30.1 C
Singapore
Friday, May 8, 2026
Ads
Home Blog Page 2559

GIRL GETS TOGETHER WITH GUY FOR FREE MEALS, FROM BF TO SUGAR DADDY

0

A netizen shared how he is dating a girl who openly uses dating apps in front of him when they’re together and refuses to sleep with him.

He added that she would rather give her virginity to a sugar daddy for money than to him.

Here is the story:

“What should I do with my GF who uses dating apps while we’re together?

I’m a 160cm guy, got rejected by females way too many times and it’s hard for me to even find a girl who likes me back.

But well, I somehow managed to find a girl who agreed to date me but she openly uses dating apps in front of my face and often talks about her chats with the guys on there to me.

She would ask me what she should reply to them and even screenshot their chats and laugh about them to me.

She would swipe guys in front of me and almost every swipe was a match. My friends told me to break up with her but how could I, when I really want some affection from a girl and it took me so long to finally get a girl?

Breaking up isn’t an option, because as long as she’s willing to stick with me, I’m willing to do anything, even if it means enduring seeing her use dating apps and sugar daddy websites.

She said it’s because I don’t have money to spend on her, so she has to search for sugar daddies.

I swear this isn’t a troll because I know it sounds ridiculous – but she’s a virgin and doesn’t want to sleep with me. She would rather give her virginity to sugar daddies for the money. (she’s not even poor so idk why?)

She even told me “you no money what, unless you have money then you don’t come to talk to me about it”.

I feel hurt but I can’t tell her off because she told me “It’s my choice if I wanna use dating apps, you can’t control me. If you wanna date me, you have to accept that I’m gonna use tinder and I WILL continue to use tinder just so you know.”

She’s obviously threatening to break up if I try to control her…. and I can’t break up with her because I really like her and it’s not like I have other options…..

She’s pretty, fun to be with and although she doesn’t treasure me as much as I treasure her, I don’t want to lose her just because she is still on the lookout.”

Editor’s note: You deserve better bro, she’s clearly using you for the free meals and etc.

CLEANER AUNTIE NOT HAPPY WITH MAN FOR USING PHONE IN TOILET, SAYS SHE WAITED 20 MINS

0

In a world that’s constantly connected through smartphones, the boundaries of phone usage seem to blur even in the most private of places, such as a public toilet.

A recent incident saw a man having a heated dispute with a cleaner inside a public toilet over him using his phone while on the toilet.

The Viral Incident

The incident, which took place on a day like any other, was brought to public attention through TikTok. A user, Garygaryocp, posted a short video clip on Sunday, October 15th, capturing an exchange between a man and a cleaner in a public toilet.

In the video, the cleaner is seen reprimanding the man for being engrossed in his phone while occupying the toilet stall. She told him off for using his phone, to which the man asks why can’t he use his phone inside the toilet.

The cleaner then tells him that he can’t do that because other people are waiting to use the toilet, before explaining that she had knocked on the door, which the man responded that he hadn’t finished.

The cleaner than accused the man of hogging the toilet and not actually using it, to which the man when questions her and asks her how would she know if he hadn’t used the toilet.

She then revealed that she had been listing to him and heard no flushing sounds inside, only the sounds of him playing with his phone.

The man then hits back and asked her if she is trying to say that he can’t use his phone while using the toilet, and who gave her the “rules” that he can’t.

The clenare then pointed out that there were other people waiting to use the toilet, and she also had to refill the toilet papers inside the cubicle, adding that she had been waiting for him for 20 minutes.

The video then cuts off.

This incident, while amusing to some, highlights a genuine dilemma in today’s digitally obsessed world. It begs the question: when does using a phone in a public toilet cause a problem?

The Cleaner’s Perspective

From the cleaner’s point of view, it’s a matter of courtesy and hygiene. Public restrooms are meant for quick and efficient use, and phone usage can unnecessarily prolong one’s stay.

Additionally, the cleaner has a duty to maintain cleanliness and restock supplies. In a bustling public toilet, her frustration is understandable.

The Phone User’s Perspective

On the other hand, the man’s defense revolves around personal freedom and the right to use his phone whenever and wherever he pleases.

After all, in this modern age, a smartphone is a source of entertainment, communication, and information. He may argue that if the toilet stall has a door, it’s a private space, and he should be allowed to do as he pleases.

@garygaryocp

事情往往有两方面,在没有把所有客观证据摆出来前,就把人关押,实属流氓行径,有损国家形象…

♬ original sound – Gary

UNRAVELING A TOXIC ENGAGEMENT: WHEN AN EX’S OBSESSION TAKES A DARK TURN

0

This story revolves around a tumultuous relationship with an ex-fiancé who displayed troubling behavior. The engagement ended abruptly, with the ex-fiancé breaking things off via WhatsApp, even though they hadn’t been engaged for a full year.

What makes the situation more complex is the ex-fiancé’s subsequent behavior. After the storyteller moved on and entered a new relationship, the ex-partner began to curse and swear at the new partner, attempting to portray the storyteller as the one who left the relationship.

Here is the story:

CRAZY EX FIANCÉ

He broke it off while I was on my way to rectify the problem. It was via whatsapp. Didn’t even reach 12 months of engagement. He’s a narcissistic gaslighter. He acted all big and arrogant when he ended it. However, 1 to 2 months after I moved on, he started cursing and swearing my current relationship.

Making it look like I was the one who left him. I managed to get hold of his first ex and found out all the lies he told me. He started to stalk my tiktok for God knows what reason. I still have the screenshot before he blocked me off from all his social media. You can run but you can’t hide. You didn’t gave me a proper closure and now you’re cursing and swearing me like as if I was the one who left you. You are just a small baby hiding under your mother and sister armpit.

Conclusion

This story highlights the emotional challenges that can arise from toxic relationships and the need for proper closure. It also serves as a reminder that moving forward and seeking healthier relationships is a vital step in personal growth and happiness.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Is there a real need for a proper closure? It’s over. You can have a closure by letting go.. Having a closure won’t change the need to let go. As for him stalking you on social media? You choose who your friends are in social media. And you choose what you share. If I were you, I’ll never post anything on social media if it’s going to come back and bite you.
  • Speak the truth to whoever he has told those “lies” too while moving on with your current relationship. Hope your current guy understands what you went through and not allow you to undergo the same pain again.

GUY FOUND OUT MUM CHEATED & ONLY MARRIED HIS DAD FOR HIS LOOKS

0

My dad is revealing something quite saddening about my mom & why she cheated on him

My (23M) parents (50M & 45F) got a bitter divorce some 10 years ago. It was totally devastating and life altering for me. I never had an “explanation” then, their fights were just overwhelming at that point and I couldn’t bother. Individually I love them both, very much so.

Lately my dad learned that mom is getting married and moving. He was motivated to tell me about the reason why he hated her. Basically, he claims that she cheated on him and admitted to have never loved him.

According to him, my mom told him she only married him for his looks so she can have kids with him. I vaguely brought the issue to my mom and was taken off guard that she didn’t deny cheating.

She said this was preemptive cheating because she would always find out about him contacting ex’s all the time.

Back to my dad, he said that she’s lying since these ex’s were just his friends, and my mom only thought he slept with them in the past. He said she wanted to control him all the time and restrict his contacts with others. He actually teared up and said she ruined his social life and was extremely obsessive.

I’m shocked to learn about this tbh. I love my mom but I’m gutted to know that she actually cheated on him. I treated her with respect but now I’m not sure if she deserves this respect anymore. I’m talking to her again soon, idk what to say.

Edit. Guys with all due respect I’m NOT asking you for judgement on whether telling me was a good idea or not. I have been asking for this information for years. I want to navigate the information carefully, so please stick to giving advice on that. Otherwise just keep scrolling.

WOMAN PETS DOG ON STREET, GETS A CHUNK OF HER FACE BITTEN & TORN OFF BY THE DOG

0

In an unexpected turn of events on the streets of Jiangsu, China, a heartwarming encounter with a cute dog turned into a horrifying nightmare for a mother and her young daughter.

What started as a simple act of kindness quickly escalated into a vicious dog attack, leaving one woman severely injured and her face disfigured.

A Fateful Encounter

It all began as an ordinary day when a woman, dressed in a green outfit and carrying an umbrella, was walking down a street in Jiangsu, accompanied by her young daughter wearing black. As they strolled along, they noticed a large white dog lying down on the side of the road.

The sight of the dog’s innocence and cuteness captured their hearts, prompting them to approach it. The woman, still holding her umbrella, squatted down beside the dog, as her daughter followed along.

Mauled her face

Everything seemed peaceful and harmonious until the dog’s behavior took an abrupt and shocking turn. As the woman began to pet the dog on its head, the animal suddenly lunged forward, biting her face with a ferocity that no one could have anticipated.

The attack was swift and brutal, leaving the woman screaming in agony on the ground. The dog did not relent, continuing its assault and mauling her face.

Passers by came to help

Amidst the chaos, a man wearing a green apron rushed to the scene. He was later identified as the owner of a nearby noodle store.

Realizing the severity of the situation, he yelled loudly in an attempt to deter the dog. However, the animal persisted in its attack, showing no mercy to the injured woman.

The store owner then kicked the dog and managed to drag it away from the victim. The young daughter, standing nearby, was undoubtedly traumatized by the sudden, horrifying turn of events.

With the dog driven away, concerned bystanders gathered around to assess the situation. The woman’s daughter, in a state of shock, reached for her phone to call for help. The injured woman, her face soaked in blood and her hands trembling, sobbed uncontrollably.

A patron from the noodle shop rushed out to offer some paper towels to help stem the bleeding. Amid the chaos, the daughter was comforted by a compassionate bystander, who hurried over to offer support.

The injured woman, though in severe pain, mustered the strength to get back on her feet. With the help of the concerned onlookers, she made her way into the noodle shop, where they awaited medical assistance.

The Aftermath of the Attack

Despite the horrifying ordeal, the woman managed to survive the vicious dog attack. However, the physical and emotional scars from the incident left her face disfigured.

She had her cheek torn open by the dog, and her eyelid was also split in half and hanging loose, her lips were also torn apart and split from he attack as well.

Her daughter, thankfully, managed to escape from the attack unharmed.

Dog owner says woman provoked his dog

The owner of the dog, who remained unidentified, responded and said that his dog doesn’t usually bite and claimed that the woman might have accidentally provoked his dog and resulted in the mauling.

However, he said that he was willing to provide compensation to the woman.

FULL VIDEO LOADING… (Warning: Graphic images)

Images source: Weibo (Warning: graphic images)

MOH SLAMS SPECULATION THAT 14 Y.O SG SPORTS SCHOOL BOY’S DEATH IS LINKED TO COVID VACCINE

0

In the wake of a tragic incident involving a 14-year-old student from the Singapore Sports School, Pranav Madhaik, who passed away after feeling unwell during a fitness time trial, there has been speculation regarding the role of COVID-19 vaccination in his untimely demise.

On 14 October, the Ministry of Health (MOH) has since swiftly refuted the speculations and called them “untrue and irresponsible”, according to Channel NewsAsia.

The Tragic Incident

On October 5, Pranav Madhaik, a Secondary 2 student at the Singapore Sports School, participated in a 400m fitness time trial. Unfortunately, he fell ill during the event.

The school, following an investigation, revealed that Pranav’s cause of death was cardiac arrest with an antecedent cause of congenital malformation of coronary vessels.

This tragic event was, in fact, a result of a pre-existing medical condition and not connected to his recent COVID-19 vaccination.

MOH response

According to the Ministry of Health, Pranav had received his last dose of Pfizer-BioNTech’s Comirnaty COVID-19 vaccine more than 18 months ago. This information underscores the point that his vaccination played no role in his tragic demise.

MOH added that about 60 strokes and heart attacks happen every day, with or without COVID-19 vaccinations. It is highly irresponsible to link the two, and that for unvaccinated persons, the risk of covid infection leading to severe illness far outweighs that of someone who is vaccinated.

Timeline of events

On 5 Oct 2023, Pranav Madhaik, a 14-year-old student-athlete of the Singapore Sports School Badminton academy, completed a 400m fitness time trial at around 1826hrs. Timetrials and conditioning sessions are a regular part of student-athletes’ training plans.

Pranav went to the Badminton coach and reported that he felt unwell. The coach told him to rest as he had previously reported being unwell but recovered after resting.

Pranav rested at the side of the starting point while the Badminton coach attended to the time-trial data on his phone. He subsequently left the track to brief other student-athletes on competition matters, not realising that Pranav was still resting at the same location. The coach then left the school premises after the briefing.

While Pranav was resting, he interacted with two other groups of student-athletes that walked by. A few of them approached him and, according to their accounts, did not notice anything unusual with Pranav at the time. The last group interacted with Pranav at around 1835hrs.

At around 1840hrs, a Track and Field coach who was walking by noticed Pranav at the side of the track and approached him to enquire about his condition. The Track and Field coach asked a student-athlete to get water for Pranav. When the student-athlete returned with water, he made another trip to get cold water at Pranav’s request. Subsequently, after the coach assessed that Pranav had difficulty getting up even with help from other student-athletes, he activated the school’s Boarding staff to assist at 1845hrs as the Boarding premises were close by.

An ambulance was called at about 1850hrs and Boarding staff called Pranav’s parents at 1853hrs.

The ambulance arrived at about 1902hrs and conveyed Pranav to the National University Hospital at about 1919hrs, with the Badminton coach who had returned to accompany Pranav. Pranav was warded and given medical care. He passed away on 11 Oct The cause of death was cardiac arrest with antecedent cause of congenital malformation of coronary vessels

Findings from investigation

It was found that the Badminton coach should have checked on Pranav to ensure his well-being before leaving the track. He did not account for all his student-athletes before dismissing them from training, which was not in accordance with the school’s safety protocols.

The Singapore Sports School takes this matter seriously. The coach has been served a notice of dismissal. The School is also reviewing and strengthening all its safety protocols and emphasised to coaches and staff the importance of adhering to them.

Singapore Sports School has met with the parents of Pranav on the evening of 13 Oct and shared with them the findings above. The School extends our deepest condolences to the family of Pranav, and is supporting the family in their time of grief.

HUSBAND TOLD PARENTS HIS WIFE COOK FOOD LIKE GIVE PIGS EAT ONE

0

My husband doesn’t know how to cook. he also not a fan of the food I cook from my country of origins. Seeing him living off fast food motivated me to learn to cook his family’s common meals. It took me a while to get it done properly but now I can cook an entire list of his favourite meals. he praises my cooking and encourages me to learn more.

While we were eating dinner at his parent’s house. I had to excuse myself to go wash my hands after I was done. I left the table and my husband was still eating. as I was making my way back I heard his dad tell him to take it easy because he was eating a lot. he then asked my husband if I cook for him and if he eats well at home.

My husband said that I do cook for him but the food I make can only be fed to pigs not humans. I was hurt and so offended. I showed up infront of him and told him I will no longer be cooking for him after this comment. He was turning in his seat as I walked right past him, took my purse and said I was headed home. He got back later saying it wasn’t like that and that even if it was then I should be happy he still eats my food when it’s still “not perfect” yet. He said he was trying to protect my feelings and I hurt him when I said I won’t cook anymore.

ALL DBS BANKING SERVICES RESUMED AFTER YESTERDAY’S OUTAGE SAGA, DBS: “WE ARE SORRY”

0

DBS Bank services, among other online services, faced a lengthy outage yesterday (14 October) which resulted in a number of inconvenient situations for many users across Singapore.

Banking services such as iBanking, Paynow, Paylah, Paywave and Visa transactions were all down, and even physical ATMs were reported to be offline during the outages.

Earlier this morning, at about 9.25am, DBS issued a statement announcing that all of their banking services have since resumed to normal.

They earlier revealed last night that the service disruption was caused by an issue at their data centre.

DBS’s latest statement

[Update – 9.25am, 15 Oct 2023]

All our services, including DBS/POSB digibank and DBS PayLah!, have returned to normal as of this morning.

However, any customer who may still experience difficulties logging into their accounts via their mobile app can try to log in with digibank online/ internet banking using SMS OTP.

We are also aware that some of our customers’ PayNow/FAST transactions were interrupted when the disruption happened, and will be processing these with utmost priority. We will update customers on the status of these transactions when processing has been completed.

We appreciate our customers’ patience and are sorry for the inconvenience caused.

Statements last night

[Update – 10.10pm, 14 Oct 2023]

As we continue our service recovery, we would like to update our customers on the following:

• All our ATMs are now up and running

• Our branches, which were re-activated this afternoon to assist customers, are now closed.

• Some services, including DBS/POSB digibank and DBS PayLah!, remain unavailable and we continue to work to recover them.

The service disruption was caused by an issue at a data centre. The data centre provider, Equinix, has issued a statement on the incident (which affected various organisations) and is conducting a thorough investigation.

We will provide more updates as the recovery progresses. We sincerely apologise for the inconvenience caused to all our customers.

[Update – 6.08pm, 14 Oct 2023]

Our investigations indicate that the service disruption was caused by an issue at a data centre which is also being used by various other organisations.

We are doing our utmost to swing over to our backup data centre, and expect to progressively restore services from 7pm today.

Meanwhile, all our branches (except Tampines Central, Tampines One and White Sands*) have been re-activated and are now open to assist you. Our branch locations can be found here: https://www.dbs.com.sg/index/locator.page

We seek your patience as we recover our services.

Please be assured that our systems are uncompromised, and your monies and deposits remain safe.

*POSB Tampines Central and DBS Tampines One are being relocated, while POSB White Sands is currently under refurbishment.

[Update – 4.37pm, 14 Oct 2023]

Our customers are not able to access our banking services for the time being. We seek your patience while we actively work to resolve the issue.

We are reactivating our branches to assist you with your transaction requests

Please be assured that our systems are uncompromised. We will provide updates here as soon as they become available.

We are sorry for the inconvenience caused.

MID VALLEY SOUTH KEY MALL RESUMES OPERATION AFTER BOMB SCARE

0

In a recent incident, the Mid Valley SouthKey mall in Johor Baru found itself at the center of a security scare. However, the situation has been resolved, and the mall is now open for business as usual.

Evacuation Incident

The alarming incident unfolded when hundreds of people were evacuated from the premises of Mid Valley SouthKey mall and the adjacent St Giles Hotel SouthKey at approximately 6.40 pm. The reason behind this sudden evacuation was an alarm that had been triggered, believed to be related to a bomb scare.

Eyewitnesses on the scene initially assumed that there might have been a gas leak, but the truth was far more disconcerting. It was later confirmed that the evacuation was prompted by a bomb threat. This revelation sent shockwaves through the evacuated crowd, who had been awaiting further information.

The Johor Fire and Rescue Department, when contacted, affirmed their response to the bomb threat at the mall. They also noted that the matter was being handled by the police, which added an additional layer of seriousness to the situation.

Official Statement

In the wake of the security scare, the mall management released a statement to address the situation. Following a comprehensive assessment, the Johor District Police Chief (OCPD) declared the premises safe for the return of tenants, employees, guests, and shoppers at 12.15 am on October 15, 2023. This swift action was possible thanks to the diligent efforts of the police and the Fire and Rescue Department.

In their statement, the mall management expressed gratitude to these agencies for their quick response. They also assured the public that the mall would resume its operations as usual on Sunday, October 15, 2023. Despite the unsettling incident, the reopening marked a positive turn of events for the mall’s patrons.

Location Details

The Mid Valley SouthKey mall is part of the SouthKey development, which encompasses various facilities, including the Mid Valley Exhibition Centre, Johor Baru, two office towers, and one hotel tower. This development is a significant attraction in the area and serves as a hub for commercial activities.

Impact on Visitors

During the security threat and subsequent evacuation, many people who had parked their vehicles at the mall and hotel compound found themselves stuck for several hours. This inconvenience was undoubtedly a challenging experience for those who had planned to visit the mall that day. However, the priority was to ensure the safety of everyone present, which necessitated thorough investigations.

International Concern

The incident also garnered the attention of the Singapore Consulate-General in Johor Baru. They issued a warning to Singaporeans in the area, urging caution and recommending registration of their presence if they required diplomatic services. This incident serves as a reminder of the importance of international cooperation in times of crisis, especially in regions with close ties like Johor Baru and Singapore.

Conclusion

In conclusion, the security threat that led to the evacuation of Mid Valley SouthKey mall in Johor Baru has been successfully resolved. The mall has reopened and resumed its regular operations. While the incident was undoubtedly unsettling, the quick response of the authorities and the cooperation of the public played a crucial role in ensuring the safety of all those involved.

SCDF OFFICER TO BE CHARGED FOR LEAVING NSF ALONE TO FIGHT FIRE, RESULTING IN HIS DEATH

0

A 38-year-old Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) officer is set to face charges in court stemming from a tragic incident that unfolded on December 8 last year, resulting in the death of a full-time national serviceman (NSF), Sergeant Edward H Go, who was just 19 years old at the time of his death, according to TODAY.

The Tragic Incident

On that fateful day at Block 91 Henderson Road, a fire broke out, posing a significant threat to the residents. Sergeant Edward H Go, an SCDF NSF, was at the forefront of the firefighting efforts.

What makes this incident particularly disturbing is that his superior, a 38-year-old SCDF officer, allegedly left Edward alone in the housing unit to battle the ongoing fire without telling anyone, which goes against the SCDF’s firefighting doctrine.

The Charges

The police have investigated this incident thoroughly and have decided to charge the 38-year-old officer with causing grievous hurt by a rash act that endangers the life or personal safety of others.

The consequences for such an act can be severe, with a possible jail term of up to four years or a fine of up to S$10,000, or both.

The SCDF’s Response

In response to this incident, the SCDF has also taken action against another officer. This second officer allegedly failed to ensure the overall safety of the firefighting operation when he assumed command and control of the incident.

SCDF Commissioner Eric Yap has stated that a thorough investigation will be conducted in this case, and if any lapses are found, firm and fair disciplinary actions will be taken.

Recap

On 8 December 2022, SCDF was alerted to a fire at 91 Henderson Road at around 11.10am. During the firefighting operation, CPL Edward H Go (吴宏澤), 19, fell unconscious in the kitchen area. He was brought out of the unit and cardio-pulmonary resuscitation was administered on him. An SCDF ambulance crew at the scene also used the automated external defibrillator on him and conveyed him to Singapore General Hospital. He was pronounced dead at the hospital.

CPL Edward enlisted with the SCDF to serve his National Service on 5 January 2022. He began his 12 weeks of training as a firefighter on 3 February 2022 and completed his training on 28 April 2022. Prior to enlistment, CPL Edward was certified medically fit and assessed to be of Physical Employment Standards’ (PES) ‘A’. After completing his Firefighter Course, CPL Edward was posted to Central Fire Station on 4 May 2022. Since his posting to the fire station, he had responded to more than 20 fire and rescue incidents.

SCDF frontline units comprise regulars, Full-time National Servicemen (NSFs) and Operationally Ready National Servicemen (ORNSmen), all of whom are trained to carry out roles as Rota Commanders, Section Commanders or Firefighters. In a fire or rescue emergency, officers of these vocations form a composite crew to respond to the incident. All the training for these different roles and responsibilities are carried out centrally at the Civil Defence Academy through various firefighting and rescue courses.

CPL Edward was part of the first response crew for the fire incident on 8 December 2022. SCDF officers, like CPL Edward, put their lives on the line each time they enter the scene of a fire in order to save others.

SCDF is deeply saddened by the death of CPL Edward. He is our first colleague to have fallen during an operation. We extend our deepest condolences to his family, and are providing them with our fullest support. With the agreement of the family, we will be holding a ceremonial funeral to honour CPL Edward H Go.