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MAN DOESN’T BOTHER ABOUT GF’S B’DAY, NOW SHE WANTS TO BREAK UP

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MAN DOESN’T BOTHER ABOUT GF’S B’DAY, NOW SHE WANTS TO BREAK UP

I’m thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend because he didn’t bother on my 30th birthday.

I (30, F) have been with my boyfriend (29, M) for 8 years now. A few weeks ago I turned 30 and I had a gut feeling he was going to make little to no effort for me like normal.

Normally he has never made effort for any birthday, Christmas or Valentine’s Day. I mostly don’t get a gift or the gifts I have got are ones he has got the day before or day of. I’ve had to plan every single birthday or event, including my 30th.

I asked him a week before if this year he could at least remember to get me a cake and a few balloons this year as after all 30 is a big birthday.

My birthday rolls around and as predicted he had made such a little effort, and the effort he had made wasn’t much at all.

For example he did buy me a 30 balloon but he rushed me to get ready to go to his friends house on the day of my birthday and then asked me to blow my own balloon.

When we was in the car driving home on Sunday evening, I mentioned to him that it had really upset me that he forgot to buy a cake and he started laughing and found it hilarious, I just burst into tears and he couldn’t understand why.

I asked him to leave mine on Monday and since then I haven’t replied to any of his messages. I feel like I am going to really struggle to talk away from this relationship and feel like maybe I’m being a spoiled brat? I just got wanted to feel special on my birthday and I don’t feel I ever will with him.

For context: He has a well paid job since he left university so it is not about money, but I also wouldn’t of minded if we got me a $5 cake from the supermarket.

FOREIGN WORKER STABBED ROOMMATE AT TUAS DORMITORY, JAILED 6 MONTHS

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FOREIGN WORKER STABBED ROOMMATE AT TUAS DORMITORY, JAILED 6 MONTHS

24-year-old Hossen Md Midul, was sentenced to 6 months imprisonment on 21 June after pleading guilty to one count of voluntarily causing hurt.

He had stabbed his roommate with a kitchen knife on 13 January earlier this year at the CDPL Tuas Dormitory.

What happened?

Hossen and the victim, also 24 years old, were both working for the same company at the time of the offence.

On 12 January at about 7.30pm, they were both hitting each other playfully, but it soon escalated into a fight and ended up having to be separated from each other by five other roommates who were living in the same dorm room.

Hossen was angry at the victim for the fight and he couldn’t sleep that night, and after midnight, he retrieved a kitchen knife while his roommates were fast asleep.

He then stabbed the victim in his left abdomen and ran away to the exercise corner, and the victim woke up feeling sharp pain and found a knife in his abdomen.

The police were then alerted and Hossen was then arrested.

The knife had narrowly missed the victim’s main artery that supplies blood to the lower body, which could have resulted in internal bleeding that threatened his life.

The victim ended up having surgery to remove part of his small intestines and sew the remaining parts together, and he was then given 28 days of hospitalisation leave.

GUY WANTS GF TO PIAK HIM WITH A FAKE KUKUBURD TO EXPERIMENT IN BED

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GUY WANTS GF TO PIAK HIM WITH A FAKE KUKUBURD TO EXPERIMENT IN BED

My boyfriend wants to try a strap on

My (23f) boyfriend (25m) told me he wanted to be more experimental in the bedroom yesterday.

He also suggested things like a three way which I honestly would like to try as well and I don’t mind him opening up about his fantasies.

But as he mentioned being bi (which I already know) and therefore suggesting to try me using a strap on, it felt really weird to me. I don’t blame him for wanting that tho.

I just don’t feel comfortable with doing that at all and I’m kind of scared

Now I’m just worried about not meeting his needs in bed. What can I do about that?

Netizens’ comments

  • Talk to him about your feelings and concerns. He’s opened up and been vulnerable with you, simply return the favor
  • Just tell him you aren’t comfortable with it. You’re allowed to have boundaries.

1ST IMPORTED CASE OF MONKEYPOX IN S’PORE, TESTED POSITIVE ON 20 JUNE

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1ST IMPORTED CASE OF MONKEYPOX IN S’PORE, TESTED POSITIVE ON 20 JUNE

The Ministry of Health confirmed an imported case of monkeypox infection on Singapore, with the patient being a 42-year-old British national who is a flight attendant, and was in Singapore from 15 to 17 June, and on 19 June.

The man later tested positive for monkeypox on 20 June and is currently at the NCID, with his condition being stable.

The authorities have commenced contact tracing at the time of writing.

Here is MOH’s press release in full

The Ministry of Health (MOH) has confirmed one imported case of monkeypox infection in Singapore. The patient is a 42-year-old male British national who works as a flight attendant and was in Singapore between 15 and 17 June 2022 and again on 19 June as he flew in and out of Singapore. He tested positive for monkeypox on 20 June. He is currently warded in at the National Centre for Infectious Diseases (NCID), and his condition is stable. Contact tracing is ongoing.

2.             The case had onset of headache on 14 June, and fever on 16 June. These symptoms subsequently resolved, and he then developed skin rashes on 19 June. He sought medical attention via teleconsultation on the night of 19 June, and was conveyed to NCID on 20 June for further assessment.

3.             Contact tracing is ongoing for the affected flights and for the duration of his stay in Singapore. During this period, he had largely remained in his hotel room, except to visit a massage establishment, and eat at three food establishments on 16 June. In general, the risk of transmission to visitors at these locations is low, as data has shown that monkeypox transmits through close physical or prolonged contact. All four locations visited by the case are undergoing cleaning and disinfection.

4.             As of 21 June, 13 close contacts have been identified. All close contacts will be placed on quarantine for 21 days since their last contact with the case. In addition, two low-risk contacts have been placed on phone surveillance. Persons under phone surveillance will receive daily phone calls during the 21-day period to monitor for any onset of symptoms. If suspected of being infected, they will be immediately conveyed to the NCID for further evaluation and isolation to prevent further transmission.

Health Advisory

5.             Monkeypox is a viral disease that is caused by infection with the monkeypox virus. Infected persons would typically experience fever, headache, muscle ache, backache, swollen lymph nodes, chills, lethargy and skin rash. The disease is usually self-limiting, with most patients recovering within two to three weeks. In some cases, however, the virus can cause serious complications. Individuals who are at higher risk of severe illness include young children, pregnant women or immunocompromised individuals. 

6.             Human-to-human transmission is generally uncommon, but can occur via exposure to respiratory droplets or direct physical contact with the blood, body fluid or lesion material from infected individual or contaminated materials. The incubation period ranges from five to 21 days. People with the infection are generally infectious from onset of fever until the skin lesions have scabbed over.

7.             Given the evolving global situation, members of the public, especially travellers are advised to maintain vigilance and take the following precautions:

·      Maintain a high standard of personal hygiene, including frequent hand washing after going to the toilet, or when hands are soiled.

·      Avoid direct contact with skin lesions of infected living or dead persons or animals, as well as objects that may have become contaminated with infectious fluids, such as soiled clothing or linens (e.g. bedding or towels) used by an infected person.

·      Avoid contact with wild animals that could harbour the virus, and consumption of bush meat.

·      Seek immediate medical attention if they develop any disease symptoms (e.g. sudden onset of high fever, swollen lymph nodes and rash) compatible with monkeypox. They should inform their doctor of their recent travel history, if any.

MINISTRY OF HEALTH

21 JUNE 2022

GIRL’S BF IN NS, KISS OTHER GUY BUT SAYS “NOT CHEATING” BECAUSE NEVER SLEPT TGT

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GIRL’S BF IN NS, KISS OTHER GUY BUT SAYS “NOT CHEATING” BECAUSE NEVER SLEPT TGT

I’m a year 1 girl who has a bf in the army. Recently I got really close to a senior from the same course as me.

I feel that we have a lot of chemistry and he is my ideal type of guy. He is always by my side whenever I feel down, cheering me up with magic tricks.

Although he knew that I’m already attached, he continued to shower me with affection and love.

Instead of rejecting him, I led him on by asking him to hug me when I’m sad. Kiss him on the cheek when he sent me back home. (Well, as long as I didn’t engage in bedroom activity with him, I’m not cheating on my bf) .

I did clearly explained to him that, there is a very low probability of me becoming his gf. However, he gave me a shocking reply that touched my heart deeply and brought me to tears.

Although he knew that he has little or no chance, he is unwilling to abandon a vulnerable girl like me. He wants to stay by my side to protect my fragile heart until the day I no longer needs him.

When that day arrives, he will cut all contacts from me in order to nurse his emotional wounds.  

I’m confuse now, what should I do?

Editor’s note: “I led him on by asking him to hug me when I’m sad, kissed him on the cheek when he sent me back home.” You actually think this is not cheating, I’m amazed.

GIRL SAY HER NEH NEH POK TOO BIG AND SAGGING AFTER GIVING BIRTH

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GIRL SAY HER NEH NEH POK TOO BIG AND SAGGING AFTER GIVING BIRTH

This is something I have always wanted to do and I’m finally ready to take that step but I don’t know where to start.

Basically, I hate my boobs. They are huge and saggy and I’m petite so they look disproportionate to my body. And then I got pregnant at a young age, and pregnancy and breastfeeding left them looking like deflated water balloons.

I’m currently a 32DDD I think. So I want to get them smaller but not too small. And they just like hang down and look empty so I want them to look higher and fuller. And then my areolas are huge so I want those to look smaller and nicer too. I’m so tired of feeling insecure and every top and swimsuit being ruined by my boobs.

Does anyone have any experience with this or recommendations on what type of breast augmentation to look into, how to choose a good plastic surgeon, pricing, etc?

Thank you in advance!

BF HARASSED BY MEN AT BOAT QUAY, CAUSE HE LOOKS LIKE A GIRL FROM BEHIND

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BF HARASSED BY MEN AT BOAT QUAY, CAUSE HE LOOKS LIKE A GIRL FROM BEHIND

Recently, my boyfriend and I met up with his sister for dinner. When we finished, the three of us stood in a circle on the sidewalk in front of the restaurant at Boat Quay, just chatting and saying our goodbyes. A minute later, two men turned the corner and started walking toward us.

It’s important to note: My boyfriend has very long, very pretty blonde hair. Since my boyfriend was facing away from them and wearing a long jacket, they must’ve thought he was also a woman. They shouted something along the lines of, “Looking for some D, ladies? (In Hokkien)”

Immediately, my boyfriend whipped around and fired back, “C’mon gentlemen, is that really how we treat women?” Their jaws dropped as they realized their mistake. They proceeded to put their heads down and muttered quiet apologies as they hurried past us, and the boyfriend shamed them even more, treating them like children who should know better. “That’s right, you SHOULD apologize.”

It sucks these men don’t respect women inherently—it is clear that they know their behaviour is wrong. It shouldn’t take another man calling them out to make it stop, but oftentimes it does. So men if ya see this behaviour, call it out.

MAN LABELLED AS PREDATOR CAUSE HIS GIRLFRIEND LOOKS LIKE A CHILD

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MAN LABELLED AS PREDATOR CAUSE HIS GIRLFRIEND LOOKS LIKE A CHILD

Context; I broke up with my ex in Apirl, and got with my now girlfriend 18 years old; I am older than her by a month and she has a face and height of a 10-year-old. She hates it but sucks it up.

Well I’m in a group chat with some friends I have, all living in different countries who I know from gaming. They wanted to see my gf and when I was given permission from her I sent a pic of her in a bucket hat that I had taken that day from our date.

Instantly the questions of how old is she came up, some more concerned and my friend in real life just made a joke asking if she was an underage kid. When I explained she is the same age as me they called me all sort of stuff, predator was one of them that I was reading out to my gf ( we were face timing ) as the interaction kept happening.

To say I was pissed was an understatement, I can explain that while she looks extremely young, she isn’t. I only blew up at them after one of them said “She’d be like her mom in prison” and that statement is self-explanatory.

But I had cut contact and some of our other friends who called me a predator and they said I’m being petty

SISTER USES CHILDHOOD TRAUMA AS EXCUSE TO USE FAMILY CAR 80% OF THE TIME

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SISTER USES CHILDHOOD TRAUMA AS EXCUSE TO USE FAMILY CAR 80% OF THE TIME

Background: My is 26 y.o sister and I’m 42. She had a pretty rough childhood. As you can see, I was born much later, so I have no idea of how her teenage years looked like. According to her, my parents played favourites and they preferred the boys over her.

When my sister was around 13, she was kicked out of our family home over her refusing to go watch a parade and she ended up living in my grandparents’ home for about 1.5 years. Our parents act as if this never happened and they deny any negligence although all three of my siblings faced this. Basically, my sister holds a lot of resentment towards our parents and rightfully so in my opinion.

Around 8-10 years ago, she was diagnosed with cardiomyopathy and this has been very hard for her and us as a family. Her illness caused our parents to actually prioritise her and her children over any of us and I believe our parents feel very guilty over how they treated her before.

While they have never apologised, they have gone out of their way to take care of her. Our dad paid all the bills, rent and tuition fees of all her kids when she decided to move to UK for better access to healthcare (Some specialise). She was there for nearly two years before moving back during the pandemic.

Our mother also regularly looks after her kids and goes to pick them up from school.

Our parents bought a car and hired a driver last year. One of my brothers and I vowed to never use it because of all the drama. Both my sister and her ex-husband work full-time in demanding jobs, so she is unable to pick them up from school by herself. Our dad also uses the car to go to work and mum also whenever she needs to go to the shops.

Most of the conflict happens due to clashes in schedules and when my sister can’t use the car whenever she wants. According to our dad, she uses it 80% of the time. She does not pay for petrol, she does not contribute anything at all to the car. Last night, my sister again got into an argument with our dad since the car broke down, she was complaining about how the driver keeps mixing up the pick-up points.

She hung up the phone causing my dad to throw a fit about how they bought the car to use for themselves and are not able to use it without upsetting her. That she knows that the driver cannot properly understand what we are saying because of the language barrier.

I had enough of listening to both my parents complain about this for so long and offered them a solution – to tell her that she can no longer use their car.

Our parents don’t want to say no to her and I know it’s because they feel like they owe her the world after everything. I feel like my sister is using her childhood trauma and illness as an excuse to take advantage of them. I am on the verge of telling her to stop being so entitled, to buy a car and hire a driver herself since it is inconveniencing our parents.

Should I do it?

MAN TOOK BANK LOAN FOR SIAMBU MISTRESS WHO RAN AWAY, APPLIES FOR BANKRUPTCY

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MAN TOOK BANK LOAN FOR SIAMBU MISTRESS WHO RAN AWAY, APPLIES FOR BANKRUPTCY

A netizen shared a story about how he took a bank loan for his Thai mistress after falling for her sob story and after she took the money, she ran off and he couldn’t repay the bank loan and ended up applying for bankruptcy.

Here is his story

“A lot of men think with the wrong “head”, if you know what I mean, and I am definitely one of them, or at least I’d like to think that I used to be.

So I met this siambu at a KTV, not gonna name the place but the woman’s name was Anya.

One thing I have to admit is that I was married to my beautiful wife, who eventually left me due to me cheating with Anya.

So we met at the KTV and were drinking together, getting handsy inside the room and got to exchanging numbers after I dabao her to the hotel, and after a few more times of drinking together we started texting more and more often.

Eventually we started dating, drinking, going out, getting naughty in hotels, having supper and etc, and we were in love, or at least I was and I thought she was too.

She shared with me about how her family back home was poor and her mother had fallen sick and urgently needed money for a life-saving surgery.

She refused to pick up my calls on certain days and I got worried and when she eventually picked up, she sounded defeated and tired and explained that she has been busy trying to raise money for her mother.

My heart ached for her and I asked her how much she needed, and she said $10k, and I said don’t stress yourself too much over it, I’ll handle the problem.

I’ve got pretty good credit with the banks, and so I went and got a personal bank loan and gave the money to her.

She was so touched and we ended up having the most insane time in bed, one of the best I’ve ever had, it was mind blowing.

A week had passed and I noticed that she kept my messages on read and didn’t reply, and when I went to the KTV I didn’t see her there anymore.

I asked the other Siam Bus there about her and they told me that she had returned to Thailand, and I thought okay, my bank loan is being put to use now, hope her mother recovers quickly and she can come back to me soon.

But days, then weeks, then months passed and I still didn’t get any message replies despite sending over 50 messages, with all of them being read.

Eventually the “read” became “sent” and not read anymore, my calls are not going through and there was no way I could reach her.

It took me awhile before I realised that she had run away with the bank loan that I took for her, and I had to accept the fact that my money was probably gone.

I now realise how foolish and stupid I was, trusting everything she said, and thinking with the wrong “head”.

Anyway, at the time, my business was not doing very well and i had to close it down, incurring heavy losses due to the pandemic.

I also had other debts that were depended on my business and I couldn’t pay off all of it, including the bank loan that I took for Anya, and I ended up applying for bankruptcy.

My wife also found out about Anya and we ended up filing for divorce, and no matter how I apologised and promised to change and be faithful, she found it hard to trust me again, which i understand.

That’s the story of how I used the wrong “head” to think and let one woman ruined my life. And why the f— did I go and get a freaking bank loan, what is wrong with me…

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