So yesterday my girlfriend casually asked me how I prefer hair down there to be groomed. She usually keeps hers short, but neat.
I assumed she was just looking to change things up and wanted my opinion so I answered honestly and said that I find completely shaven attractive, but in the grand scheme of things I couldn’t care less, it’s not a turn off if there’s hair, and that I like the way she has it now.
Well it turns out she had had a lecture today at college (she studies psychology) and the topic was on peadophiles. Apparently one of the talking points was that pedophiles are attracted to the lack of body hair.
When she told me this, I asked her “are you seriously calling me a pedophile because I find completely shaven attractive?!
Can I just point out that you’re 21 and not 12?” She basically skirted around my questions and then stormed out of my apartment when I kept pressing her on it. As she left she called me revolting and is now ignoring my calls and text messages.
Honestly not even sure where to go from here. We’ve never had any issues and was planning on proposing in the next year. Where has this even come from?!
Netizens’ comments
Hi, I also studied psychology and in my analysis of her behavior, it seems like she went into this looking to create conflict with you.
I’m eating pizza and crepes by myself on my birthday and I’ve come to realize I’m not as important to my friends as they are to me
(I’m sorry if this seems like a pity party considering what’s going on in the world)
People wished me a happy birthday (the standard “happy birthday text/Facebook wall post, and I’m grateful for that) but no one came to hang with me to just eat (multiple people were invited).
I don’t expect gifts, I’m too old to throw a fit but it’s difficult not to feel the goddamn void of people when I’m just eating alone in my apartment, especially after two days ago we just celebrated another friend’s birthday, with a surprise birthday party(we’re all vaccinated), gifts and drinking.
Its been like this for 3 years now.
Maybe I’m that friend that people just tolerate but don’t really like. The pizza and crepes are good though. I’m grateful for that.
Next year I’m just gonna travel by myself to another country.
Netizens’ comments
I’m sorry man. I felt this way for a long time but I need them more than they need me. Unpopular and stupid thing to do but fuck it. Just learn to enjoy your own company.
This is a sad realization when you finally accept that most people are not there for you. If you can find one or two real friends they’ll last a lifetime…
I used to go above and beyond for people until I gripped that you don’t have to go above and beyond with people who know your worth and care about you.
So I recently moved to study overseas and recently found out my 16 year old sister did something that I’m pretty upset about. So my family had a party for me before I left and near the end I noticed that my Nintendo Switch and it’s games were gone.
I found it in my sister’s room and packed it and went to sleep to get ready to go to the airport. The flight and everything else went fine and while I was unpacking my stuff I noticed I couldn’t find my Nintendo Switch or any of its games. I was really confused as I distinctly remembered putting it in my suitcase. I called my Mom and she explained that my sister had taken the games and my Switch in the middle of the night and hid it so she could have them.
My Mom didn’t know until it was too late and took the game and her phone from her for a week as punishment. I am fuming. The Switch was given to me by a friend and all the games were either gifts or I paid for them and now my Mom thinks it’s completely ok to let my sister take something that is mine.
When I told her this she said I was being melodramatic and territorial and to let my sister have it. The next week my sister called me and was being a snotface about the whole thing saying stuff like “How does it feel to know you have to ask me to play games now? I’m going to sell it to buy vape”.
I told her that she is an entitled brat and told her “I’m not surprised you still don’t have a friend” My sister was shocked and hung up the phone. She has been having trouble making friends for a while now and told me I’m a jerk. I’ll admit I went too far but I don’t disagree with calling her out on doing that.
My sister has never done anything like this and my siblings and parents are telling me I’m a bad brother and telling me to apologize and let her keep it. I’m conflicted and need to know if I’m wrong because I feel bad and need to know if I’m the entitled brat.
My entire family isn’t letting me talk to her until I say it belongs to her.
So my parents recognized that she steal it but thinks that stealing is right for her just because she is under 18. I am really tempted to tell my mom that she is vaping.
A netizen shared how he was feeling sick one morning and couldn’t go to school, and his mother thought that he was trying to chao keng.
Here is the story:
How did my mother manage to make me feel bad for being sick?
Woke up and pooped my intestines out, tried to just eat something and get on with it because I didn’t want to miss school.
Told my mother I wasn’t feeling well and she just said to take it easy after school, fine. I ate something small and threw up in my mouth, told my mom this wasn’t going to happen.
She got visibly annoyed and when I asked why she said it was because I get sick so often and I’m missing stuff. I almost had my shoes on ready to go before I knew it was just too bad, does she think I’m doing this on purpose?
Netizen comments
If you are experiencing these specific types of symptoms often, you need to see a doctor to find the cause. Perhaps it is a gastrointestinal issue?
Nah don’t listen to your mum about that, I had a friend who did what your mum was saying (chao keng) but if you seriously aren’t, don’t feel bad…
I haven’t had a great relationship with my MIL, she’s stubborn and pulls tantrums when she doesn’t get her way. She shows up unannounced and gets mad when people don’t read her mind on what she wants.
She never ever comes to our house and always expects us to go there. I finally put my foot down and said I will not go to her house until she comes to ours and it will have to be a back and forth.
We invited her several times and she declined. She finally agreed to come tomorrow for lunch. I cleaned the house so well, bought $90 in groceries to make a bunch of food for them. We called today and asked that they come at 2 pm- guess that was a mistake.
She wanted to come earlier. She then said she will not be coming at all. We asked what time she prefers and she said 12- we said sure. She said never mind, still not coming, bye. Won’t talk to us now.
WHAT on earth goes on in this woman’s head? We were willing to change the time and because we didn’t guess the right time to start she now refuses to come over and she’s mad at us.
And I can guarantee she will change her mind last minute tomorrow and say she’s coming- I told fiance she isn’t welcome tomorrow now because I have plans. I don’t actually have any but I think she’s acting like a child and I don’t want to see her at this point.
Just needed to vent, this woman behaves like a 12 year old and it drives me nuts.
For the past two weeks, I have been dating my ex behind my current husband’s back. Although dating, maybe too much said, we mostly meet to “have some fun”.
I love my husband very much, he is tender, kind to me, in bed he is also good. I split up with my ex a few years ago because we argued constantly, he yelled at me.
My husband and I have been trying for a baby for two months. I don’t take birth control, we have stated that to make it last longer we will use the pull out method.
However, I want the baby to be my ex’s… I don’t want him to raise it, but I want it to have his qualities, his confidence, his determination, his hardworking, his masculinity. I don’t want to pass on that “softness” of my current husband to the child.
So for the past two weeks, I have been visiting my ex and letting him finish inside me….He knows I’m off the pill but doesn’t care, so I guess it doesn’t matter to him.
I think my husband will be a great father, thanks to just his caring nature. That he would raise my child with me to be a wonderful human being. But I don’t want to hurt him so I’m afraid to talk to him.
What should I do? Should I prepare to be a single mother? Or should I go back to my ex even though I don’t want to? Or, as I sometimes think, should I go see a psychiatrist?
Here are what netizens think:
If what you’re saying is true, then I’d strongly encourage you to break up with both guys today and go see a psychiatrist…seriously, ASAP. A baby is the last thing you need right now.
The child isn’t even created yet, and I already fear for him/her.
The first thing I would do is come clean to your husband. The second thing you might want to do i brush up on your genetics. Many of those traits you like are learned, not inherited.
A netizen shared how her husband doesn’t care about her birthday, despite all she does for him on his birthday.
Here is the story:
“My husband didn’t forget my birthday, he just didn’t care.
For his birthdays, I ask him what kind of cake he’d like and either pick it up or make it. I make sure he has time with his friends, I make reservations at restaurants (or during pandemic, pick up his favorite sandwiches or pizzas), I get the beers he likes, presents, and I keep the kids for the whole day so he has time to have be with his friends or play video games.
This year, he said “happy birthday” at 10 am and I solo-parented from 7 am to 11 pm like I do most days. He didn’t forget, he just didn’t care.
Some people seem to think I want some grand affair. The bare minimum would have been fine, and yes he knows I want some recognition for my birthday. He just didn’t do it. I wanted to get it off my chest before talking to him about it because what he doesn’t deserve is a bunch of verbal insults yelled at him in the heat of the moment just because I’m mad.
Also, it doesn’t matter at all what someone else would or would not want for their birthday; I wanted him to show me he cared and he didn’t, and that hurt. I don’t care if you don’t care about your birthday.
We talked and he claimed not to know I felt this way. I told him yes, he did know and he said “Yeah, I guess I’m just tired.” And that was it. I’m going out with my friends this weekend and having a bonfire in their backyard. Whether he comes or not is up to him.”
Editor’s note: Try ignoring his birthday, let him have a taste.
So fun fact the first (and only) time i’ve ever tried to have intercourse, i had an anxiety attack after i took my shirt off and after the other party calmed me down
I left quite quickly and never spoke to them again (which i feel kinda guilty about but then again they never tried to contact me again and we were never in an established relationship)
Snd since then i have actively avoided any kind of intimacy despite my craving for physical connection and someone who cares about me.
Yea im really touch starved and want a relationship but also dont for obvious reasons….so yeah
Netizen’s comments
May sound like odd advice, but why not find someone to help you get over it? If you’re into any genders and you explain the situation (how you fear intimacy), I’m sure a friend could help you get over it. I used to suffer from performance anxiety, I had a close friend agree to let us explore each other and after that I never felt awkward again in a bedroom.
In a significant move, the Singapore Food Agency (SFA) has decided to suspend the license of Ya Kun Family Café, located at 1 Jurong West Central 2, #02-K1/K2, #02-K4, Jurong Point, Singapore 648886, under the Points Demerit System. This suspension, lasting two weeks from 13/12/2023 to 26/12/2023, comes as a response to the accumulation of demerit points and specific violations committed by the licensee.
Reasons for Suspension
The decision to suspend the license is based on the licensee amassing 12 demerit points within a 12-month period. The accompanying fine of $800 was imposed for offenses such as the failure to keep the licensed premises free of infestation.
Duration of Suspension
The suspension period is set at two weeks, encompassing the dates from 13th December 2023 to 26th December 2023, inclusive.
The licensee faced monetary penalties totaling $800 for the specific offenses leading to the demerit points. Such penalties serve as a deterrent and highlight the seriousness of maintaining hygiene standards.
Licensee’s Responsibilities
During the suspension, all food handlers working in the affected premises must re-attend and pass the WSQ Food Safety Course Level 1. This ensures that they are well-versed in the latest food safety practices. Additionally, food hygiene officers, if any, must re-attend and pass the WSQ Food Safety Course Level 3.
SFA’s Perspective
The SFA takes a stern view of such offenses, emphasizing the need for food operators to observe good food and personal hygiene practices continually. This action is in line with the agency’s commitment to upholding the Environmental Public Health Act.
Appeal Process
While the suspension is a stringent measure, the licensee has the right to appeal. Information on the appeal process, including conditions for successful appeals, is available for those seeking redress.
Reminder to Food Operators
This incident serves as a reminder to all food operators to consistently observe good food and personal hygiene practices. Engaging only registered food handlers is crucial to maintaining high standards.
SFA’s Commitment to Action
The SFA is resolute in taking firm action against anyone found violating the Environmental Public Health Act. This commitment underscores the agency’s dedication to public health and safety.
Public’s Role in Reporting
In the interest of maintaining high food hygiene standards, the SFA encourages the public to report poor food safety practices in establishments. Feedback can be provided through the online feedback form or by contacting the SFA Contact Centre at 68052871.
Maintaining Food Hygiene Standards
It is essential for members of the public to be vigilant and avoid patronizing establishments with poor food safety practices. The SFA relies on feedback to conduct follow-up investigations and improve overall food safety.
Conclusion
In conclusion, the suspension of Ya Kun Family Café highlights the SFA’s commitment to ensuring high food safety standards. This measure, coupled with penalties and mandatory training, serves as a deterrent and reinforces the importance of maintaining hygiene in food establishments.
Superstar Kurt Tay recently took to TikTok to share a glimpse into his unexpected 48-hour lockup experience. In a candid video, the 41-year-old “uncle” from Yishun opened up about the challenges he faced during this time, providing viewers with a unique insight into a side of his life rarely seen.
In a video uploaded to TikTok Superstar Kurt Tay shares what it was like
Kurt Tay’s video begins with a straightforward acknowledgment of his age and locality. He dives into the narration of his 48-hour stint, shedding light on the circumstances surrounding his arrest.
Food Situation
One of the striking aspects Kurt Tay reveals is his struggle with the limited breakfast options provided. A small piece of bread became his meager morning sustenance, emphasizing the stark conditions of his confinement. The lunch and dinner offerings, however, included meat and vegetables, offering some respite.
Cell Conditions
Describing the cell, Kurt Tay mentions the presence of a toilet, highlighting the stark reality of being confined within those four walls. He touches upon the monotony of the environment and how it affected him during this period.
Emotional Impact
Throughout the video, Kurt Tay expresses a sense of injustice and unfair treatment. He narrates an incident involving another inmate who was later bailed out, leaving him alone in the cell with no clear sense of time and nothing to occupy his attention.
Public Reaction
Given Kurt Tay’s prominence, it’s inevitable that the online community will have reactions. Social media platforms are likely buzzing with comments and opinions on his unexpected ordeal.
Legal Implications
While the video provides a personal account, understanding the legal aspects of Kurt Tay’s arrest becomes crucial. Any information about the charges or reasons behind the arrest adds depth to the narrative.
