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ALMOST HALF OF S’POREANS WANT TO VISIT JAPAN – “S’POREANS LIKE SNOW & CHERRY BLOSSOMS”

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According to a recent survey conducted by YouGov, around 49% of Singaporeans want to visit Japan for the holidays.

More than two in three consumers aged 16-24 and almost three in five consumers aged 25-34 would consider vacationing in Japan for their next overseas trip, compared to around half of consumers aged 35-54.

Meanwhile, consumers aged 55 and older are almost half as likely as 16–24-year-olds to consider holidaying in Japan (37%).

Taiwan came in 2nd place, with about 39% of Singaporeans wanting to visit the country, while South Korea came in 3rd place with 33 per cent of the pollees.

New Zealand and Australia came in n4th and 5th with 32% and 29%, while Thailand and Malaysia came in 6th and 7th with 27% and 26%.

The chief executive of a Tokyo-based travel agency, Aw Wanpingn, was quoted by CNBC as saying that Singaporeans want to visit Japan because of a shift in seasons.

She added that Singaporeans love cherry blossoms and snow a lot, and that spring and winter are the peak seasons for Singaporean tourists/

GIRL WANTS TO DUMP BF AFTER MEETING “INVESTMENT GUY” WHO HAS A LUXURY CAR

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I’ve been together with my boyfriend for 3 years. Last year he graduated and found a job that pays him $3.5k a month. To be honest I was shocked that his salary is quite low. Because some of my friends and cousins are earning much higher than him. I often encouraged him to find a better job. I also asked him to take up some courses to improve his chances. He already took up a few courses but he still couldn’t find a better job.

Recently, I was bored and downloaded a dating app for fun. Surprisingly, I matched with a lot of guys who seem quite eligible. I even matched with a lawyer and an investment associate. I have been chatting with the investment associate for two weeks now. He would text me only a few times a day because he’s a very busy guy. Yesterday was his birthday so he told me he celebrated his birthday with his family at home.

After his birthday celebration, he suddenly said he wants to see me. At around 3am, he snuck out of his house and drove to my house to see me. I went down to the carpark to meet him and was quite surprised to see that he drives a luxury car and he looks even better in real life. We chatted for 2 hours in his car. He then walked me to the lift and even kissed me on my cheek. Although we barely know each other, I actually feel quite happy that he kissed me. When he reached home, he texted me to say that he enjoyed talking to me and he would like to see me again.

He seems like a really nice guy. I know I shouldn’t compare but my bf isn’t even that nice. And my bf is unable to find a decent job so I’m worried about my future when we get married. But my bf and I have been together for 3 years so our relationship is very stable. I feel like if I break up with him now, 3 years of my life would be wasted. What should I do? Should I just stick to my bf because he is obviously a safer choice? Or should I continue to go out with the investment guy and then break up with my bf when the investment guy confess to me?

Editor’s note: You should break up with your boyfriend, definitely – because he deserves much better than you.

STARHUB ON EPL BROADCAST PROBLEMS – “NETWORK NOT TUNED FOR SUDDEN USER SURGE”

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Many angry football fans took to social media to vent their frustrations during the opening day of the new Eglish Premier League season on Starhub.

Starhub’s broadcast reportedly faced issues such as lagging videos, screen freezes and sub-par audio and video quality, with some users also complaining that they were unable to log into the StarHub TV+ app as well.

Responding to the complaints, StarHub spoke to Channel NewsAsia and said that according to their preliminary investigation, their network was found to be not tuned to react to the sudden surge of concurrent users.

This triggered error messages on Starhub customers’ devices and their broadcast quality. Starhub also didn’t address the issue of compensation when pressed by CNA.

Starhub said that the problems were confined to the over-the-top streaming of the Premier league, and that their Internet Protocol TV (IPTV) service was “robust throughout”.

They highlighted how their live community screening at Our Tampines Hub was delivered via IPTV and went ahead smoothly.

Images source: @eugene_siow and @arsenal on Twitter

MUM INFECTED WITH COVID REFUSES TO STAY IN ROOM, CALLS DAUGHTER “SENSITIVE”

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My dad was a confirmed C+ case in Oct 2021, we managed to stop the spread at home. July 2022, my sis got it and we also managed to stop the spread at home. The sunday just passed, my mom was confirmed C+. So far, the rest of the family members are okay. I’ve been testing negative all these while so thankfully I’m the only one that hasn’t been infected.

My dad and sis have been obedient to stay isolated for the whole duration. My dad was 10 days since he was contracted when they first annouced recovery at home. Sis stayed throughout 7 days in her own room. Both were vigilant and informed us if they need to leave room to use common bathroom. Only the master bedroom has attached bathroom but no shower head. So when it comes to showering, it’s a common bathroom.

We did all the research that the infected must sanitize, air for 30 minutes before the next user. And all the routine santizing and isolating to keep the remaining household members safe for my dad and sis.

Come to my mom, she was tested positive on Sunday, 7pm at the clinic. Please correct me if I’m wrong, that your hour 1 starts when you are tested positive at the clinic or when MOH sends you the SMS. She is then isolated in the master bedroom with an attached toilet, no showerhead so we need to do the same routine as my dad. Don’t ask me why there’s no showerhead.

Since the time she has been in isolation, she has been finding excuses to leave the room – water her plants/ wash clothes/ wash utensils/ take hot water. All of which we can do for her willingly. We even cooked meals (cos grabfood is too expensive to do it frequently) and washed the clothes. So we tell her, you follow MOH’s law, isolation for 72 hours etc… she said I accuse her of breaking the law. She made a ruckus yesterday night and I was scolded by my dad because I said that’s MOH law, ok fine.

Come today, every hour she has been accusing me of being so sensitive and that I’ll get covid one day. My point is that I’m not saying I won’t get coivd, but if I can stop the spread at home, why should I risk it. I cannot put my dad at risk of reinfection since he’s already 60+.

She insists that today is day 3, but if I were to follow MOH’s message, she is only at her 40th hour.

Am I being too sensitive or should I just leave it? I’m really at my wits ends cos she has been calling relatives and friends to say I’m sensitive, I’ll get it one day, I treat her like prisoner.

To those who read it till the end, I really appreciate. I need a space to voice out all these because I just walked past her room and she’s complaining to her relatives about me AGAIN.

MAN ACCUSED “GF” OF CHEATING ON HIM, BUT THE “GF” SAYS SHE DOESN’T KNOW HIM

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A man in Indonesia claimed that a woman that he saw during a live broadcast of a football match was his girlfriend, and said that she was cheating on him.

Social media was then rocked by the shocking accusation, but the girl in the broadcast later came out ad clarified that she doesn’t know the man who accused her of “cheating”.

She added that the man that she was seen with in the broadcast is her actual partner, and that she doesn’t know the accuser at all.

The man who accused her of cheating, posted a screenshot from a broadcasted match between Bali United and Persik Kediri, captioning it in Bahasa Indonesia:

“Thank you Persik and Vidiocom for the live match broadcast, where I found out that my girlfriend was watching the game with another man, lying to me about doing schoolwork. They were caught on camera at about the 70th minute of the match.”

His post soon caught the attention of some media sites who picked up on the story.

The truth was then revealed after a netizen reached out to Persik Mania on Facebook stating that it was all a lie, and that the woman being accused of cheating didn’t know the man at all.

The woman even cried after seeing pictures of herself go viral, and she managed to track down the OP who accused her of cheating.

She then posted a TikTok video of herself and her partner with the OP, who apologised for his actions.

FULL VIDEO LOADING…

Source: @rosa.rrr on TikTok, UmarNy and Mami Yogi Azzahra on Facebook

GUY FOUND OUT THAT HE WAS INTRODUCED TO HIS GF AS A JOKE, ALL HIS FRIENDS SLEPT WITH HER

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Found out my friends introduced me to my girlfriend as joke, they’ve all slept with her before. I’m incredibly shocked and don’t know what to do

I’ve (22) been with my girlfriend (22) for 4 years now, and it’s been the greatest 4 years of my life. She’s the sweetest person I’ve ever met. She’s hilarious, insanely creative (she’s an artist), goofy and just the happiest girl you’ll ever meet. She’s always smiling and very out going, she’s so energized & I’ll admit it’s sometimes hard to catch up with all her adventures. But wow, it’s been so amazing being with her. My friends introduced me to her when we all graduated from school, and we immediately bonded. We’re both into comics, anime, marvel/DC, dungeons and dragons – we had so much in common, we just because super close very quickly. The fact we had so much in common made it easy for us to spend time together, going to conventions, anime events, game tournaments, superhero films – this all of course led to us officially becoming a couple, and the rest is history. My parents also are in love with her, which is honestly the cherry on top. It’s nice to see my be so welcoming towards my girlfriend, although they’ve gotten a little protective towards her like parents lol.

I plan to propose to my girlfriend later this year, as we always joke about getting married, having a weird geeky wedding & starting a family – and I really want that so much, so proposing to her is my main goal of 2022. Fingers crossed she says yes! I really hope so.

Now this is where my friends come in. I have 3 close friends of mine, friends I grew up with. We all split up a few months after school, they left to further their studies so right now we all either just talk through zoom chat or I go visit them once in a while. I decided to be close to family and my girlfriend. Well I told my friends that I plan to propose to ashley, that I’m believe I’m 100% ready to start a family with her & how excited I am to see how it goes. They kept asking if was serious, even calling me a dumbass. They really were going at it with me, quite roughly. I just figured they hated the idea of marriage, so I ignored their comments. That’s when they told me the truth, and holy crap the proof they had made it even worse.

They all said they met my girlfriend 8 years ago at midnight bowling, they met her through a friend of theirs that invited her that night. I don’t know this other friend at all, so I can’t say who it is. That’s how they all met, they thought she was hot and cool so they stayed in contact with her. After that my friends still continued hanging out with my girlfriend, playing video games, anime – and of course, bedroom activities. They told me they’ll “pass her around the group” for fun, and that’s practically why they were friends with her. They kept using the word slut, which crawled into my skin in such a negative way. So pretty much they just kept my girlfriend around for intercourse, all 3 of my close friends have slept her plenty of times.

This lasted a good portion of school, but of course I didn’t know my girlfriend at this time cause she attended another school. They decided they’ll introduce her to me because they wanted to see if I can also “get lucky”, that it was all a joke to see if I can also end up sleeping with her. I didn’t believe any of it, but my heart completely shattered when they showed proof from instgram messages. It was nothing inappropriate like pics or anything, they just showed me that they all indeed keep in contact with her in the past.

And you know what they did? They made me the “dumb guy” and made all this a joke. They said I’m a dumbass for dating her, that I should’ve known better. They didn’t expect me to date her at all, that my girlfriend was going to act “slutty” towards but they were surprised she didn’t. How the hell am I suppose to have known better? Friends introducing friends to a boy/girl is a normal thing, that’s how i interpreted all of this. Also I had no idea about their history with my girlfriend, so them saying “I should’ve known better” is ridiculous. I didn’t see my girlfriend as an object like them, I saw her a friend that I ended up falling in love with. She treated me very kindly, comforted me whenever I was sad, told me how much she loved me – we fell for each other, It wasn’t just intercourse. The only reason my friends told me this was because they think me getting married to her is “too far”, so they expected me knowing the truth would lead to me dumping her. “She’s too much of a slut man, just let her go” one of my friends said. I just got off the chat, and they’ve been sending me non-stop texts ever since. I haven’t replied, I don’t feel like talking to my friends at the moment.

I approached my girlfriend about this, and I instantly regretted it. She broke down completely, which I’ll admit kinda teared me up. I’ve never seen her panic so much, she was freaking out as if someone died. She kept apologizing, telling me she’s never slept with anyone else while with me & saying she didn’t know about the joke my friends were doing. She told me my friends simply invited her to hang out, and during the hang out they introduced her to me. That’s how it all went, she says she wasn’t aware of a “plan” or anything. “You probably think I’m a slut, right?” Is what she kept saying, which just hurt me to hear. She told me she loved me, that to please just ignore my “friends” to to not break up with her. I just told her I loved her as well, and that what I know doesn’t change my feelings towards her. She still thinks I’m going to break up with her, which I won’t ever do. I just kept her in my arms, that’s all I could do. I didn’t want her panicking, so I just comforted her. I’ve been with this incredible girl for 4 years, created beautiful memories with her & I’m not going to let what my friends have said to me ruin what I have with her.

I’m not mad at my girlfriend, why should I be mad? She didn’t do anything wrong, her past is her past & it’s not of my business. Who she sleeps with is none of my concern, my feelings towards her haven’t changed – I love her with all my heart, i always will. I’m mad at my so-called friends, because one being they’re taking all of this as a joke, speaking of my girlfriend awfully – and the other being that this all started as a little joke between them. They didn’t have good intentions when they introduced me to ashely, they simply “passed her to me” thinking I was going to treat her like a toy or a piece of meat.

I’m just shocked, that’s what I am. This whole thing has been mentally stressing me out, and I wish I didn’t know about it. I love my girlfriend, but I’ll admit the thought of her with my friends hurts me. I’ve cut all contact with my “friends” these past couple of days, I’ve been ignoring their calls and texts – and there’s a ton of them. I just don’t know what to do, I really don’t. Also the thought of my girlfriend immediately sleeping with my friends kinda bugs me, because me and her took it slow. Maybe she did care about me compared to my friends, and didn’t want to hop straight into bed. I also think this because even my friends said she didn’t act “slutty” towards me, that she actually cared about me. You see, these are the stupid thoughts I’m getting in my head & I hate it.

I’m personally still going to propose to my girlfriend, I’m not leaving her. I plan to cut contact with my friends and simply focus on my future. If any of you have any advice to share, I’ll greatly appreciate it. I definitely need to relax my mind, that’s for sure.

S’PORE MAN PLEADS GUILTY TO KILLING WIFE, BUT SAYS HE DOESN’T REMEMBER DOING IT

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51-year-old Singaporean Fong Soong Hert, admitted on 9 August to killing his wife of 28 years Pek Ying Ling, by smothering her to death with a pillow, on the 5th day of his murder trial.

The trial was held at the Newcastle Crown Court and was delayed for more than an hour, as Fong deliberated with his attorneys before changing his plea to guilty.

He told the court that he doesn’t remember what happened on the day of the murder and that he “wants to” but he “cannot explain”.

He added that he is really desperate to understand what happened and what went wrong.”

He told Steven Reed, the junior defence counsel that his marriage with the late Madam Pek was wonderful and never a cause of stress, adding that “we were so happy.”

Fong is set to return to court on Friday for his sentencing.

Background

The couple was travelling on the Isle of Skye in Scotland and he then suffered a bad fall on 27 November, falling down a steep edge after tripping and he then made it back to their hotel and was attended to to by staff/

He was sent to the hospital and stayed overnight, before being discharged the next morning, and the couple then continued their tour around Scotland in a rented car.

At their next destination in Inverness, Fong was still in pain and went to hospital for another checkup, and the couple then went to Edinburgh after that where they met their eldest son, and the trio then went to Newcastle by train.

The family then went to a football match and went sightseeing, and Fong had several falls throughout the trip and needed medical attention at the hospital once again.

Fong was discharged on 6 December and the couple then went back to their hotel at 12.17am, and there were seen on CCTV returning to their hotel room, and the victim was never seen alive again.

Fong later called his eldest son and told him “I hurt your mother, she’s gone,” before further adding “she’s dead.”

The victim, Madam Pek, was found on the bed and pronounced dead at the Newcastle County Aparthotel on 6 December at about 7.32am.

GUY KICKED OUT OF HOUSE ON NATIONAL DAY, NETIZEN: “S’PORE GOT KICKED OUT ON SAME DAY”

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Happy national day Singaporeans! Kicked out of my hse, really have no idea where to go

Having some trouble here, got into a big argument with my parents on my bday 8 aug and my parents continued arguing with me today 9 aug and forced me out of the house, I really dont know where to go now.

Any place to lepak until maybe midnight? Also idk if i want to go far because i am having some intense back muscle pain due to lack of sleep, i live in west area(Jurong)

Netizens’ comments

  1. Ironic since Singapore got kicked out on the same day as you.
    But the better thing is to try and make amends with your parents instead
  2. Libraries all closed today. Airport is 24hrs and got aircon… lots of places to chill with food places etc…
  3. Changi Airport for air con and comfy seats? Food might be a problem due to price though, but you can always ask where’s the staff canteen
  4. I have a flat in Sengkang, with a big couch in the living room. DM me if you can’t find anywhere else.
  5. Hit up any of your friends see if they can let you stay for a day or two, then go back to your parents once their heads have cooled and apologize.
    Doesn’t matter who’s wrong or right, you need their roof so yea, got no choice.

FIRE BROKE OUT ON HEARSE DURING FUNERAL PROCESSION @ WOODLANDS

Facebook page Death Kopitiam Singapore, shared photos of an unfortunate incident that took place yesterday at a HDB block in Woodlands.

A fire had apparently broken out on a funeral hearse during a funeral proceeding, and thankfully the deceased was not inside the vehicle at the time.

According to a netizen who was presumably present at the scene, the fire was put out by the people attending the funeral and by the time the SCDF arrived, the fire was already extinguished.

Death Kopitiam’s statement

Earlier today (9 Aug), a fire happened on a funeral hearse whilst funeral proceedings were ongoing at an HDB block at Woodlands.

The deceased person was, fortunately, not in the vehicle at the time of the fire. The cause of the fire is unknown. Please do not speculate on the cause of the fire.

Death Kopitiam Singapore likes to extend our gratitude to members of the public, staff of the funeral company concerned and the Singapore Civil Defence Force for helping out with this unfortunate situation. We understand that no one was physically hurt.

We also hope that the logistics of the funeral were eventually sorted out!

Source: Death Kopitiam Singapore Facebook

GUY SHAMED BY OLD CLASSMATE FOR USING PARENTS’ MONEY TO PAY FOR HIS DEGREE

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A netizen shared how he was shamed by an old classmate for using his parents’ money to pay for his uni degree.

He said that it seems like quite a few people are judging him for using his parent’s money to pay for his degree, and asked if there is really a need to shame others for not going the same way as them.

He added that he took an interest-free loan from his parents to pay for his degree and that he would be paying them back.

Here is what he said

Recently I caught up with an old classmate of mine and I was talking to him about my PhD journey soon (I got accepted with a scholarship). The first thing he asked me was if I paid it myself and I said yes, I have a scholarship.

We talked a bit and he left for another appointment. Although obvious, it seems like quite a few people judge you based on whether you use your parents money for degree/studies. I don’t really understand why they do so though. Like I get that you paid for your degree studies yourself (and you are proud of yourself for doing so), but is there really a need to shame others for not going the same way as you?

Many ex-students (like myself), take an interest-free loan from parents (to tide through uni) and pay the principal back over installments, which is a much better idea than loaning from banks.

Can someone enlighten me on why some financially independent students feel the need to shame others? I don’t really get it, like does it make them feel better than the other person or something?

Edit. For some context, back in our uni days (bachelor), I mentioned I was taking a parents loan and he said that he took a bank loan. He proceeded to call me spoilt. I later clarified that I intended to pay them back, which he took back his insult.

Netizens’ comments

What, u guys didn’t have to tap rubber or work the padi fields b4 going to school every morning?

Yr parents paid for ballet, swimming, abacus and tuition classes after school?? U didnt have to cook and clean and look after your 12 younger siblings???

What do u mean u took mrt n bus to school….. u didnt have to wade across a river and walk 10km each way? How did u do yr homework then…. not under the moonlight but gasp, led lights…. on your study tables?

Oh the shame! Snowflakes, the lot of u! Shame!!!