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BF SECRETLY FILMS HIS GF DOING IT WITH HIM WITHOUT CONSENT

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BF SECRETLY FILMS HIS GF DOING IT WITH HIM WITHOUT CONSENT

our relationship has taken work but felt like a dream come true. This has turned Everything on it’s head. He was showing me something in his Photo App, and I noticed a thumbnail that was blury and looked like my body. I asked what it was. He said ‘oh yes, I took a video of us’ and I laughed it off in the moment.

Then my fear responses kicked in and I wanted to vomit. I had a panic attack.

Background: I am a previous victim of SA. He knows this. When confronted about the video, he first said “yes I took a video”. It then turned into “I took the video by accident, because my flashlight was on”. It then turned into “you should be flattered I want a video of my girlfriend, but I guess I’ll just watch other videos instead” and “don’t worry, I won’t ever want to do this again. I don’t even want to do it with you after this”.

I’m so much emotional pain, and suffering EXTREME emotional whiplash as only mere hours ago, our relationship was faultless.

He refused to reassure or comfort me, instead accusing me of painting him to be a predator.

Please help me.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Wait until he’s relaxed and take his phone and make sure he doesn’t have more stuff hidden or backed up anywhere. Delete everything of you from his phone..then break up with this trash bag. It’s not hard to not record people without their permission.
  • I’m so scared to ever invade his privacy like this. What if there are no more videos? How do I leave when just hours ago I was absolutely in love?
  • You aren’t invading his privacy you are protecting yourself. Even if there are no more videos he has at least one that you need to get rid of (really make sure he doesn’t have anything backed up anywhere and make sure to delete the recently deleted folder as well). You were in love with someone that doesn’t exist. He certainly doesn’t love or respect you and it shows.
  • He already invaded yours and then tried to gaslight you when you found out. Break up with this guy
  • Pack a bag and go to your mom’s. Let her call the police and have him removed. He sounds dangerous.

COLLEAGUES ARE JEALOUS THAT HUSBAND TAKES GOOD CARE OF PREGNANT WIFE

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COLLEAGUES ARE JEALOUS THAT HUSBAND TAKES GOOD CARE OF PREGNANT WIFE

I (32F) am currently pregnant with my first child (15 weeks along).

When my husband (35M) found out we were pregnant, he took it upon himself to drive me to and from work every day, and help me take things into my work place every morning and carry them back out at the end of the day.

I didn’t ask him to do this for me, and have insisted on doing things myself because I can, but I also think it’s sweet he wants to take care of me like that. I am capable of driving and carrying things just fine. However, he really wants to do this for me, so hey not complaining.

I’m not saying anyone should expect their spouse to bend over backwards like this during their pregnancy. However, since my husband has volunteered to do this, I am not going to say no to being pampered either.

I am not the first person in my department to be pregnant or have kids, but I am the youngest. My colleagues seeing this every day have made comments, but nothing rude. They just commented on what my husband does for me, which again is really incredibly sweet of him. However, their comments are becoming incredibly repetitive and annoying to hear as it feels as though they’re blaming me.

One of the coworkers (A, 36F) is a mom and went through a difficult pregnancy while working, while another coworker (B, 35F) is happily childfree. Both have been making comments daily about how I should stand up to my husband and take control of doing things myself.

A keeps recounting her own pregnancy and how her husband never did these things for her, whilst B thinks I am going against feminism. She said that she brought this situation up to her husband and his response was “If you’re expecting me to treat you like that, don’t get pregnant.” Which is pretty appalling imo.

B has even drunk called me on a weekend to inform me that I am going against the core values of feminism, which rubbed me the wrong way because it makes no sense.

Yesterday, A and B were at it again with their comments, and I finally snapped back saying “Sorry it bothers you guys that much that my husband loves me.” They both didn’t take it well as they became quite, and have been very distant since.

I did apologise for snapping, but nothing changed. I do feel bad. am i wrong?

HAWKERS MAKING USE OF 1% GST INCREASE TO UP THEIR PRICES BY CRAZY AMOUNTS

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HAWKERS MAKING USE OF 1% GST INCREASE TO UP THEIR PRICES BY CRAZY AMOUNTS

In the wake of the recent Goods and Services Tax (GST) hike from eight to nine per cent, concerns over escalating prices have taken center stage, with opposition politician and lawyer Lim Tean shedding light on the impact on hawker stalls.

Lim Tean, who heads the People’s Voice party, posted a photo of a notice indicating higher prices and raised the question, “Are You Seeing Similar Signs?”

A Notice of Higher Prices: Unveiling the Reality

The photo shared by Lim Tean came from Mr. Patrick Heng, who expressed his observations after the GST increase. Mr. Heng revealed that a fried carrot stall he frequented had raised its prices from $3.00 to $3.50.

A quick survey of neighboring stalls indicated that 50% or more had similarly adjusted their prices. Mr. Heng questioned whether those yet to raise prices would succumb to the same pressures.

Lim Tean, responding to Mr. Heng’s revelation, expressed astonishment at the magnitude of the price increase – a jump from $3 to $3.50. He emphasized that this isn’t merely a 1% increase but a substantial 16-17% surge, amplifying the financial strain on consumers.

Source: Lim Tean

Public Outcry: Evidence from Hawker Stalls

Further substantiating concerns, another Facebook user, Mr. Lawrence Chong, shared photos from various hawker stalls displaying notices of impending price hikes. One particular photo highlighted an announcement that prices for bee hoon, mee, kway teow, and vegetarian duck would increase by S$0.50.

The shared instances of hawker stalls increasing prices underscore the ripple effect of economic decisions on everyday consumers. As prices surge in response to the GST increment, concerns grow about the broader implications on the cost of living and affordability.

Source: Lawrence Chong
Source: Lawrence Chong
Source: Lawrence Chong
Source: Lawrence Chong

Netizens’ comments

  1. Don’t be so naive to think that it is just a 1 % increase. Since when have businesses increased prices by a mere 1 %? Minimum is 10 %!
  2. A slight increase – my foot! This is daylight robbery. The only way to force the price down is for the consumers to boycott such hawker centres.
  3. Cant blame these stall owners… they hv to do wat they must to be in business. They hv overheads to pay too
  4. Expect these type of shops to close for good too. Customers shouldn’t patronise those greedy ones that takes advantage of situations.

MAN CAUGHT BY WIFE “CHEATING” WITH COLLEAGUE

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MAN CAUGHT BY WIFE “CHEATING” WITH COLLEAGUE

I cheated with my female colleague and I feel very bad about it. What made it worse was that my wife witnessed the cheating…

I’m happily married with a wonderful wife with two kids. I work in marketing in an FMCG company and I’m constantly surrounded by younger female colleagues. Ngl, many of them are very attractive but I’m a faithful man who thinks with his bigger head.

However my life recently turned upside down. There’s this female colleague who recently joined, let’s call her G. G is in her late twenties and has a face and figure many women would die for and many men would go for. I was so surprised to find out that she was single (she gave me that information without me asking). G would constantly ask me for advice dealing with work matters and invite me to go lunch together with her batch. Sometimes we go for lunches and it’s just the two of us. G would constantly ask me what I was doing over the weekend and tell me what her plans were. She was actively using dating apps but none of the guys were up to her standards. She would often flirt with me (I think?) Like when we are alone she would playfully brush my arms and sometimes bump into me (too often for it to be by accident). She’d also tell me about her experiences with her dates and how they’re not good, and I’m so much better. I always felt a weird sensation whenever I hear that from her. It’s a nice feeling to be validated, but I’m married and it feels wrong.

One fateful day, as my wife had to use the car that day, she came to my office to pick me up. As I was walking away from the office with my wife, G somehow appeared out of nowhere and said hi to us and was extremely friendly towards my wife. G and my wife started chatting as if they were besties and they somehow ended up organizing a games night at my place that weekend. G said she’d bring her date over.

Fast forward to that day, G came with her date. Not sure why but I felt a tinge of jealousy seeing him. We decided to play some card games and I ended up partnering with G. This is when things went down. G was secretly texting me the cards she had in her hand and signalled me to read my phone. I got the hint and was trying to discreetly look at my phone. However, my wife caught me doing that and snatched my phone away and she saw the message from G. She acted like it was ok but after G and date left, she was so furious that I cheated with G during the games and my wife refuses to talk to me now.

How can I appease my wife?

Here are what netizens think:

  • sorry dude if your wife caught you cheating, you’ll probably lose custody of the kids and have to pay large alimony fees. just suck it up and offer 2/3 of your salary to her and hope she doesn’t divorce you. lol.
  • 5mins of my life reading that. 5mins that I will never get back
  • Clever twist leh, not bad not bad 😹 write a few more stories to entertain us pls

OLD CHANG KEE CURRY PUFF NOW $2, “HOW LONG MORE UNTIL BECOME $5, INFLATION HURTS”

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OLD CHANG KEE CURRY PUFF NOW $2, “HOW LONG MORE UNTIL BECOME $5, INFLATION HURTS”

In the midst of the festive season, Singaporeans were met with a less-than-festive surprise – the price of Old Chang Kee’s iconic curry puffs has reached S$2, sparking a wave of discussions on rising costs and the impact of inflation.

A Sign of the Times

The discontent was voiced by Shaun Koo, a concerned customer who took to the Complaint Singapore Facebook group on December 31 to express his dismay over the escalating prices of Old Chang Kee curry puffs. Sharing a photo of a price card, Koo lamented, “Old Chang Kee curry puff increase has been exponential. So fast hits $2. Inflation hurts.”

The shared image ignited conversations among netizens, serving as a tangible example of the changes in pricing dynamics. For many, Old Chang Kee’s curry puffs were not merely a snack but a nostalgic link to the past, evoking memories of a time when the same product could be enjoyed for less than a dollar.

Reminiscing the Past: Life in the 90s and Early 2000s

The online discussion took an introspective turn as users reminisced about life in the 90s and early 2000s. A time when a simple pleasure like a curry puff from Old Chang Kee didn’t weigh heavily on the wallet, and affordability was a given.

Beyond the specific case of Old Chang Kee’s curry puffs, the conversation broadened to encompass the wider concern of rising costs in Singapore. As prices of everyday items continue to climb, individuals are grappling with the financial implications, and the sentiment expressed by Koo resonated with many.

Netizens shared their sentiments on the changing landscape of consumer experiences, where products that once symbolized affordable indulgence are now viewed through the lens of increasing expenses. The price-value equation, once a straightforward consideration, is now subject to the complexities of inflation.

Netizens’ Comments

  1. Do you know how much money these companies can make everytime Gov increases GST. Every 1% increment these companies increase price by 10%.
  2. Won’t be buying .. simple. When sales is good, they will keep on increasing .
  3. Fondly remember they used to be 90¢ when I was still a young kid in early 2000s
  4. Come to think of it, I rather support curry puffs made by maciks in markets / coffeeshops. OCK too rich 
  5. by the time it reaches 2030 1 piece of curry puff will cost 5$
  6. Simple… All don’t buy and support them… They will have to stop increasing.. Just my suggestions..

STINGY HUSBAND REFUSE TO PAY FOR ANYTHING, MAKE WIFE PAY EVERYTHING

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STINGY HUSBAND REFUSE TO PAY FOR ANYTHING, MAKE WIFE PAY EVERYTHING

Stingy New Husband

2 years ago, I’ve remarried. Had a new baby, and 3 school-going kids from a previous marriage. I must say that I was quite independent after my 1st divorce, owning and fully paying for my own 5-room HDB. I even get full custody for the kids.

My current husband is earning more than me (more than $6k a mth). He doesn’t have kids from a previous marriage so it was his 1st with me. He loves his daughter ALOT, but he was SUPER STINGY. By saying super stingy, I mean, he does not:

– provide money for our groceries weekly

– never pay for our family meals if we were to go out together

– always expect me to pay for meals whenever we order in

– only gave $100 monthly for utilities, thats all

– does not fork out anything extra for e.g maid

– we own a car so he wants us to 50% the loan

– expect me to fully pay for the petrol

I’ve ever brought the topic up. But we always ended up fighting cos he told me that those staying in the house, most were MY KIDS and not his. Thus its fair that I pay, not him.

Recently, I changed job due to post-pregnancy stress. I took a $2k paycut. Tried explaining to him to help out with the monthly utilities as I am struggling doing so alone, but got brutally scolded by him instead. I ended up having alot of credit card loans cos whenever i don’t have enough, I am too afraid to voice out to him. Did not tell him about this, cos he will be mad if he knows that I’ve even used the baby bonus money meant for our baby.

I didn’t know he can be so mean and stingy, I really didn’t expect this from him. He had alot of savings (6 digits). All he cares about is making and saving money, nothing else… I developed anxiety and panic attacks thinking about this sometimes.

I never thought of divorce as I hate the process and going thru the agony again. And I am afraid I wont get to see my baby again, cos he ever told me that he will take her with him should we seek separation.. sometimes, I think about dying as it will be the best option for now…

I am super tired of all this.. really tired…

TOURIST 1ST TIME VISIT S’PORE & FOUND IT AMAZING, ASKS WHY LOCALS DON’T LIKE IT HERE

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TOURIST 1ST TIME VISIT S’PORE & FOUND IT AMAZING, ASKS WHY LOCALS DON’T LIKE IT HERE

I visited SG for the first time and I am absolutely amazed. Why don’t some Singaporean like their country?

I am an Asian American and live extensively in Asia. I been to China, Taiwan , Korea, Japan, Vietnam, Thailand, Laos, Malaysia.. currently living in Malaysia.

When I visited SG, everything is fantastic. Not just by Malaysia standard (very low bar to compare to) but even generation ahead of old decaying cities in the US and more robust and free than modern cities in China or Japan.

I have nothing but respect for LKY and his team. the modernization, people, nature, museum, healthcare etc are top-tier in the world. It’s literally a utopia city for me.

In reality, I hear Singaporean complain alot, choose to immigrate to western countries and saw quite a few negative comments on LKY and his party’s policy. Why is that? from an outsider, I am jealous of Singaporean.

Please give me some examples of issue that are not “first world problem” or “spoiled kid’s complain”

Add: THANK YOU ALL! I enjoy readying the comments and now understand the issues better.

S’poreans respond

  1. As far as I can tell most of the complaints are not due to how we are doing badly relative to the rest of the world. But on how some parts of the population are treated better or seem to be treated better than others.
    It’s human nature, people will complain when they feel they are treated unjustly.
    A lot of of the complaints aren’t even unique to Singapore. Such as on a housing policy that seemingly prioritizes homeowners over renters and buyers.
  2. Honestly, Singapore is a decent place to live, great even. However, life is a lot easier if you fit certain profiles such as being straight and married and being academically inclined.
  3. To quote LKY
    “You know the Singaporean. He is a hard-working, industrious, rugged individual. Or we would not have made the grade. But let us also recognise that he is a champion grumbler.”
  4. It’s a great country if you’re able to meet certain conditions, like
    -Getting good grades from a very young age (a big part of a child’s future is already decided by the age of 12)
    -Working in a decent MNC with good pay and work-life balance (local SME’s often don’t have this)
    -Getting married in your 20’s to another citizen or PR so you’ve early access to heavily subsidised housing (which is still a lottery, but it got slightly better recently).
    Otherwise life here can be pretty stressful.
    *The path to meeting these conditions can also be stressful for some, then it becomes kind of a catch-22
  5. I don’t disagree that Singapore can be a great place to live or visit, but this is subjective.
    If one earns a good income and is from the majority race, one is likely to have a good life – I am one of them.
    As we are a global financial centre and we attract FDI, businesses and expats, this is both a boon and a bane. For some Singaporeans, this means that foreigners compete for their jobs. It is also competitive and fast-paced in Singapore – it’s difficult to contest with this point. Look at the people on the roads and public transport – do you see many laid back people? The environment can get stifling for some. If you like cities, Singapore is great. For one, I’d argue that it’s “better” than HK.
    There are other societal issues, e.g.: how the minority are treated – the LGBTQ, different races, even though we espouse racial harmony. I won’t delve into that but other people may share a good response.
    With the above mentioned, I recognise and appreciate that I’m privileged, I enjoy Singapore, but not everyone in Singapore can say so.

MOTORCYCLIST KILLED IN PIE ACCIDENT, GF ASKED WHY HE WAS “STUCK” THERE, SEEKS WITNESSES

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MOTORCYCLIST KILLED IN PIE ACCIDENT, GF ASKED WHY HE WAS “STUCK” THERE, SEEKS WITNESSES

The start of a new year is typically filled with joy and anticipation, but for Heather Ng, the dawning of the New Year brought an unexpected tragedy.

Her 21-year-old boyfriend lost his life in a PIE (Pan Island Expressway) accident on New Year’s Eve, leaving her in search of eyewitnesses to piece together the events leading to the fatal incident.

The Journey Home

Heather Ng’s day began with a routine message from her boyfriend at 7:16 am, assuring her that he was on his way home. Little did she know, this routine update would mark the beginning of a tragic turn of events.

An hour later, Heather noticed something amiss on her app – her boyfriend appeared to be “stuck” along the PIE, with his location pinged at the same spot, unmoving. Concerned, she took immediate notice of the unusual situation.

At 8:15 am, Heather messaged her boyfriend, seeking answers to the unexpected delay. Another text followed at 8:34 am, expressing growing concern about the unfolding situation. To her dismay, there was no response.

The Rush to the Accident Site

Fueled by worry and a sense of urgency, Heather hurried to the accident site, only to discover the grim reality. Her boyfriend had been involved in a fatal collision between a van and a lorry along the PIE towards Tuas after the Toh Guan Road exit.

Upon reaching the scene, SCDF (Singapore Civil Defence Force) personnel were already in action. The van, overturned in the accident, had both driver and passenger trapped inside.

Despite rescue efforts with hydraulic equipment, Heather’s boyfriend was pronounced dead at the scene, while the 18-year-old van driver was transported to the National University Hospital.

At the time of writing, police investigations into the accident are still underway.

Desperate Plea for Information: Instagram Stories

In her grief, Heather took to her Instagram stories, reaching out to her followers and the public for assistance. She appealed for anyone with dashcam footage of the accident, especially those present on the PIE during that critical timeframe, to come forward.

In a subsequent Instagram story on the same day, Heather poured out her emotions, expressing the devastation of losing her beloved boyfriend. “It is really devastating to see you leave us so quickly, my heart goes out to you. I love you dearly and rest in peace sweetheart. You are really a good person and loved by many.”

Anyone with information relating to the accident can reach out to Heather via her Instagram.

Source: @heather.ngg on IG

AH TIONG BU NOT HAPPY MOUSE BIT HER, TAKES REVENGE BY BITING MOUSE BACK & KILLING IT

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AH TIONG BU NOT HAPPY MOUSE BIT HER, TAKES REVENGE BY BITING MOUSE BACK & KILLING IT

In a bizarre turn of events, a university student in China recently made headlines for an unconventional response to a mouse bite. This peculiar incident, which unfolded in eastern China’s Jiangsu province on December 21, left both doctors and netizens astounded.

Revenge for biting her finger

According to the South China Morning Post, while attempting to catch the pesky rodent in her university dormitory, the 18-year-old student fell victim to a surprise bite on her finger. Undeterred, she managed to capture the tiny troublemaker, setting the stage for an unexpected retaliation.

Rather than opting for the conventional approach of releasing the mouse or seeking assistance, the student shocked everyone by deciding to bite the mouse back. Gripping the critter in her hand, she left tooth marks on its head, marking a peculiar act of revenge.

Injured in the process

The repercussions of this unusual retaliation were not limited to the mouse. The student, as revealed by her roommate on Douyin, suffered injuries to her lips from sinking her teeth into the rodent. Medical records documented the peculiar case, posing a unique challenge for the attending doctor.

According to the roommate’s account, the doctor took some time to process and document the case. The unexpected nature of the incident added an element of perplexity to the medical examination, highlighting the unconventional aspect of the student’s actions.

Immediate regret

Subsequently, the student, using the Douyin handle @Linlinzhi, reassured her followers that she had received prompt medical treatment and was in good health. However, her roommate noted that the student expressed immediate regret and was too ashamed to show her face during the treatment.

The emotional aftermath for the student involved a sense of regret and shame. The unconventional retaliation, though perhaps instinctive in the heat of the moment, became a source of embarrassment for the young woman.

Contrary to expectations, the mouse did not succumb to the bite but met its demise due to suffocation caused by the student’s firm grasp during the altercation. This unexpected outcome added another layer of complexity to an already perplexing situation.

GIRL KENA DUMPED, CAUSE GUY GOT TOGETHER WITH HER BECAUSE OF A BET

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GIRL KENA DUMPED, CAUSE GUY GOT TOGETHER WITH HER BECAUSE OF A BET

I’m a female and is just like you. My ex dumped me 12 years back and claimed that he’s just toying with me and all that we have went thru in the whole year was merely a bet he made with his peers.

His family were nice to me during our courtship and I missed him terribly for years even after being dumped by him, as he was the only one I thought I could connect with intellectually and we could have a great future together. I controlled myself well and did not try to get connected with him after stabilising my emotions thereafter.

Couple of years later, I got married to my husband who loves me more than himself and I will not hurt him in any way. At times, I still look at my ex’s photo to relieve the memories, but I do not dare to connect with him as I do not wish to have any unwanted misunderstandings.

I still have many questions for him but because of my status now, I’ve decided to bury all in my heart. In your case, if circumstances permit, u may wish to reach out to him/her to get a closure if there was unfinished business. Wishing you all the best.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Eh ppl shouldn’t mourn and grieve their ex longer than the time of their relationship. Eg. If you have only been with him a year, you shouldn’t still be missing him after 12 years. That’s… really waste of time and energy. don’t romanticise the memories and make it greater than it ever was. It’s just a guy who don’t like you and moved on. You should be doing the same.
  • If someone already told you the reason believe it. Do not create questions in your head..You cannot live in the past..Men are simple minded so if he said it was a bet then believe it. It is what it is..There was closure. You just did not accept it as closure because the reason is painful.

There is no question. To him you are just convinient s3x. There is no human able to dump 12 years relationship like that. We are not even do it for a dog lmao.You are just his s3x object so be grateful with your current husband

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