I love chubby men

Growing up I thought I was into defined abs and fit bodies. Although those are still attractive, I’ve realised I just have a thing for chubby men!

There’s something about a man with a chubby stomach and strong arms and legs, it’s sooooooo attractive to me! To all the chubby men out there who don’t get enough appreciation, we see you!!

Edit: i like to describe chubby men as strong teddy bears 🙂 i think the description fits!

Netizens’ comments

• Rip to your DMs lol
• Strong teddy bears <3 Perfect name. I already describe my boyfriend as a teddy bear, cause he’s gentle, chubby and hairy. I love it so much.
  He’s got such strong arms and legs also. Seriously dad bods are underrated! (No, not the dad bods that are like.. hollywood bodies)
• I hope you get yourself a nice teddy.
• These posts make me insecure bc I have a chubby man w but warm hands n strong arms and an awesome beard n I wonder if other women’s love him tooa😩🥹
• I have to agree with you, larger men are a lot more attractive and tbh I feel safer with them. Not sure why but there’s just something about their presence that’s calming and hot too
• Same, chubby guys are the best! muscular/skinny guys don’t do it for me and are pretty much meta.. though I do fancy a meta girl..
• Perfectly defined muscles are great to look at but when it comes to touching someone , a nice layer of solid fat over those muscles feels so much better.
• It’s nice to make someone’s day with a little comment and get Extra attention because they have so much to give. Have a blast OP 😘
• Honestly I came to this realization a few months ago. I just prefer bulky men, like chubby muscle. I would feel weird dating a very lean and muscled guy.

My (F19) new bf (M23) has an STD

I (F19) have been dating this guy (M23) for 4 months, we recently made it official. I lost my virginity to him a month ago and decided to go on birth control.

Last night he had trouble getting hard with a condom on and asked if he could try it without and promised to pull out.

I agreed because I wanted to make sure he finished too. He didnt pull out in time and was really freaked out about it.

He was really sweet and bought me a plan b just incase because the birth control is new.

Today I got a text from him saying that I might want to get tested just in case because he was given an STD by his ex.

Ive been doing research and im freaking out and asked him why he didn’t bring it up.

He said there’s a huge stigma around it and he was afraid I would’ve ghosted him if he told me. I probably would’ve earlier on in the relationship but I really have feelings for this guy now and don’t know what to do.

I can’t talk to anybody else about this because my family is really religious and doesn’t even know I’m dating.

Update: He’s driving me to urgent care because I don’t have a car and he’s taking 100% responsibility for any medical cost.

Thank you guys so much for your responses!! I feel so stupid I’m gonna end it tn. I appreciate all of you so much this has been so helpful, thank you thank you thank you

I’m okay with using women and leading them on

(27M) All throughout my formative years I never had much luck with the ladies. I wasn’t ugly but I was awkward. Still I tried my damnest without success.

There’s only so much rejection one man can take before he becomes bitter and resentful. I was the last in my friendship group to lose my virginity and that was when I was 21.

Being around all my active-in-hook ups friends caused me great insecurity in school and university.

Fast-forward a few years, I’m not exactly rich but I have my life together at least. I have a great job and I’m in much better physical shape than before. Needless to say, this has helped considerably with my dating life.

Rather than settling down though, I’m out to make up for all those years I lost. Many of my partners are cool with casual hookups but others I’ve had to deceive a bit.

In the last couple of years I’ve probably led on a dozen women under the false pretences of a relationship.

I know this is immoral but I just think they had their fun, now I’m having mine. They’re probably used to it by now anyway.

Netizens’ comments

• Sounds like you have a hate problem with women dawg. You need to figure that out otherwise it’s gonna haunt you for the rest of your life
• There’s a decent chance if you dont resolve that it will come back to bite you in the ass when you find someone you do like OR you’ll do it for long enough and wake up one day and everyone else is paired off. Time goes quicker than you realize and can appreciate.
• So you’re hurting and punishing women who never hurt you, just for fun?

advice on some legal matters 🙁 please help

hey everyone, first time posting on here. i’ll just get straight to the point.

basically, im currently going through a divorce, since end of August 2022. i wont go into much details (unless required) however, lets just say that i found out he had been in a bad financial state and had debt. he had been hiding it from me from the entire duration of our relationship before we got married, about 5 years-ish. not only does he owe me a hefty sum of money, he owes others as well.

since end of August, he blocked my number everywhere and have went MIA. i have no way of contacting him at all. i have been receiving letters of the money that he owed from multiple entities. a money lender even came to my house looking for him because he hadnt updated them of his new address. last night, a letter came from a telco company addressing to me (as he had previously signed a contract under my name to use my CIS benefit) stating that he owed that a sum and if it isnt paid within (7) days, legal action will be taken.

as of right now, i also have no sight of the status of the divorce as well as the status of our BTO that will be ready by this year.

its been pretty mentally draining for me because i just want everything to be over. ive tried many ways to contact him, even by going through his friends and family but theyve all ignored me reaching out too.

so im just wondering if there’s anything i can do legally to at least just get him to reply me? or if theres any suggestions on how i can reach out to him?

thanks in advance and i really apologise for any formatting/grammar errors.

(30 m) (27 f) I had a vasectomy. She’s pregnant. I feel like crap

I’ve been with her for 6 years now. I love her. I recently proposed, 5 months ago and she was ecstatic. It was adorable. I don’t care much for weddings but, it was definitely a dream for her to have the whole “fairytale ending.” I don’t regret proposing. All I’m saying is if she was just my girlfriend for the rest of my life I wouldn’t give a damn. She never put pressure on me to propose and I appreciated that.

I got a vasectomy right before I met her. She knew about it from day one. At the time she wasn’t looking for anything serious. the fact that I had a vasectomy made me more attractive. She had a miscarriage with her ex boyfriend right before she met me. She told me that pregnancy was now a fear of hers. I never wanted kids, I was repulsed by the idea of being a dad. Her saying that made her more attractive.

She was never opposed to being a mother though and I knew that going in. She made it clear that being a mother was not a burning desire of hers but, she wouldn’t get an abortion if she ended up pregnant again. She’s definitely “mom material.” She’s the sweetest person I’ve met.

She doesn’t curse, she doesn’t yell, she’s apologetic, she’s always smiling. She’s kind, she’s understanding, she’s a great teacher, she’s intelligent and gentle. Honestly,I don’t deserve her. I’m an a-hole. Obviously she has her flaws too but, she’s truly a good person.

Anyways, she’s pregnant. When she told me I thought she was messing with me. We’ve had pregnancy scares in the past but, we both knew there was no way she truly was. 2 months ago she broke the news. When the pregnancy was confirmed, I immediately accused her of cheating. I feel like shit for how I handled the situation. She didn’t cheat. She’s carrying my child. I was so mean to her. She’s overseas with her family at the moment they’re telling her to leave me. I don’t blame them for saying that. But, I’m really not suited to be a father.

She’s going to keep the baby . There’s nothing I can do about that. But my issue is I’m going to lose her as well. I don’t really know what I’m asking. I guess I just wanted to tell somebody what I’m going through. I’ve thought about “stepping up” but, I truly can’t. I spoke to her about it. She told me that I don’t have to worry about her or being a father. She’s moving after the delivery. She won’t come after me for money or anything else. She says we’ll both get to start over.

She’s a beautiful young woman… she’ll have men lining up to be a step dad. That idea pains me. While I don’t want the kid, I don’t want him/her being raised by another man. I definitely don’t want her with another man either. And most of all, I’m scared I’m going to change my mind later on. I don’t want to promise her that I’ll be there and then ultimately being a “deadbeat.” I need more time to think but, she’s not going to give several months. I’m so torn. I can’t lose her. Especially not like this.

Update: i probably should have put this in there. My vasectomy failed. I’m not sure how long ago it happened but it failed. She was on birth control through out our relationship and stopped last year . I can’t be 100% sure if it’s my child until after it’s born but we did a prenatal paternity test and the odds are pretty high that I’m the father.