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WIFE CLEANS HOUSE, HUSBAND COME BACK SPOT CHECK LIKE STANDBY AREA

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WIFE CLEANS HOUSE, HUSBAND COME BACK SPOT CHECK LIKE STANDBY AREA

A netizen shared how she spent the whole day cleaning the house, only for her husband to conduct spot checks as though they were in the army and nitpicking.

Here is the story

I spent the whole day cleaning the house spotless… Only for my husband to rub his hand across the counter and complain that he can still feel some grit, and tell me to stand in the light so I can see the wipe marks from when I wiped the counter.

I spent the whole day cleaning the house spotless… Only for him to rub his hand across the counter and complain that he can still feel some grit, and tell me to stand in the light so I can see the wipe marks from when I wiped the counter. You know how when you wipe a surface? If you stand at a certain angle in the light you can actually see where you wiped? He wasn’t complaining that the counter was dirty, but that he can see the streak marks from where I wiped.

I went off on him and called him ungrateful and said I felt unappreciated. Of course, he didn’t see that I was justified for being upset and doubled down or defending himself like he usually does.

He rarely admits fault or apologizes, and if he does apologize, it’s rarely genuinely, he’s only doing it to shut me up while still not seeing that he’s wrong. He somehow twists it to make me seem unreasonable for being upset about his behavior.

After that argument, what he took away from it is that he should just be quiet and not tell me how he feels or i’ll blow up…

Rather than taking away that I spent all day cleaning up and for you to look at the literal spotless house and try to pick it apart “Oh, stand here in the light at this angle. See those streak marks?” Yes, the streak marks from the water and pinesol I used to wipe the counter that can literally only be seen at a certain angle in light?

Then while I’m telling him I feel unappreciated, he grabs a towel and tries to nitpick about that out of the blue because there’s a mark on the towel from when I used it to clean up a spill.

I told him for now on either higher a maid or clean up himself. The house is literally spotless and you complain, not about mess, but about the fact that you can see WHERE I wiped if you stand at a certain angle in the light.

I told him it makes me feel like no matter what I do, it’s not going to be good enough. If I don’t clean, he will complain about me being messy and unorganized, and if I do clean, if he can’t find a single spec of dust to complain about, he literally rub his hand across surfaces to feel for imperfections, or complain about the near invisible streak marks left behind that can only be seen at a certain angle in light that show where I wiped the counter with water and pinesol. He said those marks mean I used too much cleaning solution in the water.

MAN BOUGHT INSURANCE FROM FRIEND’S MOM CAUSE HE WANTS TO ‘SWALLOW HER’

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MAN BOUGHT INSURANCE FROM FRIEND’S MOM CAUSE HE WANTS TO ‘SWALLOW HER’

A man shared a story about him buying insurance from his friend’s mom because she fits his appetite.

Here is the story:

I have been controlling myself for a long time. My friend’s mom is the ultimate hottie. I always find excuses to go to my friend’s house to talk with him but I just wanted to interact with his mom. Im 21-years-old but his mom is only around the mid to late 30s cause she gave birth to my friend when she was a teen.

Then his mom approached me one day and asked if I have any insurance to protect myself from accidents and blah blah, that was when I realised that I had hit the jackpot and an opportunity had arisen. I was not listening and using my eyes to scan her whole body like an x-ray machine.

She then asked if I was interested to switch my insurance provider to her company and I agreed, cause if she is my agent I can meet her as and when I want.

So we met on another occasion without my friend at a restaurant near my home and she prepared her laptop for me to sign the insurance documents. While signing, We started to have a casual chat and she said that my friend is a good kid despite growing up in a single-parent family.

Then she also asked me about savings or investment insurance, I told her maybe the next time we meet we can talk more about it, I told her that I have something on and left. But the fact is I have nothing on and I’m trying to ‘brew the tea right.

So I started texting her under the pretence of asking about insurance policies but I was just trying to know her more and letting her know me more.

We met about a month later and we were texting like we were friends, she complimented me saying that I’m mature and thinks about protecting myself with insurance and doing some savings. She compared me to her son and said that I sound 10 years older than his son, that was when I know the time for me to ‘cash out my winnings.

I said: “Do you see me as a boy like your son or a man?”

She laughed and said I’m definitely a man and blink one eye at me (WOAHHHHH), not trying to be a snob here but I am highly intelligent. I’m thinking there is a higher chance she is saying that I’m a man cause she wants to please the customer, but my other ‘brain’ is saying there is a chance.

So we started laughing and there was some light flirting and I said “well your an attractive woman and still young, no find a boyfriend?” She said cannot lah she don’t put any pressure on my friend and said she prefer something casual.

Then my eyes open wide like an owl in the night, I told her in a smoky voice “Elaborate what’s casual?” and I blink my eye back at her.

I will update again, I am definitely swallowing her even if I have to buy one more insurance policy from her.

ASHES FROM HUNGRY GHOST MONTH JOSS PAPER OFFERINGS SWIRL INTO EERIE VORTEX

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ASHES FROM HUNGRY GHOST MONTH JOSS PAPER OFFERINGS SWIRL INTO EERIE VORTEX

As the Hungry Ghost Festival, also known as the Seventh Month, sweeps across the region, the sight of burning joss paper offerings has become a common occurrence.

In Malaysia, the tradition of burning offerings by the roadside has taken an intriguing turn, leaving witnesses awe-struck as a remarkable event unfolded—a swirling vortex of glowing ashes of burning joss papers.

Unveiling the Spectacle

In the midst of a row of shops, the remnants of burnt joss paper offerings gave rise to an extraordinary phenomenon: a whirling vortex of glowing ashes that danced and twirled in a mesmerizing display.

The video showcased a peculiar behavior of the ashes’ vortex. It appeared more concentrated and structured when closer to the ground, almost as if adhering to some invisible choreography. However, as the ashes ascended higher, they dispersed into a wider expanse, creating a captivating interplay of movement.

Within the whirling vortex of blazing ashes, an intriguing detail emerged—a non-burning vortex of smoke at the center. This smoke, distinct from the ashes, spiraled upwards, contributing to the otherworldly aesthetic of the scene.

As the video progressed, the mysterious whirlwind seemed to wane, dissipating until it ultimately vanished. The abrupt conclusion of the phenomenon left both witnesses and online viewers pondering its origins and meaning.

As news of this captivating occurrence spread, viewers of the footage online found themselves equally mystified. Many were quick to attribute the spectacle to supernatural forces at play, weaving an air of mystery and intrigue around the event.

Location and Geographical Context

Online sleuths engaged in a bit of detective work and managed to geolocate the video to Sungai Besar, a town in Malaysia. Specifically, the phenomenon occurred on a small road, flanked by shops on both sides.

The Ghostly Tradition

The Hungry Ghost Festival is a time-honoured tradition marked by the burning of offerings, including joss paper and ‘Hell money.’ This act is believed to provide these offerings to ancestral spirits, ensuring their comfort and provisions in the afterlife.

MANAGER EXPECTS STAFF TO READ HER MIND & HANDS OUT “PUNISHMENTS”

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MANAGER EXPECTS STAFF TO READ HER MIND & HANDS OUT “PUNISHMENTS”

Is this gaslighting?

Hello everyone, sincerely thankful for any kind advice here. I have worked for a few months and then quit my job despite the pandemic because I feel that my manager is toxic and is affecting my mental health such as I couldn’t sleep at night thinking that tmr will come soon and I have to face her again.

In my days working with her, she will get angry at multiple things that I do if I did not do it in the way that she expected. For example, at 9pm we receive a text message saying that the next day 11am our big boss wants to tell us something about our website and we all replied ok in the group chat. The next morning, she texted me asking why I did not take the initiative to prepare any reports on our website for 11am meeting and say that she kept quiet because she wants to see how proactive am I in this job, so things such as preparing a report should be what I have done instead of her asking me to do it. I was very confused because the message clearly was that our big boss wants to tell us something, not to discuss any reports? So I was forced to scramble through the analytics to come up with something and since the time is tight, I was very stressed. In the end, our big boss did not ask anything about the website analytics but just to inform us what he thinks we can do to make our website look better.

As I was constantly being told that I am a poor performer, cannot live up to expectations, I am very lazy, I am someone who thinks highly of myself that is why I will never change – I was told all these to a point where I start to think is there a problem with myself? I have heard that when this new manager just got promoted, she fired almost everyone in the department as “they won’t listen to her”, and after I quit, many others (including newcomers and old employees who worked for 10 years, 20 years) have also quit.

I am using this platform to ask is because until now I am still very confused – is it that I really have a problem? I am scared that this experience will affect my character negatively as every time my ex manager is unhappy with the things that I do, she wants me to write an essay to her, reflecting on what I have done wrong.

Subsequently, when I interact with others, I will keep thinking that I will do the wrong things and people will dislike me. Is this normal? Is this a kind of gaslighting when I was being constantly told that there is something wrong with me when there is not?

Thank you for any advice, I really hope to recover better mentally and move on with a normal life.

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DEAD BODY 50 Y.O MAN FOUND IN WATERS OF KEPPEL BAY, PRONOUNCED DEAD AT THE SCENE

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DEAD BODY 50 Y.O MAN FOUND IN WATERS OF KEPPEL BAY, PRONOUNCED DEAD AT THE SCENE

In the early morning of Tuesday, August 22, the lifeless body of a 50-year-old man was found in the waters of Keppel Bay and pronounced dead at the scene after being retrieved from the water by the authorities, according to The Straits Times.

Dead body found in the Keppel Bay waters

The serene ambience of Keppel Bay was shattered when the lifeless body of a middle-aged man was discovered in its waters.

The body was pronounced dead by a paramedic from the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) after being retrieved from the waters, and according to the Singapore Police Force’s preliminary investigations, they are not suspecting any foul play in the death.

The call for assistance was received at 8:40 a.m. The call originated from 2 Keppel Bay Vista, the location of Marina at Keppel Bay.

As the details of this tragic event unfolded, it was revealed that the deceased was a crew member associated with a boat that was berthed at Marina at Keppel Bay, according to a spokesperson for them.

They said that the authorities were immediately alerted to the incident but they are unable to comment any further at the moment because the case is currently under police investigation.

Recent spate of dead bodies being found

Just a couple of days ago on 19 August, the decomposing body of a 49-year-old man was found on the grass patch at Republic Polytechnic.

Landscape workers were trimming the grass at the time when they discovered the body and subsequently alerted the authorities.

BADLY ROTTING DEAD BODY OF 49-YEAR-OLD MAN FOUND AT REPUBLIC POLY GRASS PATCH

A few days before that, the dead body of a 35-year-old man was found in the waters near the Punggol Jetty on 6 August after he had been reported missing earlier that day.

The police were earlier alerted to a suspected case of drowning before the body was found and retrieved from the waters, and he was pronounced dead at the scene by a paramedic.

DEAD BODY OF 35 Y.O MAN FOUND FLOATING IN WATERS OF CHANGI, BELIEVED TO HAVE DROWNED

On 7 August, the decomposing body of a 34-year-old male delivery driver was found inside a car at Upper Changi Road, at a carpark near the Apollo Gardens condominium.

A brown liquid was seen oozing out from the driver’s seat of the vehicle, filling the air with a nauseating odour that lingered around the vicinity. 

34 Y.O MAN’S DEAD ROTTING BODY FOUND INSIDE CAR @ UPPER CHANGI CAR-PARK

A week before that, the dead body of a 35-year-old man was found floating in the waters of Changi, and he was believed to have drowned.

DEAD BODY OF 35 Y.O MAN FOUND FLOATING IN WATERS OF CHANGI, BELIEVED TO HAVE DROWNED

GUY HAS FEELINGS FOR HIS COWORKER BUT DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO CONFESS

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GUY HAS FEELINGS FOR HIS COWORKER BUT DOESN’T KNOW HOW TO CONFESS

A story was seen online regarding a guy having feelings for his coworker but does not have any opportunities to get close to her and confess to her.

They have had a few interactions in the past during lunch breaks when the girl first joined the company but it seems like the girl has found her own group of colleagues who prefers to eat a late lunch and thus their interactions minimised.

It got to a point where the guy felt hurt from all the overthinking that he has done inside him, and he is now seeking advice on how to confess to the girl as he says that he is not good at things related to the matters of the heart.

Here is the story (quoted)

“Hi, I think I have fallen for this girl in my office. I don’t get to interact with her much because she sits far away and she has her own group of colleagues with whom she goes to lunch with.

Initially, she joined us but I think she preferred late lunch and somehow all them like late lunch. I have been longer in the company so I am stuck with the older colleagues. It is going to be awkward if I asked to join the junior group, and painfully obvious.

Even if we get the chance to talk, it is about work. I get the sense that she is not interested in me because she doesn’t laugh at my jokes. There are times when she could immediately approach me for help for her project but instead, she would take her time to ask me for help.

There is literally not much chance of me actually even getting to spend time with her.

I know this sounds weird but I have never felt so much hurt in my entire life. Once, it even felt like a panic attack. From just a few interactions with her, I know she is an amazing and really good hearted person.

Unfortunately, I don’t think she thinks much of me. Every time I see her, it hurts me. I prefer not to see her at all because the more I see her, the more hurt I feel.

I felt so much hurt when she looked so bored talking to me. I felt completely and utterly hopeless. I felt like a loser.

The standard advice I keep getting is to focus on myself. Yeah, I already have hobbies like guitar and gyming. I am happy with my family. I have good friends. My career is decent. I don’t know what else to do anymore.

I have a girl I like in front of me and how are hobbies or anything else helping me?

Sorry, I am just a little frustrated. I don’t really know what is the common practice, especially in workplace. I don’t even know how to do this. I truly believe my feelings for her are real. I am not getting any chance. I am just suffering within.

I plan to walk up to her and confess my feelings to her. If she rejects me, which she probably will, I am ready to quit the job to prevent any awkwardness or discomfort.

It is too painful for me to keep my feelings to myself. I have clearly decided on this.

If you have any advice on anything I could try, before confessing to her, please share with me. I am not really good at these things.”

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CHEATING FATHER NEGLECTS DAUGHTER PREFERS ILLEGITIMATE CHILD

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CHEATING FATHER NEGLECTS DAUGHTER PREFERS ILLEGITIMATE CHILD

I hope this post won’t look messy, I’m so riled up that help me God. Im 50 and my husband is 51 and we have been married for 21 years.

He divorced his pregnant wife to get with me, but he saw his daughter Kristen whenever he wanted. Later I gave birth to our daughter Sasha but my husband was cheating on me and we took a break, I forbade him to see our daughter.

He missed her early years and now I think it changed everything. He doesn’t treat Kristen (21) and Sasha (18) the same. Kristen is his number one thing, he comes running if she calls him and he can just drop everything if she asks. He pays for Sasha’s education but she just isn’t his priority. He always talks about Kristen, it’s always about her. Sasha feels it and it hurts her.

I’m sure Kristen hates me for breaking her mom and my husband up. She always does things to rile me up. She calls my husband 5 times a day to chat, even late at night when she knows he’s with me! She makes him spend a week in a month with her just ‘chilling’.

He never spends as much time with Sasha and we live together. It’s a victory if I manage to get us to watch a movie together. Recently I learned that my husband left everything to Kristen in his will. She gets the condo, his watch collection when Sasha gets nothing!

It was weeks ago, he refuses to give me his answer and I keep feeling like I’m an evil man but then I get angry again. I know he loves Kristen, but maybe the threat of not seeing Sasha will make him realize he has another daughter who needs his attention.

So am I wrong for wanting my husband to focus on our daughter for a change instead of constantly running around his first daughter?

GF ASK BF TO BUY IPHONE FOR BIRTHDAY, HE GAVE HER A SET TO BURN

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GF ASK BF TO BUY IPHONE FOR BIRTHDAY, HE GAVE HER A SET TO BURN

A girl recently shared a story with Singapore Uncensored stating how her boyfriend gave her the worse birthday which cause them to break off.

Judging from the story she sends us, she definitely deserves it for her princess mentality.

Here is the story:

I just broke off with my boyfriend last night, I wanted to have a sweet birthday night but it was a disaster.

I have been hinting very long for him to buy me an iPhone but I think he got annoyed. He gave me the hell note version of the iPhone. I was shocked and ask if it was a joke.

He said: “You keep asking me to buy an expensive gift for you, cheap ones u don’t want, what monthly, weekly, yearly, birthday. You want how many anniversary gifts or not! One year I must buy more than 10 gifts for you almost every month. you want iPhone I give you, u take and burn next time can use got money also”

Then he left me crying at the void deck and did not give me a chance to say sorry. He then send a text to me telling me it was over and he drove off.

I thought couples are supposed to celebrate times together, he’s a guy right. It’s his duty to shower me with expensive gifts.

I tried calling him but he keep hanging up on me. I finally got a hold of my sister’s phone and used it to call him.

He said to stop calling and he said that he don’t see a future with me and even called me a disgrace.

What should I do… anyone can help me.

WOMAN MAKE FUN OF ANOTHER FOR HER 6TH WEDDING CEREMONY

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WOMAN MAKE FUN OF ANOTHER FOR HER 6TH WEDDING CEREMONY

My friend “Debra” 55-year-old woman have known each other since school days. Debra recently got engaged to her BF after dating him for 2 years. This is going to be Debra’s 6th marriage, and the wedding took place today. I was supposed to be her maid of honor again, so I was looking forward to it. 2 days ago, I called Debra and told her that I won’t be able to attend the wedding.

My ill Mother recently broke her leg and needed someone to stay with her for a while.

Debra was a bit sad, but she understood my emergency situation. She made a joke about how she’ll have to drink double the wine to make up for my absence.

I chuckled and joked back, “Don’t worry, I’ll just come to your 7th wedding.” The call went dead silent and she just hung up on me.

A few hrs later, I received several aggressive texts from the Bridesmaids. They said I was a B for making such a cruel joke, and that Debra had called them crying about how I “made fun of her.”

I feel bad and I’m wondering if I went too far.

Here are what netizens think:

  • It’s not the nicest thing to say to someone when you are the made of honor and you are dipping out last minute for a low-level emergency 
  • My dad’s aunt was married 8 times for a similar reason (she wouldn’t live with them before marriage) One of those marriages was actually to the third husband, again, but then she divorced him a second time. I always thought maybe she was just a huge optimist and thought each time “hey maybe having a man in my space will be alright this time!”
  • Are we in the same family? Lol my aunt just had her 6th wedding and this was her reasoning. Let’s ignore the fact that she’s has in fact cheated on all the other husbands but it’s a sin to not be married. LOL
  • At how many marriages does it become OK to joke “LOL this one will fail too!” right before it?

UPSTAIRS NEIGHBOURS MAKING NOISE, MAHJONG TILES KEEP DROPPING ON FLOOR

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UPSTAIRS NEIGHBOURS MAKING NOISE, MAHJONG TILES KEEP DROPPING ON FLOOR

A netizen shared how his neighbours upstairs just moved in 2 years ago and they have been making a lot of noise.

Here is the story

Basically this family moved here 2 years ago? Since then, there’s never like a nice quiet moment. I have went up twice to talk to them about it.

First was because of their vacuuming and dropping things on the floor, so vacuuming is alright, but somehow when they do it, there’s loud scratches sound.

They also denied it’s them and it’s the floor above. After that it somehow improved.

Second time i went up was because of their son, probably around the age of NS. He like to drop things and there’s moving things across the floor like chair, loud thudding on the floor due to his walking style and constant dropping of mahjong tiles on the his bedroom floor.

Mind that i understand people have their sort of entertainment during this period. But we are talking about 11pm – the wee hours here.

Again, when i went up the next morning the son wasn’t home and the parents mentioned it’s the people above them again.

Sometimes after these mahjong sessions till 3 – 4 am, the parent start knocking on something on the floor at 9am – 10am in the morning.

It sort of resembles people knocking on the floor of your door so that’s what i thought too, until i realize it’s them again.

Sometimes have to use a broom or something to hit my ceiling before they stop it. Then when i am taking a noon nap because of these, there’s some knocks to wake me up again.

The mahjong is weekly, while the knocking of something on the floor is once every few days. Just the day before, they were hammering something in the room above me, with some moments during 9pm.

Even my afternoon nap will get disturbed by them knocking some shit on the floor again, so whatever time i try to sleep, they always have some noise to make.

As i am typing now, that son is hosting his weekly mahjong session again. How to deal with this nuisance of a family?

Editor’s note: Sell your house and move into the unit above them then start playing mahjong at 3am.

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