Okay, maybe not boyfriend. We met in uni and have been dating since September (freshman year).

I have a super unreasonable and control freak husband.

He expects me and the kids to do things his way all the time (eg. the way we do/keep our things, how i hang the laundry, how we fold/hang our clothes, what time to do what, when to eat, etc etc). Sometimes we have tummyache just before we head out and needs to use the toilet, he will not be happy. He will lash out at us with unkind and impatient remarks making us feel lousy for having tummyache. When tummyache comes especially for kids, they also cannot control.

He is one who will always complain about everything except himself and gets impatient when things dont flow his way. He expects things to be ready or laid out ready for him when he returns from work, if we are home before him. Eg heater to be on, lights to be on Basically, he acts like a spoilt brat, worse than the behaviour of any kids. When cars road hog or get in his way, he will filter out and accelerate as if to show those cars he is unhappy. Seriously, like they will care? Why does he need to be impatient? If he is unhappy with us, he will drive recklessly and revs his car to show us he is unhappy with us and putting our lives at risk. For a man who will be half a century old in a few year’s time, still so immature?

Kids are not allowed to play happily or laugh too loud else he will shout at them to tone down. If he sees me sit down and rest before he does, he will be unhappy with me. But if i’m up on my feet and busy with things while he relaxes and surfs the phone, that is ok. Often he insults us with really hurtful words. It’s causing me and the kids a lot of pain and unhappiness all these years.

All these years, I keep forgiving him and giving in to him until I am very tired and it feels stressful living with him. I think its eating and rotting me and the kids up. Year on year, he just becomes worse and doesnt change no matter how i tell him his actions make us feel. Every few days our home will not have peace and i really hate it. He is also very petty and bear grudges for days. When this happens, he washes his hands off the household and doesnt care about the kids. HELP!!!!

“I met someone online who brings his mother along for our first date LOL. I wont go into details why i join rentbabe, but it did haha. So he texted me on the website for a meetup.

And after seeing his profile photo and his previous meetup reviews. He seems quite legit and he told me his staying NTU Hall.

Although, i was quite sceptical about one of his profile 3 stars reviews comments “Brought +1 without telling”. 

But i already got the payment from him and the meetup is out of my convenience which is at north spine.

So one day before the meetup right, he told me in DMs that his best friend was his mother, and that they spent a lot of time together, at first I thought “Awww that’s sweet!” And he talked about her nonstop, her work, her hobbies, the things she did, he even shared her picture to me which I thought was kinda funky.

We agreed to meet at one of the coffee place at North spine, he hopped out of his mom’s car and she waved and drove off, like 20 seconds later she shows back up and pulls up a seat, turns out she was parking the car to come join us LOL

The entire date was just her talking about her work and showing me old photos of when she used to play basketball, they sat REALLY close together and kept hugging and kissing each other’s cheek, it was so freaking awkward.”

I love my small chest! I am also barely an A, and when I go shop for bras, the salesgirl will give me strange looks. Not that I need the bras actually… ???? but maybe just a covering for modesty!

I heard people with big chest have difficulty in running! It’s painful apparently.

Small chests can work just the same as large chests! I have kids and they all have been breastfed with no issues!

Embrace your small chest!

Netizens’ comments

• ya, cant imagine carrying 2 weights 247 on ur chest

• Yea small cheats is easy to handle and managed by guys… actually what’s the definition of small chest huh? mine is B..

• Good that you feel confident about your small breasts. To each his own.

• I have a colleague she has philipine’s twin papayas, no one admires her for having the twin.

I never thought the day would come when I would be discussing the fact that my wife had been using my toothbrush to scrub her V. I know it sounds absurd, and it is, but it’s something that I found out recently and I’ve been feeling quite conflicted about it ever since.

It all started when I was getting ready for work one morning. I was brushing my teeth, as I do every morning, when I noticed a strange smell coming from my toothbrush. It was a smell I had never smelled before and it was quite pungent. I thought it might be an old piece of food that had been stuck to the bristles, so I decided to take a closer look.

That was when I noticed something that made my stomach turn: a small, white, slimy substance that was stuck to the bristles of my toothbrush. I had no idea what it was, but one thing was for sure: it definitely wasn’t toothpaste. I knew it couldn’t be coming from my mouth, so the only logical conclusion was that it had come from somewhere else.

At that point, I started to put two and two together. I remembered that my wife had been complaining about being itchy down there a few days before. She had told me that she was using a special cream to help, but I had no idea that she had been using my toothbrush.

Needless to say, I was appalled. I couldn’t believe that my wife had been using my toothbrush to scrub her V. Not only was it unhygienic, but it was also a complete violation of my personal space. I felt violated and angry that my wife had been using my toothbrush in such a way.

When I confronted my wife about it, she was embarrassed and apologetic. She told me that she had been using my toothbrush because she was too embarrassed to buy a new one. She said she had been using a special cream that was making her itch and she thought using my toothbrush would be a quick and easy way to get some relief.

I was still angry, but I could understand her reasoning. I told her that she should never use my toothbrush again and that she should buy her own. We agreed to never speak of it again and I decided to let the matter drop.

However, it’s hard for me to forget the fact that my wife was using my toothbrush to scrub her vagina. I still feel violated and find it difficult to look at my toothbrush the same way. I’m trying to move on from the incident, but it’s hard to forget something like that.

My advice to anyone in a similar situation is to talk to your partner about it. Don’t just brush it off and try to forget about it. It’s important to communicate and make sure that your partner understands why it was wrong and that it should never happen again. It’s also important to make sure that your partner gets the help they need if they are experiencing any kind of discomfort down there.