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WOMAN TURNED 27, STILL NO FRIENDS AND CAN’T GET A BOYFRIEND

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I just turned 27 days ago and I feel like I have no friends and have never had a boyfriend. I take care of myself and never have a problem finding a date, but the guys turn out to be pretty crappy and end up ghosting me or ending thing with me before anything gets serious.

I also have no genuine friends. I’m a nurse practitioner and I have kinda put friends on the back burner for the past couple yrs due to being in school for so long.

My only friends now are 2 girls from school but they are both engaged now.

One of them hasn’t really talked to me and for my birthday all she wrote was “happy birthday. hope it’s a good one”. I just said “thank you” in response.

Then my other friend forgot my birthday and made up some excuse that she had it in her calendar a day late however she forgot my bday last yr too.

I’m in both of these girls wedding sans just spent over $1000 on the first girl’s bachelorette party (it was out of town) and $200 on the other girls bridesmaid dress.

I ended up having lunch with the 2nd girl yesterday and she didn’t even bring me anything for my bday and barely asked how it was (I had to be the one to mention it).

I just feel like I have no genuine friends and I do t even want to be in these girls weddings anymore. I feel like I’m just a body that they need for the photos at this point.

My closest friends are honestly my coworkers but I’m about to switch clinic locations (I’ll be an hr away) so I won’t be able to see them as much. I just feel lost with my relationships.

I’m religious and have been thinking about joining a church to meet people. I refuse to do dating apps again because those just hurt my feelings and I would get so attached to the guy only for him to ghost me or end things a couple weeks into dating.

Any advice?

SGD REACHES NEW RECORD HIGH, NOW $1 = RM3.50 – TIME TO GO JB SHOPPING UNTIL KISIAO

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In a noteworthy development on Tuesday, October 24, the Singapore dollar exchange rate with the Malaysian ringgit achieved a significant milestone by surging past the MYR3.50 mark, according to The Straits Times.

However, at the time of writing, it has since dropped to SGD$1 = RM3.49.

According to data sourced from Bloomberg, the trading day commenced with the Singapore dollar opening at 3.5073 against the Malaysian ringgit, marking a notable increase from the previous day’s closing rate of 3.4910.

At its intraday peak, the exchange rate reached an even higher value of 3.5083.

As the trading day unfolded, by 5:30 PM, the Singapore dollar settled at 3.5028 against the Malaysian ringgit. At an earlier point in the day, the ringgit briefly dipped below 3.50.

According to Bloomberg, a spokesperson for the Bank Negara Malaysia said that the recent trajectory of the Malaysian Ringgit is likely influenced by events happening around the world, and international factors; and not influenced by the economy of Malaysia.

Local money changers have also reported seeing an increase in customers wanting to exchange their currencies, with one local money changer attributing the recent uptick to the strong Sing dollar and the upcoming Deepavali weekend and end-of-year school holidays.

Previous high was RM3.44

It was previously reported that he Singapore dollar saw an increase in value compared to the Malaysian ringgit, reaching a new record high of S$1 to RM3.44 on Thursday, June 8, 2023.

Earlier predictions regarding the weakening of the ringgit are proving to be accurate. Bank Negara Malaysia (BNM), the central bank of Malaysia, had previously suggested that the weakening of the ringgit could be attributed to various factors such as the debt ceiling deadlock in the United States, as well as banking uncertainties in both the U.S. and Europe. Furthermore, the aggressive interest rate hikes implemented by the U.S. Federal Reserve have also contributed to the ringgit’s decline.

Experts who were consulted by CNA at that time explained that the stronger economic fundamentals of Singapore have resulted in the depreciation of the ringgit against the Singapore dollar. Notably, a report by credit rating agency Fitch, prior to the analysis on May 29, stated that Singapore holds a AAA rating while Malaysia has a BBB+ rating.

One significant factor negatively affecting the ringgit is the inconsistent economic recovery of China. Given that China is one of Malaysia’s key trading partners, the weaker-than-anticipated recovery in China’s economy has had adverse effects on Malaysia.

Reports indicate that Malaysia experienced a 1.8 percent decline in exports year on year during the first quarter of 2023, largely attributed to the decrease in exports to China. Furthermore, the ringgit’s value has been hindered by Malaysia’s relatively limited investment opportunities and forthcoming domestic structural reforms.

YP CAUGHT ON CAMERA STEALING WOMAN’S FOOD DELIVERY ORDERS REPEATEDLY

Imagine eagerly awaiting a scrumptious meal, only to find it mysteriously vanish from your doorstep not once, but twice.

Such a bizarre and frustrating ordeal became a reality for Eyna Ariffin, who recently took to social media to vent her frustration and uncover the identity of the audacious food thief.

In the wee hours of October 26, Eyna’s food delivery from Burger Geprek at Woodlands North Plaza met a peculiar fate – it disappeared into thin air.

The Culinary Heist

A month or so ago, Eyna Ariffin experienced the first incident when her Monster Curry order went missing. However, it was the theft of her Geprek delivery that truly ruffled her feathers.

Frustrated and determined to expose the thief, Eyna turned to Facebook, where she shared her grievances with a touch of warning. She said: “Last month steal Monster curry, today steal geprek. I lost almost $50 worth of food as of today. First, i want to find the parents. Whose child is this? The parents if inside here better pm me. What is your kid doing?”

She later updated her Facebook post, saying: “dn worry, this one extra. Because im petty and i greatly despise people messing w my food. Not food. No. Just no. NOPE. Naaah. NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE NOPE. Also, i want the parents present. I still cannot accept. Until now i havent eat. IM VERY UPSET I DIDNT GET TO EAT WHAT I WANTED YTD”

The Late-Night Craving

Eyna had placed an order from Burger Geprek, anticipating a delicious late-night meal. The delivery arrived promptly at 3:24 am, and a photo taken by her food delivery rider captured her meal hanging from a hook on her front gate.

However, joy quickly turned to bewilderment as Eyna’s food vanished into the night, stolen shortly after its delivery. The perplexing incident left her craving unanswered.

The Culprit Revealed

CCTV footage shared in her Facebook post shed light on the identity of the brazen thief. A teenage boy was seen standing at her front cate at about 3.32am before leaving shortly after.

Eyna’s frustration escalated as she recalled a previous delivery order made on September 22, which had also mysteriously disappeared. She strongly believes that the same teenage culprit was behind both thefts, where she lost almost $50 to the thefts.

A police report into the incident has also been lodged.

Images source: Eyna Ariffin on Facebook

RSAF REGULAR MOONLIGHTED AS DELIVERY DRIVER, FLED FROM POLICE IN HIGH-SPEED CHASE, JAILED

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27-year-old Lin Guo JIe, a regular with the Republic of Singapore Air Force, was arrested back in March for evading the police in a high speed chase at a multi-storey carpark in Sembawang before being arrested.

He was sentenced to 3 weeks imprisonment and had his driving license suspended for a year.

A Moonlighting RSAF Officer’s Secret Life

Shin Min Daily News reported that the incident unfolded on the evening of March 28th, at 7:58 pm, in a multi-storey carpark at Block 592 Montreal Link in Sembawang.

Lin was a regular with the RSAF at the time and also secretly moonlighting as a delivery driver.

He was picking up some good at the multi-storey carpark when he suddenly heard someone shouting “police!” he then loaded the goods in his vehicle and drove away.

A Sting Operation and a Great Escape

Unbeknownst to Lin, the police were conducting a sting operation at the time and an officer spotted Lin’s car and requested his cooperation in the ongoing investigation. Initially, Lin complied, but his compliance was short-lived.

Two riders on e-bikes diverted the officer’s attention, providing Lin with an opportunity. In a daring move, he leaped back into his vehicle and attempted to flee.

His plan was to ascend from the fifth storey to the sixth, but fate had other plans.

Lin encountered a police car blocking his path and was forced to make a U-turn back to the original position where the officer stood. The officer once again instructed Lin to exit his vehicle.

A Desperate Attempt to Flee

In a desperate bid to escape, Lin stepped on the accelerator and sped down to the first storey. There, police officers stationed on the first floor managed to intercept and arrest him.

What the police officers discovered during the apprehension added a layer of intrigue to the case. Lin was found in possession of a whopping 200 e-vaporisers, along with 20 other parcels.

However, he claimed that he didn’t know about the vapes in his possession.

The Verdict: Three Weeks in Jail and Suspended License

The legal proceedings that followed were equally surprising. Lin Guo Jie, when presented with the evidence, pleaded guilty to a charge of rash act endangering the life or the personal safety of others.

The court, in light of the peculiar circumstances, sentenced him to three weeks in jail and suspended his driving license for a year.

During his hearing, Lin revealed his motivation for resisting arrest in such an audacious manner.

He confessed that he had taken on the side job as a delivery personnel due to financial difficulties. Fearing that this moonlighting job might tarnish his reputation as an RSAF regular, he desperately tried to keep it a secret.

GIRL SELLS HER BODY IN ORDER TO AFFORD THE FEES FOR HER DEGREE

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We hear these stories from time to time and it can be a bit disturbing, about students who are taking degrees working as hostesses or something “even more”.

Here is the story:

I’m not proud to say this so I will share this story anonymously. I needed some advice as I feel kind of wrong doing this.

I managed to pay for my $20,000+ degree in 2 instalments. My classmates knew that I do not come from a well to do family and they wondered how did I manage to pay for my degree in two instalments.

I often lie to them and tell them that I saved up alot of my earnings but when I go out with them… The way I spend money sometimes gave it away.

The truth is… it started out as an innocent waitressing job and I eventually became a hostess as the money was good. But I got greedy and tired from working as a hostess as I’m often drunk.

Studying for a degree is not easy and there are always endless assignments to submit and the deadline is always tight. While drinking with some customers, I told a few of them of my situation and some of them advised me to stop working as a hostess while some others told me to “tahan”

One of the customers actually offered me a deal, he said that I can quit my job and focus on my degree. I asked him “then how would I pay for my degree?”

He said that the deal was to give me a $2,000 allowance a month to be his “girlfriend”. I asked if he is asking me to be his “SugarB”. He said yes… So I asked what I needed to do, he said

“everything a girlfriend does with her boyfriend”

I was tempted but I rejected him.

Degree soon became a lesser concern

Months went by and the stress from studying was getting higher and higher, I met the same guy at the pub again and somehow this time he convinced me. I feel like a soulless doll when he was using me but the money was good.

After 2 months, I felt that I can earn much more than that and I started to do freelance and eventually MIA from that customer.

Freelancing was earning me even more, within a few months I could not only pay up my degree’s fee but also buy good things for myself. I started to think… even with a degree, I will not come close to earning this kind of money until I’m old.

By the time I’m old, I don’t have the energy to have fun anymore. Now I’m thinking should I finish my degree or just do freelance till I can afford my own property. I am really confused, a bit of me is feeling disgusted with myself. But I can’t say no to money.

35 Y.O MAN WHO KILLED PREGNANT WIFE @ AMK, WANTED TO “SPARE HER” FROM FAILING BUSINESS

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35-year-old David Brian Chow Kwok-Hun, the managing director of the KnowledgeTree Training Centre, was sentenced on 26 October to seven years in prison for culpable homicide after he killed his wife, Isabel Elizabeth Francis, who was 15 weeks pregnant at the time, according to The Straits Times.

The incident occurred in the early hours of January 11, 2022, at the couple’s flat in Ang Mo Kio.

Thought his business was failing

Chow’s distress and anxiety had been mounting for several days due to concerns over the financial state of his company.

His troubles began in December 2021 when he received unusually low financial figures from an employee.

Despite the fact that his business had been profitable, earning approximately $1 million in profits between July 2020 and June 2021 and maintaining financial stability even amid the COVID-19 pandemic, he was convinced that his company was on the brink of failure.

Slept 1-2 hours a day

Between January 7 and January 9, 2022, Chow struggled to get one to two hours of sleep each night on average, and his behavior began to raise concerns among his family, colleagues, and his wife.

He even resorted to sleeping aids, but his insomnia persisted. His mother, brother, and the manager of his company reassured him that the business was financially sound and profitable.

However, as his mental state continued to deteriorate, Chow’s thoughts turned to taking his own life. He feared the stigma and shame that would befall his wife and unborn child if he were to do it, and he worried that others might come after them due to his business failure.

Stabbed wife in the head

In the early hours of January 11, 2022, in a state of distress, he took a knife from the kitchen and attacked his sleeping wife, telling her he had no way out.

Tragically, he continued to stab her in the head, neck, and body, leading to her untimely death. Chow then turned the knife on himself, stabbing his neck and stomach, and pleading for the devil to take him while hoping for his wife and unborn daughter to find peace in heaven.

After the attack, Chow’s realization that he was not dying quickly enough prompted him to consume a random assortment of tablets in an attempt to end his own life. However, his efforts proved unsuccessful.

At approximately 7.35am, he called the police to report the crime, refusing assistance from his father and unlocking the door to await the authorities.

It was later revealed that Chow had been suffering from an adjustment disorder that fueled his catastrophic thinking about the financial future of his company and led to his dark thoughts.

As a result, his initial murder charge was reduced due to his diminished responsibility for his actions.

CROWS ATTACKING PASSERS-BY AT ORCHARD ROAD, MAN KENA PECKED UNTIL EAR BLEEDS

In a rather unusual turn of events, Orchard Central mall in Singapore recently found itself in the grip of fear, thanks to a pair of aggressive crows.

At least two crows have been witnessed attacking people just outside the mall’s entrance, according to The Straits Times.

The National Parks Board (NParks) swiftly intervened by removing the crow’s nest, so as to prevent similar attacks from reoccurring.

The Aggressive Crows

Witnesses at Orchard Central mall have reported unsettling incidents involving two aggressive crows. These feathered culprits were observed attacking and pecking unsuspecting passers-by passing by their nest, at a rate of about 10 attacks per hour, according to ST.

The birds adopted a striking modus operandi, swooping down from street signs and ambushing their victims from behind. Their attacks involved grazing shoulders with talons and pecking at necks and ears. After each assault, they sought refuge in a nearby tree, near the outside escalator at Orchard Central’s entrance.

The crows seemed to have a preference for targeting men who unwittingly ventured too close to the tree. One victim was even seen leaving the area with a bleeding earlobe.

Witness Ms. Joyce Heng recounted her shock at the birds’ ferocity to ST, describing how they pursued some people relentlessly, even when their victims tried to dodge their attacks.

Another witness, Ms. Kim Choo, shared a video capturing the birds targeting three passers-by in just one minute. Ms. Choo expressed concern about the potential risks for children and those using the nearby escalator.

Understanding the Culprits

The birds responsible for these alarming attacks are known as house crows, an invasive species originating from South Asia.

They are very protective of their offsprings and if they feel their baby crows are threatened, they could attack and respond aggressively.

MAN SAWS “HEAD” OUTSIDE WINDOW OF THIRD FLOOR, SHADOWS OF THIN MAN

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I have been living in this flat since 2001, and currently things are going well. But I remember from the earlier stages, the many disturbance we got from the tenants who have been here much longer than us.

We live on the third floor, and my bedroom is on one end of the flat. My room has a window that faces a playground. And during the day, it all looks good, with sounds of children from a nearby kindergarten playing. But one of the nights a few months after we moved in, I saw something really odd, that I cannot explain to this day.

It wasn’t midnight or at some early hours of the morning, but at around 8pm, right just after we finished dinner, and I was going to my room to collect some dirty clothes. I walked into my room very briskly and was aware that there was a kind of wind or force. It was like I walked into a netting or smoke or something. I was perplexed and standing in the middle of my room, I looked around, as I collected my clothes. Eventually, my eyes spotted something black and shiny right outside my window. At the ledge, I could see the inky black of the top of someone’s head. I can still remember seeing hair, the parting, the scalp. It was like a person was literally outside my window, and I could see the top of his/her head. There were no hands grasping the windowsill, or anything. Just one head, with black hair.

Amazingly, I just walked out. I was not scared, but just kept thinking, how strange. Today, whenever I think back, the hairs on my neck just stand. I still stay in the same room, and my bed is right under that window. I have received no other disturbances from the “black haired head”, but that was something I suspect related to another incident.

It was the few weeks after we moved in. Some of our things were still unpacked, but I remember feeling very excited, because the renovations were finally done and my room was finally complete. I was enjoying the privacy of my new room. One night, as I was sleeping, I just happened to wake up. As I trying to get back to sleep, I noticed one of our rolled-up carpet behind my door. I thought nothing of it, until I realized the carpet was too tall. It spanned the floor to ceiling, and then wondered, why my mother choose to place the carpet there.

It was dark and I was still groggy from being awakened, but remember feeling quite annoyed that my mom chose to store an ugly thing in my room. Then, from the side of the rolled-up carpet, I saw the distinct movement of an arm. One hand was placed on one elbow, and the arm moved downwards until both hands were clasped in each other. It was only then that I truly saw that the carpet was not rolled up. It wasn’t a carpet at all, but a very long and tall thin being standing in the corner behind my door. It had no face, although I could remember its arms and thin legs, and its slight movement like breathing or swaying.

I eventually got back to sleep, similarly, I did not feel afraid only after some time later when I actually think about it. My mother said, this house actually has guardians, and I probably saw one of them. Amazingly, she also got each room blessed, and without the kids realizing, all our doors and windows have small stickers of prayers.

That “black-haired head” was probably trying to get in, but could not because of both guardians and the prayers stuck on to every window. Eventually, it probably settled on my window, being the furthest window in the house.

So far, I have had no more disturbances. But ours is just one flat in a block of many other blocks. And I have seen some weird happenings and events in this cluster of blocks that even the Town Council cannot or will not address properly. So it’s not so much that these blocks are for people to live in, over time, these spaces and rooms also collect their own share of residents.

Those that choose to either reveal themselves to us, or leave us alone.

“FREELANCE GIRL” FELL IN LOVE WITH MARRIED MAN, WANTS HIM TO DIVORCE

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Tldr (very long post ahead): I fell in love with a married man through my freelance work. Things got complicated, he is divorcing his wife and I don’t know what to do now.

I was a freelancer (if you know what I mean) and I met him through an app. I’m 27 and he’s 37. Due to problems with his marriage which has been going on for years (I knew that from the start, I’ve known him for 1 year already), this was where he turned to. His wife doesn’t know about us and has never known about any of the girls he had met before. He ended up falling for me due to certain parts of my character and personality that he liked which apparently his wife lacks in, and the chemistry is there. We just click.

Before things got complicated, this was all just transactional to me. I was okay with meeting him everytime he asked since he treats me well, more like a paid FWB thing making it feel less of a “chore” when I meet him as compared to other men. And his married status gave me the comfort that this man just wanted someone to spend his free time with to temporarily get away from his problems at home. Later on, the meet ups became “weirder” as he asked me out for occasional movies, dinner, massage, gym, and even a staycation. It literally felt like we were dating.

A year later, he eventually confessed to me and I admitted that I fell for him too. I stopped my freelancing and he stopped meeting other girls and we have been “exclusive” for a couple months already even before we confessed our feelings to each other.

I never wanted nor expected anything more because of his marital status as I thought that I was just a girl to pass his time and things will be over between us when he resolves his marriage problems or when he finds another girl. But I was wrong and I also ended up falling for his personality and actions.

Since his confession, he also told me that he is divorcing his wife, but it will take some time to settle the divorce and their house matters, so I would have to wait 1 year before we can officially be together. At first we set a date a year from now, once this date has passed, I’m gone and I’m not waiting any longer, and we agreed on it. I know that he’s sincere about this because I know the situation with his wife (long story- but she initiated the divorce). I’ve read his conversations with her and I’m even the one he spends every night with. He shares with me all the details about his life. I tried talked him out of it many times before as I felt bad being a third party… but he insisted on going through with the divorce as he feels this marriage cannot be saved anymore.

Just recently, he told me that he wanted to extend this date to a month longer as he saw the wrong date for his house matter (something about the 5th year mark to be able to sell off the house and get some money back). I cant explain how I felt upon hearing it- firstly I already agreed to wait so long- a year for him to settle what he needs to. I didn’t ask for anything else be it material things or whatever at all. Secondly it’s not my fault that he saw the wrong date, we agreed on this timeline and he should’ve checked before he agreed with me. It feels unfair for me to give him the benefits of girlfriend (/mistress) while he has a wife it’s like he is benefiting from both of us and I have to wait around, although I know that there’s nothing going on between them anymore. I know it’s just a month longer than agreed but this extension request is making me feel like I might not be patient enough to wait. Or maybe I’m just worried that somehow a miracle happens and he decides to stay with his wife and I would have ended up wasting all my time.

I told him I honestly don’t know if I could wait that long, but he wants me to give him a definite answer and he’s pleading me to agree to wait just a little longer. I just really don’t know if I should agree to this or just end it altogether. I know I’m complicating my life by being in this situation when I could just, not be in it. The thing is I really feel that his feelings and actions towards me are sincere and what if all this is worth it in the end? But then what if it’s not?

Someone please knock this brain of mine and help me out… I know I’ll get a lot of hate for being a “home wrecker” sure.. hate me.. go on but please just please tell me what I should do..

GUY CONFUSED, ASKED A GIRL FOR HER NUMBER THEN SHE STARTS CRYING

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I asked out a girl yesterday and she cried

She full on cried. Like head in her hands cried. Her friends then glared at me and started berating me. They called me a creep, a weirdo. They made me feel like absolute crap.

I’m so confused, I didn’t even do anything wrong…

I don’t even think I did it in a weird way. All I did was ask for her number. I wasn’t pushy or touchy or anything. I would’ve taken a no, but my interest in her made her cry.

I’m so hopeless

Netizens’ comments

  • Hey, you’ve already been through this scenario now and lived. So that’s less to worry about the next time you ask someone out.
  • If you didn’t do anything, then this reaction is her problem not yours. And shows a person with some issues. I mean no insult but her doing that just saved you a lot of trouble in the future.
  • I don’t think you deserved to be treated that way over asking for someone’s number. However, it’s pretty clear that you weren’t the reason she was crying and they were being dramatic – she likely has a lot going on that you don’t know about.