she had fallen for a scam. The ASC also acted on the UOB account which was under the control of the second scammer. The alertness of the Great Eastern customer service officer, and the timely intervention by OCBC staff and ASC officers prevented the victim from potentially losing over S$250,000.

Mr Beaver Chua, OCBC’s Head of Anti-Fraud, Group Financial Crime Compliance, said: “OCBC is committed to working closely with the Police to fight scams and protect customers’ funds.”

The Police would like to alert members of the public to the variant of Government Official Impersonation Scam, where scammers would impersonate officers from government organisations and accuse victims of their involvement in criminal or money laundering activities overseas. The scam occurs in the following way:

  1. Members of the public would receive unsolicited calls from the first scammer who would impersonate a bank officer. The first scammer would allege that the victims have outstanding credit card charges on their cards that are linked to criminal or money laundering activities.
  2. The first scammer would then transfer the victim’s call to a second scammer purporting to be a Government official. The second scammer would inform the victims that they were under investigation for criminal or money laundering activities. The communication between the second scammer and the victim may subsequently move to messaging applications such as WhatsApp and Telegram. The second scammer would then instruct the victims to do any of the following:
  1. relinquish bank account details; 
  2. transfer money to a third-party bank account purportedly to assist in investigations; 
  3. open new bank accounts;
  4. meet unknown subjects to handover / collect / sign fake documents; 
  5. report their whereabouts and told not to divulge details about the investigation. 
  6. Members of the public are advised to adopt the following precautionary measures:

ADD – ScamShield App and security features (e.g. enable Two-Factor Authentication (2FA), Multifactor Authentication for banks and set up transaction limits for internet banking transactions, including PayNow). 

CHECK – For scam signs with official sources (e.g. ScamShield WhatsApp bot @ https://go.gov.sg/scamshield-bot, call the Anti-Scam Helpline on 1800-722-6688, or visit www.scamalert.sg). Never install software from unverified sources as they may be remote access software allowing others to observe what you do on your device or even take control of it. Additionally, you should never allow others to watch you enter your personal particulars or bank login details. 

TELL – Authorities, family, and friends about scams and do not be pressured by the caller to act impulsively. Report the number to WhatsApp and Telegram to initiate in-app blocking and report any fraudulent transactions to your bank immediately.

If you have any information relating to such crimes or if you are in doubt, please call the Police Hotline at 1800-255-0000, or submit it online at www.police.gov.sg/iwitness. All information will be kept strictly confidential. If you require urgent Police assistance, please dial ‘999’. 

For more information on scams, members of the public can visit www.scamalert.sg or call the Anti-Scam Helpline at 1800-722-6688. Fighting scams is a community effort. Together, we can ACT Against Scams to safeguard our community!

KTV Performing Artiste Job at Cuppage Plaza Is Paying $8K To $12K a Month

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In the heart of Singapore’s Orchard area, a vibrant nightlife entertainment establishment in Cuppage Plaza, Koek Road, has recently posted an intriguing job opportunity on the MyCareersFuture.sg portal. This government agency website, dedicated to listing jobs for Singaporeans and permanent residents, is not your typical platform for such positions, making this recruitment catch the attention of job seekers.

The Job Listing

Overview

The job advertisement, posted on Jan. 7 and closing on Feb. 6, is in search of a multi-talented individual to fill the role of a “KTV – Performing Artiste.” The monthly salary for this position falls between S$8,000 and S$12,000, adding an element of allure to the opportunity.

Responsibilities

  1. On-Stage Performance: The primary duty involves captivating a live audience with engaging performances.
  2. Expression through Art: The artiste is expected to convey emotions and ideas through various mediums, including body movement, spoken language, facial expression, and action.
  3. Collaboration and Rehearsals: Regular attendance at rehearsals and collaboration with other band members is crucial for a seamless performance.
  4. Fine-Tuning with Music Director: Working closely with the music director to refine and enhance overall performances.
  5. Logistics Coordination: Ensuring the timely arrival of musical instruments or props at gigs.
  6. Adaptability to Criticism: Interpreting and incorporating constructive criticism from directors into performances.
  7. Memorization Skills: Ability to memorize lines or musical notes.

Job Requirements

The applicant is expected to possess the following qualities:

  1. Talented and Creative: Proficiency in various styles, connecting with diverse audiences, and attracting customers to the club.
  2. Musical Expertise: The ability to sing a wide range of songs to entertain audiences.
  3. Effective Communication: Good communication skills with both audiences/customers and colleagues.
  4. Dance Proficiency: The capability to dance skillfully on stage.
  5. Flexibility: Willingness to work during weekends and public holidays.
  6. Language Skills: Fluency in Vietnamese and Thai languages is a must.
  7. Network Connections: Existing connections in Vietnam and Singapore.
  8. Travel Commitment: Preparedness to travel to Vietnam is a requirement.
  9. Work Schedule: A 6-days-a-week commitment from 6 pm to 3 am.

Advertising on MyCareersFuture.sg

Fair Hiring Practices

While it might seem unusual for such a job listing to appear on a Singapore government jobs portal, it is a mandatory step for employers to comply with fair hiring practices. MyCareersFuture is a free service dedicated to Singapore citizens and PRs, ensuring that locals are given priority in job placements.

Advertising Requirement

The Ministry of Manpower (MOM) mandates employers to advertise jobs on MyCareersFuture.sg for at least 28 days before applying for Employment Pass (EP) or S Pass for a foreign candidate. This requirement aims to promote fair employment practices and enhance labor market transparency.

EP Application for Foreign Hires

Given the high salary range of this KTV performing artiste job, it falls under the EP category. Since Sep. 1, 2023, the EP qualifying salary for new applications and renewals has been fixed at S$5,000 for most sectors. The salary requirement increases with age, ranging from S$5,000 for those 23 and below to S$10,500 for individuals aged 45 and above.

Conclusion

In conclusion, this unique job opportunity presents an exciting chance for a talented individual to showcase their skills in the vibrant nightlife scene of Singapore. By advertising on MyCareersFuture.sg, the employer is not only following regulatory requirements but also providing an opportunity for locals to fill the position before broadening the search to international talents.

EX “FREELANCER” CHANGED HER LIFE AFTER STUDYING DEGREE

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A former Geylang prostitute shared a story about how her life changed after she stopped having s*x for money and took a private degree instead.

Here is the story:

“Admin please keep my identity a secret.

I used to work as a prostitute along Geylang, my family was poor and I wanted to make quick money.

It was not the easiest of jobs because there were many risks involved.

Some of the risks include clients refusing to pay after fking, so I made it a point to collect payment first before service start.

There is also the risk of police raids and I have seen a few close shaves.

Of course, there is always the risk of contracting an STD because of the number of men that we fk.

Life hasn’t been very easy with the whole pandemic, business has been slow and I could make more money working in a proper job.

With the money that I earned and saved up over the years, I enrolled into *school name withheld* and am currently studying a private business degree.

My life is so much better and I don’t need to be at the mercy of men touching and groping me.

I’ve had so much s* over the years that I am sick and tired of it.

Thankfully I never caught any STDs as well.

Now I am living a much more peaceful life and my only focus is on my studies.

I spend my free time studying and working part time jobs to earn some extra money and kill time.

Nobody at work knows I used to be a prostitute.

Even my own family also doesn’t know, god.. Those were some chaotic times.

My family is also in a much better place.

Honestly this pandemic is like a blessing in disguise for me and I’m just glad that I don’t have to sleep with strangers anymore.

To all those s*x workers out there, be brave and take a leap of faith, stop degrading yourselves and do something worthwhile with your lives.”

Editor’s note: There’s a silver lining after all, really happy for you and hope you’re doing well in school.

23 Y.O NUS GRAD FOUND DEAD AT FOOT OF CONDO AFTER FALLING 15 FLOORS TO HIS DEATH

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In August 2022, a shocking incident occurred when 23-year-old Chinese national Zhao Mingjian was found dead at the base of his condominium.

State Coroner Adam Nakhoda delivered his findings into Zhao’s death in court earlier today (12 January), ruling it as a misadventure, according to Channel NewsAsia.

Before the Fall: A Life in Transition

Zhao, a 33-year-old Biomedical Engineering graduate from the National University of Singapore (NUS), had recently embarked on his engineering career at Illumina Singapore when he fell from the 15th floor of his condominium in August 2022.

He landed on the grass patch at the foot of the building and suffered severe traumatic injuries before being conveyed to the hospital, but ultimately couldn’t be resuscitated.

The court revealed that there was no credible evidence to support the claims of third-party involvement after Zhao’s mother, refusing to believe that he had taken his own life, raised concerns about two men who were allegedly seen at the lift lobby of the condo on the day her son fell to his death, as well as highlighting the comments made by his friends during his funeral.

The notion of two strangers at the condo came from a neighbor’s statement, but the coroner deemed it as “merely idle gossip.”

Furthermore, comments made by Zhao’s friends at the funeral were considered irrelevant to the circumstances surrounding his fall.

Relationship Issues

The court heard about Zhao’s relationship issues, particularly involving a fellow NUS graduate named Ms QAX, with whom he got close to after they met during an NUS dance CCA in 2022.

She said that she believed Zhao was romantically interested in her but never acted on his feelings.

On 12 August, Zhao, QAX and a few friends went to drink alcohol at Clarke Quay, and Zhao’s mother advised him not to drink because he had a fever and drinking was bad for the liver.

The next morning, Zhao returned home and told him mother that QAX had allegedly shown him a middle finger, to which his mother then told him to stop seeing QAX if he was not comfortable with her, after which he then left all the dance CCA group chats that he was in; however, he later rejoined the group chats.

Zhao’s father , who was working in China at the time, added that he spoke with his son after his drinking session at Clarke Quay. The older Zhao said that his son told him that he believed QAX reciprocated his feelings for her, to which the father then told him that he needed to be better than the rest of his friends to win her over.

On 14 August, Zhao’s sister brought him out to watch a movie to cheer him up, because she knew that he was having problems pertaining to relationship issues.

She testified in court that their mother would pressure him to study harder, but he never mentioned that he felt controlled or restricted in his life.

The Day He Fell To His Death

On the day of the incident, 17 August, Zhao’s mother and sister saw him at home that morning, as he knocked on his sister’s bedroom door and told her that he had realised something about “people’s realisation and trust issues”.

CCTV footage captured Zhao leaving the condominium in gym attire around 1 pm. He fell from the balcony at approximately 3:45 pm, even though he was not caught on CCTV going back to the condominium.

However, this might have been attributed to a CCTV camera at the condo malfunctioning at the time.

At 3.45pm, a resident living opposite the condo heard someone screaming loudly and a loud thud, before alerting the police.

Police officers later noticed that the front door to Zhao’s unit was open but his gate was locked, before later entering the unit with Zhao’s sister.

They noticed that the sliding door to the unit’s balcony was open, as well as a pair of slippers; with one slipper near the balcony and another on a pot of flowers. However, no signs of struggle were found at the scene.

Coroner’s Findings

While there were searches related to harming oneself on Zhao’s phone, the coroner emphasized that these were not conclusive evidence of intent.

The court acknowledged an incident during an outing at Clarke Quay but found no indication that it led Zhao to take his own life. The coroner couldn’t conclusively establish whether Zhao jumped with the intention to end his life or fell accidentally, but there was no evidence suggesting foul play as the coroner expressed condolences to the Zhao family.

27 Y.O CHARGED IN COURT FOR MONEY LAUNDERING ACTIVITIES

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A 27-year-old man will be charged in court on 12 January 2024 for his suspected involvement in various offences connected to money laundering activities. 

In March 2021, he allegedly relinquished control of his bank account to another individual by handing over his Internet banking credentials and ATM card. His UOB bank account then received sums amounting in total to S$23,020 between April and June 2021, which were traced to the proceeds of suspected fraud perpetrated overseas.

In May 2021, he allegedly accessed another person’s bank account and withdrew at least S$8,980 from the account, which were traced to the proceeds of suspected fraud perpetrated overseas. After withdrawing the money, he handed them to other individuals in Singapore. 

The man will be charged in court with three counts of possessing property that may be reasonably suspected of being benefits from criminal conduct while failing to satisfactorily account for how he came by the property under Section 47AA(1) of the Corruption Drug Trafficking and Other Serious Crimes (Confiscation of Benefits) Act (“CDSA”) and one count of unauthorised access to computer material under Section 3(1) of the Computer Misuse Act (“CMA”) read with Section 10(1) of the CMA.

Anyone found guilty of possessing property that may be reasonably suspected of being benefits from criminal conduct if the person fails to account satisfactorily how the person came by the property under the CDSA faces imprisonment of up to three years, or fined up to S$150,000, or both. 

Anyone found guilty of abetting unauthorised access to computer material under the CMA faces imprisonment of up to two years, or fined up to S$5,000, or both.

The Police takes a serious stance against any person who may be involved in money laundering, and perpetrators will be dealt with in accordance with the law. The Police would like to remind members of the public that individuals will be held accountable if they allow their personal bank accounts to be used to receive and transfer monies found to be criminal proceeds.

If you receive or are asked to receive funds from unknown or dubious sources, please contact the Anti-Scam Helpline at 1800-722-6688. Anyone with information on such scams may call the Police Hotline at 1800-255-0000 or submit information online at www.police.gov.sg/iwitness.

7 PEOPLE CHARGED: SOLD OR RENTED BANK ACCOUNTS TO CRIMINALS

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Five men and two women, aged between 19 and 52, will be charged in court on 11 January 2024 for their suspected involvement in money mule activities, which include cheating and facilitating unauthorised access to computer materials.

These individuals have allegedly sold or rented their bank accounts to criminal syndicates for as much as $3,000. They have purportedly deceived banks into opening bank accounts before handing over the ATM cards and iBanking PINs to the criminal syndicates. Two men, aged 27 and 44, have also allegedly sold their SingPass credentials to criminal syndicates to create new bank accounts.

The offence of cheating under Section 417 of the Penal Code 1871 carries an imprisonment term of up to three years and a fine. The offence of facilitating unauthorised access to computer material under Section 3(1) of the Computer Misuse Act 1993 carries an imprisonment term of up to two years, a fine or both.

The Police take a serious view of these offences and will not hesitate to take action against individuals who may be involved in scams, and perpetrators will be dealt with in accordance with the law. To avoid being an accomplice to crime, members of the public should always reject seemingly attractive money-making opportunities promising pay-outs for the use of their Singpass account, bank accounts or allow their personal bank account to be used to receive and transfer money for others. The Police would like to remind members of the public that individuals will be held accountable if they are found to be linked to such crimes.

For more information on scams, members of the public can visit scamalert.sg or call the Anti-Scam Helpline at 1800-722-6688. Anyone with information on such scams may call the Police Hotline at 1800-255 0000 or submit information online at www.police.gov.sg/iwitness.

HUSBAND STARTS USING PERFUME, WIFE HIRES PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR TO TAIL HIM

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 I never thought that something as simple as wearing a new cologne could turn my life upside down. But here I am, sitting alone in my empty apartment, typing away on my laptop, trying to make sense of how my marriage fell apart. It all started when I decided to switch up my routine and start wearing perfume.

Let me start from the beginning. I have been married to my beautiful wife, Emily, for five years now. We met in uni and fell in love instantly. We were the perfect couple, and everyone around us envied our relationship. We had our ups and downs, but we always managed to work through them and come out stronger.

But everything changed when I started my new job at a marketing firm. I wanted to make a good impression, so I decided to invest in a new fragrance. I had never been a fan of perfumes, but I thought it would add a touch of sophistication to my appearance. Little did I know that this decision would lead to the downfall of my marriage.

At first, Emily didn’t say anything when she noticed the change in my scent. She even complimented me on how good I smelled. But as the weeks went by, her behavior towards me began to change. She became distant, started picking fights over small things, and constantly questioned my whereabouts. I couldn’t understand what was happening, and I was at a loss for how to fix it.

One day, she came home from work early and caught me spraying on my perfume before leaving for a client meeting. I didn’t think much of it and went about my day. But that night, Emily confronted me about it. She asked me why I was wearing perfume and who I was trying to impress. I was taken aback by her accusation and tried to explain that I was just trying something new. But she didn’t believe me. She said that she had a gut feeling that something was off, and my sudden interest in perfume only confirmed her suspicion.

I was shocked and hurt by her lack of trust in me. I had never given her a reason to doubt my fidelity, and I couldn’t understand why she was suddenly accusing me of cheating. I tried to reassure her that I was not seeing anyone else, but she refused to believe me. She said that she needed some time to think and left the apartment, leaving me alone with my thoughts.

The next few days were a living hell. Emily wouldn’t talk to me, and when she did, it was only to accuse me of cheating. She started checking my phone, questioning my every move, and even following me when I went out. I felt like I was living in a nightmare, and I didn’t know how to make it stop.

I decided to take matters into my own hands and prove my innocence. I showed Emily my work schedule, introduced her to my colleagues, and even suggested couples therapy. But nothing I did seemed to ease her suspicions. She had made up her mind that I had been unfaithful, and nothing I said or did could change that.

My once happy and loving marriage was now filled with constant fights and mistrust. I couldn’t take it anymore, and I started to resent Emily for not believing in me. We stopped communicating, and our home became a battleground. I didn’t know what else to do, and I was slowly losing hope that things would ever go back to normal.

One night, Emily came home late from work and found me sitting on the couch, staring blankly at the TV. She looked different, and I could tell that something had changed. She sat next to me and took my hand. I thought that maybe she was finally willing to listen and work things out. But what she said next shattered my heart into a million pieces.

She told me that she had hired a private investigator to follow me, and he had discovered that I had been seeing another woman. My heart sank, and I couldn’t believe what I was hearing. I tried to explain that the investigator must have been mistaken, but she wouldn’t listen. She accused me of lying and said that she was tired of pretending that everything was okay between us.

In that moment, I realized that our marriage was over. Emily had already made up her mind, and nothing I said could change that. She packed her bags and left that night, leaving me alone in our once happy home. I was devastated, not only because my marriage was over, but because I had lost my best friend and the love of my life.

As I sit here, looking back on everything that happened, I can’t help but wonder how something as innocent as wearing a new perfume could lead to such a disastrous outcome. I wish I had never bought that cologne, or at least talked to Emily about it before wearing it. But what’s done is done, and now I have to live with the consequences of my actions.

My wife suspected me of cheating because I started using perfume, and I lost her in the process. It’s a painful lesson that I will never forget. From now on, I will always communicate with my partner and never take their trust for granted. Because once it’s broken, it’s almost impossible to repair.

CHEATING GIRL GOT PREGNANT, BF TOLD HER TO ABORT FOR REVENGE

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I got cheated on by my girlfriend of 4 years with a one night stand.

She ended up getting pregnant, and i thought it was mine until she confessed everything. She confessed one night while we were just cuddling, i have my suspicions but i guess she couldn’t resist the guilt. She started begging and telling me that she cut him off and everything, you know the drill.

It destroyed me but she only told me a couple days later that the baby wasnt mine. Thats when i lost it. She started begging and crying again and after days of her just trying to keep me to stay with her i told her that i would stay at only one condition.

The condition was that she would have to get an abortion.

She agreed and went thru all the steps to get it. After everything was finished i told her that i never intended to stay and that i made her go thru an abortion only to get my revenge after everything she made me go thru and that she deserved every bit of pain that comes into her life.

i kept insulting her for hours even on private stuff that only i knew. after that i told her to get out or i would call the police. i will never forget the face that she made. in that moment it made me feel good but only now i realized how f up it was. its been months since i last saw her and somethimes i get so guilty that my body freezes, my stomach hurts and start sweating and most time even crying.

all i know is she went to live back with her parents. and since we have mutual friends sometimes i ask how she is doing. but they just give me a look and mumble something. what should i do? please help

the story is more complex but i tried to keep it as short as possible.