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GF WANTS BF TO QUIT HIS JOB FROM CLOTHING STORE CAUSE ALOT OF WOMAN

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GF WANTS BF TO QUIT HIS JOB FROM CLOTHING STORE CAUSE ALOT OF WOMAN

I’m a 26-year-old guy and I’ve worked at a clothing store for the past 7 years. The store mostly sells women’s clothing and it is known as a women’s store.

My GF has never been to the store until yesterday and when she saw how it was almost all women who shopped there she said I needed to find a different job because she isn’t comfortable with me working where there could be a chance that one of the customers flirts with me or something.

I like my job and don’t want to quit especially considering I make a good amount and my boss is nice to me now and nowhere else offers that amount of money with my level of education.

What should I do?

Here are what netizens think:

  • She’s being ridiculous. Does she want you to wear a bag over your head as well, so no women look at you?
  • Hear me out, if you leave your job, she will continue to pull that kind of shit on you because of her own insecurities. Decide your own power, if you enjoy that job you just stay and that’s the end of it. If she doesn’t like that, she can fuck off. There’s no reason for her to think you’re cheating, and there’s no reason to make this an argument.
  • At any job, or while running errands etc, he’s going to see other women. Pretty ridiculous indeed.
  • People who are insecure and controlling cannot be appeased. Reduce her anxiety by quitting. Next it will be your time spent with friends under scrutiny. Then any time apart. Before you know it you will be not allowed to enjoy yourself without her in case you realise you have more fun when she is absent. Get out before it gets too complicated.
  • No way! She has no right to try and interfere With your money if you haven’t done anything. With her logic both of you should just stay home so no one ever looks at or flirts with either of you. What a ridiculous ask.

GIRL PARANOID BECAUSE BF CHEATED BEFORE, KEEPS CHECKING HIS PHONE

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GIRL PARANOID BECAUSE BF CHEATED BEFORE, KEEPS CHECKING HIS PHONE

A netizen shared how her boyfriend cheated on her before and as a result, she spent years overthinking and becoming paranoid.

Here is the story:

If a man has cheated once, will he cheat again? I have thought about this for a couple of years. I used to panic and have anxiety and wonder if he will cheat again and this had resulted in many sleepless nights. I wasted a lot of time checking his phone only to find nothing.

A few times I have broken out in cold sweat just from noticing texts which consisted of normal conversations between him female colleagues talking about work.

Since I have learnt to regulate my emotions better after therapy I don’t get triggered as badly as before and would ask him for clarification when I feel insecure. Sometimes I just wanted to know. My mind tends to go back to the past and wondered why didn’t I ask him when I had a feeling something was off.

If I did, I could have stopped it from happening. But I came back to the same conclusion each time. No matter what I do or didn’t do, it’s going to happen one way or another so it didn’t have to be this woman, it could have been any woman with the same set of loose morals.

The problem was him from the very beginning. He had loose boundaries, that’s why it happened. It was just an earthquake waiting to happen and there is nothing I could have done to prevent it.

I have heard this advice many times in the beginning just after I had discovered the affair. But it took years later to have it register into my brain and also into my heart.

No point worrying if he will cheat again. Because his actions are out of my control. I can only control my own actions. I have told him if he does this again I will be gone. Sometimes when he feel only shame and remorse I feel more alone and frustrated. Sometimes when he’s willing to carry my pain and hurt when I get triggered I feel my burden had been lifted bit by bit. It’s really was a 3 steps forward 2 steps back process.

It’s been more than 5 years. One day, I just looked at him and felt something inside me. I no longer worry if he will cheat on me again. Because I knew exactly what I was going to do when that happens. Then I realised I had already forgiven him for his infidelity. I know this is not proof that he won’t cheat again, but at least for me, my mind is finally peaceful.

Editor’s note: Well I’m glad you finally found peace, in a way.

WOMAN FOUND A LIZARD/EEL INSIDE HER NOODLES, EATERY OFFERS TO SEND HER TO HOSPITAL

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WOMAN FOUND A LIZARD/EEL INSIDE HER NOODLES, EATERY OFFERS TO SEND HER TO HOSPITAL

A woman in Malaysia recently ordered a meal of noodles from a popular chain eatery through a food delivery service. Little did she know that her seemingly ordinary meal would turn into a horrifying experience.

A Disturbing Discovery

As she indulged in her meal, halfway through, the woman was startled to find a lizard-like creature lurking in her soup. The shock and disgust she felt were immediately apparent as she took to Facebook to express her deep disappointment and share her unsettling discovery with the world.

As the post gained traction, numerous commenters speculated about the identity of the creature. Many believed it to be a skink, a small lizard-like reptile commonly found in the region.

It was theorized that this unsuspecting reptile may have been hiding amidst the vegetables that had ended up in her dish.

The woman had previously been a regular customer of this particular eatery and never encountered any issues with their food.

In a touch of sarcasm, she remarked, “Today, the boss is in a good mood and gave me an extra ingredient. He’s so nice to give me extra protein.”

To add to the surreal nature of the situation, the woman claimed that she only discovered the creature, which was still whole, after taking three or four bites of her meal. It was a sight that left her horrified and nauseated.

Speculations on the Source

As to how this unusual guest ended up in her noodles, opinions varied. Some speculated that the eatery might not have properly washed the vegetables used in the dish.

Skinks, known for their penchant for hiding in leaves and shrubs, could have easily made their way into the soup, unbeknownst to the restaurant.

The woman reached out to the eatery to report the incident. In response, the establishment offered to accompany her to seek medical attention if she experienced any discomfort.

Fortunately, she did not consume the creature, but the shock and disgust had severely impacted her appetite.

In the aftermath of this unsettling ordeal, the woman confessed that she was deeply traumatized by the incident. She made it clear that she had no intention of ever returning to the eatery, emphasizing the profound impact this bizarre dining experience had on her.

GIRL FOUND OUT BF OF 10 MONTHS IS MARRIED, TEMPTED TO EXPOSE HIM

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GIRL FOUND OUT BF OF 10 MONTHS IS MARRIED, TEMPTED TO EXPOSE HIM

I started dating this 30 y.o guy about 10 months ago. He kept pursuing me for many months before us officially dated. His behaviour used to be incredibly strange. I thought maybe I’m just being paranoid due to all the hurt experienced during the past. Ignored all of my worries and still kept talking to him — started noticing things like him only being available after 8 pm.

He would randomly yell out while on the phone “I’M WITH MY SISTER”. Or say “I’m with my mom” when I will hear a female’s voice in the background. Long periods of ghosting me and then coming back as if nothing happened.

Soon he admitted “I’m sorry. Currently living with this older woman because I have no choice. Her house is close to my work so it’s simply convenient. She cannot know about you. By the way, she knows I’m not attracted to her.”

He soon blamed everything on me. Accused me of denying our love. Lack of sleeping together. What the heck. Blamed his behaviour on me because I didn’t want to be exclusive or keep meeting up with him after 8 pm.

Why would I want to be exclusive with someone who’s so secretive? camming only in the car because of “business trips” Not only that he lied to me about his name as well! Searched his number and found his social media… it turns out he’s married!

Right now, he’s ghosting and giving me the silent treatment until I come to my “senses” smh. Usually, he always comes back over and over again. Not this time blocked him via phone company! Feeling tempted to tell his wife but don’t know if it’s the right thing to do or not.

Now I feel just incredibly stupid for everything thinking back. Lots of regret just about everything.

GUY WANTS MUM TO LIVE TOGETHER, WIFE SAYS NO WAY

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GUY WANTS MUM TO LIVE TOGETHER, WIFE SAYS NO WAY

A guy shared a story of how his father has gone on to the afterlife recently leaving his mother all alone in their home.

Being a filial son, he asks his mother to move in with his wife and him only to face strong and violent objections from his wife as she does not like having other people in their living space.

He feels very conflicted as his wife gave him the ultimatum to choose between his mother or her.

Here is the story

“So my dad had gone on to the afterlife quite recently and left my mother and I behind in this world.

I am a only child and have been brought up by both of my parents who strived and worked hard to bring me up and ensure that I have an education and a good life.

I never had to worry about anything when I was young and whenever I had any issues, my parents were always there for me.

You could say that I have a loving family and we are quite close knitted. I married my wife few years back and moved out of my parents to stay with her in our new flat.

My dad had been suffering from an illness for quite some time and he eventually passed on in recent days.

Being close to my mother and not wanting to see her live and grief alone, I asked her to come over to my place to stay together with my wife and I as my childhood home was too far away and staying at my place would make it more convenient for me to look after my mother.

However, I am facing strong objection from my wife.

First of all, she does not like people in our house except for when she have no choice but to entertain such as during CNY.

Secondly, she has been seeing too many of her friends having mother in law problems as most of them lived with their in laws.

I tried explaining to her that this would only be temporary and my mother has been so nice to her during our courtship days to when we eventually settled down but she just will not budge.

Today, she threw me an ultimatum and said that if my mother were to come over and live here even for a day, she would move back to her parents house and not come back until my mother moves back.

She further says that if I can have my own point of view, she can also have her opinions.

I am at a loss of what to do as both people are dear to me.

What should I do?”

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GUY WANTED TO DATE GIRL BUT BECAME WINGMAN INSTEAD

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GUY WANTED TO DATE GIRL BUT BECAME WINGMAN INSTEAD

A guy shared a story of how he had wanted to date a girl that he always see around in the gym and proceeded to ask another guy (A) who was always hanging out with her if she was single.

(A) told him that they were only friends and he would help him ask the girl but while he was asking halfway, the girl mistook it as he was asking her out instead and told him that she has been waiting for him to ask her out for the longest time.

As a result, the guy accidentally became (A)’s wingman instead.

Here is the story

“At my gym over the past couple of months I’ve noticed a cute girl who works out around the same time I do and I was interested in asking her out, but I’m kind of awkward and I don’t approach girls in the gym.

A few times I’ve seen her talk to a guy (A) who she seems to be friends with, I haven’t seen anything romantic or flirtatious between them and I was pretty confident they weren’t together. So my awkward self decided to talk to (A) and ask him if she was single.

He said he had no idea, that they know each other because they used to work together, and have been friends ever since. As he was talking she came walking over to us, and before I could stop him he turned to ask her:

(Paraphrasing what I remember)

(A): hey are you single? Becau-

Her: God it’s about time! I have been waiting forever for you to ask me out.

(A): uh…

Her: …is that not what you were asking?

(A): yeah it is! Are you free Saturday?

Her: absolutely! Text me, I have to get going soon.

Throughout this I was just standing there like a third wheel watching like an idiot. After she left (A) turned to me with an apologetic look on his face and said he’d always had a crush on her but never acted because he didn’t want to hurt their friendship if she didn’t feel the same way.

I told him I completely understood and was happy for both of them.

All in all, -1 for me and +2 for them = net gain for love.”

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GUY CLEARS SON’S LAUNDRY BASKET, FINDS FEMALE UNDERWEAR INSIDE

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GUY CLEARS SON’S LAUNDRY BASKET, FINDS FEMALE UNDERWEAR INSIDE

A guy shared a story of how he was going to do the laundry one day and while clearing the laundry basket from his son’s room found female underwear inside the laundry basket.

The thing is the son had not been out of the house for the past two days and could not have got his hands on any female underwear from outside and the only female at home was the guy’s girlfriend.

Here is the story

“I live together with my son and my girlfriend comes over frequently to stay.

He has been a single child all his life ever since his mother passed away shortly after he was born from an accident.

As any parent does, I tell my son to give me all his dirty laundry (mostly so I don’t have to touch it) so I can wash them for him.

One day he was not home, so, I went into his room and grabbed his dirty laundry. I notice a balled up towel in the corner of his wardrobe and I just grabbed the end of it, thinking it was just a towel.

But nope! Out falls two pairs of recently worn/dirty female underwear! I stand there coming up with crazy scenarios in my head for a second like “must have gotten caught in the towel when he was done showering” or “maybe it got messed up in the clean laundry”. Then the realisation hits me that our laundry basket is in the bathroom where we shower.

I went to my girlfriend and all I could say was “we are about to have a weird conversation and I’m sorry”. I pull out the underwear and say “I found these in (insert son’s name) room” and her jaw just drops. I didn’t know what else to say besides “at least we know he likes you”.

Now it is a little weird and quiet around my house.

The worst part is, I don’t know how to bring it up to him and he does not know that we found out about it.”

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GUY TELLS GF HIS DEEDS WHEN HE WAS YOUNGER & ‘HORMONAL’

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GUY TELLS GF HIS DEEDS WHEN HE WAS YOUNGER & ‘HORMONAL’

A guy shared a story of how he let his girlfriend in on some of the stuff which he did when he was younger in his teenage period and had raging hormones and now his girlfriend feels awkward with him and is wary of him when he is at her place.

Here is the story

“Hi, bit of an awkward one…

12 years ago my raging hormones started to be very strong and I would talk dirty with girls in my class and one day was invited to one of my best friend’s house. He wanted me to stay over while his mom was at work.

He was showing of his new phone and his playstation device when we I got there.

While we were gaming, I needed a toilet break.

So of course, I went to use the toilet.

Right when I was about to flush I saw a dirty laundry basket and at the top was a panties.

Being young and full of raging hormones, I instantly grabbed it and sniffed it (bad idea). I then proceeded to do things I should have not done…

I cleaned up my mess anyway and quickly made my way back upstairs where my friend was.

It was then time for me to go home.

I started getting addicted to this so the next time my friend invited me over I couldn’t wait to use the toilet excuse again just to go through the dirty laundry again.

Same thing happened, cleaned, ran upstairs.

The third time it just so happens there were no dirty underwear in the laundry basket so being the really stupid teen I sneaked into his moms room and she had a HUGE collection of different brands of underwear, I sneaked one into my pockets and went home to “enjoy it” and washed it after I’m done and returned it back to her wardrobe on my next visit.

I told this to my girlfriend and she is acting strange with me, almost as though she feels I would do the same to her mom’s underwear.

The whole point of me telling her is to show how much I matured and how embarrassed I was but no it just made things awkward.

I am still good friends with that friend 12 years on btw”

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GUY WENT JOB INTERVIEW, REGRETS ASKING FOR TOO LOW SALARY

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GUY WENT JOB INTERVIEW, REGRETS ASKING FOR TOO LOW SALARY

A guy shared a story of how he went to a job interview one day and when asked by the Human Resource Manager on his expected salary, he gave an amount that was too low and even lower than his current drawn salary.

He now regrets it because he did not calculate properly before answering and now has to work with a much lower salary as everything was already discussed and he really wanted to land the job.

Here is the story

“I spent months looking for a new job because I felt that I had already reached by maximum potential at my current job and I wanted something more challenging. Everywhere I applied, everyone who asked, i always told: “I make $X/month GROSS”, because that’s what I was making in my current job.

I got to the final interview with a fantastic company. Like, the best I could hope to find in this moment of my career. They basically match my current salary and said that they will wait for my answer.

I made some final checks on what they proposed, and something was not right. Which was absurd, because they matched the gross $x/month I told them. Except I wasn’t making that money. I was making more.

In my calculations of my gross monthly salary I left out the 13th month bonus and mid year bonuses that my current company gives me. Basically I asked less than what I was taking, and they matched.

I tried to clarify the mistake, but I was denied because they told that was the standard salary for someone in my position, and in the end I took the job anyway because as I said it was an opportunity too good to let it pass.

I still enjoy my time and work in this job but I regret not checking more thoroughly as it has cost me quite a substantial amount added up together.”

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BOY IS AFFECTIONATE TO LITTLE SISTER, MUM’S BF CALLS HIM “GROSS”

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BOY IS AFFECTIONATE TO LITTLE SISTER, MUM’S BF CALLS HIM “GROSS”

A boy shared how he love his little sister and is affectionate with her, but his mother’s boyfriend apparently find it “gross” when he kisses his little sister on the cheek.

Here is the story:

I am 15-years-old and I have a sweet little 6-year-old sister who I absolutely love with all of my heart and more than anything in the world.

I always give her hugs and cuddles and kiss her cheek and for some reason my mom’s boyfriend thinks this is gross that someone 9 years older than her would kiss her.

I don’t see anything wrong with it and she often kisses my cheek in return.

Yesterday it was really cold inside the aircon room so me and her were cuddled up with a blanket while watching movies on the laptop.

My mom’s boyfriend then comes in and yanks the blanket away to “make sure I wasn’t doing anything inappropriate”.

I got pretty offended at that comment due to the implications and told him to quit being so disgusting..

He still insists what I’m doing is gross even though I’d rather die than even consider doing anything to her.

Netizens comments

  • The fact that he has thoughts like that makes me think he’s the weird one.
  • Have you spoken to your mother about this? Please watch this man around your sister
  • He’s the one with the problem if he thinks your behaviour is weird. You seem to adore your sister and give her a lot of affection as you should! He shouldn’t think there’s anything wrong with that, nor does he have the right to tell you how to act around your little sister when there is no issue, he’s the one creating an issue, honestly, please talk to your mother about it, or anyone else that lives in your household, it’s honestly strange
  • I get it. I have a 5yo sister, I’m 26. I love like she’s one of mine. I kiss, hug and tell her I love her a million times a day. Just like I do with my kids. What’s wrong with that? I’d be watching him really closely and not let him be alone with her if I was in your position. He is the creepy one. Let’s hope it’s just some childhood trauma and not him projecting.
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