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5 Y.O GIRL ALLEGEDLY LOCKED IN TOILET BY DAD, ONLY LET OUT FOR MEALS, FOUND DEAD

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In the months preceding the alleged murder of a five-year-old girl, a disturbing tale of neglect and ill treatment unfolded within the confines of a one-room flat.

The father, now standing trial, is accused of subjecting his daughter to physical assault, resulting in her untimely death.

The prosecutors told the High Court on Wednesday (5 July) that the man had allegedly confined his two children inside the toilet of a one-room flat and only let them out for meals or when he or his wife (the children’s stepmother) had to use the toilet.

Living in Squalor

The two young children, the victim, and her younger brother, were forced to endure appalling living conditions. Confined to a single room, they were stripped and confined to the toilet, except for mealtimes and when their father and stepmother needed to use the facilities.

Adding to their distress, a closed-circuit TV camera was installed, allowing their parents to monitor them even in their most vulnerable moments.

Severe Neglect

On the fateful morning of August 12, 2017, the lifeless body of the young girl was taken to Singapore General Hospital, more than 15 hours after her father discovered her lifeless.

Medical examinations revealed the extent of her suffering—a severely malnourished body adorned with bruises, abrasions, and scars. Deputy Public Prosecutor Han Ming Kuang described the case as a tragic instance of child neglect and ill treatment that led to the demise of an innocent life.

Concealing the Crime

Following the discovery of his daughter’s lifeless body, the accused embarked on a disturbing course of action to hide the evidence. He packed items associated with the girl’s death, meticulously cleaned the flat, and even went as far as washing her body, dressing her, and placing her in a pram.

In an attempt to deceive the authorities, he coerced his wife into claiming that the children were elsewhere while he disposed of the incriminating items and purchased beer. Upon his return, he subjected his wife to physical assault.

Arrest and Trial

The following morning, the accused disposed of the evidence in various bins near their residence before taking the lifeless girl and her brother in the pram to Singapore General Hospital.

Despite the medical team’s attempts to revive her, she was pronounced dead.

The hospital promptly notified the police, leading to the arrest of the father on the same day. During the initial interrogation, he concocted a fabricated story, claiming that his daughter had died due to an accident on a slide. He also lied about spending the entire night away from the flat with the children.

The Wife’s Testimony

The trial proceeded with the testimony of the accused’s wife, the stepmother of the deceased girl. She revealed shocking details about her indifference towards her stepchildren and her complicity in the incident(s).

The wife testified that she treated her own children as “normal,” while describing her stepchildren as “skinny” due to insufficient food. When questioned about the stark difference in her treatment, she callously admitted to feeling nothing for them, displaying a complete lack of empathy.

The stepmother’s testimony shed light on the underlying dynamics that perpetuated the ill treatment. She disclosed that her husband confined the children to a corner of the flat as a punishment for tearing their diapers.

Disturbing photographs revealed that furniture, including a wardrobe and bookshelf, were used to barricade the children in the corner, intensifying their isolation and suffering.

The Prosecution’s Case

The prosecution presented a compelling case against the accused, charging him with murder along with 25 additional counts of ill-treatment towards the two children.

Their evidence showcased a pattern of physical ill treatment, including punching, slapping, kicking, and lifting the girl by her neck against a wall.

The prosecution also revealed instances where a pair of scissors was brandished, and the girl was thrown onto a mattress. The boy, the girl’s younger brother, also endured similar mistreatment.

POP SINGER COCO LEE DEAD AT 48, SISTER SAYS “HER DEMONS GOT THE BETTER OF HER”

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In a shocking turn of events, the entertainment industry mourns the loss of Hong Kong-born American singer Coco Lee, who tragically passed away at the age of 48.

Her sisters posted on social media announcing her death and sharing that she had apparently taken her own life on Sunday.

She was sent to the hospital but efforts to resuscitate her were unsuccessful, and she passed away on Wednesday after falling into a coma.

Silent Struggle

Behind the glitz and glamour, Coco Lee grappled with inner demons. Her sisters, Nancy and Carol, revealed that Coco had been suffering from her mental health issues for several years, and her condition had worsened in recent months. Despite seeking professional help and fighting against her mental health struggles, Coco succumbed to the illness and took her own life on Sunday.

She was sent to the hospital but efforts to resuscitate her were unsuccessful, and she passed away on Wednesday.

The pop star had been battling her mental health issues, ultimately leading to her untimely demise.

Rise to the top

Coco Lee, known for being the first Mandopop superstar to break into the American market, captivated audiences with her powerful vocals, dynamic dance moves, and infectious charm.

Born Ferren Lee, Coco Lee began her journey to stardom in 1994 at the young age of 19 when she released her debut album in Taiwan. With her exceptional vocal range and energetic performances, Coco quickly became a sensation in the Mandopop scene. Her talent and charisma attracted a wide fan base, earning her the nickname “Mariah Carey of Asia.”

Coco Lee’s ambition and determination led her to conquer new horizons. In 2001, she made history as the first Chinese artist signed by Sony New York, breaking into the American market. Her exceptional talent captured the attention of industry insiders, including Mariah Carey’s agent, who recognized Coco’s star potential. With her captivating stage presence and unique sound, Coco Lee established herself as a pioneer, shattering international barriers for Chinese singers.

Coco Lee’s impact on the music industry cannot be overstated. Not only did she pave the way for Chinese artists in the international music scene, but she also left an indelible mark with her powerful voice and dedication. Coco’s contributions extended beyond her own achievements; she sang the theme songs for Disney’s animated film Mulan and Lee Ang’s Wuxia masterpiece, Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon. Her accomplishments and commitment to her craft continue to inspire aspiring musicians around the world.

BF NOT HAPPY HIS NURSE GF IS SEEING OTHER GUYS “SAUSAGE” ALL THE TIME

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How do you guys deal with the insecurity?

I am working in healthcare and this girl I’m seeing is a cute nurse colleague. In our field, some patients are (partly) naked due to their limited capacities/illnesses/procedures and the nurses have to physically handle them in their various degrees of undress.

If they were regular old patients I wouldn’t really care, but once in a while they have to go check or even adjust some young, fit guy’s D and it makes me feel weird and kinda jealous. Once I heard her talking with another nurse about if they needed to some procedure on a guy’s genitals and I was so disturbed I just pretended I didn’t hear them and quickly walked away. I mean I know it’s just part of the job – and maybe even hypocritical of me to say as someone in healthcare myself – but I can’t help but feel like nakedness is something sacred to be treasured and shared with a partner exclusively, but that some kind of innocence is lost here…

Here are what netizens think:

  • I used to be a Nurse and seeing and washing naked ppl is an everyday thing. It’s like eating and shitting, I have worked with tons of nurses. Male and female. I know for sure we never had any fantasies or feelings towards naked patients. We have a nursing code of ethics to follow. Also don’t worry, male nurses will always take care of our female nurses whenever we know there is a patient who tries to be funny with any of our nurses. A job is a job. Nth more to eat into. We leave it behind the moment we walk out of the ward. So don’t over think and create problems in ur head that is not even there.
  • I didn’t know the healthcare sector was accepting candidates with room temperature IQs.
  • I didnt know that when/if u are sick yourself, u get to be fully clothed at all times and/or ur genetials got some special immunity and will never need medical attention.
  • Hey, man, you just need to wake up and face the reality of being in the health care industry…that including female nurse need to handle an erected male organ .,. look at it as biological image rather than a sexual one ..is all in the mind and education , how ones perceive things ! LoL

GF SPIKES BF’S PARENTS WITH DOG URINE, BF WORRY ABOUT FAMILY’S SAFETY

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My gf hates my family and says and does mean things to them secretly, but I love her. What should I do?

My gf and I have been together for almost 4 years now. We are staying together in my family’s home. We grew up in completely different backgrounds so naturally we would have different upbringing. Before we got together, I had brought 2 very important points to her and that is my family is very important to me and if she can get along with them, it would mean the world to me. And if she can’t, I would really appreciate her being courteous towards them. I feel like my parents have been treating her so nicely and doesn’t disrespect her in any way because she is who I chose. But it has been almost 4 years and she hasn’t shown any basic respect at all (eg: greeting my parents when she sees them when we/she return home). And honestly to me, this is a huge disrespect. I had sat her down and talked about this so many times, but it just doesn’t seem to be working.

Recently she also confessed me out of guilt that she contaminates my parent’s food / drinks with my dog’s urine and that is freaking unhygienic and disgusting. I was too stunned to speak when she confessed. I didn’t know what to do or say at all… It has been a week and we haven’t talked yet. She keeps saying she’s very apologetic but I really do not know if I am able to get pass this. I honestly fear for my family’s safety if this continues because I don’t know what will happen in the future if she gets annoyed at them again… And as a cherry on top, she is living here rent free and does not help out in any chores at all.

I love her a lot and really wanted to spend the rest of my life with her, but after hearing her confession I really don’t know what to do or feel now.

Help……

Here are what netizens think:

  • Contaminating anyone’s food on purpose is totally unacceptable! Furthermore, they are old folks, her future parents-in-law! For a moment, I even doubted what I was reading was real. Her character and moral value is in question! Pls ask yourself, do you want to continue living with one that has such a distorted mind? U know the ans actually. I wouldn’t even keep such person as a friend, all the more a life partner. For once, let your brain takes over your heart before things get worse after marriage. There are better ladies out there! Go find one that’s kind at heart. The one that u have now obviously has an evil heart.
  • Time to go. Lacing food with dog urine is a strict no go. I do not even want to be acquainted with a person capable of doing that, even to an annoying stranger, much less from someone who might be a life partner.
  • Bro…she contaminated food and drinks with dog urine and you still need to consider to leave her or not?……don’t know which is the bigger red flag man……just leave her alr, that’s not what a normal human being will do.
  • Simply not acceptable. Not acknowledging your parents is one thing. Contaminating their food is another whole level. What are you waiting for??? Ditch her now!!!!

THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN GROWING OLD AND GROWING UP, LIFE OF A SGP ADULT

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At a certain age, you all need to grow up.

I posted this elsewhere before, but I’ll post this here.

By the age of 25, you all should start thinking about what to do with your future. All those immature attitudes you have since school time should be gone by then. All those drama you purposely got yourself into cause you’re so pathetically bored with your life, you should leave all of it at once by then.

25 is a great time to start thinking about what matters in life. To be responsible, discipline, mature, and of course, a grown adult.

I don’t care enough if you achieve certain things late, like graduating, marriage, first car, first house, first child, like say by the age of 35+. But 25 is where everyone needs to start take their life seriously. No more childish behaviour. No more drama. No more irresponsible behaviour.

If by the time you reach 60 but your mentality is the same as when you were 20, then all you did was grow old, and didn’t grow up.

Stop being such an inconvenience to everyone else with that childish, dumb, irresponsible attitude of yours, especially when you’re a grown adult.

Grow up.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Everyone grows up at different stage of their life through personal experiences. No need to pigeon hole at age 25. What you think doesn’t mean others should think the same as you.Suggest you may need to think through your thoughts and communication thereafter as you go through your life stage. All the best!
  • The term at this age youre supposed to do this and that doesnt apply to all. Why? Everybody live differently, some have a hard life to begin with and some are spoon fed and pampered. Some from poor becomes succssful or remain the same or improve abit. Same goes for the rich. Nothing is certain. We live as time goes by we learn to adapt and survive and decide our own future. Ppl can give advice but they cant control how we want to live.
  • Agree. The goals you stated are good. Some people have different goals, but all should know exactly what they want and aggressively pursue it. Improvise along the way.

BF WEARS 10CM INSOLES TO LOOK TALLER, GF PUT PADDING TO BECOME A B CUP. BOTH LIARS

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What’s worse?

After 6 months of dating, realizing that his height is actually 162cm instead of 172cm due to the insoles that he never failed to wear on every date, and now the both of you around same height, with you being 1-2cm taller.

Or, after 6 months of dating, realizing that her B cup is actually just somehow padded really well, and now even your chest muscles have more volume than her airport runway chest.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Me spending 1 min to read this nonsense.
  • Where to find 10cm insole
  • Maybe recommend me both sellers of the padded soles and the padded bra
  • He tell me 8 inch end up 4 inch
  • The fact it took 6 months to discover them is much worse.
  • But the designs are very human since they would not be discovered until at least 6 months later. So they are very good.
  • OR orrrrrrr him telling you 10 inches then you finding out it’s 2 inches.
  • Height is more difficult to change but cup size can be easily upsize by implants. So height is the worse case.
  • Thats not worse. Worse is when you just board amd seated a public transport then suddenly nature call. Actually doesnt matter if both passed through the physical expectations.
  • Yourself. Easiest way is to just go wild wild wet frm the first week then u know alr lo HAHAHAH
  • Please tell me where to buy the 10cm insole. Need to boost my height also.

GIRL DATED 4 RICH GUYS BUT STILL NOT HAPPY WITH HER LIFE

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Is it a sampling issue or are people from not-so-wealthy families more spendthrift, tend to engage in a lot more hedonistic activities, and are much more arrogant than people from generationally wealthy families?

I have dated a total of 4 guys.

One was from a ultra-high net worth family. He was my first. I dated him the longest. His parents own one of the most famous food product companies in Southeast Asia. I met him at a friend’s wedding. He had just come back from the US, graduated from Penn, in-line to take over the business as the oldest child. Due to differences in goals (he doesn’t want kids period), we felt it was better if we parted ways. Apart from the kid issue, I would have married him.

He was an intense individual, very ambitious, very energetic, very calculating, very forward-looking, very pragmatic. He was also modest and thrifty. He loves eating at hawker centres (no air-con), he always wears his old PE shorts from high school, carries an old iPhone with a cracked screen, borrows suits to wear to weddings, buys cakes from Four Leaves to celebrate his parents’ birthdays, never travels for leisure (only for work), takes the bus and MRT whenever he can etc. The only luxury he’d splurge on is air travel (he only flies SQ but economy). At 30 he already received all of his dad’s holdings because they wanted to avoid the inheritance process to save on inconvenience. His parents are the same as he is—believed strongly in a world-class education, for which they were willing to spend an arm and a leg. Otherwise, their whole family pretty much lived by a similar philosophy.

The other three were pretty similar. Middle-class white-collar families. They themselves had white-collar office jobs—two were lawyers and one was a Morgan Stanley banker. They were partygoers. Traveled frequently for leisure. Ate at expensive restaurants. Went to concerts, even paying $1200 on one occasion for two tickets. Bought the latest phones, laptops, gadgets. The banker bought a BMW 3 series 2 years into his job. He also drank expensive spirits and wine. Once, one of them found out that I dated someone from a crazy rich family and he claimed that he was self-made and didn’t have to live off daddy’s money. All of whom were very eager to present themselves as upper-class, which was completely contrary to what I personally experienced being close to a centimillionaire family. I broke up with all three of them for similar reasons, I didn’t enjoy what they did for fun and they kept putting pressure on me to do what they did. The common reason was “[I] will not be young forever.” I concur, but I much prefer to focus on my work as I am saving up to buy rental properties to retire.

I have taken a break from dating because it is really frustrating that young people who refuse to participate in “enjoying life” are somehow treated like there’s something wrong with us, when I am almost sure that it wasn’t the case one or two generations ago. I’m still trying to make rent, I don’t feel like I have enough money in my savings account for if I get laid off, I have student loans etc. I make good money (high 4-figure monthly) as an auditor. I don’t think I’m comfortable enough financially to start traveling. But people expect me to. It makes me wonder if society in general think a certain lifestyle is how the ultra-rich tend to live without actually knowing how most of them actually live. Or is it the truth that the wealthy does spend their time in high-living and I just met a guy who was from an unconventional rich family?

MAN SAYS SUCK IT UP UNTIL GET BTO, DONT BREAK UP BEFORE GETTING THE FLAT

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i often read stories abt couples breaking up for their BTO/EC, and lose up to 200k for EC.

i think it is stupid not to proceed with marriage. at MOP, EC typically earns 300-500K.

good location BTO as well also earn 300-500k. you buy at 600k, you sell at 1 million for BTO.

although BTO the penalty is much lesser – just abt 50k penalty after signing agreement for lease.

So If you already sign Agreement For Lease or BTO, or alr exercised the option for EC, then just go ahead with marriage, especially if you are young.

who knows if it might work.

if it doesnt work, in 7 years time you stand to get 300-500k in total. or each person 200k on average.

it is good to have multiple marriages also, it benefits and create employment for family lawyers.

from that MOP sale, you are set with your first pot of gold.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Two friends should marry and cash in at 5 years. No one stopping you from dating others, if both parties agreeable right? Just keep marrying friends and do the same thing. Investment opportunity.
  • Lol…….omg….didn’t know marriage is so complicated. Haven’t married and already talking about earning $$$ via divorcing. What a bloody complicated society we are living in.
  • That a simplistic way of thinking. It was said that it’s better to live in the corner of a rooftop than with a contentious person.
  • Get married cus you want to, not because your partner wants too.. bto is a big step, some guys not born alpha, Kenna drag to bto, after get bto already, comes the proposal, girl act surprised all feel like slapping these people, already bto la still act surprised when propose. Singapore marriage trap is something very real. Learn to say No my brothers, if you are studying law and dunno which lawyer to be, be a divorce lawyer, wedding time can give out namecards. Leave you all with this, those that always say wanna divorce will never divorce, those always post family time with best hubby in the world or best wife whatever fs nonsense are very prone to have suddenly divorcing. So if your husband suddenly buy you Rolex or some branded bag relax first ah.. hehehehehe

GUY THINKS HIS SUPER POPULAR GO SPREAD FALSE RUMOURS ABOUT HIS POPULARITY

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I am an introvert and I don’t have friends. With the new semester starting next month I am dreading it.

I only found a guy friend in year 1 and I thought that I can just stick to him and blend in to the crowd. The problem is he is extremely self absorbed. He thinks that he is very irresistible and all the girls are flocking towards him. there is only one super desperate girl expressing interest in him. The rest are just friends and most of the time, he is the one trying to attract attention.

The other day in the library I overheard him bragging to his friend about the number of girls he managed to attract in year 1. To my horror, he mentioned that I am one of those nutty girls going crazy over him. I felt so disgusted because I do not have any romantic feelings towards him and I am just trying to survive in school. I want to distance myself from him when semester starts but I will become a loner and it just sucks…

I wish I have a normal friend… Just one will do…

Here are what netizens think:

  • There will probably be someone in the same situation as you. Just try to spot someone that is always alone (preferably of the same gender to prevent weird misunderstandings), and try to sit with her the next time. Then during lectures, make the first move to befriend her by asking questions, like “sorry, I didn’t get what the lecturer said about this part”, and there you go. Simple as that.
  • Join a CCA? Perhaps Toastmasters to build up confidence and communication skills. Ppl there should be quite welcoming generally!
  • Besides being high in the perceived self worth, this male friend appears to be high in entertainment value. I suggest OP to keep this friend close for bored days.
  • You know what they say…first it starts out as friends, and then… Besides, there’s a reason you CHOSE him and not the other dudes you deemed as invisible to your standards.

GUY KENA ACCUSED THAT HE LEAD A GIRL ON ALTHOUGH HE AVOIDED HER LIKE GHOST

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AITA?

All my friends know this girl has a huge crush on me.and she has been trying to get my attention for ages. Actually I have no interest in her so I just tried to be polite whenever she talk to me. No flirting whatsoever. Just that the longer I see her, the more I thought why not just talk to her because we are in the same course and I find it hard to avoid her. She has never confessed so I just acted like I didn’t know. But it was very obvious and our friends often teased her about it.

I never thought much about it as I wasn’t seeing anyone at that time. Once a few of us organized a gathering and I had a few drinks. She came right up to me and tried to talk to me alone. Eventually she confessed that she liked me, I didn’t know what reaction she wanted from me so I told her I only saw her as a friend. I was very sure of what I said but she just threw herself at me all of a sudden. I think the drinks took over and we kissed for a while.

Over the next few days she kept texting me, trying to make me officiate our relationship. I thought over it and apolgized to her. I really don’t have those kind of feelings for her.

Actually I like someone else but that person has a bf but I don’t think its anyone’s business so I never told anyone.

Anyway back to this girl. Now she is accusing me of leading her on and taking advantage of her. I don’t know what she told her friends but they all kept glaring at me like I’m some big sinner. My friends tell me to just ignore her. They all said I should have pushed her away but guys tend to lose out in these kind of situations so no point arguing with her. They joked that she took advantage of me instead.

Am I in the wrong?