Everything wanna split 50:50. Pregnancy, childbirth, all the household chores & taking care of kids you do 50%?? If not then where’s your 50% contribution?

Want to split everything 50:50? Get a housemate.

No wonder fewer and fewer women want to get married nowadays.

Have to work full time, have to do all the household chores, take care of children, shoulder the burden of pregnancy and childbirth alone, have to take shit from in laws if you’re unlucky…. what do men bring to the table exactly for us to take on all these burdens?

And having any standards at all and wanting to be treated well apparently makes us “gold diggers” and “leeches”. Yucks. No thanks!

Here are what netizens think:

• Pui chao nua la! What standard you have? Double F cup, Ling Zhi ling body, angela baby face ah.

• Why? Your ex, partner or the girls you meet don’t wanna split 50-50 with you that’s why you come here and cry ah?

• Eh, people’s choose to be taitai also your issue? Live and let live man. Paragraphing would be a good way to communicate the points in your message across. Why must need to prove oneself for the family? What happens if the family is the toxic one? Lol

• I can see a lot of angry women being keyboard warriors for this post and I’m starting to wonder if it is a troll post just to trigger women

• You said it like you can give birth, skilled in chores, bake cakes and muffins!

• Looks like u are hurt, u need hansaplast? Dont need to analyse that much. All it takes is for both to discuss it through. If it works great, if it doesnt move on.

• Y ur love only about money? What about care and concern? Can she also take care of you halfway then go shopping? What about your child? Also she take care 1,3,5 and you take care 2,4,6, Sunday half day each?

Lacking self discipline and need a good push.

I have been dreaming about to get slim fit and a healthy diet but I have a problem to stick to my plan. I also want to quit using handphone to cure my stiff neck and shoulders but I always end up using the phone. I have deleted social apps such as tiktok and Instagram but it always caught my attention when new posts showed up in Whispers.sg. I have been paying luxury yoga center and gym but I often find excuses to go tomorrow but when tomorrow comes, I often find another excuse.

Everything I want to do, I’m hot in the beginning, then I start to find excuses.

I don’t really enjoy freedom if I can’t live in a perfect version of myself. When I can’t say “No” to many excuses in my brains.

I don’t really have the freedom to be myself but be a slave to my old repeated patterns.

How do you discipline yourself when you want to lose weight and become fit?

What did you say to your brains when your brains give you excuses?

Here are what netizens think:

• The secret is not to be too ambitious about this and just do a little every day until it becomes a habit. Then more ambitious goals are attainable once you have a base of good habits.

• you need a good pull factor. something that you want bad enough and have to do these things to achieve it.

• Haha it is the same problem for me… but when I reach my age late last yr, back aching pushes me to walk 9k steps a day at least and stiff neck pushes me to reduce screentime. I guess i am also a lazy person, waiting till Aging problems came then I started to fix it

• first you need to tell yourself that you (your brain) is in charge of the body. Don’t let your body tell the brain what to do. You can call your body stupid if it helps. “Stupid body! Why are you so hungry all the time?”

• Secondly, you need to accept that what normal people eat is unhealthy. They dont care. They indulge in whatever they feel like 3 times a day. You cannot afford to eat like the normal person if you want to lose weight. You need to change your eating habits. Eat like a celebrity. Eat less than a primary school kid everyday. This is the hardest of all to do. Because some people cannot give up on their food. Invest in an air fryer. Only cook what you can eat. Dont order more than you can finish. No leftovers. No wastage. Edited my post to make it shorter. Can DM me if need more tips. I can advise on taking natural supplements and a simple exercise routine daily.

I was completely fed up with my neighbour and his noisy antics most of the time. I had been living beside this neighbour for almost two years now, and his noise had been driving me crazy.

I had tried to be understanding, but it was really getting to me.

Always jams to music

My neighbour was a musician, and he would spend most of his days in his home playing his guitar. On top of that, he would have friends over for jam sessions, and it always made the walls shake.

It didn’t help that my neighbour lived directly above me, so the sound of the music was amplified.

I had tried to talk to my neighbour about it several times, but he would always brush it off, saying that he was just having fun.

Told me to stay at LCK cemetery if I wanted peace and quiet

I had finally had enough, and I confronted my neighbour again. I asked him to keep it down, but he just laughed and said that if I wanted peace and quiet, I should go and stay at LCK cemetery.

I was so angry that I wanted to punch my neighbour in the face. How dare he suggest that I go and live in a cemetery?

It was insulting and demeaning. I was about to yell at my neighbour, when I suddenly stopped myself.

I realized that I was about to get into a fight with my neighbour, and that was not going to solve anything.

Started to use my mop to hit my ceiling

I came up with an idea to pay my neighbour back in his own coin.

Every night while my neighbour finally quietens down and goes to sleep, I would take my mop and use the handle to hit my ceiling.

My motive was to irritate and annoy my neighbour as much as possible so that he knows how irritating it is to be disturbed constantly.

I did this nightly for almost two weeks, before my neighbour finally understood and started to quieten his jamming sessions down.

Well, I am glad that this solution worked.

I’m here to tell you the story of how I drank beer until my tummy grew so big it covered my ‘kkj’. I’m not sure why I did this, but it was a night I’ll never forget.

It all started one night at a bar. I was feeling kind of down and decided to go out to try and cheer myself up. I figured a few beers wouldn’t hurt and I thought that maybe it would take my mind off of things.

Little did I know that that decision would lead me down a path that would forever change my life.

I started out drinking just a few beers. I was having a good time and enjoying myself. I was talking to people and laughing and the beers were going down pretty easy.

Before I knew it I was on my fifth beer and I was starting to feel pretty good. I figured why not keep going and I kept drinking until I had had about eight beers.

At this point I was feeling really good, but I was also feeling really bloated. I looked down and noticed that my stomach had gotten really big.

It was so big that it was starting to cover my ‘kkj. I was shocked because I had never had a belly that big before and I was kind of proud of it.

I continued to drink, not realizing the consequences of my actions. I kept drinking and my stomach kept getting bigger and bigger.

I was in a daze and didn’t realize what I was doing until it was too late. By the time I stopped drinking, my stomach was so big it completely covered my ‘kkj.

I had gone too far and now I was paying the price.

I felt embarrassed and ashamed of what I had done. I wanted to go home and hide, but I was too drunk to drive.

I was too embarrassed to even look at anyone. I was so embarrassed that I was too scared to even try and go to the bathroom.

I eventually sobered up and was able to drive home. I had never been so embarrassed in my life and I was determined to never let this happen again.

I learned my lesson and I never drank that much again.

So that’s my story. I drank beer until my tummy grew so big it covered my ‘kkj.

It was an embarrassing experience, but I learned my lesson and I’m thankful that I never have to go through that again.

A netizen shared a list of Thai languages for those who want to get a Thai girlfriend.

The netizen says he has successfully got married and no longer needs this list, he is sharing this list with all the brothers all there who need it.

Here is the full list:

Hello everyone, I was cleaning up the files in my computer and I found this. I’m married and no longer need this list.

For any bros out there that might want to learn that.

Romance

• I love you. (pom ruk koon)
• I miss you. (pom kit teung koon)
• Can you be my girlfriend? (ben faen pom dai mai) – * For yes the reply is “dai” and for no the reply is “mai dai”
• I am single. (pom sot)
• You are very beautiful. (koon suay mak)
• You are very cute. (koon na-ruk mak)
• I like your smile. (pom chorp roi yim kong koon)
• I think about you all night. (pom kit teung koon tung keun)
• I think I have fallen in love with you. (pom kit wa pom long ruk koon)
• You are my angel. (koon keu nung fa kong pom)
• I want to see your face every day. (pom yark hen na koon took wun)
• I want to marry you. (pom dtong gan dtang ngan gub koon)
• Can I kiss you? (joop dai mai)
• Don’t leave me. (ya ting pom)
• I can’t live without you. (pom yoo mai dai ta mai mee koon)
• I never lied to you. (pom mai ker-ee gor hok koon)
• I will always be on your side. (pom yoo kang koon sa-mer)
• Have a nice dream. (fun dee na)
• Take care of yourself. (do lae dtua eng duay an)
• I want you to be happy. (pom dtong gan hai koon mee kwarm sook)
• You make me happy. (koon tam hai pom mee kwarm sook)
• I want to be with you. (pom yak yoo gup koon)
• Please trust me. (brot chuea jai pom)
• I want you to trust me. (pom dtong gan hai koon chuea jai pom)
• Do you miss me? (koon kit teung pom mai)
• When do you want me to come back? (koon dtong gan hai pom glup ma muea rai)
• Love at first sight. (ruk raek pop)
• My heart is yours. (hua jai kong pom ben kong koon )
• I will never cheat on you (pom ja mai nork jai koon)
• You are the one I have been waiting for. (koon keu kon nun tee pom ror)

Dating

• Can I see you tomorrow? (proong nee jer gun dai mai) – * For yes the reply is “dai” and for no the reply is “mai dai”
• Are you free tonight? (keun nee koon wang mai) – * For yes the reply is “wang” and for no the reply is “mai wang”
• Do you like me? (koon chorp pom reu blao) – * For yes the reply is “chorp” and for no the reply is “mai chorp”
• I am serious about you. (pom jing jai gup koon)
• Can you go out with me? (bai tee-o gup pom dai mai) – * For yes the reply is “dai” and for no the reply is “mai dai”
• Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend? (koon mee faen reu young) – * For yes the reply is “me” and for no the reply is “yung”
• What kind of men do you like? (koon chorp poo-chai bap nai)
• Can you tell me your phone number please? (kor ber tor koon dai mai) – * For yes the reply is “dai” and for no the reply is “mai dai”
• Do you want to go and eat with me? (bai gin kao gub pom mai ) – * For yes the reply is “bai” and for no the reply is “mai”
• Do you want to go to watch a movie? (bai doo nung gup pom mai) – * For yes the reply is “bai” and for no the reply is “mai”
• Can I meet your parents? (pom bai pob por-mae koon dai mai) – * For yes the reply is “dai” and for no the reply is “mai dai”
• I want to meet you. (pom dtong gan pop koon)
• Are you still living at the same place? (koon yung yoo tee derm chai mai)
• I won’t forget you. (pom ja mai leum koon)
• Your eyes are so beautiful. (duang dtar kong koon suay mak)
• You are my girlfriend. (koon ben fan pom)
• Your love is very important to me. (kwarm ruk kong koon sam kun dtor pom mak)
• Please speak to me. (dai brot poot gup pom)
• You hurt me so much. (koon tam pom jep mak)
• Can I hold your hand? (jub meu dai mai?)

I’m 22 years old. I’m writing this because I have to share my story, one that I’m not proud of but I believe it’s important to tell.

Since a young age, I had been very curious about my body and I would often explore it to understand it better.

Started to touch his kkj

I quickly found out that touching my kkj was very pleasurable so I started to do it more and more, even during class.

I was so addicted to the feeling that I would do it any chance I got, even if it meant I could get caught.

This went on for years until I was 18 and it was time for me to start dating. I was nervous but excited to finally feel a girl’s touch and I was sure my kkj would react accordingly.

Couldn’t react to a girl’s touch

Unfortunately, my years of overplaying had taken a toll and when the girl finally touched it, it was completely unresponsive.

It was a shock to me, but it soon became clear that I had done too much to my kkj and it had lost the ability to react to external stimulus.

I was so embarrassed and ashamed that I ran away from the girl and never told her what had happened.

Tried to solve the issue

In the following years, I tried to find ways to fix the problem but it was too late. I had done too much damage and my kkj was beyond repair.

I felt so guilty and ashamed that I couldn’t even bring myself to talk to a girl ever again.

My life had been irreversibly changed and I was left with a bitter feeling that I had done something stupid and it had caused me so much pain.

I had played with my kkj too much and it had cost me my chance of ever experiencing pleasure or intimacy with another person.

I wish I could go back in time and undo my mistake, but that’s impossible. I’m now left with a reminder of my mistake, a reminder that I’ll have to live with for the rest of my life.