I (18m) have always loved my mom because of what she did for me and my sister, but now I feel just hate and resentment towards her now.

This started in 2021 when she had thrown a small party for a UFC fight that was going on that night. I really didn’t care so most of the night i was on my phone.

I was asked many times to play drinking games with my mother and her friends but I don’t like alcohol and I don’t really want to get drunk around my mom. My mother on the other hand was enjoying herself and her friends were also.

Later in the night by 11pm many people went home, but there were just 3 guests, me, and my mother left. She and her friends were all enjoying their night by taking shots and basically just drinking a lot.

I had work in the morning so i had told them to enjoy their night and please keep the noise down so that I’ll hopefully get some rest.

After an hour of them basically not caring I come out to tell them please to be a little more quiet because I have work early the next day.

I was met with them not really paying attention and basically brushing me off the rest of the conversation.

There was one of her friends, let’s call him Larry. Larry said to me, “Hey just to let you know, it’ll probably be like this the whole night.” He gave a very we don’t care about you type attitude.

I was fed up at this point, they were playing music, drinking, and laughing so loud that i could hear it over the music.

I made a decision to move into my moms bed because it was a little farther away from where they were. To no avail I still couldn’t really fall asleep.

Fast forward to about 4am in the morning and I hear a moaning noise. At first I thought that it was someone watching adult videos, but then I realized that it was my mother.

To clarify my room and her room are basically right next to each other. She was getting intimate in my bed, in my room, where I sleep.

I was absolutely livid. It went on for a while, I honestly played music on my phone so I wouldn’t hear it. After sometime I find out it is Larry whom my mom slept with on my bed.

I wait until he leaves and it’s time for me to go to work, I get up and start packing my things. My mom gets up and I let her have it, I rip into her and let her know that she is disrespectful of my space and how I always respect her and who does this to their son.

It ended with us having a major argument and me moving in with my dad. We talked about it over breakfast on a later date and she apologized, but I don’t think I can ever see her the same as I saw her before.

I know that alcohol makes you do crazy things but I never thought to this degree. I have talked to her a number of times but recently I have blocked her from texting me.

I developed major trust issues with women because I thought they all were going to humiliate me like my mother did, I have major problems with anxiety so I now feel emasculated, my self confidence is non existent, and it still haunts me to this day.

My family is telling me to forgive her but I haven’t told them the full story because my mom doesn’t want them to know. I honestly am at my wit’s end, I still love her but I just never want to be put in a situation like that ever again.

Need relationship advice????

We have been in a relationship for almost 4years.

So my bf has a girl bestie he knew frm gaming, he already quited gaming since 2022. Thy don’t usually contact until she broke up with her bf in 2022. The girl doesn’t really have much friend and kinda negative/emo. So since she move out from her bf hse, she rented a hse nearby my bf house because it is near to public transport. She dont drive.

So whenever she need to rant or smoke buddy, she will ask my bf to go over her hse. Initially, I was like ok, she just broke up, u can go and console or be her listener. Bt then now already year end of 2023, she will still ask my bf to go for smoke/chat/ranting. I started to feel uncomfortable and voice out like why are you always available to girl whenever thy need ranting? I understand if thy don’t really communicate alot, something happened, and she need someone to talk to, but not like every month or every few month right? I really dont understand why sometimes the girls keep asking someone’s bf for ranting or like hangout eventho she know he have a gf.

So my bf reasoning was she doesn’t have much frn. In my mind i was thinking, he asked me to stop chatting with one of my guy colleague or even eat with him. His reasoning was he feel uncomfortable of that guy. So now i feel uncomfortable bcz of this, bt he keep saying that they are just brother/friend. He have to be there for her to rant. I don’t smoke, so usually he will smoke far away from me or whenever he is in the office with his colleague.

Anyway, idk what I’m saying anymore. Am i too insecure or my feelings is valid? Girls out thr, pls let me know ????

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In the quiet village of Wang Nam Khiao in Thailand’s northeastern province of Prachinburi, a wedding turned into a nightmare as the groom, Chaturong, opened fire, leaving four dead, including the bride, before turning the gun on himself. This shocking incident unfolded on Saturday, November 25, casting a dark shadow over what was meant to be a joyous celebration.

I. Introduction

A. Overview of the Tragic Incident

The serene village of Wang Nam Khiao was shattered by an unthinkable tragedy during a wedding ceremony. Chaturong, a former para-military forest ranger, represented Thailand in the Paralympics for swimming and shooting. However, this achievement did not shield him from the mental anguish that led to a horrifying act of violence.

B. Importance of Understanding the Motive

While the incident is deeply distressing, understanding the motive behind such crimes is crucial. This article delves into the sequence of events, the couple’s background, and the recent measures taken to curb firearm violence in Thailand.

II. The Wedding Day

A. Background of the Couple

Chaturong and his bride, Ganchana, had been together for three years before deciding to tie the knot. The wedding was anticipated with joy, but as events unfolded, it became evident that not everything was as harmonious as it seemed.

B. The Atmosphere During the Ceremony

Friends and family gathered to celebrate the union, but the atmosphere took a turn for the worse as the evening progressed. Observers noted a sense of unease, particularly in the groom’s demeanor.

C. Signs of Unease in the Groom

At some point during the celebration, Chaturong left abruptly, raising eyebrows among the guests. Little did they know, he was about to unleash a tragedy that would shock the community.

III. The Unraveling Tragedy

A. Groom’s Departure from the Celebration

Chaturong’s sudden departure marked the beginning of a horrifying chain of events. He returned with a 9mm handgun, turning a joyous occasion into a nightmare.

B. Return with a 9mm Handgun

The groom’s return with a weapon took everyone by surprise. The festive atmosphere quickly turned to chaos as Chaturong began his rampage.

C. Shocking Act of Violence

In an inexplicable act of violence, Chaturong shot and killed Ganchana, her mother, and sister. The bullets also hit two other guests, one of whom succumbed to their injuries at the local hospital.

D. Injury and Casualties Among Guests

The aftermath of the shooting left guests traumatized and the community in mourning. The injured were rushed to the hospital, and the authorities were called in to investigate the devastating incident.

IV. Investigation

A. Law Enforcement Involvement

Local law enforcement quickly responded to the scene, securing the area and initiating an investigation into the motive behind this tragic event.

B. Initial Findings on the Motive

Preliminary investigations suggest that the couple had a heated argument during the reception. Witnesses reported that Chaturong’s insecurity about his disability played a significant role in the dispute.

C. Eyewitness Accounts of the Couple’s Argument

Eyewitnesses recall a tense exchange between the bride and groom, hinting at long-standing issues that may have contributed to the groom’s emotional breakdown.

D. Groom’s Insecurity and Fears

Chaturong’s insecurity about his physical disability, stemming from a previous accident that cost him his right leg, seemed to have intensified on the wedding day. Concerns about Ganchana leaving him may have triggered the tragic outburst.

V. The Groom’s Background

A. Chaturong’s Past as a Para-military Forest Ranger

Before the tragic events of the wedding day, Chaturong had served as a para-military forest ranger, demonstrating courage and commitment to his duties.

B. Accidental Loss of His Right Leg

A mishap during a mission led to the loss of Chaturong’s right leg. Despite this setback, he overcame challenges and even secured a silver medal in the 11th ASEAN Para Games held in Indonesia in 2022.

C. Sporting Achievements in the Paralympics

Chaturong’s sporting achievements highlight his resilience and determination, making the wedding tragedy all the more perplexing.

VI. Recent Gun Control Measures

A. Thailand’s Interior Minister’s Decision

In response to escalating gun violence, Thailand’s Interior Minister, Anutin, recently signed an order to suspend firearm permits for a year.

B. Aim of Curbing Gun Violence

The government’s decision aims to address the rising concerns of gun-related incidents, providing a backdrop to the unfortunate wedding shooting.

I Like To Pretend Sleep So I Can Hear The Sweet Things My Boyfriend Says About Me

Whenever I’m asleep and he’s still awake, my boyfriend will hold me in his arms and whisper the cutest things to me.

He tells me how much he loves me, how lucky he is to have met me, how he can’t believe he met a girl so perfect.

He does this every night that I sleep at his house and he even does it on the occasions that I fall asleep on a call with him.

Sometimes I pretend asleep to hear all of the cute things he says when I’m passed out.

It’s not that he doesn’t say them when I’m awake, he absolutely does – I just love that he tells me even in my sleep that he appreciates me.

Netizens’ comments

• I think he knows and I think its awesome

• Such a rare thing you have in this day and age! Hold on to him support him make sure to end fights fast and with love in your voice and the love you share will only get stronger and better

• This post single-handedly restored my faith in humanity, there really are precious people like your bf out there <33

• I’m not jealous… I’m not jealous… I’m not jealous… I’m not jealous…

Is it just me or Singapore is getting even hotter?

I knew Singapore was getting hotter but I didn’t expect what was to come this year.

Usually I try not to use air-con but since the start of the year I literally have had to turn on the ac for most of the day, even at night, if not my room becomes a furnace.

Anyone else feeling the same? How often do you turn on your air-con?

Netizens’ comments

• it’s freaking hot… i don’t have an air con in my room, some nights i really couldn’t sleep despite maximum my fan speed

• It is super super hot. I used to stay away from the outdoors at 11 30 onwards to 330 cos you can feel the heat of the sun.
  Now by 930, you can feel the heat of the sun. It’s insane. We used to have more huge green land parcels. It’s next to nothing now. And we used to have huge rain trees for shade. Now we have thin narrow trees lining the roads. It’s damn hot.
  It’s concrete jungle everywhere and you can feel the heat radiating from the roads. Last time all schools had no aircon. Now they do have some aircon in some classrooms. Also buses, bus interchange, all shops in your town centre. Also town centres used to have shops. Now you have a mall using aircon throughout. Aircon makes the surround hotter.

• no aircon and never open windows also. ok lah. used to it.

The collective use of aircon makes the country’s temperature even worse so even if I could breathe without my nose getting blocked, I will not contribute to the rising temperature as far as I can help it