I married the love of my life two years ago.

We were so in love, but I was always the one who wanted to try something new.

I loved exploring the world, and I wanted to take my wife along with me on my adventures. We had so much fun together, and I thought I was the luckiest guy in the world.

But then my wife made a request that I couldn’t ignore. She asked me to quit eating mutton.

At first, I thought she was joking. I love mutton and had been eating it since I was a kid. But it quickly became clear that she was serious. She hated the smell of mutton, so she wanted me to stop eating it.

I tried to reason with her, but she was adamant. She said it was either stop eating mutton or every time I eat mutton she won’t kiss me for a month.

I had no choice but to give in.

So, I stopped eating mutton. It was hard at first, but I got used to it. I found other foods that I liked and started to enjoy them. I also tried to respect my wife’s wishes and not eat mutton when I was around her.

But then something strange happened. The mutton started to call to me. I started dreaming about it, and I started to crave it. I started to obsess about it, and it felt like something was missing from my life.

I knew I had to tell my wife or maybe not?

I am secretly eating mutton behind her like I am having an affair without her knowing and goes home to brush my teeth before talking to her.

Is my wife too controlling?

Hi. I 27F has been at this job for about 6 months now. There are only 5 of us and 3 of us rotate to different clinics for coverage when needed.

I’m up next.

I was hired for PT which makes travel voluntarily. She has me working FT not by choice which now means she is able to have me travel. But this is not in my job description. Her first idea last week when i told her originally was for me to just get a new car.

I am having car problems. I need a new water pump, timing belt and timing belt pulley. I have been advised that it is ok to drive…until it isn’t and only small distances.

My job is only 10 minutes from my house and one of the places i get sent to is another 10 minutes. that’s fine i am able to pull over if needed. But my boss also has us go to a place that is 1hr+ with traffic and I told her i am not comfortable going there till it’s fixed which i am in the process of doing.

She said she will expect me there if she needs me there.

Some of my colleagues say it’s not right and they’d be ok with going till my car is fixed and some say she’s keeping it fair.

Is it too much if I told her I will go only if she agrees to pay if i need to tow it back home?

Here are what netizens think:

• But, don’t expect that. Typically one of the requirements for having a job like that is to have a reliable car.

• I’ve had quite a few jobs where we needed to go to different locations, UNLESS this wasn’t part of the requirements mentioned when you applied for the role. it usually says “some travel is required” or something. IF you knew this and accepted the job, then car upkeep is on you.

•  If you are having to do additional travel for work, your boss should be amenable with something like a car allowance. In a lot of industries, you have to get paid for mileage when you travel somewhere that’s not your work base. Check into that and see what they are paying for mileage.

Starting a business has always been a dream of mine. I always wanted to own a restaurant, but I never thought it would be so hard.

I thought that I would make a lot of money quickly and easily, but it hasn’t been that way at all. In fact, I’ve actually lost money in the business because I was too generous with my friends.

Put in a lot of hard work

I opened the restaurant about a year ago, and I was so excited to get started. I had worked hard to make sure everything was perfect, and I had high hopes for the business. I was sure that I was going to make a lot of money quickly and easily.

However, I quickly realized that I was wrong. Running a restaurant is a lot of work, and it doesn’t always bring in the money I had hoped for. I started to get discouraged and frustrated, and I was ready to give up.

My friends came to support after hearing I was not doing well

My friends came down to support my business after hearing that I was not doing well.

As I was a person with ego and wanted to show them I was doing well and profiting, I gave them a discount on their first visit and then decided that I need to match what I told them.

So, I started letting them dine at my restaurant for free. Whenever they wanted to come in, I would say yes and I wouldn’t charge them. I thought I was doing them a favor, but it ended up costing me a lot of money.

Checked my finances and realised I was not doing well

I didn’t realize how much money I was losing until I started to look at my finances. I had been so generous with my friends that I was losing money every time they came in.

I had to pay the staff, buy the food, and cover the costs of running the restaurant, and my friends weren’t contributing anything.

It was a hard lesson to learn, but I realized that I had to start charging my friends for their meals. I didn’t want to do it, but I had to if I wanted to keep the business going. I still thank them for all their support, but now I make sure to bill them whenever they come in.

Running a business is never easy, and it’s even harder when you’re too generous with your friends. I learned the hard way that I need to make sure that I’m getting paid for the services I provide. It took a while, but I eventually figured out how to make my business profitable.

I’m still learning a lot every day, and I’m sure that there will be more mistakes down the road. But I’ve learned my lesson, and I’m not going to be too generous with my friends anymore.

I’m going to make sure that I’m getting paid for the services I provide so I can keep my business running.

dealing with an incompetent supervisor

i’m a fresh grad, working for 6 months in this relatively small SME.

i like my company and the job scope but i just cannot deal with my supervisor (M). any work that HOD give, M will straight away assign to me. because it’s a SME, the team is very small, just M and me for this role (cuz not that much scope for this role)

i am swamped with a lot of work because M just pushes EVERYTHING to me. M barely does anything, and i know because in company meetings every team need to report our updates on the projects. the projects my team are running are all what i am doing alone.

normally when ur supervisor go overseas, they need to get other ppl to cover. however M went on a 2 week holiday and guess wat, there’s nothing to handover to me.

also i cannot even take more than 3 days leave. cos on top of projects there are BAU stuff that need to run for biz decisions. i have told M what if i want to go holiday, who will cover? the BAU stuff is slightly complicated but i have gone through with M what to do many times. M just laugh and switch topic, expecting me to settle??? i know M doesn’t know how to do the processes still so i cannot just go on leave and MIA lols..

also recently i got a small promotion although im only 6 months in coz i did well on a project i was leading. M didn’t even congratulate me, infact M just complained straight to my face, why they didn’t promote M? because M feels that he/she is “leading the team very well”?!?

i’m doing well becoz of my own capabilities, but M somehow think he/she guided me that’s why i can do so well???? infact M doesn’t give any proper advice cos M doesn’t know what is going on half the time. i have to often consult people from other teams who have more experience in the projects.

i am frustrated because M does not appreciate the work that i do, infact i can sense he/she feels threatened coz ppl often find me to discuss projects instead of going to him/her.

i would like to ask if this is common in SME or among singapore working culture?

I’m sure many of you already know that Orchard Road is the premier shopping destination in Singapore. It’s the place where you can find everything from luxury goods to cheap knock-offs. But did you know it can also be the best place to pick up girls for some ‘fun’?

I am talking about Lucky Plaza, a place where many foreign girls meet on the weekends to chill out with their friends on their off days.

Many girls to hit on

It may seem a bit counterintuitive, but Lucky Plaza is actually an ideal place to meet women for ‘fun’. First, the area is filled with people of all ages, genders, and backgrounds. This means that you have a wide variety of options when it comes to the type of girl you want to hit on.

Second, most of the people in the area are looking to have a good time, and they’re generally in a good mood. This makes it easier to strike up a conversation and get the ball rolling.

Third, the area is filled with bars, clubs, and other places where people go to socialize. This means that there are plenty of opportunities to meet women and get to know them in a relaxed and comfortable setting.

Finally, since Orchard Road is a prime area for shopping, you can use it to your advantage by buying gifts for the girl you’re interested in.

This can help you create a connection with her and make her more open to the idea of having relations with you if you have not managed to psycho her to do it with you.

Move on if the girl is not interested, don’t be desperate

Of course, there are a few things to keep in mind when it comes to picking up girls for ‘fun’ at Lucky Plaza.

First, you should be aware that the area is full of people from all walks of life and that you should respect their boundaries.

Second, it’s important to remember that not all women are looking for ‘fun’. So, it’s important to read the situation and be respectful if a woman is not interested in your advances.

Finally, it’s important to stay safe when you’re out looking for ‘fun’ at Lucky Plaza. Make sure you always have a friend with you, and never accept drinks from strangers.

Also, be mindful of your surroundings and don’t do anything that could put you in danger.

Overall, Lucky Plaza is an excellent place to pick up girls for a one night stand. Just remember to be respectful and stay safe, and you should have no problem finding someone to spend the night with.

Good luck!