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74 & 64 Y.O ELDERLY MEN FOUND DEAD AT COMMONWEALTH & DORSET HDB, BODY HAD ALREADY ROTTED

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As Singapore grapples with an ageing population, the unfortunate reality of elderly individuals living alone and being discovered deceased in their homes is becoming all too common.

This narrative recently unfolded tragically on Wednesday, 27th December, when two elderly men, aged 74 and 64, were found dead in their respective flats, according to Shin Min Daily News. Despite the stark coincidence of the incidents occurring on the same day, they were unrelated.

Block 50 Dorset Road: Uncovering the First Tragedy

The day began with a somber revelation at Block 50 Dorset Road. A 74-year-old man, living on the seventh floor, was discovered lifeless in his unit. The unfolding of this unfortunate event was brought to light by a 45-year-old neighbor, Rahman, who noticed an unusual smell emanating from the elderly man’s flat.

The neighbor, Rahman, had returned from abroad on the evening of 26th December. Initially attributing the odor to deceased rats, he informed the cleaner. However, as the stench persisted, suspicions grew. A 78-year-old retiree neighbor, Mr. Ho, revealed that the deceased had been an accountant, living alone for over a decade since the passing of his parents. Despite the lack of immediate family, the man was a familiar figure in the community.

The Singapore Police Force (SPF) confirmed the incident, stating that they received a report and promptly investigated. The preliminary findings indicated no foul play, although a thorough examination is ongoing. The elderly man, an accountant with no immediate family, had succumbed to circumstances unnoticed until the unpleasant discovery.

Block 83 Commonwealth Close: A Second Tragedy Unfold

Neighbors shared that the deceased, a 64-year-old man, lived a solitary life. Despite being in good health and actively participating in late-night corridor sweeping, he had not been seen for several days prior to the discovery. The absence of immediate family or regular check-ins heightened the sense of isolation surrounding his passing.

WOMAN KEEPS STANDING IN FRONT OF BROTHER-IN-LAW’S BED & WATCH HIM SLEEP

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Caught my sister watching my husband sleep for the 3rd time. Can’t make sense of this.

My f32 sister f30 has been visiting a lot lately, and spend time with me to talk about her issues with her husband.

She visits around the time my husband takes his nap in the bedroom. She’d usually sit with me in the living room but when I excuse myself to go into the kitchen and make her tea or coffee, I’d later find her in the bedroom standing where my husband’s sleeping.

This happened twice before she’d just stand near him and when I asked her she told me she was looking for something.

First time I believed her, 2nd time I was hesitant but now that she did it for the 3rd time (which was yesterday) I just stopped believing this was coincidental.

I couldn’t make sense of this even after I asked her she insisted she was looking for a charger, etc etc…. she sat down with me, drank her coffee then left shortly after.

Am I missing something.? My husband is asleep at the time obviously so he has no idea what’s going on.

Oh by the way we’ve only been married for 5 months so my husband is still not used to my family and vice versa.

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GIRL KEEPS BEGGING BF TO “PIAK” HER UNTIL HE BROKE DOWN IN THE TOILET

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Sometimes I feel forced to have intercourse with my gf. I’m so just tired of my gf begging me to have sleep with her or feeling forced to do it with her.

I don’t even know how to put that in a better way.

I didn’t think it would be so bad until we started living together. It’s not that I don’t want to do it with her at all, I just need a break sometimes and I’m just tired.

But she doesn’t take no as an answer even when I try to explain why. Even when she does try to sympathize with me I always end up sleeping with her anyways because she explains how she feels or sometimes I feel like she’ll break up with me if I don’t do it with her.

I felt like she was gonna try and do it today and she did. She promised we were gonna go straight to sleep after we got home today and then she tried to get intimate with me.

I told her that I just wanted to go to sleep

I had a whole breakdown over this in the bathroom and I feel so embarrassed for myself. I just feel used and tired. Not of her- just the situations.

PASSENGER WANTS DRIVER GO BIG ROUND TO AVOID ERP AND WANT TO WASTE PETROL

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n the world of ride-hailing services, there’s a common scenario that unfolds from time to time – a passenger requesting the driver to take a longer route to avoid Electronic Road Pricing (ERP) charges and, inevitably, wasting petrol. While this may raise eyebrows for some, let’s dive into the dynamics and reasons behind such requests.

Introduction

Navigating through the intricate web of urban roads, passengers occasionally find themselves wanting more than just a direct route to their destination. Some have a peculiar request – a big round to sidestep ERP charges and, interestingly, to burn a bit more fuel. Now, before we jump to conclusions, it’s crucial to understand the context and dynamics of this peculiar ask.

GPS Dictating Routes

Contrary to the assumption that drivers have free rein over route choices, the reality for PHV drivers is quite different. The route is predominantly dictated by the GPS navigation system. The days of drivers deciding the best way to get from point A to B are fading as technology takes the wheel, quite literally.

Lack of Request, Negotiation, and Arguments

In the PHV world, the absence of traditional negotiations and arguments is a defining feature. The passenger need not engage in a back-and-forth with the driver about the route or express preferences beforehand. The GPS takes charge, rendering such interactions obsolete.

Understanding PHV Drivers

It’s unfair to place the blame solely on PHV drivers. The lack of express requests from passengers before boarding contributes to the perception that drivers are not accommodating. In reality, many drivers are more than willing to consider alternative routes if only they were asked.

In conclusion, the request for a big round to avoid ERP charges and intentionally waste petrol is a nuanced aspect of ride-hailing dynamics. It’s not about the lack of willingness on the part of drivers; rather, it’s a consequence of the automated systems and the absence of explicit passenger requests.

UNCLE THINKS HE’S OLD SO HE CAN HARASS A YOUNG GIRL

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“You’re so beautiful; if I wasn’t working right now I would follow you home.”

How tf are we supposed to react to insane “compliments” like this?

I was at the airport last month, buying a water in one of the stores, and the older (60s) male cashier literally said this to me. And it wasn’t in a threatening tone, he thought (???) he was complimenting me. Like being stalked and maybe murdered is a compliment? That was the most surreal part of the experience for me; those threatening words delivered so casually, with a smile and wink. I even made him repeat it, because I thought I had gone temporarily deaf. Nope, he happily repeated himself. I just stared at him and quick stepped it to the baggage claim.

I wasn’t going to do anything about it, but my husband and two of my friends were horrified and told me to report it, so I went to a police officer at the baggage claim and told him what happened. I was freaked out for a few days after that, though; not because of the initial encounter itself, but because I was worried the guy would retaliate. I used a credit card to pay for the water.

Many older men are like this, they think just because they are old they can say or do whatever they want.

Just a PSA that if you’re a dude, and you think “compliments” like this are flattering, stop. and being older is not a hall pass. It’s not cute.

NETIZEN CLAIMS ONLY MEN HAVE NEEDS WOMEN DO IT BECAUSE OF “LOVE”, BULL

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A woman have sêx because she wants the man.

A man have sêx because he wants sêx.

You see the difference?

Sêx is a physical thing to a man.

But for a woman, sêx is both physical and emøtional.

A woman can have sēx because of love. But a man can have sêx because of sêx.

Before a woman can have sêx with you, she must have feēlings for you. She must have that emøtionally attachment to you, Not talking about those trāding their for møney in the name of Hoøk up, Stop it. Heaven is watching

That EROS dimension of love will be there.

Hārdly will you find a woman having sêx with a man she does not love. Except if she’s a prøstitute.

But for a man, reverse can be the case. A man may have no iota of love for you, and still have sêx with you.

This is why a man can hire a prøstitute just to have sêx. He doesn’t need to love the prøstitute before he fulfills his sèxual desire.

Now, understand this:

As a woman, a man can use you to feed his sexūal desires. He can even give you money. He can take you out. All because he wants sêx, not you!

If you want to know if a man truly loves you, don’t give him sêx. Sit back and watch.

If he leaves you because you don’t give him sêx, then he doesn’t love you. He only loves sêx!

Dear young adult girl!

As you’re growing up and getting closer to the journey of marriage life..pls try to understand that you can choose a husband for yourself but your kids can’t choose their own father,while choosing a father for them pls choose a father,a friend,a tutor,a prophet,and a guidance for them…

And don’t forget to be good mother you can raise a hero and not a zero

Wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made, so think deep, choose your prisøn mate carefully and sentence yourself wisely, to avoid prisøn break.

🙏

Class dismissed 🥂

CONTROLLING GF STOPS BF FROM MEETING HIS FRIENDS CAUSE FRIEND IS “HOT”

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So my BF and I have been dating for a little over 2 years and we are both in our early 30s, we started dating just before the pandemic and so when everything hit he moved into my tiny studio flat so we could isolate together.

After a while of both of us working from home and starting to drive each other crazy, he suggested we spend more time at his parents home about 1 hour away because we would have more space and I could attend my millions of Zoom meetings a day without disturbing him.

He is also an insomniac and night owl, so we have different routines. Everyone was so lovely we ended up spending a lot of time there over the months before we moved into a bigger flat near where we both work. As mentioned, one of the main reasons we were there so often is to have more space. Our new flat eliminated that need.

A couple of things happened that made me want to visit less:

  1. His parents fight really meanly with each other and also with my BF (not with me). There are horrible insults thrown, yelling, no one listens to each other, and they all seem to aggravate each other further. I am anti-confrontational and do not deal well with yelling of any kind. I also firmly believe in fighting fair.
  2. I got a new job and it was horrible as a guy went on a smear campaign against me. Anyway this made me, an introvert to begin with, withdraw even more. I did not want to see anyone or talk to anyone, in hindsight I was probably a bit depressed, not sleeping, just working etc.
  3. There have been 2 incidents where I have (genuinely) accidentally seen two inappropriate but not too crazy messages to women – one where BF was wondering what would have been with a lady whose profile picture was her naked, and another with his childhood BFF where she sent him a picture of her butt in some jeans to which he replied “sexy”.

So between these issues, I did not want to be going with BF to his home so often – the atmosphere at his parents always blew up at some point, I was not doing great, and our relationship was rocky and I was avoiding Sexy Butt Lady. He would ask, and I would politely decline and say he was free to go alone.

I found out this weekend that he went out with his friends as well.

He said he noticed I was uncomfortable visiting his parents and his friends (He have a hot friend)

I confirmed this and outlined my points above. He thinks it is weird/offensive to visit solo. I clearly stated that I am not responsible for him maintaining a relationship with his friends, and do not have an issue with him visiting his family/friends solo and have suggested he visit without me (e.g. when he asked, or when I was visiting friends/family solo).

I was surprised to essentially be blamed for him not going home/not talking to his friends as much as I always encouraged him to visit them and never even implied he should not talk to them. Now I am not sure if I was being unrealistic to expect him to maintain a relationship when I was apparently obviously uncomfortable with them.

But he accuses me of not letting him meet his friend’s cause that are females. Our relationship is going down the drain and obviously I’m feel insecure that he is going out with hot girls.

BUS DRIVER APPEARS TO BE “FALLING ASLEEP” WHILE DRIVING

In recent events, a disturbing video has surfaced capturing a bus driver displaying signs that suggest he might be “falling asleep” while navigating the roads. This alarming incident has sparked concerns about the safety of passengers and raised questions about the responsibility of transportation authorities in ensuring the well-being of both drivers and commuters.

Bus video:

public transportation plays a crucial role in keeping cities and communities connected. Bus drivers, entrusted with the responsibility of safely transporting passengers, are expected to be vigilant and alert at all times.

The incident came to light when a video circulated on social media, capturing the bus driver exhibiting worrisome behavior. The footage revealed the driver’s head tilting in a way that raised questions about his ability to see the road clearly or check mirrors and blind spots effectively.

Observations of the Driver’s Behavior

From the observable signs, it became evident that the driver might be struggling to maintain focus on the road. Whether this was due to a valid medical condition or other factors, the potential risks associated with such behavior cannot be ignored.

Potential Risks on the Road

Driving requires a high level of attention, and any lapse in focus can have severe consequences. In the case of a bus driver, responsible for the lives of multiple passengers, the stakes are particularly high

The importance of an alert bus driver cannot be overstated. Their focus ensures not only the smooth operation of daily commutes but, more importantly, the safety of everyone on board.

In fairness, it’s essential to consider the possibility of the bus driver having a valid medical condition. Medical issues can unexpectedly impact an individual’s ability to perform daily tasks, including driving. However, this raises an important question: should individuals with certain medical conditions be allowed to operate vehicles that carry the lives of many?

FOREIGNER STRUGGLING TO FIND JOB IN SG, ASKS WHY SOME S’POREANS ANGRY

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i’m just another foreigner struggling to find a job in Singapore

So I recently graduated from Singapore Polytechnic with a diploma in Media & Communication and I’m a Burmese national. When I was on Student Pass, I worked a few jobs with ease, part-time then full-time until the expiration of my pass. Now I have applied to more jobs and went to interviews that went really well until I see the interviewer’s face drop when I told them I need a Work Pass. Instant no.

The obstacle is…well, very inescapable and I’m constantly disappointed at the fact I may have gotten a job if it wasn’t for my foreigner status. Not gonna cry about it, obviously, there will be a local preference and I don’t do anything that’s high in demand. And often the companies I apply to have no foreigner quota.

I come here to ask for advice. What do I do? I cannot go home to Myanmar. I don’t have the option. There is no possible way to advance a career there at the current state, let alone find a job. I had the option of going to university in the UK until I decided over 20,000 pounds a year was way too much for a path I wasn’t even terribly excited about. My goal is to literally just support myself in Singapore, to pay for rent, food, survive, yanno?

Is there anyone on the same boat? Would appreciate any advice. I keep on applying to jobs, aiming for bigger companies but there isn’t a lot I qualify for although I think I have a decent portfolio and amount of experience. Thanks everyone.

EDIT: Most of you guys were very helpful but there are one or two people who are…pissed? Claiming that I took advantage of Singapore. I don’t know if their fierce “love” for their country is a common thing but geez, calm down. I truly valued my time here and worked really hard in my course. If you’re just hopping on to say “boo hoo, it’s your fault”, move on. I am not asking for sympathy. I literally asked for advice, and received it, thankfully. I already explained myself in the comments below.

DIRTY MASSAGE, DRUGS AND ILLEGAL GAMBLING & ETC, 30 PEOPLE UNDER INVESTIGATION

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A total of 18 men and 12 women, aged between 24 and 65, are being investigated for various offences, following a series of multi-agency enforcement operations conducted from 27 November to 9 December 2023.

The operations were led by Bedok Police Division and supported by officers from the Criminal Investigation Department (CID), Central Narcotics Bureau (CNB), Health Sciences Authority (HSA), Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF), Immigration & Checkpoints Authority (ICA), Singapore Customs, Land Transport Authority (LTA), Ministry of Manpower (MOM) and Singapore Food Agency (SFA). The operations aimed to clamp down on illegal activities in Geylang, including illegal gambling, vice activities, sale of illegal sexual enhancement medicines and illegal hawking.

The details of some of these operations are as follows:

  1. In an enforcement operation against illegal gambling activities on 7 December 2023, officers from Bedok Police Division raided a unit along Geylang Road. Cash amounting to S$730 and other gambling paraphernalia were seized. Four men, aged between 34 and 65, are being investigated for offences under the Gambling Control Act 2022. Under Section 20(2) of the Gambling Control Act 2022, any individual who gambles with another person in or from any place or premises in Singapore and knows, or ought reasonably to have known, that the place or premises is an unlawful gambling place shall be guilty of an offence and be liable on conviction to a fine of up to $10,000 or imprisonment of up to 6 months or both. Under Section 18(3)(a) of the Gambling Control Act 2022, any individual who conducts betting operations, gaming or lotteries unlawfully, shall be guilty of an offence and be liable on conviction to a fine of up to $200,000 and imprisonment of up to 5 years.
  1. Several joint enforcement operations were conducted by officers from Bedok Police Division, HSA, ICA, SCDF and CNB along Geylang Lorongs from 27 November to 6 December 2023. The joint operations looked into fire safety as well as sales of unregistered health products and illegal drug activities. Unregistered health products consisting of cough syrup and various purported sexual enhancement products with an estimated street value of about $15,300 and about 45g of ‘Ice’, with an estimated street value of about $13,800 were seized. Two men, aged 53 and 59, are being investigated for offences under the Health Products Act 2007. Those found guilty of importing, manufacturing and/or supplying of unregistered health products, may be liable to an imprisonment term for up to two years and/or fined up to $50,000.
  1. On 6 December 2023, officers from Bedok Police Division conducted enforcement operations against two massage establishments located along Geylang Road. One woman, aged 34, was arrested for an offence under the Women’s Charter 1961. Both outlets are being investigated for offences under the Massage Establishments Act 2017.
    Officers from the CID, Bedok Police Division and ICA conducted checks at public entertainment outlets and hotels as well as carried out anti-vice operations along Geylang Road and Geylang Lorongs.
  2. On 5 December 2023, five women, aged between 27 and 40 years old were arrested for offences under the Employment of Foreign Manpower Act 1990. Six women aged between 31 and 48 years old were arrested for offences under the Women’s Charter 1961.
  3. On 8 December 2023, one man, aged 24, was arrested under the Societies Act 1966. 
    Officers from the Singapore Customs conducted an enforcement operation against duty-unpaid cigarettes on 1 December 2023. One man, aged 32, was arrested for an offence under the Customs Act 1960. Seven men, aged between 30 and 45, were issued with composition sums under the Customs Act 1960 for possessing duty-unpaid cigarettes. Nine cartons, twelve packets and 38 sticks of duty-unpaid cigarettes were seized as part of the operation. Buying, selling, conveying, delivering, storing, keeping, possessing, or dealing with duty-unpaid goods are serious offences under the Customs Act 1960 and the Goods and Services Tax (GST) Act 1993. Offenders can be fined up to 40 times the amount of duty and GST evaded and/or jailed for up to six years.
  4. Officers from LTA conducted an enforcement operation on 8 December 2023 around the vicinity of Geylang, targeting the usage of illegally modified Personal Mobility Devices (PMDs) and Power Assisted Bicycles (PABs). Three men, aged between 38 and 49, are being investigated for offences under the Active Mobility Act 2017. One PAB, one PMD and one bicycle were also impounded during the operation.

Investigations against the 30 individuals are ongoing. 



The Commanding Officer of Geylang Neighbourhood Police Centre, Superintendent of Police Muhammad Firdaus Bin Abdul Raub expressed his appreciation to all the agencies involved for their strong support and commended the officers for their professionalism and excellent teamwork during the operation. The Police will continue to work closely with other enforcement agencies to clamp down on illegal activities. The Police take a zero-tolerance approach towards illegal activities and will take firm action against those who blatantly disregard the law. Members of the public are advised to report those engaging in unlawful activities to the Police.