Poor people are hypocrites.

When billionaires spend their money on whatever, whenever, and however they want, y’all be crying like “They could’ve spend all those money for poor people and help solve world’s problems. If I be them I’ll be doing all great things in the world for it to be a better place”

But when y’all got slightly richer, y’all be spending like there’s no tomorrow. Then when someone told you to think before you spend, y’all be like “Its my money. I worked hard for it. My effort, my wish. It’s nothing to do with your life”. And then when y’all go broke too fast, y’all be crying and complaining that life’s not fair and blame literally on anyone and anything. Blame inflation, blame government, blame Illuminati, blame CIA, blame your parents, blame your dog. Blame blame blame.

Meanwhile, behind the scene, rich people taking risk and make more investment so that they’ll get richer. And if they do, they’ll reward themselves just the same.

And you wonder why you poor people stay poor and the rich becomes rich.

I’d say grow up. But I know you won’t

Here are what netizens think:

• What is being rich? Some people has a lot of money but inside their minds, they are very poor. Do you know small children have very pure minds and they are innocent and happiness flows naturally. When happy, they laugh… When sad, they cry… When angry, they throw temper… On the next moment, they have forgotten what happened before and they return to happiness. Remember you were a small child and the world was perfect? Then you grew up, start to have many thinking and worries that you don’t even sleep well at night. And then you started judging others based on your perspectives not realizing that you are creating your own suffering. The world that we experienced is nothing more than a reflection of our own minds. When our becomes perfected and harmonized, a perfect and complete 1 World appears.

• Right..It’s always the poor people who’s bitter with people with money. Expect them to donate lah instead of buying things.

• Although i agree but not all poor people are like that. Maybe the jealous, envy ones. Some still live a happy life and content with what they have. Some people have this mentallity, poor nevermind as long got style. This one i dont understand period

When I was 17, I found out that my dad wasn’t my father. Because I was an idiot teenager/curious I searched social media and I also had found out that my biological father had another kid so I had a half sister, technically. Her and I talked for a while, she wanted to meet up but I wasn’t really into it. It felt like forcing a friendship. Life moved on.

Whenever people ask if I have siblings I say no. I don’t feel like it’s a lie because she and I weren’t raised together and barely talked.

Well, when I started dating my boyfriend we did the whole “do you have siblings” blah blah. I said no.

Then the other day (together a year now) we were talking about family nonsense. I said that my dad wasn’t my father and that when I was 17 I found out I had a half-sister. I was expecting him to go “wow weird” or something but he got weird and said, “well you said you were an only child so you lied”. We went back and forth for a while with me explaining and re-explaining, then he dropped it.

Then the next day he brought it up again. How “it’s weird that I lied about having a sister” and “he’s so close with his brothers he can’t believe someone wouldn’t want a relationship with their own sister ” “I lied about that so what else did I lie about “. He’s been acting weird since.

My parents that raised me don’t have other kids. My friend said he’s probably mad because it took me a year to tell him.

Why is he so petty, its not even his effing problem.

Here are what netizens think:

• He is breaking up with u, and using a pathetic excuse

• Your biological father isn’t a dad to you and never has been. Therefore it’s more than reasonable to not consider your half-sister your sibling. You didn’t grow up with her nor do you know her.

• I really dislike your bf saying you lied. There is something wrong with him for reacting so accusatory towards you. He is twisting your situation. At the very least, he should ask about how you felt about discovering you had discovered a biological relationship.

Employer keep disturbing my peace on day off

It’s not really a question but I would like to hear that I’m not really alone in this situation.

So my employer especially his minions (my supervisors) always mentioning my name on the workgroup demanding me to answer questions about job on my day off which is the only time that I can be with myself and heal myself from all the tiring workloads that I have to bare on workdays, not to mention the pressure and their stupid toxic behaviour/work dramas etc.

It doesn’t even make sense. Idk why most workplaces are like this. Idk if I’m just too weak and done with all the PTSD that I gained as a worker from the past few years or something. But no matter where I go there’s always bullshit happen that even if I stay quiet they keep dragging me along with it. I’m so done living like this.

Situations like this just evoking my suicidal thoughts when I think about my future being not bring enough cause I can’t bare with any jobs because of my mental health issue.

Netizens’ comments

1. Oh yes. I ignore it until the next working day. If it sounds important, I’ll reply after several hours.
   Worst so far, meeting at 830 am, scheduled at 1130 pm. No tasks given though.
   Once, i brought up the concept of working days and working hours. If you sent me something to do on Friday evening, and expect it completed on Monday evening, I will say, that’s what, 1 or 2 working hours? Show me how do you complete that task in 2 hours.
   If they want me to work on holiday or day off, I’ll ask them to approve OT before I start doing anything.
   After a while, they don’t expect me to be responsive on day off.
   Be firm. Ask for OT if they want you to answer something outside working hour.
2. Irregardless of where you work, you need to put your foot down and start to focus on yourself and not your employer/colleagues.
   Day off, you can choose to ignore the questions/subject until your work day resume. They can’t force you to always be on standby to answer questions even on your day off.
   Don’t let your colleagues/supervisors take advantage of you.
3. Keep your mind simple.
   What’s your salary? 4K or 10K?
   If it is lower than above, FK THAT after working hours, not my business, any reply from me is charity but not mandatory.
   I don’t mind being 24H hotline, but company have to pay for the service.
   Don’t be passive, everyone will makan you.

My boyfriend rejects me because of my period even though my period has finished?

My period just finished, I tried to initiate with my boyfriend in bed this morning and he asked if my period had finished and I said yes.

He said let’s wait one day to be sure and I said okay, I mean it is not a good look to sulk about a no to my request and when I am not on my period, we have a lot of good sessions and I have to respect his boundaries.

I was just so in the mood and really wanted to bonk, and rejection stings a bit, after he kept asking me if I was ok and told me he wanted too but it was better to wait to be sure.

Also the two other days I blew twice. When he came he removed me so I didn’t swallow. I like swallowing, not sure why he always seems not want me to swallow.

These two things together makes me wonder if he has some hung up about intimacy.

He goes down on me though and also kiss me after i blow him.

He is M29 and I’m F26.

Netizens’ comments

1. It sounds like he wants to wait because he thinks it’s better. Ask him why he thinks that. You can assure him it doesn’t hurt you and it’s not bad for you. That it’s clean. Just ask him what his concerns are. He seems to care.
2. Navigating intimate relationships requires communication, understanding, and empathy. If your boyfriend is uncomfortable being intimate shortly after your period has finished, even if you’re sure it has ended,
3. The only acceptable answer here is no means no. He has his boundaries, don’t make him cross them. Take care of yourself, if you’re that desperate.
4. As a man. I simply just don’t like blood. I don’t why women don’t understand that it’s not about “growing up”…Thankfully my spouse understands this as I’ve communicated to her and we always wait a couple extra days after her period to mess around again
5. Some men just don’t like blood and it’s completely understandable.