It was a long haul flight. After hours of turbulence and bumps, we finally arrived at our destination. I had been working as a flight attendant for a few months, and I was getting used to the routine.

As we reached our hotel and got our hotel room keys, the stewardess who was more senior than me and working in my galley asked me if I would be willing to stay in her hotel room with her for the night.

She said she was scared of the dark and needed someone to keep her company in her hotel room.

I was taken aback by the request. I had never been asked to do something like this before and I was unsure of how to respond.

I politely declined, but she kept insisting, saying that she was scared of the dark and really needed someone to stay with her in her hotel room.

I hesitated, but I eventually agreed to stay with her in her hotel room, because I did not want to offend a more senior colleague.

Our airline is very known for the culture where the seniors are to be respected by the juniors and whenever we are requested to do something we would have to ‘kowtow’ and oblige.

When we arrived at the hotel room, she immediately asked me to undress and go ahead to shower first.

She said that it was too hot and I had been working hard so I should shower first and change into some fresh clothes.

There were two super single beds in the hotel room and after I finished showering, I snuggled into one of them under the sheets.

When she came out of the shower, she asked me to sleep in her bed with her.

I was completely taken aback by this request, and I told her that I was uncomfortable with the idea.

She then said that she was scared of the dark and needed someone to sleep with her. I still felt uncomfortable and I told her that I would sleep on a separate bed.

However she immediately jumped into my bed and forced a kiss on me and after a bit of struggling, I gave in and we ended up ‘doing it’.

I mean, it was a free gift and I have always heard that there is a ‘sleeping around’ culture in this airline so why not just go for it right?

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for the past three years and he loves to pinch and twist my ‘raisins’ hard, like he is tuning the radio.

He says it’s the only way he can get ‘hard’ and I have been too scared to tell him to stop. Every time he does it, I flinch in pain, but he just laughs it off and continues.

They are constantly swollen and sore and I have tried every remedy I could think of, from cold compresses to massage, but nothing seems to work.

At first, I thought it was a temporary problem but after a while, I noticed that my ‘raisins’ were always swollen and sore.

I went to the doctor to get it checked out and they said it was caused by the rough handling my ‘raisins’ were getting.

I felt so embarrassed and ashamed that I had let this happen to me. I asked my boyfriend to stop, but he just brushed it off and said I was being too sensitive.

I was so angry and frustrated that I broke up with him.

Unfortunately, even after the break-up, my ‘raisins’ are still swollen and sore. I have tried all sorts of remedies, but nothing seems to work.

I’m starting to think that this is something I’m just going to have to live with for the rest of my life.

It’s really upsetting to think that something that was supposed to be pleasurable turned into such a burden for me.

I feel so embarrassed and ashamed for letting this happen to me and I can’t help but blame myself for not speaking up sooner.

My swollen ‘raisins’ are a constant reminder of my mistake and it’s something I will have to live with for the rest of my life.

I have been obsessed with the idea of becoming a millionaire since I was a child. I used to dream of living a lavish lifestyle, with all the comforts money can buy.

I’ve tried various methods to make my dreams come true, but so far, I’ve had no luck.

I recently came across a story about the Laughing Buddha, a Chinese figurine that is said to bring luck and money to those who rub its belly.

The statue is said to be a symbol of joy and happiness, and I immediately thought of it as a way to bring me the financial success I have been longing for.

I quickly got myself a Laughing Buddha figurine and started rubbing its belly every day, hoping it would bring me the luck I needed to make my dreams come true.

Unfortunately, nothing seemed to be happening. No matter how hard I rubbed its belly, the money did not come my way.

It was then that I had an idea. If rubbing the Buddha’s belly brought luck, then maybe I could increase my chances of success by making my own belly as big as the Buddha’s.

Surely, if I had a big enough belly, I could rub it and attract the same luck and prosperity that the Buddha figurine was said to bring.

And so, I set out on a mission to make my belly as big as the Laughing Buddha. I started eating a lot of food and drinking plenty of carbonated drinks and beer, and I soon noticed a change in the size and shape of my belly.

It was getting bigger and rounder, just like the Buddha’s.

My friends and family were surprised by my transformation and wondered what I was doing. I told them about my plan and how I was trying to make my belly as big as the Laughing Buddha so that I could strike the lottery.

All of them said that I was crazy but I ignored them.

After months of hard work, I finally achieved my goal. My belly had grown to be as round and as big as the Laughing Buddha’s.

Now, I was sure that my luck would change and I would soon become a millionaire.

Every day, I rub my big belly and pray for the luck and fortune I need to make my dreams come true.

I’m still waiting to strike the lottery, but I’m hopeful that one day I will be a millionaire.

My heart ached as I watched my girlfriend walk away.

We had been together for almost two years, and I thought our relationship was strong. But it turns out that wasn’t the case.

It all started when she found out I could speak Thai. I’m not sure if her friends told her or if she had always been suspicious, but she asked me if I had ever been to Thailand.

I told her I hadn’t been in years, but that I had a Thai ex-wife. She was furious, accusing me of having been unfaithful to her and partying with Thai hostesses in a Thai disco.

Of course, none of that was true. The reason I could speak Thai was because I had been married to a Thai woman for almost a decade before we separated. But it didn’t make any difference – my girlfriend was convinced that I had been unfaithful and she wasn’t willing to listen to any explanation.

The breakup was devastating. I had invested so much in our relationship and had really thought we were meant to be together. I had honestly never expected her to react like this. It felt like it didn’t matter to her that I had been honest about my past; all she could see was that I had lied by omission.

But I guess that was the problem. We had never really talked about our relationship and what it meant to us. We had always been content to just go with the flow, and that had seemed like enough at the time. But when the real test came, it was too late.

I realized that I should have been more open and honest from the start. I should have told her about my ex-wife, no matter how awkward it might have been. I should have been more proactive about talking about our relationship and discussing our expectations.

In the end, that’s what I took away from the breakup. I learned that communication is key. No matter how long you’ve been together, it’s important to talk openly and honestly about your relationship and what it means to both of you.

It’s been a couple of months since my girlfriend and I broke up, and I’m still trying to process what happened. I’m slowly learning to accept that the relationship wasn’t meant to be and looking forward to the future.

This story here is about my ex-Vietnam wife. Although its not thai but I believe no matter what nationality it maybe. I think its good to share my experience with you guys.

* I flew 16 times a year to vietnam according to my passport*

Back in 2015 I got to know my ex wife from a Vietnam tiu in town, at first we didn’t really talk much when she was working here in Singapore, we only communicated and start talking when she went back to Vietnam.

The more we talk , the more I fell for her. So in Dec 2015 I decided to fly there over the Christmas holiday and over the new year. During my stay there we didnt had any s_xual contact at all. Its more like a genuine meet and get to know her even more and met her family and friends.

In 2016, CNY came and I decided to fly to Bangkok with her because during that period it was also my birthday, We met up in Bangkok and had our holiday for 8 days and we did everything a couple should do we even had H2H talk over the days we had there and I felt that she was the one for me.

After Bangkok, I came back to Singapore and 2 weeks later I flew over to Vietnam to visit her family and spend time with her and her friends over a week.

In April , I brought her to Guangzhou as I had a business conference there for 9 days. so we decided that we should get married and we both were happy about it and all. But than she want to get married in October. which I felt it was kinda fast. But for the sake of her happiness I’m willing to do anything to make her happy because she was like my happy pill. She wants what she also have. She want iWatch , next moment she has it , she wants to go resort in Port Dickson, Next moment book and we are on our way there.

So moving things forward, we booked our wedding venue at a 5* star international hotel in the city area. As you know for Vietnamese, if got wedding at hotel means sibeh hoseh liao. Wanted to give her the best and all.

Everything Changes after the wedding…..

When I went back to Singapore, she became more secretive and I felt that she wasn’t completely honest as well. There’s one time she told me she wants to go and sleep early at 11pm, but I find it very weird because everytime when I was in Vietnam with her, she doesn’t sleep so early and all but benefit of doubt, I let her go sleep. but than again, I sense something not right.

So I called her brother and he video call me when I asked if she was at home, I didnt see her at home when I video called the brother. I tried reaching her on the phone, she didnt picked up at all. Only around 6am in the morning she called me back and scolded me, because I DISTURBED her sleep. I told her that if she insisted that she is right than so be it, go ahead. later that day , she called me and apologize to me, but being always the soft person , I forgave her and tell her not to do it again.

This happen not only once ,twice. But many times. We frequent quarrel as she was hiding something behind. So in 2017 Feb we went to Bangkok again for celebrate my birthday as I want to put the quarrels behind and let her relive the memories we had when we first met. Instead she was always sticking her face to her phone and messaging her “friend”.

We had a huge argument over her “friend”. Apparently, this “Friend” its a guy which I found out. So after the huge argument, I told her ” FINE , benefit of doubt , I BELIEVE YOU.”

Along the trip, I realized that she buy MAN clothing when we are shopping, and when I asked her she told me its for her brother. She bought L Size when the brother only can wear S size. Definitely its for that “Friend” of hers.

So finally the trip ended and she went back to Vietnam. After 2 weeks, she flew to Singapore and suppose to stay here for 3weeks with me as I’m applying for her Long Term Pass for her. Instead, she tells me that she needs to go back to Vietnam after 1 week.. I told that she come here to learn our culture and also spend time with my parents. If not what my parents will think of you ? Yet again , I let her leave Singapore and she went back and I never saw her again.

When she went back to Vietnam , she quarreled with me and she thinks that I don’t understand her and giving all the bullsh*t. So she told me she need to reconsider this marriage. WTF is she talking 

RECONSIDER???

I honestly was abit lost. So she just left me like that and disappear. I was in total shock and depressed. How could my wife do this to me 

 After a few months, she will email me asking me how am i and all. I just said that have she ever spare a thought for my feeling or not. Than she just disappear again.

For many months, its a mystery to me why she left and she just disappear on me. I was very eager to found out the answer, but i never knew the answer only recently when a friend of mine knows her. She was apparently pregnant with the “Friend” AKA Scandal. After much calculation and backdate , its true and it cannot be mine.

At first, i was very furious and angry that after so 7 months when she disappeared on me, she was actually pregnant and carrying the other guy’s child. But then, whats the point of being angry right ? life still have to carry one. Its just a lesson we have learn.

You can say I’m stupid and give every single thing she asked for. Its all out of love and was blinded by it .
Well, i made a lot of sacrifices for her but was left unappreciated. I sold of my hobby car as it was underutilized to have extra funds to pay for wedding hotel and wedding photoshoots total amount nearly $30k SGD. I was so stupid to put may work aside just because of her. In the end, business went down.

After she left, i struggled and tried to pull myself up again, starting my own business and also trying to put away the emotional scar left by her.

It was one hell of a rollercoaster but still … without her , i wouldn’t be where i am today.

A very expensive and heavy lesson that i have learned over this relationship. I hope that this can relate to anyone be it dating TG , Kimchi , and the list goes on . .

I’m sure many people can relate to this: You’re in a relationship and your partner goes out to JB with their friends for a night out.

You’re not too happy about it and you’re suspicious about what they’re doing there. You’re not wrong to think this, as you know that they drink when they’re there and they always stay overnight. It’s a situation that has been happening for months and all you want is a proper answer.

I was in this exact situation.

I had been with my boyfriend for a few years and every other week, he and his friends would go to JB for a night out. They would always stay overnight and I was suspicious about what they were doing there. I had asked him about it many times but he either evaded my question or gave me a vague answer.

I was getting increasingly frustrated and I wanted to find out the truth.

After months of being in the dark, my suspicions were finally confirmed. My boyfriend and his friends were drinking heavily in JB. They were also gambling and engaging in other activities that I didn’t want him to be part of. I was angry and disappointed that he had hidden this from me for so long.

I understand why my boyfriend and his friends go to JB. It’s a popular destination for nightlife activities and the drinks are cheaper than in Singapore. But I don’t understand why they have to stay overnight. I know they are drinking and I worry that they might do something reckless and irresponsible when they are intoxicated. I don’t want my boyfriend to get into any trouble and I want him to be safe.

I have tried to talk to my boyfriend about it and he has been very understanding. He has agreed to limit his visits to JB and has promised to be more responsible when he does go. He has also assured me that he will not stay overnight anymore. But even with this assurance, I still worry about what he’s doing when he’s there.

It’s not easy to be in a relationship when your partner does something that you don’t approve of. It’s even harder when you don’t know the full extent of what they are doing.

I understand why my boyfriend and his friends go to JB, but I still don’t understand why they must stay overnight. I just hope that he will keep his promise and be more responsible when he goes out.

Editors comment: You sure he go there drink and gamble only ah. LOL