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MAID MADE TO CLEAN ROOF ON TOP OF HOUSE @ BUKIT TIMAH, MOM INVESTIGATING

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In a concerning incident that recently came to light, the Ministry of Manpower (MOM) in Singapore is investigating a distressing case where a domestic worker was seen precariously cleaning the roof on top of a house in Bukit Timah with a broom, according to The Straits Times.

This alarming event came to public attention when it was shared on the Complaint Singapore Facebook page on August 31. The post included photos and a video depicting a domestic worker clinging to the roof while attempting to clean it.

The Urgent Need for Investigation

A spokesperson for MOM confirmed the ongoing investigation and expressed the ministry’s concern regarding employers who fail to provide safe working conditions for migrant domestic workers.

The incident, as shared by a concerned individual known as Geraldine, highlights the dangers that some domestic workers face in their employment.

Geraldine, who shared the incident, disclosed that she and the domestic worker in the video had been friends while residing in the same condominium between 2017 and 2018, working for different employers.

She further explained that she couldn’t ignore the situation and wanted to draw attention to the unsafe work conditions that some domestic workers endure.

Ms. Geraldine, who witnessed and recorded the incident at approximately 11 am on August 31, stated that her friend had been instructed by her current employer to sweep the roof. This perilous task forced her friend into a precarious situation, and Geraldine felt compelled to share this incident to raise awareness.

With the intervention of the authorities, the domestic worker was promptly relocated to a shelter, ensuring her safety. The Centre for Domestic Employees (CDE) reached out to the informant and also reported the incident to MOM, and they reiterated its readiness to provide additional assistance to the migrant domestic worker if required.

A Troubling Pattern

The incident brings to light a troubling pattern where domestic workers are asked to perform hazardous tasks. Examples of such dangerous assignments include climbing ladders to clean high shelves or fans without proper supervision.

The Humanitarian Organization for Migration Economics reported that approximately one in five domestic workers seeking assistance from the organization had been subjected to such perilous work.

The spokesperson for the Humanitarian Organization for Migration Economics emphasized the importance of respecting the dignity and safety of domestic workers. She stressed that domestic workers should not be made to perform tasks that compromise their safety and that precautions should always be taken when they have to carry out precarious tasks.

Legal Consequences

Employers found guilty of instructing migrant domestic workers to undertake tasks that endanger their safety can face severe penalties. These penalties include fines of up to $10,000, imprisonment for a maximum of 12 months, or both.

MAN ARRESTED FOR MURDERING HIS WIFE @ KATONG HOTEL, VICTIM FOUND WITH SLASH WOUND

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A 30-year-old man was apprehended by the police on Saturday for the alleged murder of his 32-year-old wife at a hotel along Katong, according to The Straits Times.

The Grisly Discovery

The harrowing saga began on a seemingly ordinary Saturday evening around 5.05 pm when the man walked into the Marine Parade Neighbourhood Police Centre. He confessed to the officers that he had taken the life of his wife at a hotel located in East Coast Road.

While the police did not initially disclose the name of the hotel, The Straits Times reported that the grim incident occurred at the Holiday Inn Express Singapore Katong.

Upon receiving the alarming confession, officers swiftly made their way to the hotel room mentioned by the suspect, where they found the lifeless body of the woman, bearing a slash wound, lying motionless.

She was subsequently pronounced dead at the scene.

The man, who had voluntarily turned himself in, was promptly arrested at the Marine Parade Neighbourhood Police Centre. A knife believed to be the murder weapon was discovered in the hotel room and seized as well.

The police have announced that the suspect will be charged with murder, and he is set to appear in court on Monday. In Singapore, individuals convicted of murder can face severe penalties, including the death penalty or life imprisonment coupled with caning.

A Community in Shock

The news of the murder quickly spread, and by 10 pm, the area around Katong Square was abuzz with at least four police vehicles.

Curious onlookers wondered why such a significant police presence was required. Hotel guests, who had been oblivious to the unfolding tragedy, expressed their astonishment at learning about it through the media rather than from the hotel staff.

Mr. Souren Tanwani, the owner of Butter and Spice eatery, located just across the road from the hotel, spoke to ST and described the incident as “alarming.” He recalled arriving at his eatery around 5.45 pm and seeing numerous police vehicles in the vicinity. The subsequent revelation that it was a murder sent chills down his spine.

The Mysterious Silence

In the midst of this tragic episode, the hotel remained tight-lipped. A hotel representative declined to comment on the incident and directed inquiries to the police for further information.

At the time of writing, police investigations into the alleged murder are currently underway, and the man is expected to be charged in court on Monday.

S’PORE “AXE-MAN” WHO KICKED POLICEMAN & CONFRONTED THEM WITH AXE, JAILED & CANED

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26-year-old Manohar Thirunavukkarasu, was sentenced on 8 September to 6 months and 14 weeks imprisonment, as well as 6 strokes of the cane for a number of offences, including kicking a police officer and being in possession of an offensive weapon.

He was seen in a video armed with a 40.2cm axe which he had bought for $11, which he used for his “personal safety” because he was homeless, according to The Straits Times.

What happened?

On April 11, Manohar had consumed alcohol when he spotted a group of elderly men in the company of a woman in her 30s around Stamford Road.

Sensing that the woman appeared to be in an uncomfortable situation, he approached her and urged her to leave for her own safety.

However, the woman refused to heed his advice, leading to a confrontation. One of the elderly men, in his seventies, confronted Manohar, asking him about his intentions and pushing him.

In response to the physical provocation, Manohar’s anger boiled over. He punched and kicked the elderly man in the head, causing significant injuries, before he also slapped the woman across the face.

A Run-In with the Law

Moments later, Manohar then had an encounter with the police. Dashcam footage captured him approaching two police officers while wielding the axe at a traffic junction on Stamford Road.

The situation escalated quickly, with the officers drawing their weapons. Fortunately, Manohar threw the axe to the ground and surrendered, allowing for his arrest.

During his interaction with the police at the scene, Manohar displayed alarming behavior. He had insulted an officer with derogatory language, telling one of them ro “shut the f up” and “you relax for one second you see what happen to your face.” Despite multiple warnings, he even physically assaulted the same officer by kicking him.

Legal Consequences

The consequences of Manohar’s actions were severe. He faced a total of five charges related to the events of April 11, 2023, which were as follows:

  1. Using insulting words on a police officer.
  2. Assaulting the police officer by kicking him.
  3. Voluntarily causing hurt to an elderly man.
  4. Being in possession of an offensive weapon
  5. Voluntarily causing hurt to a woman.

In addition to these charges, Manohar was also charged for three other incidents:

  1. Trespassing into a condominium complex, Sophia Residence, along Sophia Road on February 26, 2023.
  2. Two charges stemming from an incident on March 4, 2023, where he sent photos of his private parts to a woman and insulting her, calling her the Tamil word for prostitute.

GIRL REVEALS ADDING EXTRA PADDING IN HER BRA TO MAKE HER CHEST LOOK BIG

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A girl shared how she is described as being flat and so she adds extra padding inside her bra to make her chest look 5 times bigger.

Here is the story:

“Long story short -I’ve always had tiny chest, pretty much non existent.

Back at the start of secondary school, I became very self conscious about them because I had been called flat and simply wanted bigger a chest.

Ever since then I’ve used padded bras but have always thought they were still too small so added another layer of padding to the bras so I’ve been wearing “double padded” bras for years now and it makes my chest look 5 times larger than they actually are.

I don’t know what to do because now as I’ve grown up I actually prefer my smaller chest.

Yet everyone thinks I have a big chest and it’s stops me from ever considering going out with a guy because they think my chest is big.

When in reality I have nothing there and I can’t exactly just remove the padding and be like sike u thought.”

GUY HAD DREAM DATE BUT ASKS HER TO SPLIT THE BILL

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A guy shared a story of how he went out for a date with the girl of his dreams but made a big mistake asking her to split the bill when the waiter handed the bill over.

The bill $10 and it got his dream date sitting there in a shock with stunned silence.

Here is the story

“This happened several years ago. I really don’t think about it much anymore but I figured I might as well share at this point.

I was introduced to my friend’s cousin who just so happened to be the most beautiful person I had ever seen. If I remember correctly, the first few times I saw her I got a nosebleed. No coincidence… Something about her I guess? Lol… The nosebleed wasn’t that bad though, but I would have to keep tissues around just in case I sneezed and made a mess… Didn’t happen… phew.

But this girl actually liked me. What a confidence booster! The thing is… I’ve always been horrible at asking girls out. The only chances I had were when I happened to see her after my friend invited her and his sister over to hang out. Didn’t happen much. But when it did, I still didn’t make any moves. I eventually asked his sister for her number. And she wanted to go out with me!

I made plans to go to the zoo. And… it wasn’t all that bad. We had some things in common, not a whole lot, but some. Not the best chemistry, honestly I tried… But eventually we ran out of things to look at and do, so she wanted to go get food or grab a drink.

Rule #1: ALWAYS have a backup plan

I didn’t know where to go. But we made a quick decision to get some wine at this restaurant nearby. We head over, I open the door for her in an awkward fashion, go to our seats and just order two glasses of wine.

Now, trust me when I say this… I am horrible with wine. Or at least I used to be. At the time I didn’t drink it very often so I wouldn’t know when to stop drinking it. It would hit me differently than beer. Anyways, our conversation started out pretty good… then ok… then, well, you get what I mean. It wasn’t working out that well. Especially when she asked me if I liked pineapple on pizza and I said no. I think she put her head down in shame.

After that I noticed that she kinda lost interest. She was looking at her phone a lot, while I was trying to initiate conversation. Rude? A little, but I got the point after awhile.

I ask for the bill. The waiter comes back around with the bill. I ask her if she wanted to split the bill. She insisted to split it. I probably should have paid the bill. It was just two glasses of wine. At the same time, in the back of my head, I knew it wouldn’t work out anyways. So I told the waiter that we’ll like to split the bill.

She sat there just looking at me with an awkward silence. It must have gone on for at least 10-15 seconds. What is going on? Is this a dream? I looked around to see if anyone else was looking at me like in Inception. Nope. It was real… I had no idea what was going on. I repeated, can we split the bill?

I already had my credit card in my hand and she took the card from my hand and handed it to the waiter. I was embarrassed from there on out.

So that’s it, no second date. Haven’t seen her much since. Yeah I should’ve just paid the whole bill. It was like $10 some more because of happy hour.

Rule #2: Insist to pay the bill on a first date, it’s not a big deal”

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GUY WHO HAS NEVER BEEN SUCCESSFUL WITH GIRLS, GIVES UP ON DATING

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A guy shared how he has been unsuccessful with girls and can’t seem to find a girlfriend, and he is giving up on the whole dating scene.

Here is the story:

Dating life is over for me

I will never be good enough for a girl. most of these girls already be having a boyfriend, are stuck on their ex, or are already seeing someone.

I went out, I approached girls at my retail job, in public, and they always say they have a boyfriend, or when they gave me their number’s they always led me on.

I’m nobody’s type, I hate my body type (I’m not fat), I have big thighs and calves. the outfit I wear dont even look right because of my body type and girls like skinny dudes.

I will always be someone’s last option or not even an option at all. I’m not good enough for anybody.

I don’t understand, my personality is funny and I always make people laugh, and people tell me I’m cool to talk to or vent to.

What’s wrong?

I think will never meet someone. I will always be someone’s last option, never someone’s priority.

I feel like that “focus on yourself” thing is bs. My friend has no car, still lives with his parents, working a crappy job at 27, and he still manages to get girls or a relationship.

My other friend is an introvert and he is shy to approach women in public, but he gets all types of girls on Instagram.

I’m starting to think it’s luck. I’m tired of hearing this pseudo advice. I’m done with dating altogether.

Editor’s note: Well with an attitude like that, I’m surprised you even have friends, much less a girlfriend.

ATTENTION SEEKING GF WANTS TO WEAR “OFFENSIVE” DRESS TO WEDDING

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My girlfriend “Nat” has a very particular sense of style. Picture Harley Finkle from wizards of Waverly place, you will get the idea. Don’t get me wrong, I never had a problem with that!

In fact, I love the way she dresses because she loves to do so, and I am happy if she is happy. The thing is, sometimes she likes to incorporate memes into her clothes. No problem. It’s cute. But now she wants to wear a dress inspired by the meme “gay rat wedding”.

To my friend’s wedding. He and his fiancé are not gay but he has a brother who is gay. I told her, maybe that is not really appropriate? The dress in question would be full of little stuffed rats, pride flags and a big “I SUPPORT GAY RATS” on the front.

My friend is not a big fan of the way my GF dresses and I think this dress may cause a certain uproar at the wedding. Now, nat is upset with me and claiming that I am “throwing water in her flame of creativity”.

The wedding is next month, so she has plenty of time to think about another thing to wear. Should I just let her go with the dress? Am I the bad guy in this situation?

Here are what netizens think:

  • That’s very inappropriate for a wedding. Not to mention, kinda insulting.
  • It’s their day, the newlyweds should be the center of attention. And they explicitly said they doesn’t like this. Why would you do something the grooms disapprove of at their wedding? Either you want attention, or you want to piss off the grooms.
  • Yes, the main thing I was thinking is she sounds like she can’t stand attention being anywhere but on her. She would be exhausting.
  • Being creative is fantastic, and I have a great love of creative clothing that goes back for more years than the Internet has been popular.

GIRL STRUGGLES TO TALK TO MUM WHO IS FULL OF HERSELF LIKE A DIVA

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A netizen shared how she struggles to talk to her mother because she makes everything about herself and takes everything personally.

Here is the story:

Does anyone have advice for me? My mum and I are very close. We talk a lot. But you know when you first notice something and then suddenly that’s all you see? I realized that whenever I share something, something I experienced, or like a story I read online, she will make it about herself.

For example, I was talking about this YouTuber who I felt for because they were my age and was diagnosed with cancer. Her immediate response was: “that’s why I helped my sis-in-law when she was diagnosed. It was such a hard time for us because she was so young…….”

It doesn’t seem significant, but if it is every topic I bring up, I can’t help but feel irritated. What’s worse is when I am having a hard time and just need consoling, instead, she’ll bring up something similar she experienced. And then she’ll start crying and I have to comfort her instead because her troubles are “worse” than mine.

I understand that some people do this because that’s how they converse. They continue convos by relating it to themselves. And most times, they are trying to provide comfort when they bring up their own experiences.

But now that I noticed it, it is so glaring to me. I feel like I don’t want to share anything anymore because she’ll make it about her. Or like I end up leaving a conversation feeling horrible. I can be talking about the plot of a k-drama I watched and then she’d interrupt and talk about that time my father cheated and the details that she had already shared with me multiple times before and then break down into tears in the middle of the cafe.

I know she’ll be offended if I brought this up. She takes everything personally instead of being constructive. I think I am tired..  (kinda looking forward to graduating and then working instead of being stuck at home all the time)

Wow reading all of this back and I sound like a horrible daughter, any advice on how I can stop feeling so irritated with my own mother? I love her a lot but idk why I feel irritated with her..

Netizens’ comments

You have to choose the people you confide in..mothers do not automatically become a good listener just because they are mothers, and if they are not chosen, that doesn’t mean you love them less

ATTACHED GUY ASKS OTHER GIRL WHAT SHE’D DO IF THEY WERE IN A ROOM ALONE

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A girl shared how she caught her boyfriend texting another woman, asking her about what kind of kinks she likes and what she’d do if they were alone in a room.

Here is the story:

“I’m hurt. I caught my boyfriend texting another woman in December. I thought I could trust him and I put my everything into us. We live together.

We had talked about marriage and kids constantly even though I was never one to want kids before him.

But I can’t stop thinking about what would’ve happened had I not caught him. What his plans were. I try very hard to hold myself high and not feel like complete crap because after everything I love him.

But I don’t process situations like this normally. I have a lot of trauma that prevents me from it. So tonight I decided to sign into his computer to read the texts again.

I went further back and it goes for a couple of weeks. He was hinting at stuff and definitely lying about me.

He said he has a girlfriend but lived alone. Which wasn’t true We had been living together for over a year. He had asked about her kinks and what she’d do if they were in a room alone.

He had used the excuse initially that he thought it was a bot but from reading the texts again I know he was lying to me.

When I went to cry in the bathroom and asked why as I was wailing. Why did he lie and want someone else after I told him that I can’t handle things like that at all?

He said that he only wants me That he made a huge mistake and he wants me forever. He wants to forget this happened. And told me he was going to talk to his mother and my family about marrying me. I think he was trying to comfort me. But all it was doing was making me feel worse.

Now he’s playing games and keeps turning around to be all lovey and I’m not feeling it. I go through his stuff randomly and haven’t found anything yet. But I’m expecting it.

His mother already wants him to leave me.”

Editor’s note: Leave him ASAP.

GIRL SLEPT WITH B.O GUY, NOW HER TOWELS SMELLS LIKE “A DEAD RAT”

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A netizen shared how she slept with a guy who apparently had B.O, and she described him as leaving her bathrobe, hair and bedsheets smelling “like a dead rat”.

Here is the story:

This is the dating scene.  People come, people go. Move on for goodness sake, this is not a good look. So…assuming he has a reason to ghost you, can you handle the truth?

I’m female and was on dating apps. Met plenty of interesting people and had my fair share of stinks (Literally. Read on.) Ghosted people and I got ghosted on. It can be puzzling and disappointing, but hey we are all entitled to our choice. Sometimes, you just ain’t his cup of tea.

Sometimes you are the unfortunate side chick who didn’t know better.  Could he have done it better? Maybe.

Back to the question, so if you want him to tell you the real reason, can you handle it? Or would you heap hate on him after that for being ungentlemanly and being too truthful and hurt your fragile feelings? Do you prefer he tells you white lies so that you get to walk away with your ego intact (it’s all me, it ain’t you kinda lame BS..)?

I ghosted this guy after many dates and I thought we were going somewhere. When we dated, it was all dinner and drinks and the likes in air- conditioned places.  Nothing sweaty and vigorous. Then trouble starts when it’s time to get intimate.

I swear on my mama’s name I’ve never felt so disgusted post-coital. He has such bad BO when he sweats he left my bathrobe, hair, and bedsheets smelling like a dead rat. I’m not exaggerating and it left me so disgusted I decided to go off dating apps. I blocked him as well.

He found me on other platforms and asked why I ghosted him. I didn’t have the heart to tell him he sucked in bed and he almost made me wanna burn my sheets and robe just to get rid of the revolting smell. But neither do I feel like making up some “it’s me, not you” excuse to make him feel good. 

And then… there’s that Napoleon Syndrome guy who kept boasting he has a 7inch d (when you think it’s sus af, trust your gut gurlz…). Then when the pants came off, I was so confused. I thought I had only seen such stuff in medical text books. It was a tiny misshapen and crooked little thing that is barely 3inch????‍. I got so turned off we didn’t do anything and promptly ghosted him.

Should I have been truthful to both of them and made them feel bad about something they can’t change?

Sometimes, the reason is you.