Dark figures inside trees

One time when i was out on detail supporting another unit for their exercise in Tekong. At about midnight or somewhat later, my Vcom (vehicle commander) woke me up to move my tonner to the pickup point for the troops in the field.

We all know tekong haunted af but wah the roads in school 4 and closer to the jungly parts of the island just complete darkness.

So when I reached the area it was empty and dark with a training shed, my vcom just said we chill here till they arrive and proceeded to relax on the steps of the training shed.

I went to setup my field chair and like instantly toh and fell asleep bruh. Suddenly i heard a bunch of people screaming that woke me up.

I looked around to see wtf it was and saw some dark figures walking around some trees and was scared as f. Looked at my phone it was 3am, I was legit shaking and looked at my vcom sleeping without a care in the world.

I couldnt sleep after that and tried to watch movies on my phone to pass time and calm down. The troops came like an hour later.

The famous Ah Ma checking if recruits sleeping

After BMT in Tekong I rarely hear ghost stories already, maybe because as recruits they get scared more easily since they’re still new to NS.

Anyways, I’m not sure if it’s true or not, during BMT I heard that some nights there’ll be a grandma-like figure that sits on top of everyone’s locker and like look at people sleeping.

If you are awake and accidentally see her, she will stare at you for the rest of the night.

But looking back it could have been our sergeants f-ing with us with this fake story so that we stay asleep through the night and get more rest for the training next day.

Shadow figure

One night i was doing guard duty at my camp and I was prowling with my buddy ard 3am. When we went to this specific part of the camp,

I feel someone was following us and a bunch others watching. Idk how to explain the feeling but i was not feeling it and wanted to get out of the place asap.

I just told my buddy that we just go quickly to the checkpoint and fk off back to the guard room.

At the corner of my eye, i kid you not i saw some shadowy figure sprinted pass behind me to an armskote. I just noped out of here and just fast walk back to the guardroom

Ghost who molest guy’s kkj

Well this happened to me a couple of days ago. Shall not mention the camp.

I fell asleep after playing with mobile phone and in the middle of the night i felt something tickling my face and felt something playing with my balls (i sleep without wearing anything btw in bunk).

I couldn’t move and side glance my buddy all sleeping. I was so afraid and pray till i fell asleep.

Next morning when i woke up, i saw a few strands of long hairs beside my pillow. Gosh. Just this instance and it nvr happened again after i put a tailsman below my pillow.

Food placed in a circle

Was on COS duty in tekong during the weekends, so no recruits other than 2-3 confined soldiers. Early one morning as usual a recruit from the guardroom placed the breakfast indented for us outside the office still in those green bags they use, because most of us at coyline still sleeping.

Woke up to the food all opened up (it was lor mai gai) with the rice placed in a neat circle. Nothing happened after but it was still creepy.

Red-eyed ghost

I was an instructor. Sometimes when preparing for a course, bobian have to sleep in camp due to mess up and whatnot. As I’m a stay out unit, got no bed so I can only sleep in my cubicle.

There was this memorable night, I was sleeping alone in my cubicle when I heard some shuffling foot steps. I looked up, and saw a red eyed long hair figure behind the partition staring at me.

I act blur tried to sleep back, but I swear to god I really wanna pee. Longest night of my life.

I think short guys are attractive and no one can tell me otherwise

I’m a 154 cm tall woman and I hear many guys say that they’ve been turned down by women for their height. I find that to be so sad because society has made it seem wrong for women to like short guys.

We all deserve to be loved and someone’s height shouldn’t be an indicator if they’re worthy of being loved or not.

Maybe since I’m short myself, considerably more so than other women, most people are taller than me so height isn’t a big deal to me.

But I absolutely love short guys. I would love to have someone who is my own height it would make things like kissing and cuddling much easier.

I don’t care what the media tells me to like. I’m attracted to what I’m attracted too. Short guys deserve love as well.

If I had a short boyfriend, I would do anything to make him feel loved by me. I would compliment him, kiss him, cuddle him, buy him gifts, etc..

So to all you short guys out there… don’t give up on hope. There are women out there who love short men! You are all kings who deserve to be loved.

Netizens’ comments

1. Height is not a deciding factor to me at all. If he loves me and treats me right? He could look like a beast and be 50 cm tall.. id love him anyway.
   When you get older none of that physical appearance matters. You want peace and happiness and appreciate a man who will treat you right than a self centred, selfish chad.
2. I think I have more of a problem with people demonizing male preferences when women are allowed to have laundry lists of things they want.
3. My late partner was shorter than me. Then one day i realized the two most successful couples we were friends with, the wife was taller than her husband!

So the thing is, my boyfriend always doesn’t want to wear any form of protection and always conveniently “forgets” to pull out when he is about to finish or is finishing in me.

myself (female 19) and my boyfriend (male 24) have been together for 3 months.. and to keep it short… we get physically intimate almost every day & he hates wearing protection during it.

He reasoned that it was because it he feels closer to me (which i get) and it feels better for him, & i have been really lenient on it since i am on birth control

but i started to notice he almost takes advantage of the fact i’m not super “strict” on it..because he stopped trying to pull out

so i said something to him and he said he gets caught up in the moment and apologized and stopped doing it but now he’s doing it again..

not all the time but randomly and he says it’s not on purpose at all, he just is in the moment.. i genuinely can’t tell if he is lying to me or if this is a common thing others have dealt with?

i get scared bc i feel we’re testing the waters a bit too much and i don’t want to have a pregnancy scare but i also wanna keep him satisfied if that makes sense

Netizens’ comments

1. Just tell him to wrap up or get lost, don’t indulge him.
2. I’m not excusing his behaviour but you will need to be consistent/strict if you don’t want him finishing inside. Have another talk with him, tell him you don’t want it happening at all and if he can’t pull out you’re going to ask him to use protection. It’s possible his dislike of it is greater and he’ll smarten up.
3. My wife got pregnant with our first kid while on Birth control. Since the day we met I always finished in her even when she’s in control she stays on me. We thought birth control would be enough. We love our kids and wouldn’t change it but be aware that if he’s doing this you can get pregnant.

Drained by socialising with new work place colleagues

I’m new to a company and I’ve been there for a month now but I feel so drained socialising with my colleagues.

They are friendly and nice, but part of me still feel alittle excluded at times and I feel that I’m friendly but I’m just lacking the human emotions from them and it’s making me hard to connect emotionally.

They mostly talk about work, and what is going on in the office. But actually I prefer talking more about personal and life things as that matters more to me.

I’ve also told myself to maintain professional as well, but sometimes I still fall back to my true self that I want a connection with people at work as we spend more hours with work colleagues than our family in our lives.

It’s crazy, and sometimes it’s so lonely if I’m just trying to live a professional life. It’s gets abit tough

I guess I’m probably not there with them yet, but that made me feels so drained out speaking to them as it felt quite surface level conversation. What should I do?

Netizens’ comments

1. Did you consider maybe your colleagues prefer to discuss work-related topics in order to maintain a professional relationship at work? Personally for me I’d rather cut non-work conversations to a minimal with colleagues.
   Understand you have your preferences but be aware of the optics. Work should be the most important to you, at least during work hours.
2. Make sure to identify who is the Energy vampire in the group or you are the energy vampire.
3. As much as I hate talking about work, it’s better than no topic to talk about lol.
4. You can’t force friendship, and you’ve only been there a month. Think of it this way: talking about work and what’s going on in the office is a necessary first step to eventually becoming closer and talking about life! If you withdraw from conversation now because you think it’s too “surface-level”, you’re interrupting that process of getting to know them!

How is anyone making ends meet in this economy?

My wife and I keep cutting back, and we’re getting significant raises, but yet we keep going further and further in the hole every month.

Restocking the fridge and freezer is now well over $500 a month. Prices for everything is going up and up and up. Pile home maintenance costs, transportation maintenance cost, credit card interest and loan payments.

We’re both in 50k careers. We would need to make double what we’re both making in order to actually pay down our debts and have enough money to live.

How is this possible? How can two people working full-time salaried 40 to 70 hours a week, keep getting further and further behind despite cutting unnecessary spending?

How is this okay to anyone? It’s getting to the point where I’m strongly considering criminal enterprise, despite the fact that we both work government related jobs.

I’m exhausted, I’m frustrated, I feel like I’m being crushed under a boulder at the bottom of a lake. I don’t want to go on living like this.

I’ve been talking about getting a second job but I’m literally at my first job from 8:00 to 8:00 Monday through Friday and on the weekends I have to struggle and work to try and keep our house from falling apart, Plus doing paperwork on Sundays for work.

It’s the 6th of the month, All of our credit cards are maxed out, All of our accounts are at $0 and 0 cents. Where the f do we go from here?

Netizens’ comments

1. Every year, my wife and I look at our raises and go “man that’ll really help” then rent goes up, other bills and groceries go up, and we’re at the same spot we were the previous year, if not worse off.
2. I hear you. My wife and I make what I would have thought was real good money 10-15 years ago, and we’re still living paycheck to paycheck. Shrinkflation is real; we pay more for less every year. Meanwhile the rich get richer and the rest of us struggle to survive.
3. I just want to validate you. It’s an incredibly frustrating time. It’s really pointing out some major flaws in our society and it’s natural direction (money always grows for the capitalist, the more money they have, the less we do and the harder we have to work for less). It shouldn’t be this way. Nobody who is working full time should be worried about housing and eating and paying for basic needs.

Why do some people think it is okay to not queue up for buses but wait at a corner and expect to board first.

Just happened at Joo Koon interchange and there was a long queue for one of the buses. A couple of people didn’t queue up for the bus but waited at a corner in their seats.

When the bus came, one of the guys (young man) went to the front of line and tried to board the bus. Driver told him to wait until the whole line has boarded before doing so.

The guy simply said “The queue is too long” and tapped his card to board.

Have you met such behaviour before? How do you deal with them?

Netizens’ comments

1. Doesnt happen at bishan, we wait at the side if the snake is too long, but we always board last, rightfully so.
2. happens in some supermarkets too. kena a few times (with a baby strapped to me, and carrying a heavy grocery basket!). staff will ask the queue cutter to queue pretty sternly, but they will be like “thanks but no thanks, queue too long” and insist till the staff will be like, “fine, i will just clear you cuz you are holding up the line.” only one time it was a rather fierce aunty staff and she just blatantly ignore the dude while she cashes the rest of us out and he stands awkwardly at the side, still refusing to queue.
3. Entitled schmucks. I’ve never been one to snap and shame, but I’ve got no sympathy for these clowns when people snap and shame them.
4. Seen lots of them before and not only at Joo Koon. Typically i see are all aunties and uncles. I think the reason they think they are pioneer merdeka generation and they deserve the respect and be allowed first.
   It’s not like going to queue takes a long walk. Sometimes i don’t understand, they are able to walk all the way to bus interchange but cannot walk a few more steps to queue. Them being kiasu, wanted to board to get the seats first because they deserved it (pioneer generation mindset)

I invited some friends that I haven’t seen in a long time to hang out with me and my boyfriend (24m). I figured it could be fun, we can all get tipsy and binge watch some shitty tv and catch up.

But my boyfriend has heard my fantasies before, he knows everything I’ve wanted to try and he definitely used the opportunity to his advantage LMAO.

At first, it was us under a blanket on the couch. He slid my shorts and panties to the side and put himself in me while my friends were getting their drinks and settling down. I was grunting and moaning and trying to keep quiet but it was so good and I couldn’t control my volume.

But after a few minutes one of them made a joke? I think it was a joke? About how they could see the movement and hear us, and we really weren’t good at hiding things.

So, my boyfriend just simply took the blanket off and began using me just out in the open. He just kept saying that it was hard to stop and apologizing, but my friends all know me and they’re all like me so they just kind of shrugged it off and kept watching tv.

If I was getting too loud, one would tell me to “shut the f up” while the rest giggled and made jokes.

I loved feeling their eyes on me. I loved having people I love see me get used like a toy. I loved feeling vulnerable.

One of my friends watched me more consistently than the others and kept shifting around in her seat, and I loved knowing that this was turning her (and maybe the others) on.

After we finished and cleaned up, nothing was said about it at all. We just kept watching tv like I wasn’t just f-ed like a toy in front of them LMAO <3

Here’s my background. I’m 31 and I graduated a few years ago and took my first legit, full time job.

Even though I have been there almost two years, I still barely make enough to rent my own place, so since my parents are okay with me living at home, I live with them..

My boss (the rich owner of this company) overheard me say that my favorite thing to do is to go home, eat dinner that my mum makes and watch TV and then he made a mocking comment about my “mummy fixing my food”.

The f-er has also joked about me being skinny and quiet too. I would just love to tell him to f off one day! F you BL!

Netizens comments

1. Congrats on your job and living somewhere you enjoy that lets you focus on saving and being happy. Enjoy it and ignore the a-hole! Your family sounds like a treasure!
2. Tell him if he paid you better maybe you could afford a decent place of your own.
3. Many people of privilege do not understand that they’re living life on peaceful difficulty while the rest of us are playing hardcore.
4. They’re making fun of you for not being able to afford more (food and housing) while they’re the ones paying you..
   It’s time to get far away from that situation. Start sending resumes. You’re worth a lot more than this BS and they know it or they wouldn’t be putting you down.
5. Since he’s joking about your weight, that might fall under harassment in some way, in case you wanted to take this a step farther…
6. Make snide comments about the joke of a wage he offers! “it must suck not being successful enough to pay your employees a living wage! Maybe if you were smarter or worked harder you could afford to have a successful business!”

My roommate (Lucy if you’ve been following my stories) left me at home to spend the night at her friend’s place. I wanted to make the most out of my night to myself, so I bought some wine, put on a movie, and relaxed.

The thing is, wine usually gets me sleepy and really handy with myself. So as soon as I got through my second glass of it, I needed to touch myself.

I took my panties off, spread my legs open in our shared living room, and started to play with myself. The last thing I remember was curling my fingers up against my G spot and lazily playing and flicking it. And then I passed out.

About an hour later, I woke up to the sound of a door closing. My eyes opened to find that my roommate didn’t push through with her sleepover, and I later on found a few missed messages from her informing me of that.

She was staring at me, standing still with her hand still on the doorknob. It took me a second to realize that I had fallen asleep while touching myself halfway, and my privates were exposed with my fingers still inside.

Before I could even say anything to my roommate, she awkwardly smiled, couldn’t help but crack a smile and assured me it was okay.

She then turned and headed straight to her room. I don’t think I’ve ever been that embarrassed in my life. I immediately ran to my own room and haven’t been able to bring up what happened since. I have no idea if she just found it funny, or gross, or if she liked what she saw…

What do I do now?

Netizens’ comments

1. There’s only one way to find out, bring it up to her, and ask if things are going to be weird between you two after that.
2. The only way to find out is if you just go up to her and talk about it, or alternatively you could just pretend it never happened and brush it off and move on with your life.