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MAN STRUGGLES AFTER MARRIAGE, ALWAYS ALONE EVEN AFTER HE GOT SON

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A quiet life for me?

14 years ago, when both my parents left me, I was left alone in this quiet 3-rooms flat, working in the days and nobody to chat with during the nights. I read about old people who turned to corpse in their own house in the papers. I do not want to be like them, that’s why I let out a room to some male Malaysians who are working in Singapore, hoping to add some life in the house.

3 years later, I found my wife through a social activity, it was then I stopped renting the room to the guys, except one, who changed his identity to become a Singaporean, while waiting for his BTO flat to be built. I had hoped the house will become livelier when my son is born.

Initially, my wife and I agreed to stay with her mother during her confinement, but somehow, when my wife went back to work in her office, she and my son continued to stay with her mother, my MIL, citing the reason that it would be less hassle to travel from my house to my MIL’s house every morning, just because MIL is the only person we could find to take care of my son. Therefore, I go back to my own house to sleep, as I could not afford to employ a maid but pay for my son’s monthly expenses. I do the chores in my house myself, and chat with the Singaporean tenant when he returned from work.

Years pass, my son is going to Primary school soon. The Singaporean tenant has also moved out of my house when his BTO flat was ready. Therefore, I return to my own quiet house, alone again. Life is back to square one.

I wonder did I choose the wrong path for my Life in the beginning? I do not mind any hardship that comes. I want my wife to live comfortably. I do not mind that she doesn’t help with the household chores. I had wished the house continues to bloom with life and happiness. But why am I still alone and quiet?

WOMAN HAS AFFAIR WITH MARRIED UNCLE WHO IS 20 YEARS OLDER AT WORK

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I’m having an affair with a manager at work

I’m having an affair with a manager from a other department for almost a year now. He’s a married man 20 years older than me. It hurts because I know that I’ll always be in second place and his wife and kid will always be his priority. I have to clear my schedule to meet him only when he is available and when he is not, I’m always left alone to cry and deal with the pain of never being able to have a future with him even though I love him. I know it’s my mistake. I’m not trying to make myself the victim here. My heart hurts so much like a knife constantly stabbing it. I know that i should stop this affair but I can’t seem to get out of this because each time I’m determined to just remain friends with him, he will get close the moment we meet and he makes me feel so happy and excited whenever I’m with him. I deserve this. I brought this upon myself.

Also, i cheated on my loving bf of 2 years. He doesn’t knows but I don’t know if i can continue the relationship because I’ve ruined my “perfect” relationship. I don’t know how to face him especially when he’s been extra lovely to me. (I think he can sense that I’m losing feelings for him). I don’t think I deserve his love anymore. I hate myself for doing this to him especially when he had given me nothing but love. And here i am crying over another stupid man.

Growing up has made me seen so many couples in unhappy marriages and cheating seems to be the norm but it’s a taboo so not people don’t talk about it. And most times, their partners just never find out. I now come to have little faith in relationships and marriages. It’s so hard to find one happily married and loving couple around me.

How do i stop this affair even though my feelings for the manager are so strong now & I’ll still see him at work?

Do you think it’s possible for me to find bk the love with my bf? I know im f*ing selfish but can things go back to the way it was before the affair?

26 Y.O ARRESTED, ATTACKED VICTIM WITH KNIFE @ MARKET STREET

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The Police have arrested a 26-year-old man for his suspected involvement in a case of voluntarily causing hurt with dangerous weapon.

On 22 July 2023 at about 8pm, the Police were alerted to a case of assault along Market Street, where the man allegedly assaulted another 39-year-old man and a 31-year-old woman. After the attack, the man fled from the scene. The male victim was found with multiple injuries on his face and limbs while the female victim sustained injuries on her wrist. Both were believed to have been injured with a knife and a knife was recovered at the scene. The victims were conveyed conscious to the hospital.

Through ground enquiries and with the aid of images from Police cameras, officers from Central Police Division established the identity of the 26-year-old man and arrested him at Punggol Way within 24 hours of the report. Preliminary investigations revealed that the man and the victims were unknown to each other.

The 26-year-old man will be charged in court on 25 July 2023 with voluntarily causing hurt with dangerous weapon under Section 324 of the Penal Code 1871 which carries an imprisonment term of up to seven years, a fine, caning, or with any combination of such punishments.

The Police take a zero-tolerance approach towards such acts of violence and will not hesitate to take action against those who blatantly disregard the law.

624 SCAMMERS & MONEY MULES INVESTIGATED AFTER ISLAND-WIDE OPERATION

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Officers from the Commercial Affairs Department and the seven Police Land Divisions conducted a two-week operation between 7 July and 20 July 2023. A total of 421 men and 203 women, aged between 16 and 71, are assisting in investigations for their suspected involvement in scams as scammers or money mules. The suspects are believed to be involved in more than 2,600 cases of scams, comprising mainly job scams, internet love scams, e-commerce scams, loan scams, Government Officials impersonation scams and phishing scams, where victims reportedly lost over $21 million.

The suspects are being investigated for the alleged offences of cheating, money laundering or providing payment services without a licence. The offence of cheating under Section 420 of the Penal Code 1871 carries an imprisonment term of up to 10 years and a fine. The offence of money laundering under the Corruption, Drug Trafficking and Other Serious Crimes (Confiscation of Benefits) Act 1992 carries an imprisonment term of up to 10 years, a fine of up to $500,000, or both. The offence of carrying on a business to provide any type of payment service in Singapore without a licence under Section 5 of the Payment Services Act 2019 carries a fine of up to $125,000, an imprisonment term of up to three years, or both.

The Police take a serious stance against any person who may be involved in scams, and perpetrators will be dealt with in accordance with the law. To avoid being an accomplice to crimes, members of the public should always reject requests by others to use your bank account or mobile lines as you will be held accountable if these are linked to crimes.

For more information on scams, members of the public can visit www.scamalert.sg or call the Anti-Scam Hotline at 1800-722-6688. Anyone with information on such scams may call the Police Hotline at 1800-255-0000 or submit information online at www.police.gov.sg/iwitness. All information will be kept strictly confidential.

4 MEN CHARGED, LIED TO VICTIMS TO BUY FIRE EXTINGUISHERS “COMPULSORY TO BUY”

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The SPF will be charging four men, aged between 24 and 42, for their alleged involvement in: (a) making false and misleading claims in a series of unsolicited door-to-door sales of fire extinguishers under an entity known as Fire Safety Prevention SG (FSP); and (b) the obstruction of justice in the investigations against FSP by the Police and the Competition and Consumer Commission of Singapore (CCCS) between 2018 and 2020.

The case details are as follows:

  1. On 7 February 2018, a 24-year-old man allegedly cheated a victim into purchasing a fire extinguisher by falsely representing that FSP was supported by Members of Parliament and Police. On 4 March 2019, he allegedly cheated another victim into purchasing a fire extinguisher by falsely representing that FSP was collaborating with Sengkang Community Centre to sell fire extinguishers. The man will be charged with two counts of cheating under Section 420 of the Penal Code.
  2. On 10 April 2019, a 26-year-old man allegedly cheated a victim into purchasing a fire extinguisher by falsely representing that FSP was collaborating with a Community Centre to sell fire extinguishers. On 24 February 2020, the man allegedly cheated another victim into purchasing a fire extinguisher by falsely representing that it was compulsory for every HDB unit to own a fire extinguisher. The man will be charged with two counts of cheating under Section 420 of the Penal Code.
  3. On 13 May 2019, a 27-year-old man allegedly cheated a victim into purchasing a fire extinguisher by falsely representing that it was compulsory for every household to own a fire extinguisher, and that the Singapore Civil Defence Force would issue summons to units found without at least one fire extinguisher[1]. The man will be charged with one count of cheating under Section 420 of the Penal Code.
  4. On 4 March 2020, a 42-year-old man, who was the Director of FSP, allegedly instructed FSP employees to give identical accounts to Police officers during the recording of their statements. On 5 June 2020, the man allegedly instructed FSP employees to give identical accounts to officers of the CCCS during the recording of their statements. The man will be charged with two counts of obstructing the course of justice under Section 204A(a) of the Penal Code.

The offence of cheating under Section 420 of the Penal Code 1871 carries an imprisonment term of up to 10 years and a fine. The offence of obstructing the course of justice under Section 204A(a) of the Penal Code 1871 carries an imprisonment term of up to seven years or a fine, or both.

The SPF takes a stern view of persons who engage in sales tactics involving the fraudulent misrepresentation of public agencies to coerce unsuspecting victims to purchase their products. Such fraudulent misrepresentations erode trust in public agencies and the Police will not hesitate to take firm action against such offenders, in accordance with the law.

[1] While households are encouraged to be equipped with fire extinguishers, it is not a mandatory requirement by the SCDF.

106 ARRESTED FOR DRUGS, MOTHER, DAUGHTER & SON AT CHAMPION WAY ARRESTED

Central Narcotics Bureau (CNB) arrested 106 suspected drug offenders in an anti-drug operation from 10 to 18 July 2023. During the operation, controlled drugs of about 223g of cannabis, 54g of heroin, 41g of ‘Ice’, 2g of psilocybin mushrooms with spores, 1g of ketamine, five ‘Ecstasy’ tablets, seven LSD (lysergic acid diethylamide) stamps, two bottles of GHB (gamma-hydroxybutyrate) and 27 nitrazepam tablets. These drugs have an estimated street value of about $17,200. The youngest arrested in this island-wide operation was a 15-year-old suspected female drug offender, and the oldest arrested was a 73-year-old suspected male drug offender.

2.       Some of the areas covered during this island-wide operation included Boon Lay, Jurong Sengkang, Tampines and Yishun.

13 July 2023: Family of three arrested in the vicinity of Champions Way

3.      In the morning of 13 July, CNB officers arrested a 57-year-old woman, her daughter aged 25 and son aged 21, in a residential unit in the vicinity of Champions Way for suspected drug abuse. All three are Singaporeans. A search was conducted within the unit where drug paraphernalia were recovered. Two young children, aged three and four, were in the unit and appropriate arrangements had to be made to ensure their welfare was taken care of. The children were later placed in the safe custody of their next-of-kin.

18 July 2023: Arrests of youths for suspected drug abuse

4.      In the morning of 18 July, CNB officers arrested a group of six Singaporeans, aged between 21 and 27, for suspected drug offences in a residential unit in the vicinity of Fernvale Lane. About 23g of vegetable matter believed to be cannabis, 1g of ketamine and four LSD (lysergic acid diethylamide) stamps were seized from within the unit. Based on preliminary investigations, the youths may have abused drugs together in the unit on other occasions.

5.      In other operations the same day, CNB raided a residential unit and arrested a 23-year-old Singaporean man for suspected drug offences in the vicinity of Jurong West Street 42. About 2g of psilocybin mushrooms with spores, three LSD (lysergic acid diethylamide) stamps, 3g of vegetable matter believed to be cannabis and drug paraphernalia were seized from within the unit.

6.      A 17-year-old Singaporean student was also arrested for suspected drug offences in a residential unit in the vicinity of Potong Pasir Avenue 1. During the raid, CNB officers recovered cannabis edibles that the teenager had prepared by sprinkling cannabis onto biscuits. His arrest led to the arrest of two others – both 18-year-old Singaporean students – for suspected drug abuse offences.

Photos 1 – 2 (CNB): Controlled drugs, including psilocybin mushrooms with spores and in the form of cannabis edibles, seized in an island-wide drug operation from 10 to 18 July 2023.

7.      Superintendent Royce Chua, Commanding Officer of CNB Enforcement ‘F’ and ‘L’ Divisions, said of the island-wide operation:

“In our latest island-wide anti-drug operations, CNB arrested groups of youths who are suspected to have been abusing drugs at home or in a friend’s home. In one particular case, a mother was arrested together with her two children for suspected drug abuse.

We urge parents and family members to have early conversations with your children on the harms of drugs, and to learn more about whom they might be spending time with and what they might be doing when they are out, and even when they are at home, so that their children can stay away from drugs and have the opportunity to live their lives to the fullest potential.”

8.      Under the Misuse of Drugs Act, it is an offence for a person to arrange for gatherings for drug abuse, and it is also an offence for the premise owner, tenant or occupier to permit the premises to be used for drug abuse or drug trafficking.

9.      Investigations into all arrested suspects are ongoing.

CHINA RESUMES 15 DAYS OF VISA-FREE ENTRY FOR SINGAPOREANS

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The Chinese government will resume the 15-day visa-free entry policy for Singapore citizens holding ordinary passports who come to China for business, sightseeing, visiting relatives and friends, and transiting from 0:00 on July 26, Beijing time. 

Singapore citizens who have been issued visas to China before, their visas will continue to be valid. Visa applications that have been accepted will be reviewed and issued normally.

Previously, the arrangement was suspended after the COVID-19 pandemic.

Air ticket prices soar

In an unexpected move that sent waves of excitement through the travel industry, China recently announced a new visa-free policy for Singaporean travelers. This groundbreaking decision allowed Singaporeans to enter China without the need for a visa, igniting a surge in demand for air tickets to the vast and diverse nation. However, with the sudden influx of travelers, air ticket prices to China experienced a significant spike, catching many by surprise.

As the demand soared, airlines found themselves in a unique predicament. While the excitement of increased bookings and higher revenue was evident, the logistics and operational challenges were equally apparent. Airlines had to quickly adjust their capacity and schedules to cater to the surge in passengers. However, due to the constraints of flight availability and limited slots at popular airports, the sudden surge pushed airfares to unprecedented levels.

Travel experts suggested that the spike in air ticket prices was not entirely unexpected, given the patterns observed in the travel industry. Whenever a destination opens its doors through visa-free policies or relaxes entry restrictions, an initial rush of eager travelers ensues, leading to increased competition for limited airline seats. Airlines, in turn, respond by adjusting prices to capitalize on the surge in demand.

MAN DESERT NATIONAL SERVICE DUTY IN 1992 COMES BACK 28 YEARS LATER, JAILED

In a surprising turn of events, Soh Choon Wee, a man who had deserted his national service post with the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF) over two decades ago, resurfaced in Singapore due to the COVID-19 situation. This incident has led to significant legal ramifications, and Soh’s story is one that brings attention to the importance of fulfilling national obligations. This article delves into the details of Soh’s case, the sentencing arguments presented in court, and the impact of his actions on the broader context of national security and family ties.

The Background

According to CNA, In December 1990, Soh Choon Wee enlisted as a full-time Construction Brigade national serviceman. He was later posted to the Construction Brigade Monitoring Unit at Jalan Bahar Camp to continue his National Service (NS) in October 1992. However, on November 16, 1992, Soh failed to report for NS duty, which led to his arrest by the police at his registered address in March 1993. He was then instructed to report back to camp, but Soh chose to evade arrest and disappeared from official records.

Life in Exile

Rather than facing the consequences of his actions, Soh decided to live in exile. He worked part-time as a handyman until 1998, after which he left Singapore and traveled to Malaysia via the causeway. Subsequently, he settled in the United Kingdom, where he lived and worked in a Chinese restaurant. For 23 years, Soh remained out of sight, disconnected from his family and responsibilities back in Singapore.

The Return to Singapore

In January 2021, over two decades since his desertion, Soh Choon Wee returned to Singapore. The driving force behind his return was the deteriorating COVID-19 situation in the United Kingdom. His mother, worried about his safety, advised him to come back to Singapore. Additionally, Soh expressed a deep longing to be reunited with his family, especially as his parents were getting older. Upon his return, he was placed on a stay-home notice for several weeks before being arrested by the SCDF for desertion from NS.

The Sentencing Arguments

During the court proceedings, the prosecution argued for a severe sentence, recommending seven-and-a-half to eight-and-a-half years’ jail for Soh. They highlighted the prolonged desertion period, his evasion of arrest, and the fact that his age now made it impossible for him to fulfill his NSF obligations. On the other hand, Soh’s defense lawyer, Wee Hong Shern, sought a more lenient sentence, requesting four to five years’ jail. He emphasized that Soh believed he was given a chance to leave Singapore in 1998 without facing consequences.

Soh’s Health Challenges

Soh Choon Wee’s defense also shed light on his client’s health challenges. In March 2021, Soh suffered a stroke that required immediate medical attention, and he underwent an operation for it. Furthermore, he was also coping with kidney failure, necessitating dialysis treatments three times a week. These health issues, according to the defense, made serving a lengthy jail term an immense physical and emotional burden for Soh.

The Court’s Decision

Despite considering Soh’s clean record during the period of desertion and his voluntary return, the judge handed down a stern sentence. Soh received a six-and-a-half-year jail term, believed to be the longest ever given for such a desertion offense. The judge deemed Soh’s personal circumstances insufficient to warrant a more lenient sentence, as the importance of National Service to Singapore’s security and the sacrifices of NSmen and their families cannot be understated.

UOB CUSTOMER CLAIMS HACKER CLONED HER CREDIT CARD AND USE IT FRAUDULENTLY

I want to share with everyone about a credit card scam incident that involved the UOB PPV card which I signed up recently for my overseas use. It seems scammers have level up again.

I had used the card by inserting it into my phone as per the terms and conditions of UOB orchard privilege banking of the card to make contactless transactions and payment in Christchurch and somehow, a mysterious transaction of ~$35 was placed in Auckland where I was no where even remotely near the location.

When I contacted UOB Raffles Place,singapore to dispute the charges and make a police report, they told me that they cannot do anything about as I quote “the transaction was made with the mobile contactless via paywave with the same phone I used for my other transactions” but when I checked the merchant name as stated on the bank statement as attached, it listed as Southpark which does not even have a physical store in Auckland. It is listed in Malaysia as their physical store via google. And all my previous transactions were in Christchurch where I am currently at.

This incident seemed to be unique because I had use my mobile to make payment from my mobile phone all the time with that card wherever I was and somehow the hackers were able to clone the card AND phone details to make fraudulent transactions too regardless of whether we use the physical card or the mobile contactless.

This indicates that the latest technologies used by cloners have upgraded to even clone mobile contactless device ID to make payments and I urge everyone to be aware of this when even making mobile contactless payment.

Take note of this from UOB as now I am stuck with a locked mobile banking thanks to UOB and how the bank has been unhelpful to even assist. Hence consider rethinking if that’s the bank for you in times when you lose hundreds or thousands of dollars it as they will push it all around like tai chi to avoid responsibility.

LONELY WOMAN SAID SHE LOST ALL HER FRIENDS AFTER SHE GOT MARRIED

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Lost myself

Im a person with very little friends, in fact close to none. I am married, my life just revolve around my family. Sometimes i feel like i dont have someone to talk to, or nobody to hang out with, while my husband has plenty of friends and activities.

Im happy, but im lonely at times. As much as my family is there for me, it still does not feel right. I dont know how to make new friends at this point of time. People around me are either busy with their own families and kids, or they are just partying their life away, which is not what i want. Im expecting soon. Sometimes i wish i have friends, even if its just one or two whom i can hang out with and share things with. Some friends who are on the same “channel” as me…

Here are what netizens think:

  • Once you give birth to your child and start enrolling him/her to a childcare in a year or two part time, you ll have plenty of mommy friends. I moved here from USA and had zero friends.. but slowly made friends w mommies and went on playdates often with a bunch of little ones. Don’t worry, u will be fine! Stay happy n healthy for your child as she can feel what mommy is feeling Jia you!
  • Better to be alone than to be in bad company. Get used to it. You come into this world alone, you will leave this world alone and on your own.
  • Friendships, are ongoing selfless mental and time investments that stem from constant sincere care and concern. Its not an object when you feel you like to own when you need it
  • Join a community for pregnant mummies. You can find them in forums etc. If not join one from your religion. There is always something out there for you. It all depends whether you truly wants it anot.