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XIAXUE DIVORCES FROM ANGMOH HUSBAND AFTER 17 YEARS – “WE HAD A GOOD RUN”

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Singaporean blogger Wendy Cheng, also known as Xiaxue, announced in an Instagram post on Wednesday evening (5 April) that she had ended her marriage with her husband Mike Sayre.

She revealed that they had been separated for a long time now, and will focus on co-parenting their son Dash moving forward.

She said in a lengthy Instagram post that she captioned “a note from Mike and Wendy”:

“After 17 years of being together, Mike and I have decided, mutually and amicably, to end our marriage. This announcement may come as a surprise to many of you, but we have actually been separated for a long time now.

We both took a long time to come to this decision, and it’s not an easy one to make. This may not be the fairytale ending that everyone wishes for, but 17 years is a long time and we had a good run with loads of love, happiness and memories we formed together.

Unfortunately nothing lasts forever. Our focus now is on co-parenting Dash and continuing to support each other as we move forward in separate lives.

To my ex husband, my partner in crime all these years and the father of my child, I wish you nothing but happiness for your future. Despite things ending this way, I never regretted picking you.

To all of you followers who have been here with us all these years, I’m sorry that this love story has come to an end. During this time, I know I sound cliched, but we would like to seek some privacy.

Separation is difficult, but it’s so much worse when you have to tell it to so many people – about a decision that technically has nothing to do with them.”

Got married 13 years ago

Xiaxue and her now ex-husband, American engineer Mike Sayre, first tied the knot back in 2010 and she gave birth to their son Dashiel Sayre 3 years later in 2013.

Images source: @xiaxue on Instagram

WOMAN CHARGED $608 FOR LOBSTER NOODLES, STAFF SAYS BECAUSE IT’S FROM AUSTRALIA

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A woman in Singapore, Stephanie, shared that she was charged a whopping $608 for a plate of lobster noodles at Paradise Teochew Restaurant.

She told STOMP that she had visited the restaurant at Ngee Ann City with her companions to celebrate her father’s birthday on 1 April, spending a total of $3,050.67 for about 12 people.

She said that she had ordered the lobster la mian, along with a few other dishes, which she described as only being “so-so” and not up to her expectations.

However, she highlighted the exorbitant price of the lobster noodles, which set her back $608.

She said that the staff allegedly told her that it was because the lobster was from Australia, and that’s why it was more expensive.

Stephanie added that the staff should have told her how much it was per gram at the start when she recommended the dish to her, and that she didn’t advise her on the prices first before taking their orders.

She added that the presentation of the noodles also came deshelled without the lobster head, tail or shell; and that there was no proof to show that the lobster was fresh.

She said that it might have been a frozen lobster for all she knows.

On her experience with the restaurant, she said that she advises people who want to frequent that “atas” restaurant to check the prices first before placing an order.

Restaurant responds

A spokesperson for Paradise Teochew Restaurant responded to the woman and said that they were sorry for any miscommunication.

They claimed that they only use fresh live whole lobsters and not frozen ones.

They said that they are sorry to hear about the customer’s unpleasant experience and “would like to extend our sincere apologies.”

They apologised for any miscommunication that may have arisen from the pricing of the dish, and added that while they do indicate the fixed price of premium Australian lobsters in their menu, they “understand” that not all customers may be aware.

They added that they will be “reviewing” their staff training protocols to make sure that all their customers are provided with complete information about their menu pricing.

On the deemed-subpar appearance of the dish, they said that they “understand that the customer may have expected a whole lobster,” and that they “regret any disappointment caused.”

WOMAN WHO LOST HER LEG IN PASIR RIS HORROR ACCIDENT, CRIES WHILE TESTIFYING IN COURT

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It was reported yesterday that 61-year-old SBS Transit bus driver Tan Phuay Khoo, who was previously charged for an accident on 19 January 2021 along Pasir Ris, that resulted in a 33-year-old woman being knocked down and sustaining serious injuries, resulting in her left leg being amputated.

He had pleaded not guilty in court for causing grievous hurt by driving without reasonable consideration for other persons using the road.

The victim, 33-year-old Bai, was called to the witness stand by the prosecution on the second day of the trial against the bus driver, according to Shin Min Daily News.

Traffic light’s green man was on at the time

Bai testified that on the day of the horror accident, she was on her way to the supermarket to buy some groceries.

She said that she had started crossing the road at the time when the green man on the traffic light was flashing before she heard a bang. She said that the next moment, she found herself on a hospital bed.

On her serious leg injuries, she said that her left was amputated from her thigh down after the accident, and her right leg was also fractured and had to be surgically reconstructed.

As such, she is no longer able to walk up or down stairs; or run, jump and squat without assistance.

She also said that she is not willing to go out anymore because she felt that she had become a different person now.

The victim also broke down while testifying in court, revealing that she has a 10-year-old daughter and sharing that she is worried about going out with her daughter after the accident.

She said that she is afraid of the weird looks that she gets from the public and fears it would be too much for her daughter, adding that she is worried about her daughter’s future.

The victim’s mother who was sitting in the public gallery of the courtroom, also broke down after seeing her daughter crying on the stand.

Bus driver maintains he had kept a proper lookout

The bus driver Tan Phuay Khoo’s lawyer, cross-examined the case investigation officer on 4 April, and argued that Tan had kept a proper lookout for road users when turning right with his bus.

The lawyer pointed out that Tan was seen in CCTV footage from his bus looking out for traffic and checking if the vehicle would hit the road divider.

The investigation officer agreed that the driver might have displayed reasonable consideration for road users, however, he still knocked down the woman.

The hearing into the case continues.

DRUNK MAN WHO PUNCHED CLEANER AT RUBBISH BIN CENTRE IN CIRCUIT RD, JAILED

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62-year-old Mohdmed Kassiah P. N. Sha was sentenced to 1-month imprisonment after pleading guilty to a charge of voluntarily causing hurt.

He had verbally and physically assaulted 20-year-old cleaner Ahammed Siyam, punching his chest in the process.

Another charge under the Protection from Harassment Act was considered for her sentence.

The victim’s employer, NRT Trading and Engineering, was engaged by Marine Parade Town Council to clean the estate, according to the State Prosecuting Office (SPO) Lim Yeow Leong.

What happened?

On 9 March at about 11.15 am, the victim was washing the toilets at Block 89 Circuit Road with his 48-year-old father Mr Babul Abdul Aziz, who was supervising.

The two Bangladeshi nationals then spotted Kassian sitting nearby, suspecting that he was collecting money from the people who were using the toilets.

Babul approached the man and told him to leave, but he later returned and attacked Ahammed at the Rubbish Bin Centre.

Ahammed was punched but didn’t fight back and called his father (the supervisor) for help.

However, Kassiah (the assailant) then called the police instead, claiming that he was attacked by two people at Block 88 Circuit Road.

Police officers later interviewed the assailant, who claimed that the victim and his father had assaulted him for “no reason” instead.

But the police officers noted that Kassiah was reeking of alcohol at the time and couldn’t provide any material facts of the alleged assault that he claimed, and was incoherent in his speech. His allegation of assault was also not substantiated.

The assailant was attended to by a paramedic, complaining that he had stomach pain and that he had too much to drink earlier, but refused to be conveyed to the hospital in an ambulance.

Meanwhile, the victim, Ahammed, sought medical treatment at a polyclinic in Geylang and was found to have suffered a mild chest wall contusion, and was given one day of medical leave.

The assailant, Kassiah, was subsequently arrested on 11 March.

Tin Pei Ling previously shared about the incident

Member of Parliament Tin Pei Ling shared on her Instagram about an incident at Macpherson, where a HDB cleaner was “hunted down” by a “likely intoxicated” man and punched in the chest.

The incident happened on 9 March late at night, at the void deck of Block 87 Circuit Road.

Tin said that the cleaners at the estate had been harassed by the man for a while now, and the harassment continued even on the day of Tin’s block visits.

She said that when the head cleaner of the estate, Babul, stepped in to defend his cleaner, the man then allegedly hunted down one of the cleaners and punched him in the chest.

Tin revealed that the victim was also Babul’s son, and that he was hurt by the incident emotionally; Tin appealed to residents to be kind and said the cleaners don’t deserve to be treated like that.

The Singapore Police Force is investigating the incident, and the assailant is described as being a man in his 60s who often drinks beer around the estate.

Tin Pei Ling’s Instagram post

Sth unfortunate happened today in MacPherson. Sharing the story here to raise awareness and hopefully, we can spread greater kindness towards those who work hard to earn an honest living.

Babul is an extremely hardworking man. He is very friendly and helpful, always on the ground to clean our estate and running around to check as well. Residents who know him have all praised him to me. Hence, I am very much saddened to know of what happened to him and his son today.

To all who have offered your well wishes to Babul, thank you! I have conveyed to him as well

RIVER VALLEY AXE KILLER WHO HACKED SEC 1 BOY TO DEATH, SET TO PLEAD GUILTY IN HIGH COURT

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A River Valley High School student who was charged with killing a 13-year-old boy in school with an axe, is set to plead guilty at the High Court later this year, in August, according to Channel NewsAsia.

The now-18-year-old is facing a charge of culpable homicide not amounting to murder, after his previous murder charge was downgraded.

His case was heard at a district court earlier today (6 April), with the district judge transferring the case to the High Court where the boy will be pleading guilty.

He was seen in court wearing a mask and sporting a shaved head, and his identity cannot be revealed due to a court order.

The 18-year-old had told the prosecution in a case conference last month (21 March) that he will be intending to plead guilty.

The court was informed by Deputy Public Prosecutor Sean Teh that a tentative date for the plea of guilty has been fixed on 7 August, with defence lawyer Joyce Khoo confirming that her client will be pleading guilty.

Recap

The 18-year-old River Valley High School student who allegedly hacked a 13-year-old boy to death with an axe inside a 4th-floor school toilet was previously charged with murder.

The then-16-year-old has since had his murder charge downgraded to culpable homicide not amounting to murder on 24 February.

The teen appeared in court on 24 February via a video link from his place of remand, wearing a white shirt and a face mask, and sporting a shaven head.

According to Singapore Statutes Online, culpable homicide is not considered murder when “the offender whilst deprived of the power of self-control by grave and sudden provocation, causes the death of the person who gave the provocation, or causes the death of any other person by mistake or accident”.

The reason for the downgrade was not disclosed.

If convicted, the teen faces a life imprisonment sentence with caning or up to 20 years jail with a fine or caning.

Background

The 16-year-old boy from River Valley High School was charged on 20 July 2021 with the murder of a 13-year-old schoolmate.

As the defendant is under 18 he cannot be named.

The defendant is accused of the murder which happened between 11.16 AM and 11.44 AM, inside a toilet on the 4th floor of Block D of the school. According to the prosecutor, the defendant was previously “treated” at the Institute of Mental Health.

The police received a call for help at the school at about 11.40am on 19 July 2021, and the victim was found with multiple wounds at the toilet, lying motionless.

The deceased was allegedly slashed on the head, neck and body with an axe that measured 50cm by 22cm on the day of the murder.

He was subsequently pronounced dead at the scene, and the axe was also seized as a case exhibit.

Investigations revealed that the victim and the alleged killer didn’t know each other, and that the boy bought the axe online.

Student saw axe dripping with blood

In yet another leaked Whatsapp message detailing the attack at River Valley High School that left a Secondary 1 boy dead, a girl was alleged to be the first to see the perpetrator.

The message appears to be a conversation between a parent and another identified party.

The parent detailed that the daughter was the first to see the attacker because the incident allegedly happened in front of her classroom.

She allegedly saw the boy (attacker) holding the axe dripping with blood, and his shoes were also allegedly drenched in blood.

Panicked students messaged their parents

A series of leaked Whatsapp messages allegedly from River Valley High School students detailing the “knife attack” at their school, circulated on Whatsapp

One of the students said that there was a male student holding a “v big axe (SIC)” outside their classroom, and that he looks crazy.

They shared that everyone was “damn scared” and that there was “literally blood dripping”.

In the other screenshot, it appears to be a conversation between a student and his/her parents.

The student corroborated the accounts of the first screenshot, saying that he/she saw a boy holding an axe.

The student alleged that three girls from his/her class saw a sec 3 boy at the water cooler washing away blood.

He saw them and asked them if they had a phone, because he “killed someone”.

The student said that classes 1H and 1G were hiding in the co-room.

The parent then replied “keep yourself safe”, and asked “can we fetch you now?”

WIFE REGRET HAVING BABY AS HUSBAND DID NOT HELP HER TAKE CARE CHILD AT ALL

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Husband refused to help with baby…

I was just wondering if this is normal in all married couples? That the husband regretted having a baby.

Hubby and I are married for 3 years now. We just welcome a baby 6 months back. We have everything planned out. Since we are both working, we get our parents to babysit when we work and we’ll take over after we ended work. As for weekend, we take turns to take care of the baby and do housework. We agreed that we both can get a weekend “off” every 2 or 3 months and we’ll get our parents to babysit.

At first, things are going well. about a month back, he started to complain about waking up at night to feed/coax the baby. He said he is tired and feels “overwhelmed”. He wished to go out during the weekend and hinted me to take care of the baby alone. I told him it’s ok to take one weekend off to work on himself. He went out drinking with his friends that weekend, got home drunk and needed me to take care of him as well as the baby. The hangover left him irritable the next day so it’s me doing almost everything alone again. The next weekend, he make plans to go out with his friends again, I told him it isn’t fair and I have been taking care of the baby for the whole week because he refused to get up on his shift. He cancelled the plan unwillingly.

He was very perfunctory when doing the housework. I actually caught him just mopping some of the “main” areas of the room and then claim it’s done. When the baby cries, he was reluctant to get away from his phone or he will wait for me to go first because he knows I care a lot about the baby.

I talked to him and his response was that he didn’t expect that having a baby can be so tiring and that there must be so much sacrifices.

I told him it’s our joint decision and our responsibilities as parents. He kept citing his sacrifices, as if I didn’t make a single sacrifice! In the end the conversation just ended with no solution as both of us felt “wronged”.

I am honestly hurt by how he seems to push all the responsibility to me when we both are working. At the same time, am wondering is it normal for husbands to regret having a baby?

FRIEND SAY NO MONEY TO RETURN 6 DIGIT LOAN BUT CAN GO KOREA FOR HOLIDAY

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What should I do when my friend owes me money and still blames me?

I was damn stupid to lend my friend almost 6 digit worth of money by bank loan even private loan, only for everything to be lost in a scam.

He told me cause of business failed all the money to settle his business debts. So I tried being understanding which he promise would return the money to me.

Really he don’t even bother pay me been 3years, I see his family going on trips to Korea etc. Which he using my credit card pay for it .

I posted he and his family recently on social media they’re fraudsters. He found out angry text threaten me said I’m a bitch , his family going to report police. He even text me give a chance to remove post. WTF… did he forget he the one owe me money didnt pay a single cents.

A lot of people say this money is confirm lost, he and his wife fraudsters. It’s not business failed actually their overspend. Because I don’t make noise, they keep taking advantage right?

The worse when i showed him all the transaction money he owed me. He say need check first correct anot. WTF… he said I’m one who screwed up friendship because of money

Here are what netizens think:

  • If I were you I would report him to police for stealing your credit card and spending it. No need proof. The proof is his overspending. If I’m not getting my money back, I’d be happy to see him rot in jail for cheating and let his family lose face and brand him with a criminal record cos nobody wants to do business with a criminal.
  • For 6 figures you can actually sue him if there is black and white. If he can’t pay, hire debt collectors to hamtam his family so that they Know that they cannot anyhow spend money.
  • No good friend will lend money to let him overspend. That is just killing him slowly when he is lazy, gambling, cheating and overspending without knowing how hard it is to work and earn that amount of money.
  • Never lend money to friends or even close relatives. If they need money, offer to pay the medical bills in person or write and IOU. But usually money lent to friends is money you don’t need and money you may not see again.
  • Hes playing u out to escape the payments he owes u. He paiseh because the whole people in his life will see this and be wary of his antiques. Tell him to pay u pay in smaller amounts, u keep track of the amount n balance. But frankly la, by the way he act, can see the money cant be returned. Take it as a painful lesson n stop lending ppl ur money permenantly. And cut ur friendship with him n whoever that u know who is with his side for good.

HK ACTOR BENZ HUI SHOWS UP AT AMK HUB BOOTH, HELPS DAUGHTER SELL BAKED GOODS

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Veteran TVB actor Benz Hui made an appearance at his daughter’s baked goods booth at Ang Mo Kio Hub, helping her sell her products and turning the location into an impromptu “meet and greet” session with fans.

Hui’s daughter is running a bakery and Hong Kong-style cafe here in Singapore, and he was in attendance at her stall to support her.

He was spotted on Monday evening (4 April) at a pop up booth in Ang Mo Kio Hub, promoting his daughter’s baked goods such as pineapple buns and egg tarts, while sipping on a cup of the shop’s Juju Milk Tea.

Many passing shoppers who spotted the popular actor, crowded around the booth and took pictures of him, with the place turning into some sort of fan meet.

The 74-year-old veteran actor was also happily obliging fan requests to take photos with him (as well as “of” him).

Hui spoke to Shin Min Daily News and said that he is grateful to everyone for their support, as he made light of his seeming celebrity powers.

He added that he will be making more appearances at his daughter’s baked goods booth over the next 6 evenings.

Hui’s daughter, Charmine, had opened three eateries in Singapore within 2 years, with her first entree into the Food and Beverage business being the Cafe Bakeaholic which was opened at Springleaf.

The second outlet was opened at Wheelock Place early last year, before she started the Hong Kong-styled cafe JUJU a few months later beside the Bakeaholic outlet at Wheelock Place.

Charmaine’s JUJU outlet, where her father will be making appearances, is located at Basement 2 of Ang Mo Kio Hub, in front of the Malaysia Boleh food court.

He will be there until 9 April.

Address

The pop up booth is located at Ang Mo Kio Hub Basement 2, 53 Ang Mo Kio Avenue 3, Singapore 569933; and will be operating from 3 April to 9 April 2023.

Images sources: Juju 津津 Wheelock Place and Tan Swee Yin on Facebook

WOMAN THINKS CAREER SWITCH IS A STEREOTYPICAL MYTH

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Is career switch a stereotypical myth?

I have been a childcare teacher for 15 years. Reaching 40 this, i decided to quit the education sector and to try working in the corporate industry ~ deskjob perhaps. A less stressful job whereby i can balance my work family without any compromises. Not implying that Desk jobs aren’t stressful but comparing to a teaching job.. It’s a better option…

But despite being a preschool diploma graduate with O levels and a Higher Nitec in Business Studies, It is very difficult to land an admin or clerical job. I sent out numerous applications and it got rejected over and over. witha staple reply – that my work experiences as a childcare teacher doesn’t fit their job scopes. Some would plainly say I had been a teacher with zero experiences in administrations.

Initially, I would explain myself that my career doesn’t only mean I teach the children. There are many other roles I did. Report writing, presentations, invoices, etc. But they don’t seem to understand or accept the fact that we are equipped with skills that would cater to a clerical job.

There are many other teachers who have had quit their teaching jobs to start something more different. But we don’t get the opportunities for the careerswitch. There are many instances whereby we are encouraged for a mid career change.

The mindset of stereo typing a childcare is not something new. But it doesn’tget voiced out. There are many ex teachers in the same plight as me. who are left with no choice but to go back to teaching reluctantly.

Are our skill sets not good enough for an opportunity to go to another sector? Many job adverts state our skills mentioned in our resumes but just because we clock in some many years in the education Sector as an educator doesn’t deem fit for the position offered?

I really hope companies with positions opened would consider us as a suitable candidates too.

INBRED FAMILY COMMUNICATES WITH EACH OTHER BY GRUNTING, BARKS AT OTHER PEOPLE

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A documentary on a family dubbed the “most inbred” in America, went viral after several news websites recently covered the story.

The Whittaker family from West Virginia, are so inbred that their family members are visibly disabled mentally and cannot speak properly.

According to a report by It’s Gone Viral yesterday (5 April) the family members are known to communicate with each other by grunting, and they also bark at other people trying to interact with them and run away.

Inbreeding is the production of children from two parents who are closely related to each other.

The Whittakers consists of family members Ray, Betty, Kenneth, Ray, Timmy and Lorraine; Lorraine, Timmy and Ray are siblings with their parents being double first cousins.

And through the multiple generations of inbreeding, the Whittaker family is 4 times more likely to suffer rare genetic disorders.

The YouTube channel that featured the family, Soft White Underbelly, spoke to one of the family members Ray, who responded to the interviewer’s questions with grunts and barks, as well as pointing and nodding.

He is seemingly unable to speak but appears to be able to understand the questions that he was being asked.

Dangers of inbreeding

Inbreeding refers to the process of mating between closely related individuals, such as siblings or cousins. While this practice is common among some animals, it can lead to a variety of negative consequences in humans and other animals.

Inbreeding can cause a number of genetic disorders and can lead to reduced genetic diversity, which can make populations more vulnerable to disease and environmental stressors.

One of the most significant dangers of inbreeding is the increased likelihood of genetic disorders. When two closely related individuals mate, there is a higher chance that they will carry the same harmful recessive genes.

If both parents pass on the same recessive gene to their offspring, the child may inherit a genetic disorder.

Genetic disorders can range from mild to severe and can include conditions such as cystic fibrosis, sickle cell anemia, and hemophilia.

Inbreeding can also increase the risk of birth defects, such as cleft palate, heart defects, and neural tube defects.

In addition to genetic disorders, inbreeding can lead to reduced genetic diversity, which can make populations more vulnerable to disease and environmental stressors.

Genetic diversity is essential for the survival of populations because it allows for a range of traits and adaptations that can help individuals survive in changing environments.

When populations become inbred, they lose genetic diversity, which can limit their ability to adapt to new challenges.

Images source: Soft White Underbelly on YouTube