I recently had the pleasure of playing golf in Batam, Indonesia. In my opinion, the golf course was well-maintained, and the caddies were friendly and helpful.

I was pleasantly surprised by the level of service the caddies provided.

She took good care of my golf equipment

I was not expecting the level of service I received. After my round of golf, the caddie to cleaned my clubs and to my surprise, the caddie not only cleaned my clubs, but she also applied a special oil to the club heads to ensure that they would stay in good condition.

This was something that I had not expected and was beyond my level of expectations.

In addition to cleaning my clubs, the caddy also offered to clean my golf balls. This was done very quickly and efficiently. This was a service that I had not expected, and I was most grateful for it.

I decided to ask the caddy out for dinner to thank her for the services and also because she was a sweet young thing and I was ‘feeling it’.

She agreed and we went for a BBQ buffet dinner followed by some drinks.

After that she took care of the equipment inside my pants

After getting a few drinks and casually flirting over the drinks, both of us were getting high and she began to lean on me and caress me. I could tell that she wanted it as she was acting quite seductively.

She then leaned in and we made out for a bit before she asked me if I would like her to continue her excellent service from the golf course.

Curious as to what she meant, I probed and she told me that she could go back with me and help me clean my personal ‘stick’ that was inside my pants.

We went back to my hotel room and I was wow-ed by her ‘stick’ cleaning services.

It was one of the best nights I ever had for a long time and I would definitely come back to Batam again.

I was on a business trip to the United Arab Emirates (UAE) recently and I was quite surprised to find out that many of the hostesses working in the pubs were Singaporean girls.

It was a rare sight as I always thought people from Singapore will never be a ‘bu’ elsewhere

It was a strange encounter, to say the least because I had always thought that people from Singapore are very well off and will not need to rely on working as a nightlife hostess to earn money.

I was in a pub in Dubai, and the hostess greeted me with a very friendly “hello” and immediately from the accent, I could tell that it was one of my fellow country person.

I was shocked, as I had never seen or even heard of a Singaporean woman working as a hostess overseas. I asked her how she ended up here and she told me that she had left Singapore to pursue a better life in the UAE.

A lot are working part time, have other jobs in the UAE

I was intrigued by her story and decided to do some research. I soon found out that there were many Singaporean girls working as hostesses in UAE pubs.

It seemed that these girls had left Singapore in search of better opportunities, and the UAE had provided them with just that.

She also told me that almost all of the Singaporean girls working as hostess there had day jobs elsewhere and only came out to do this at night for more money because they were not earning enough from their day jobs.

Some of these girls were from the airlines and a lot of them were actually expats who have office jobs there while some were married to the UAE and ended up divorcing with their partners.

She herself hold a day job in the UAE and came out to earn some extra income.

We often laugh at Siam bu & Viet bu, but our own people are doing the same

This also got me to think that some of us look down on the Siam Bus and Viet Bus who left their hometown to come to Singapore in search of a better life, but our own people are doing the same overseas.

In fact, it takes a lot of courage to leave a comfort zone to seek a better live elsewhere and improve on your own finances.

My heart sank when I saw him walking down the street. It was my old friend, John (not his real name), and I knew he owed me money.

He pulled his friend and moved quickly away after spotting me

I had tried to get in contact with him for months to no avail, and now here he was in the flesh. I rushed to greet him, eager to finally resolve this issue, but before I could get close enough, he grabbed his friend and pulled him in the opposite direction.

My immediate thought was that he was avoiding me. I knew that I had a good chance of collecting what he owed me if we could just talk it out. But John wasn’t having any of it. I followed him for a few minutes, calling out his name, but he just kept walking, clutching onto his friend’s hand.

I was so frustrated and embarrassed. I felt like everyone was watching me, judging me for chasing John down the street.

Was afraid that I let his friend know about his debts

I finally caught up to him, and I asked why he was running away from me. He paused for a few seconds, then said he was worried that I was going to expose him.

He was afraid that I was going to tell people about the money he owed me.

It was a valid concern, as I was so desperate to get the money back that I had already told a few close friends about it. I could see the fear in his eyes, and I knew that he was genuinely scared of what I might do.

I felt bad for him, but at the same time I was so angry. I had been struggling to make ends meet while he had just been living his life, not caring that he was taking advantage of me.

I told him that I wouldn’t expose him, and asked him to just give me what he owed me.

But he just shook his head and told me that he didn’t have any money. I was so furious that I wanted to hit him, but I managed to keep my composure.

I told him that I would find a way to get the money back and that I would do everything in my power to make sure he pays me back.

He seemed relieved, but I was still mad. I wanted to scream at him, but I just turned around and walked away. I knew that I had to get the money back, but I felt like I had lost the battle.

I had wanted to prove that I was the better person, but instead I was left standing in the street feeling helpless.

I’ve been dating cabin crew for the last five years, and let me tell you, it’s the best. I used to date people who were always around and that was suffocating. With cabin crew, I get the freedom that I need.

They are always not around at times, good for personal space in the relationship

Dating cabin crew is great because they are always away and I don’t have to worry about them. It’s like a long-distance relationship, but they’re only away for short periods of time.

That way, I can focus on my own life and career without feeling like I have to constantly be around my partner.

I also really appreciate the fact that cabin crew are so independent. They have to be able to take care of themselves when they’re away, and that’s a quality I really admire.

It makes me feel more secure in the relationship, knowing that my partner can take care of themselves and that I don’t have to worry about them.

Plus, cabin crew are really interesting people. They’ve seen and experienced so much more than the average person. They have all sorts of stories to tell about their travels, and it’s always a pleasure to listen to them. They can also tell you a lot about different cultures and customs, which is always educational and fun.

Cabin crew also tend to be quite adventurous. They’re not afraid to try new things and go to new places. I’ve gone on some incredible trips with my partner, and they’ve always been up for anything.

That’s something that I really appreciate and admire.

Finally, I love how understanding cabin crew can be. They understand that I have a job and that sometimes I need to take care of it.

They don’t take it personally and are always understanding. That’s a quality that I really value.